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My friend told me I was asshole for ending the date with a woman because I didn’t met her requirements to have sexual relationship with her, How do I persuaded my friend that what I did was right for me ? (self.AskMen)

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[–]ScumbagCounty -36ポイント-35ポイント  (43子コメント)

I understand ending a date that wasn't going anywhere. but yeah, that's an asshole move to end a first date on the basis that you couldn't get your little wieney wet.

[–]toysoldierxiii 17ポイント18ポイント  (17子コメント)

If those are her standards just for sex I can't even imagine her standards for actually being a couple - 7 foot? 18 inch dick? 10 figure job?

That chick wanted free meals, gifts, and attention and OP was 100% in the right to bounce once he realized she was nuts.

[–]lbspredh♂ 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

I mean to be fair she doesn't sound from this like she would be great company for a meal either.

[–]DrWhoisOverRatedMale 7ポイント8ポイント  (2子コメント)

What do you think dating is?

If a date isn't going to ultimately result in a physical relationship, then it is a waste of time for both parties.

[–]alaska1415 0ポイント1ポイント  (19子コメント)

In the same situation, I would've ended it to. What she said was incredibly insulting. Oh I don't meet your standards but you're okay with me still taking you out and in all likelihood paying for most everything? Lucky me.

[–]ScumbagCounty -2ポイント-1ポイント  (18子コメント)

And as I've said man many time already, that's fine. It's just asshole-ish to use sex as your basis. I really don't get why people have such a hard time understanding that.

[–]alaska1415 2ポイント3ポイント  (17子コメント)

Why? Some people want to have sex. Some don't. Neither person is entitled to a damn thing. He's not entitled to sex, and she's not entitled to another date.

[–]ScumbagCounty -1ポイント0ポイント  (16子コメント)

Then go to a bar like an adult.

[–]alaska1415 1ポイント2ポイント  (15子コメント)

Or on a date, like an adult.

[–]ScumbagCounty -5ポイント-4ポイント  (14子コメント)

Normal people date to find a mate, not to get their dick wet.

[–]alaska1415 2ポイント3ポイント  (2子コメント)

  1. Don't assume that just because something is typically the norm that there isn't plenty of people in it for another reason. I'm sure there's lots of women who do date to find a guy to fuck.

  2. Don't put this just on men. While not as widespread, I'm sure some women aren't going on dates looking for relationships either.

  3. I'm sorry if all this has offended your Victorian sensabilities.

[–]ScumbagCounty 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

  1. And I hope they enjoy being alone.

  2. Never said anything about it being about only men and not women

  3. Sorry if that offends your MRA/neckbeard sensibilities.

[–]alaska1415 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

  1. Never said I was about that. I've turned down sex from a gf because because they were a virgin and I thought it was moving too fast.

  2. Because "getting their dick wet" is such a unisex phrase huh?

  3. What part of what I said was MRA in any way? And neck beard is just you being you I guess.

[–]smasters908♂ 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's for both actually

[–]CopperOtterMale 2ポイント3ポイント  (9子コメント)

"Normal" people.

Your username is fitting. Your train of thought is obscenely idiotic.

Sex is a core part of dating, like it or not. The overwhelming majority of relationships, straight or gay, have started with sex.

I get that you don't find sex appealing, low or non-existing libidos can happen, but to fail to grasp the idea that the majority of relationships have sex as an important part is simply viciously moronic.

[–]ScumbagCounty -1ポイント0ポイント  (8子コメント)

"No real argument, attack his libido."

[–]CopperOtterMale 0ポイント1ポイント  (7子コメント)

"the majority of relationships have sex as an important part"

You seem to have missed that part, sweetie.

[–]DoYouHave_Autism 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)