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Why would any woman complain about MRP? (self.marriedredpill)

ParadoxThatDrivesUs が 投稿

I find myself wondering if MRP is actually a con put over on us by women. I'm only half joking. Consider the program:

  1. Lose weight. Get in great shape. Dress better. Become as attractive as you can.

  2. Learn to become a Sex God in bed.

  3. Become OI about not getting sex if she doesn't want to. Just cheerfully move on to the next thing.

  4. Get shit done around the house, manage the kids, finances, etc.

  5. Generally improve yourself in every way.

  6. If your wife is a bitch, realize that it's ultimately your fault. If she's mistreated you in the past, that's on you, not her.

  7. Always remember that she's a free agent and you can't force her to do anything.

  8. Do this for a year or so. At the end of the process, make sure you give her a clear warning and a choice before ending the marriage.

Sure, throw in some fem-bashing and let him think he's the captain to make it palatable. But seriously, what's not to like if you're a woman?

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[–]SexistFlyingPig 6ポイント7ポイント  (1子コメント)

The only reason is because it takes all of the power in the relationship away from the woman.

Then again, If you're the woman, you get an awesome guy who has everything taken care of to run around with.

[–]newtothelyte [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

Additionally, whether you're a sweet beta or a captivating alpha, both sides have their benefits to a relationship. Being a MRP strongly moves you to the captivating alpha side, and can leave her yearning for the beta side some times. I think I'm striving to find a balance between the two, going full alpha or full MRP leaves the nicer side of me neglected.

[–]cholomite 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's easier to have a beta under your control than it is to keep an alpha committed to you. Plus women know their value plummets after 30, the last thing they want is to have to worry about their new alpha getting eyed up from all the hot 20yr olds.

[–]PineleroMarried 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

LOL! If that was the case then it would be front page of mainstream media. MRP is about yourself first, and the wife second. She is just gets the benefit of being in your halo.

[–]ramblemnMarried 0ポイント1ポイント  (2子コメント)

no. 6, disagree. sometimes a bitch is a bitch and all the work in the world aint going to change her.

as my mom used to say, "get a bloody good look at her mother."

[–]neocelt 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

I agree. Though you (I , him , us) did marry her. So we ain't innocent . Wish I'd heard the mother advice awhile back.

[–]over60_stupid_lonerRP S.O.B. [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

Wish I could up vote this more than once. Yes we heard, we just didn't heed the advice.

[–]wakethfkupneoMarried 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Because power shifts to man. And that freaks them out.

You know what makes compulsive gamblers compulsive? Dopamine rush when they suddenly win. This is how they get hooked. But this is not the point. My real point is: you know who the luckiest roulette players are? Those who sit at the table for the first time and lose. Then they try again and lose. No dopamine. And one last time and once again they lose. And they say 'fuck this' and never play again. Those are THE LUCKIEST roulette players. Their loss is minimal, insignificant in global scheme of things, no matter what they think at the moment. Their mind cannot comprehend that those who win big in the beginning are the unluckiest sobs, about to enter the nightmare with the potential to lose everything. At best they'll struggle with gambling impulses, at worst ... I'm sure you've read/heard/seen many tragic stories.

Can you imagine gambler wannabe, without any knowledge about gambling addiction and mathematical odds rigged against him, accepting that losing over and over till he gives up is the best possible outcome?

Can you imagine woman accepting that giving all power to man will make her happy? Sure, there are few of them in RPW. But these days with rampant feminism their numbers are statistically irellevant.

[–]il-est-ressuscite 0ポイント1ポイント  (4子コメント)

Satire? Have you had a blow to the head today?

[–]ParadoxThatDrivesUs[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (3子コメント)

Actually, I'm feeling a little bitter today. Every time I think I'm past the anger stage, I discover a whole new layer of (self)deception that didn't occur to me until just now and get pissed again. It occurred to me that I'm going to repay all the pain she's caused me by . . . trying to become the best husband I can be (yes, I know I'm doing it for me . . .).

[–]il-est-ressuscite [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

No, not the best husband you can be, the best MAN you can be. Different things. YOU decide when you're the best man you can be. She doesn't get to decide that.

If some benefits accrue to her as a result then that's great. If not then so be it. You'll be happier without a thirst for vengeance.

[–]over60_stupid_lonerRP S.O.B. [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

1/2 joking is also 1/2 anger/sarcasm. Not good or bad: it just is what it is.

[–]CaveatEmptorLex1Married [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

Like our favorite Canadian Sailor likes to say:

"That'll show her."

[–]War2kali 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

You are correct that there are tangible benefits to both parties. There's a lot of win-win here.

[–]_SexMetalBarbie_ [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

The biggest struggle I face is with not seeing my SO as a friend. Ultimately, it may be the one issue that keeps me from being willing to become a full fledged rpw.