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I hate women too much (self.TheRedPill)

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I feel as if I hate women too much to ever attract them. 21,m, had one 7.5 month relationship before uni that I always planned to end before uni, three years later I've slept with one women since and that was two years ago. Women make me sick, they're boring, put themselves on pedestals and they make sick, I hate the idea of any woman who has had >3 sexual partners. Tried to follow TRP for 3 months; looking at the subredddit daily, no changes, no success. I still despise women, even my own mother who gives me money, food, gifts whatever I want.

I feel like Elliot Rogers must have before he went Nuclear. I see couples on the bus train. Ugly men with attractive women, happy couples and it makes me sick. My fashion choices are fine (confirmed by bros, female friends) hair is fine (same confirmation) used trp approaches, still nothing, alcohol, coke, weed, mdma, no drug increases my confidence to approach the 8s/9s, and the off chance I do approach I find these women boring, uninteresting or I get nowhere whilst uglier friends do. I'm at least 6/10, good beard, good fashion, this gym shit doesn't make me feel any better. I don't see the point in years of gym work to get ripped, it would simply take years without steroids to become ripped which is what women seem to want (unless you're rich)

How do I change this mindset?

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[–]EMON87 3ポイント4ポイント  (13子コメント)

I'll tell you how to change this mindset: stop being a pussy.

Seriously. Stop. Hating women might be the most pussy shit I've ever heard. What, you can't handle rejection? You can't handle pain? You only want to improve yourself when the time/situation is right? If this is true, you don't deserve to improve.

You've made women the center of your entire world. You think checking off a few boxes here and there are gonna build the life you want? Son, I hate to break it to you but that's not how the world works.

You improve to see just how far you can take yourself, not because some little girl might like it. If you want to throw Elliott Rogers' name around, get the fuck out of here. Even mentioning that kid tells me what kind of guy you are right now. Your problems don't have shit to do with your looks, your fashion, or whatever little beard you've got.

You're failing because you give way, way, way too many fucks and have a shit attitude and outlook on life.

Don't blame women for your problems. Start looking in the mirror and get the fuck to work, Jesus.

[–]TheElite3740[S] -2ポイント-1ポイント  (12子コメント)

I don't bother with women to enough to even have rejection. I just like at the 8s,9s they make me ill, so basic, so lacking in intelligence, so much of putting themselves on the pedestal and being spoon fed with their lucks.

Women are life, I am the biomedical student kid, it's our purpose in life to reproduce and pass on our genetic makeup. I'm clearly the defective one, I just cba anymore. Why bother with gym, dieting, getting them muscles. I should be attractive however I am regardless of looks, I'm smart, humorous and interesting enough to make male friends..

[–]EMON87 2ポイント3ポイント  (5子コメント)

You're 21. Nobody around you, including you, knows a thing about the real world, about life. Of course girls seem basic, they've not experienced anything so far.

Know what's more annoying than basic girls having everything handed to them because they're pretty? The biomedical student who gets angry because those girls aren't paying him attention when he refuses to do anything to make himself worthy of their attention.

[–]TheElite3740[S] -2ポイント-1ポイント  (4子コメント)

Not done anything? Gym, diet, followed fashion advice, followed internet advice. Do you think I enjoy dieting, gym etc etc? Not a chance.

[–]EMON87 2ポイント3ポイント  (3子コメント)

That, right there, is why women pay no attention to you. You don't enjoy anything. You just think things are owed to you. Nobody wants to be with someone like that, nobody.

You HAVE to fix that mindset. You're in college. Everything is being handed to you. Every "A," everything. The real world will utterly destroy you if you don't figure this out.

[–]TheElite3740[S] -2ポイント-1ポイント  (2子コメント)

Care to help then rather than berate me?

[–]Xenocynic 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

You aren't worth helping. Kill yourself

[–]red_account 1ポイント2ポイント  (5子コメント)

Jesus Christ.

You are a lost cause. Your sense of entitlement is incredible.

[–]TheElite3740[S] -1ポイント0ポイント  (4子コメント)

Starting to see what the rest of reddit sees, the toxicity of this community. We don't help eachother, we just berate. Thanks kiddie

[–]red_account 0ポイント1ポイント  (3子コメント)

Don't let the door hit you in the ass.

It's people like you that the rest of Reddit stereotype this sub as. Which is unfortunate cause there are some intelligent people here. But then people like you come here and post sob stories about how much you hate women and how entitled you are to fuck anyone you want land that's all reddit sees.

