So a short story from me. Few years ago I had girlfriend younger than me who told me she was a virgin and I could believe that since she never had bf before and also was pretty shy with guys. She was 18 yo and she fell in love with me so bad she would do everything for me.

We had first sex on second date, cuz well we were very young back then and there just simply wasn't place to. Anyway sex happened very fast, she loved it and later we had it everytime there was a chance.

One year later I dumped her 'cause she was pretty crazy. After all this love she felt to me, she just said she "wasn't ready for her first time with me, she was just affraid that i will leave her if she don't do it". Yeah, I bet every of thousands sex we had later was also forced...

LESSONS LEARNED As in title - girl will always rationalize everything as your fault, even if it wasn't, just to feel better.