Soccer Mom Dread Game

over60_stupid_loner · 3日前

Short on time but you need to get some clarity about YOUR actions first.

What are you going to do when you get offered a quick BJ? My point is, ARE YOU REALLY FISHING? It takes some serious self awareness to do catch and release, or it will turn into you blow your load and get caught.

Second, your whole idea of INITIATING with the moms is dangerous, for you. If you look good and are available without being over friendly, they will come to you. If they are not touching your arm, shoulder and the small of your back first, then you need to improve your first 2nd and 3rd impression. Yes they call it SMV here, but a thousand years ago, it was what I called presence. It was an attitude, but without having an attitude. No, you don't have to be a Magic Mike, I sure never was, but you have to be noticeable and approachable.

Your comments: tact and skill, don't go straight in, subtle strategic; yep you got it right. Just be careful you are looking to fish, not play house.

Edit: UCad and the rest of the vets here can probably offer you more current and timely help than me. Pay attention.

BluepillProfessor · 3日前

Are you really at level 7? Have you tried levels 1-6 first?

If so I like the book "Day Game" but "The Natural" and several other books are fine. They all say basically the same thing. Women are attracted to a man with a plan who brings the good times and who is confident, in shape, and sexy. All of the rest is only learning the art of small talk. Girls learn it by the 4th grade, some guys take...a little longer.

theultmatecad · 3日前

Let's nudge the conversation into a slightly different direction for me to share some thoughts.

Soccer mom dread game is now MILF Game.

It's the same target demographic but the field is expanded to gym, school, church, work etc.

Why Milfs?

Clearly they are past the wall and "taken". Hardly ideal for most men. But OP is clear on his goal and its not to cheat, he wants to up the dread from passive to active and his social circle is soccer clubs.

In my case, despite the bluepill trolls who shout for me to get divorced, I enjoy staying married. I get to live in my house with my kids and don't need to hand over a big check. My wife is sweet and submissive since she realized I don't need her and she had a visual of life as a single mother. Things are smooth in the Cad household.

That said, I'm not afraid to be alone either. My relationships are in my frame or there is no relationship. The end.

So Milfs work for me as single women always will want more then I'm currently want to provide. Same for OP. He smartly picked the right ladies for his dread game.

Incidentally, I use some milfs for dread only and am quite secretive about the ones I am actually fucking. I've used some to dread eachother with greater success then at home.

So OP how do you reel her in for your nefarious, amoral goals?

Number one. BE HAWT. And circulate at games and practices. Be the coach if possible. Make eye contact and socialize with everyone. Even the fatties. Even the beta dads. Everyone.

Number two. It's inevitable that someone worthy will have a question for you soon. " what time is practice Tuesday?" "Where does your daughter go to school?"

This is surely not a fluke and time for you to be charming and talkative and have her put her number in your phone for "logistics, car pools, snack duty etc". It's early and plausible deniability is your friend. This is likely enough dread for you to start. Text and ask for a favor..have her pick up your kid. Generally, it's always good to have women run around for you anyway. It's refreshing to her after all the faggots kissing her ass.

From here, I'd be escalating. But that's up to you.

Here is what you want to see:

35 to 45 with husband ten or so yrs older. Means she married Beta bux and is hungry for drama and tingles

He should be fat or out of shape.

Richer then you (so her branch swing doesn't make sense, you wanna be AF)

She should seem in control. Husband a pussy, a real happy wife,happy life schmuck.

I'll let you study game on your own. Trial and error is best teacher anyway

Oh, and be a cocky ass when your wife freaks that Allison took your kid home and she didn't even know you knew Allison. Just smirk that she asked for your number for a playdate. Hint the playdate wasn't clear if you or the kid but you are open to new experiences

It's imperative you don't apologize for her jealousy. Make her burn in it. It's what she wants anyway

bogeyd6 · 3日前

Soccer mom venue is a great place to plate milfs. Just flirting with soccer mom's to make wife jealous? Not so much. There is too much at play for someone so new. Plus, when you reject her, now you have to deal with that shit. If you want to plate them, do so all day long. Just know when things go south, these women know who your wife is.

For more casual preselection, social proof, and dread level 8, go more for anonymous places. Take your wife to bars or social events that dont involve friends and family. The best place in the world i have found is toys r us. Many single mom's there looking for beta bucks or alpha fucks. I have had great success in dreading my wife there.

recovering765 · 3日前

Take the long view. There is a good chance that you will continue to see these parents for the next 10-12 years in various situations. You see them at school, you see them at sports. You will see them at social events, shopping, and more places than you can imagine.

Unless you move this is a long term exposure and not a short term transaction where you play the dread game and then forget about the.

How will that work socially if a woman decides you are a wannabe philanderer even if you aren't?

il-est-ressuscite · 2日前

The "snack coordinator?" Powerful chick huh? Sorry I just can't stop laughing. Be sure to let us know about the juice box.

Good luck to ya!

MgFeSi · 2日前

For clarification, at this juncture, I am not looking to act on anything, just talk, flirt and draw attention from the other moms.

What is the point of your dread game, then? Are you looking to increase your SMV to create dread in her and then hypothetically reap the benefits from your wife, i.e. more sex, passion, etc.? Are you looking to just improve your interpersonal skills with women?

If it is the latter, I would suggest that everywhere you go is your playground. Like many have said here, restaurants, stores, Toy-R-Us. Anywhere you can talk to women is your area to talk and flirt.

If it's the former, sure soccer practice is fine. And so is everywhere else you go. Why focus on the soccer field? I get that its a canned group of moms that you'll have a regular opportunity to flirt with. But like the old dumb outcast kind of said, take care and know your boundaries.

Maybe read John Cheever's short story The Swimmer for some perspective.

mrpCamper · 1日前

A lot of good advice here so I'll just add that I definitely work this crowd. I coach for my girls and it's a great way to meet people and just practice talking to women. Can you think of a better way to parade around in front of women, have constant material to talk to them about and build confidence? It's great!

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