[–]TheElite3740[S] -2ポイント-1ポイント  (2子コメント)

Ah well :') You're toxic aren't you mate. You came from the same background as me, hence you being in the sub, but you forget that, rather than advice, you hate. Okay :)))))

[–]red_account 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

Actually no I never was a sad sack entitled loser like you.

[–]TheElite3740[S] -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

You're mad bro. Why so serious

[–]Rafsimon 1ポイント2ポイント  (2子コメント)

I'm sure this will go against TRP, but maybe consider getting a few women friends.

[–]TheElite3740[S] -1ポイント0ポイント  (1子コメント)

I do. I have a female housemate at uni who I am friends with. I don't like being friends with women, they treat you as their bitch, what do you think of this guy blah blah

[–]shesaiddestroy 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

That's your fault. You need a serious personality and mental tune up. If you behave in a strong and masculine fashion (instead of the type of person that comes to the red pill to whine that girls don't like you) you could get some positive and fruitful relationships with women. I've got a dozen female friends and while they are not anywhere as close or important to me as my male friends, they are fun, light hearted and interesting to be around.

Fix yourself and the world will seem to have fixed itself too

[–]1Entropy-7 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I had one girlfriend in high school and finally got laid at the age of 18. For most of university I didn't bother with women. I had one girl I dated for a sexless month and then she dumped me when I told her I had no interest in getting married ever.

Other than that, there were a dozen or so classmates with a mix of males and females and we all hung out together and went clubbing and stuff, but I didn't do any other dating.

My whole time in university I had two ONSs which were targets of opportunity, and actually they were not even classmates; I was in the army reserve and one was an army chick and the other was a friend of an army buddy.

I was too busy enjoying life, doing well at school, partying, soldiering, carousing with male friends. Pussy for its own sake was so far down on my list that the fact I wasn't getting any didn't bother me.

It was a couple of years later that women started really taking an interest in me, and things went swimmingly from then on.

My point is, enjoy all the good things in your life other than pussy, or find more of those things to enjoy. A major source of attraction for women is a man who is enjoying life without them, so in a round-about zen way not chasing pussy can get you pussy.

On other matters: don't take fashion advice from friends. Mere acquaintances who are stylish (or hot in the case of women) can be more unbiased and aren't afraid to hurt your feelings if you made or are about to make a bad choice.

Facial hair is a tricky subject. Experiment a bit and see what works for you. For me it's a van dyke, a fu manchu or some variation. A straight moustache makes me look like a pedophile while a full beard makes me look homeless. Others such as a goatee, soul patch, mutton chops and the like just look silly and I have never been able to sculpt a proper d'artagnan.

You don't need to be ripped and you don't need years in the gym. Three months, three times a week with a proper routine and diet is all you need to pack on 10 pounds of muscle, lose 10 pounds of fat, or even do both. Then it is just maintenance.

Join your uni debating team; if you have graduated then join Toastmasters. Develop your public speaking skills and it will build your confidence to approach and make conversation . . . drug and alcohol free.

[–]Morpheus-Man 0ポイント1ポイント  (10子コメント)

Read the sidebar on The Red Pill Sub. You're in anger phase

[–]TheElite3740[S] 1ポイント2ポイント  (7子コメント)

I've been like this my entire life, I see them and they make me fucking sick. Take any men, black, white asian, 10, 20, 30, 50+ I can make them like me, I can win their favour, women they disgust me. They're uninteresting, even my mother who gives me money, food, whatever I want she says yes too. My dad a stern, strict man, I like a lot.

Help me

[–]tractorferret 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

exact fucking same here. all the guys at work i can pretty much be mates with but all the women at work i hate as soon as i see them even though theyre acutally really nice. im not sure if theres anything that can really be done to "help" either of us outside of accepting the fact that women are actually just like men and that you can talk and interact with them in a friendly manner just like you can guys.

the biggest thing that hangs me up about it is that women are used to getting their feet kissed so talking and bullshitting with them might not work all that well

i also get what you mean about the ugly men with beautiful women, that fucking happens all the time. ive gotten back in touch with a couple exes who added me on facebook and after talking to them, exchanging a couple nudes here and there, theyre back in a relationship with the ugliest motherfucker ever and 7/10 me is just sitting here more pissed off than ever.

idk what happened but through 16-19 years old (im 25 now) i was able to pretty much date every woman i wanted to date, and fuck them too. then slowly that started to go away and at 25 i havent gotten laid for over a year. my looks havent changed, my game hasnt changed that much, but i am 100% unable to meet a woman these days. even one that is way below my league is still unattainable.

