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MetaThrowback Thursday - Women Give Us Synergy (self.TheRedPill)

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I think this is a really good post that didn't get quite the audience it deserved. It really pointed out the dichotomy we face, both in life in general and here as a community. Give it a read and keep that synergy in mind when you go off into the world or create new threads here.

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[–]AndrewWaynePost 14ポイント15ポイント  (1子コメント)

The irony I find in the whole "fuck women, just do you, MGTOW, they are just holes, etc..." sentiment, is it goes against OUR biology. Yet, we drone on and on about how much their biology dictates everything, and AWALT.

The way I look at is like this. Let us say everything we think makes us special as humans went away. Language, along with everything we have ever created, is no longer there. You know what would still exist? Our genitalia, and a desire to do something with it. Our desire for physical connection. Our desire to find ways to make us happy. Our desire to take care of them. Women are a substantial part of that happiness equation. We just happened to find other ways to entertain ourselves. It does not make women any less significant.

There is not one guy on this sub who cannot remember a moment he spent with a woman, lying on a couch, just bullshitting about nothing, and was loving life. Unless you really suck with women, but that is what the red pill is for, to get you there. There is nothing wrong with wanting that, it is hardwired into us.

Even me, if you go through and check out my threads, I am perpetually single, and playing the field. But the one GF I had, even though it ended too soon (through no fault of either of us), was pretty fucking incredible. I will not say she was a unicorn, but she was something else. If I could have something like that again, I would. However, I know meeting another girl like her is a tall order, so I do what men do best, adapt. I keep my shit in line, and go out there and slay. Even the dumb skanks I put it to provide me something, if only for a night, and I would not be as satisfied in life without it.

The key is to develop that control. This is something we have, that they do not. We can rise above our biology, but that does not mean we have to at all times.

[–]masnera 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

There is not one guy on this sub who cannot remember a moment he spent with a woman, lying on a couch, just bullshitting about nothing, and was loving life. Unless you really suck with women

i dont want to be the guy that sucks with women, and im thankful that TRP has a lot tools, or should a say a reminder on what should i do as a man.

[–]Endorsed ContributorMattyAnon 20ポイント21ポイント  (8子コメント)

When a man and a woman join together to face the world, they have the potential to be so much more than the sum of their strengths.

Potential yes. In practice not so much. But oh how I wish this was really how a relationship worked. This is what men want. It is not how women behave.

A partnership. Two people working together. A man and a woman with complementary skills and emotions working together. It sounds so beautiful but this is not how women work. Women do not partner with men. Women exploit men, while men think they are building something together. Your commitment is used against you. Your voluntary reduction in your options is used as leverage to get what she wants. It's been said before: women are dream killers. Why? Because when you're in a long term relationship with her, it is now your job to support her dream. And you can bet that dream is boring as fuck.

There is no relationship equity. There is no gratitude. There is no partnership. There is only the man doing stuff for the woman, and the woman doing the bare minimum required to maintain the flow of commitment and resources.

"Behind every great man is a great woman"... bulllshit. Every great man achieves what he achieves despite women. We can achieve so much more if we're not also having to support women.

Women claim to be the strong, independent equal of men. I say great: let's give them exactly what they ask for. All the equality and independence they can choke down.

[–]recon_johnny 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

But oh how I wish this was really how a relationship worked. This is what men want. It is not how women behave...

Matty fucking nails it. At what point can we not collectively (not just here) agree that as Men, we are on our own. We're responsible for success or failure, as women's interpretations of that differ, sometimes by the minute. It is truly up to us to put in the time and effort, to create a vision and work towards it, for that success?

I had an LTR tell me that when we were dating that she knew my family was fairly well off--my family life was stable, my dad was upper-middle class, I was going to college for a business degree, etc. She put two and two together and figured that I would have been a pretty good horse for her to hitch her wagon to. But there was no mention of her sacrifices. No shared goals. No shared work. Just me, so she could achieve her dreams of a family life in the suburbs and kids and being a PTA mom. No fucking mention of me...hey...it was almost like I was irrelevant.

And so it was, with enough sex and the kind of sex I was looking for (but she 'hated'). Just to string me along.

So fucking glad my eyes are open.

[–]Senior ContributorDemonspawn 8ポイント9ポイント  (1子コメント)

Because when you're in a long term relationship with her, it is now your job to support her dream. And you can bet that dream is boring as fuck.

That's why when you choose your LTR, you choose one which has at least a similar dream to yours.

You are the captain of your ship. If your first mate doesn't support the goals of your ship, you are you allowing her to be part of the crew?

[–]TFWnoLTR 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

These things were much simpler when the typical "dream" was simply survival. The dynamic between men and women would have been far more realistic in practice.

[–]dwhipwhipplez 1ポイント2ポイント  (3子コメント)

While I agree with you, I think your missing women's natural ability to care for people. Women do a lot of caring activities that does not come to men easily. I mean that's why women are nurses right? Also why women are so confusing to us. But she seems to care and does all this crap I wouldn't do for someone unless I cared. I mean women obviously act like they give a fuck more then men. They want to care for you and want to feel needed as a woman. They want to be needed for things specific to their gender that makes them feel like a woman.

Women are good at building up your ego, try talking to your male friend to make you feel better, its not gonna happen, usually. Think about it, who did you go to when you were upset, your dad or your mother.

Im angry, stressful day at work, I need a blow job, a massage, and someone to agree everyone I work with are idiots and I am the smartest person there. Your guy friend isn't gonna stroke your ego, your cock, or give you a massage.

Ya AWALT and what not but I think apart of AWALT is women are naturally "caring" people. Caring is in quotes obviously because they do have an agenda. But ya, who doesnt have one?

[–]Endorsed ContributorMattyAnon 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

While I agree with you, I think your missing women's natural ability to care for people.

Err....care for people? Can you give any actual concrete examples of women caring for anyone? This is a myth. The myth of the nurturing woman. Real women do not actually behave like this, they're too busy persuading the world how caring they are to actually do any of it.

They nurture babies, that's about it.

I mean that's why women are nurses right?

No, women are nurses because it's a relatively easy job that they can get qualified for quickly. It's not caring if you're paid to do it.

I mean women obviously act like they give a fuck more then men.

Act, yes.

I think apart of AWALT is women are naturally "caring" people.

Yeah, these are different women to the ones I've seen on the planet I'm from.

[–]TFWnoLTR 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'm with you, but I think "nurturing" is a better descriptor than "caring".

Most people only care about themselves and sometimes their children, it's not unique to women or men.

However, it's far more common for women to give that nurturing affection than men, even to other women. It's not always, or even usually because they care about that person.

Just like most any man will resort to violence when he thinks he needs to, most any woman can be nurturing when she needs to be. It comes easier to them than the typical guy and vice versa.

[–]KFMDL 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

so good. thanks for re-sharing

[–]rp_newdawn 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

I just want to take a second and thank you for continuing to dig these out of the archive for us. Unlike the previous entries in this series, I had never read this particular post. I greatly enjoy this guided education that you continue to direct me on

[–]aanarchist 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

good women give us synergy, modern women are a drain on a man's physical emotional and mental resources.

[–]joshsoowong 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Take in the good with the bad. Focus on yourself. Women are not the journey. They are just a part of it.