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Serious question from a college guy for a woman about "size" down there? Honest question[new] (self.relationships)

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So I'm a 23 (M) asking a (F) as to what most women actually consider to be "small" down there. Talking about penis size of course. Like, there comes a point when it's a problem and a girl might break up with a guy over it right? So I'm about 5 inches in length but thin (when hard of course) so I'm curious if this is the kind of size women would laugh about amongst friends, or it'd be seen as just pretty normal in terms of dick size? Ps.. Please don't tell me it's all about how it's used. I'm just more curious if a guy with 5 inches and thin would be seen as tiny or just like a normal dick. What would women in general think I guess? And would you ever dump a guy for being too thin down there?

TL;DR..Would you dump a guy with a 5 inch thin penis, or see it as a normal size? Tiny or average?

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[–]Jrhosep 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

I would take 5 in and not knowing how to use it over 8 in. And not knowing any day. That shit gets PAINFUL. Small would be like 4 in. Probably.

It'd only be a problem if he didn't put any effort in to get me off.

[–]entertainedbygwar 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

Guy here. I don't see what good it will do you to know what a few women on the Internet think. The only woman's opinion that is going to matter to you in a practical way is the woman you are dating. Every woman is going to have a different opinion of the "right size" or what size is "too small".

[–]Ethelfleda 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

Stop thinking porn is even close to real life!!!!!

You are in the average/normal and honestly you sound like you have an abusive older brother who tormented you way too much about this crap.

Stop measuring yourself; you are over 2" and under 8" so you are good except for your HUGE self esteem issue. Try dating someone who likes you and is a decent person and it really doesn't matter what your size is.

[–]RuhWalde 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

The average erect penis is 5.2 inches in length and 4.6 inches in circumference. So you would be about average.

Though I know guys usually have a lot of trouble believing it, most women actually prefer "average." It's average for a reason. Too big can be painful or uncomfortable for a lot of women.

[–]Grad2016[S] -2ポイント-1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Well I've been told by every girl I've been with that I was thin. (That's mostly because I had asked them) but yeah.. I didn't know if 5 inches and thin would generally be a deal breaker. I think one can conclude most women wouldn't want a 3 incher. I'm wondering where I'm at in that sense for most women

[–]MarieMarieMarie3 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yes, FOR ME that is a small penis. Do you need to feel insecure about it? No, because you can't change it. Do you need to settle for an unhappy relationship because they "put up" with what you perceive as a flaw o yours? Nope. As you are asking specific questions I will spare all the sugar coating around here: I would stop seeing someone whose size is a problem for me. Too small or too big. That varies from person to person because not all vaginas are create equal. 5 in for me is small. BUT many other would find it desirable. Do not let your penis size define who you are or how you act towards women or sex. You deserve a loving partner just as much as anyone else. Be mature about it. Good luck!

[–]moonlightracer 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

I would not consider that small. It also depends on how you use it, and I really mean that. There are big guys that don't do anything with it other than trusting, and that's no fun. You also have two hands.

[–]cuddlenoodle 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

You know what women care about? Self confidence and not being asked about things that just completely REEK insecurity.

No one but the shallowest women will generally care, but they will care if you bitch about it.

[–]moderatorabused 1ポイント2ポイント  (2子コメント)

Would you break up with a woman for having small breasts after you discovered she was perhaps 'padding' ?

[–]Grad2016[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

No... Of course not. But that's me. I'm not a woman and am wondering how most women feel. Don't really think it's the same to compare dick and boob size lol

[–]1660throwaway 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

5.5 is average. you're 100% fine. keep yourself clean etc and you're leagues ahead of other guys

[–]ki10_butt 0ポイント1ポイント  (5子コメント)

If a chick would dump you because of the size of your dick, would you really want to date someone like that? I'm a chick and I've never sat around and laughed about the size of a dick with my friends.

[–]Grad2016[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (4子コメント)

But would you dump a guy for being thin or small or something? Assuming you liked him

[–]ki10_butt 0ポイント1ポイント  (2子コメント)

No. I've been with guys that weren't "packing" and to me it's not a deal breaker. Most women don't have orgasms just by having PIV sex anyway.

[–]Grad2016[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

But can PIV sex even feel good with a 5 inch thin one?

[–]ki10_butt 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

It can. Every woman is different. I've had sex with guys who had huge dicks, and damn, it sucked. Was painful and not pleasurable. 5 inches is good. It can feel good. The more you stress about it, though, the more you'll just sabotage yourself.

[–]ruralife 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Of course not! Not if he was kind and caring and loving and responsible and fun to be around and all the zillions of other things that actually matter in a long term relationship. Just remember to make sure she climaxes, and you will be fine.