[–]cheeky_throwaway101 -1ポイント0ポイント  (5子コメント)

Sounds to me like you're in the "Jaded" stage. The final stage in accepting reality. It's quite normal, I feel this way too brother. Maybe it's because we have been conditioned for so long to seek happiness in finding a life partner of the opposite sex. Now we know it is all a lie, it feels like nothing is worth it.

But let me tell you, knowing that you are a man. Capable of so much, able to throw himself into his hobbies and interests, able to focus on being the best man that he can be. That is your new love. It sounds corny but concentrate on yourself. Start a business, meet more male friends start some team sports. Fuck women, the truth is, they really aren't worth it.

[–]TheElite3740[S] -1ポイント0ポイント  (4子コメント)

I want to fuck 7s, 8s, 9s regularly.....

[–]red_account -1ポイント0ポイント  (3子コメント)

Lol. You sound like a cry baby loser.

You think the world is just gonna hand you what you want? Because you don't dress like a moron? Because you use coke? You need a wake up call.

The chances of you actually implementing changes (based on your tone and the fact that you apparently sit around smoking weed and playing video games all the time) that would make this possible are slim to none.

Get comfortable jerking off.

[–]TheElite3740[S] -1ポイント0ポイント  (2子コメント)

I stopped smoking weed and also did no fap for 31 days (no changes) :)

[–]dawilo 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

no fap is just a meme don't fall into that trap.

[–]TheElite3740[S] -2ポイント-1ポイント  (0子コメント)

You sure? I agree with them that Porn is bad, lots of studies and tedx talks showing porn is bad for you, I found myself seeking out porn instead of women before I quit it

[–]tractorferret 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

can you link to where they talk about the anger phase because i feel the same as the OP but i cant find it on the sidebar.

[–]favours_of_the_moon 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

Catharsis.

YOu need to get it all out!

[–]Noolaw -1ポイント0ポイント  (3子コメント)

You need to bring 4000 usd and come to Thailand and just have some fun. Just stroll down to Soi Nana and Asoke and you will have a Jolly good time! Trust me save money for that summer trip and just do it.

[–]TheElite3740[S] -1ポイント0ポイント  (1子コメント)

I've been to amsterdam twice I avoided the red light district both times, i won't fuck a whore who doesn;t want me and takes money for sex

[–]Noolaw -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

The reality is...all women just want your money. At least from my personal experience. Just take it easy.

[–]1Entropy-7 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Or get a job teaching English in the south of China and you can 1) try to find a Chinese girlfriend and 2) pop down to Thailand for a long weekend and fuck 3 or more LBFMs for less than a G-note.

[–]Endorsed ContributorNeoreactionSafe -1ポイント0ポイント  (3子コメント)

 

What is Frame?

Frame means you literally draw a fence around yourself, an ego boundry, and make the mental declaration that this is your turf and it's your private property and within this realm you are the sole king and have complete Freedom.

Frame is an island... a paradise of sorts.

You don't have that... you have no Frame because all your thoughts mingle into things that exist "out there" in the outside world.

Step one is this...

Who are you and where do your biological limits end at?

Once you realize what defines your Frame you can begin to make a paradise there.

Later... much later... you think:

"Gee, this island is great... so many beautiful sunsets... but I'm bored and feeling kind of stale... I need a Game to amuse me."

So you begin to leave the island and go "out there" and find dangerous playthings... they are called women... and you develop this realization that you can control your Frame 100%, but the "out there" well geez, there's competition and everything. I'm going to have to get Red Pill smart to be good at Game. Since "out there" you can't always win you need to adopt an "outcome independence" attitude when you amuse yourself with Game.

At that point you know what you are learning here.

 

[–]TheElite3740[S] -2ポイント-1ポイント  (2子コメント)

So many unnecessary metaphors. English please.

[–]Endorsed ContributorNeoreactionSafe 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

I was trying to entertain a sad puppy. (you)

If it was lacking in "fun" it wouldn't be enjoyed.

Try reading it again with a fun attitude.

 

[–]TheElite3740[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Again. Big words, big phrases. Simple english if you want to help