You're definitely right to all of it. We live in a strange time when writing something out is viewed as a negative when other people tend to infer the worst possible outcome. My worry is that we (generally speaking) shouldn't be so combative up front. It makes it so that people don't want to ever engage in conversation because they are afraid to say the wrong thing and that leads to not learning how to work through something.

But anyway it's late and I have to get ready for bed. If anyone reads this, thank you if you linked to the anime source. I might watch it if I can get over this entire spell. The hole sequence was pretty hilarious and it peaked my interest. Good night!