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[–]UberBluntCruisingI'm smoking on loud, tell them bitches be quiet [スコア非表示]  (5子コメント)

Stop blaming your romantic failures on autism. If you have the ability to write all this crap you are relatively high functioning and with effort you can learn to successfully socialise. If you choose not to that's your problem.

[–]ArdubinstonWomen don't care about your problems. Get over them[S] [スコア非表示]  (1子コメント)

Removed. Doesn't make it any less true.

[–]alreadyredschoolRational Egoism > Toxic Idealism [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

Even if it's true it just leads to one thing. The guy with aspergers ignoring those idiots. Don't waste your life with people that don't care about you.

[–]alreadyredschoolRational Egoism > Toxic Idealism [スコア非表示]  (2子コメント)

He already removed it, edit it out too and destroy all prove that it existed. Burn your computer if possible.

[–]UberBluntCruisingI'm smoking on loud, tell them bitches be quiet [スコア非表示]  (1子コメント)

Edited it out.

Seriously though /u/Ardubinston speak to someone.

[–]ArdubinstonWomen don't care about your problems. Get over them[S] [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

As if money-grabbing therapists care. Or anyone for that matter.

[–]MagicGainbowKeepin' it real, havin' a feel [スコア非表示]  (15子コメント)

I have autism and my dating/sex life is perfectly fine. The trick is I don't tell anyone and it's hunky dory!

I won't lie people will see you different once they find out but generally for me by the time they find out (usually I tell them) their impression of me is already set.

Also I find getting called autistic has no effect on me at all, I find it hilarious as they have no comeback to ''yes, I am''.

Further more the self-centric outlook/ability to go off and do your own thing I find is attractive or at least it works better than trying to be the attentive boyfriend. I've found what trp did for me was reassure me that it's better to observe their actions than ever take a persons advice.

[–]ArdubinstonWomen don't care about your problems. Get over them[S] [スコア非表示]  (14子コメント)

I won't lie people will see you different once they find out

Women's legs snap close once they know it. It's as if they deem you below them if you open up about it. Especially in feminist circles ironically.

[–]MagicGainbowKeepin' it real, havin' a feel [スコア非表示]  (13子コメント)

It's not complete doom and gloom, although I note you only comment on the part of my reply that backs up your view and conveniently ignore the rest.

[–]ArdubinstonWomen don't care about your problems. Get over them[S] [スコア非表示]  (12子コメント)

My autism is significantly worse than yours.

[–]questioningwomanshameless intellectual ;) [スコア非表示]  (6子コメント)

Why not use it get away with things? You can do inappropriate or even illegal things then blame it on your disorder. It's basically a free pass.

[–]ArdubinstonWomen don't care about your problems. Get over them[S] [スコア非表示]  (5子コメント)

You honestly think I haven't tried that before?

[–]questioningwomanshameless intellectual ;) [スコア非表示]  (4子コメント)

did it work?

[–]ArdubinstonWomen don't care about your problems. Get over them[S] [スコア非表示]  (3子コメント)

For a while, slightly.

[–]questioningwomanshameless intellectual ;) [スコア非表示]  (2子コメント)

You say slightly.... It didn't work all the way?

[–]ArdubinstonWomen don't care about your problems. Get over them[S] [スコア非表示]  (1子コメント)

It worked well at first, but went south quite fast.

[–]MagicGainbowKeepin' it real, havin' a feel [スコア非表示]  (4子コメント)

And you know this how?

[–]ArdubinstonWomen don't care about your problems. Get over them[S] [スコア非表示]  (3子コメント)

Trying so hard for 10 years to fit in and still not succeeding with lots of help should tip you off.

[–]MagicGainbowKeepin' it real, havin' a feel [スコア非表示]  (2子コメント)

And how am I supposed to just know that?

Never mind the fact that it perfectly describes my formative years too.

[–]ArdubinstonWomen don't care about your problems. Get over them[S] [スコア非表示]  (1子コメント)

How did you end up getting over it?

[–]MagicGainbowKeepin' it real, havin' a feel [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

By realizing that rejection is going to happen no matter what.

My main problem was listening to other peoples advice when while 'PC' did not rally match up to my reality, I found trusting my gut and realizing that if something feels wrong it probably was, is the best approach.

Another pit fall was believing all that shit about being yourself. it only worked once being myself meant being two stone slimmer.

I first got laid when I wads 21 so I wouldn't worry about late blooming, apart from that.

Not sure what else to say, i'm still an unrepentant nerd with actual autism that doesn't lift but that hasn't doomed me at all.

[–]alreadyredschoolRational Egoism > Toxic Idealism [スコア非表示]  (2子コメント)

[–]ArdubinstonWomen don't care about your problems. Get over them[S] [スコア非表示]  (1子コメント)

Nobody cares about me enough that they would do that.

[–]alreadyredschoolRational Egoism > Toxic Idealism [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

It's not about having it, it's about finding it.

[–]autoNFANeither red nor blue [スコア非表示]  (1子コメント)

If you demonstrate skill in the arts (and bonus points if you're physically attractive), you come across as less "socially dysfunctional" and more "troubled genius". I know one autistic guy who used that to his advantage, as it seems there's a class of women who eat that up.

[–]ArdubinstonWomen don't care about your problems. Get over them[S] [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

If you demonstrate skill in the arts

Does this include woodworking?

[–]redmachines [スコア非表示]  (2子コメント)

Looks>>>>>autism

Women would rather talk to an autistic male model than talk to a socially adjusted monkey.

[–]ArdubinstonWomen don't care about your problems. Get over them[S] [スコア非表示]  (1子コメント)

How do I go about optimizing that?

[–]machimusMahogany Pill [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

...in the gym and clothing store? Starting with a google search? Don't be lazy.

[–]betterdeadthanbetaTrump did nothing wrong [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

Romantic death sentence - probably true.

Sexual death sentence - nope. Just use that systematizing sperg brain of yours to grab a phD in something, get a six figure job in a lab away from normies, and go on a grand overseas prostitution tour two months a year. Callgirls to tide you over in the interim. Money exists bro, use it.

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[–]gainzndamezRed Pill Man [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

Awkward men complaining that women don't like awkward men is like obese women complaining that men don't like obese women.