You're no longer going to get banned for this but that doesn't mean people won't disagree with you or tell you that you're wrong.
I personally, would be fine with your situation, but really the decision is up to you, do you value this specific man or having
real
(legally binding is probably a better word) commitment more? Life is about the decisions you make; we can help you see all the the pros and cons but you have to weigh them for yourself.
Ex: do you want kids? Does he?