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Mother-Sister troubles AKA The fuck is happening? (self.MGTOW)

Wollem が 投稿

Vent post. I hate reading vent posts. I hate making vent posts. I'll keep it brief.

I don't care for my sister. When I was younger and none the wiser I guess she was alright. As we grew up she turned into a mega bitch. She attempted to ride the military cock carrisol for a free ride. Moved back east (we're in cali) for the guy and fell off the wagon. Married some simp and got knocked up; poor guy, but guess she found her free ride.

Mother defends her to no end (cupcake power and all that jazz I guess) and I just shake my head and sigh. She had a birthday recently and I felt no desire to indulge in the tradition of wishing her good tidings. Mother lost her shit. Came at me tonight saying how we never talk anymore or some shit, and I just look around thinking 'the fuck is happening right now'? Went from 0 to 60 in 8 seconds flat. 2 seconds faster and I'd have slapped some neon lights on that bitch and went to the asian part of town for some car races.

I work a full time job that pretty much kills me. Afterwards all I want to do is head straight to my room, pop open a cold beer, watch a few shows and hit the sack. Nowhere in that does it leave time for shit I really don't want to deal with or conversations I have no interest in. I pay half the rent (begrudgingly so) because if I didn't she'd be in a really tight fucking spot, and I guess the last bluepill part of me left in this now MGTOW Adonis is to not put my mother out on the street. Yet she had the audacity to say she does so much for me, like the $20 she lent me I've been living off all week because I lost my wallet, when I never ask her for shit and one of my two paychecks a month basically goes to her.

So now I'm waiting some huge conversation she's probably going over in her head that will make no sense in the grand scheme of things, and I'm here typing this out thinking that I'm getting too old for this damn shit. I've been holding back out of respect, but I'm seriously about to drop densest amount of rational thinking on her when she wants to round 2 this shit.

I'm sure some of you have been in similar positions with the cupcakes of your family. How'd you handle this shit?

End rant.

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[–]RealBazou 7ポイント8ポイント  (3子コメント)

It's time to stop the engine two seconds, take a few steps back, and see what you want fixed in your life. And then do it. Is your mother invalid? Can she take care of herself?

What she's doing is holding you hostage. Guilt tripping you. But you know that of course. So, the question is rather how long do you want to allow this?

P.S. How old are you?

P.P.S. Every man eventually has to face his mother and cut the "umbilical cord".

[–]Wollem[S] 2ポイント3ポイント  (2子コメント)

28, however we live in a very expensive town. You don't see too many people, even around my age, finding a single room for less than $1700-2000 a month.

[–]RealBazou 7ポイント8ポイント  (0子コメント)

Okay, but that sounds like rationalizing, to be honest. You can look for roommates. You can live a bit further away from town. Try to think in terms of solutions rather than defending an unhealthy situation.

May I suspect and say she is seeing you like her provider? My guess is your dad isn't around? In her mind, she may have swapped him for you. You became her husband. You are now suffering the woes of a married man, but you never married your mother. Of course not. You never asked for this. She is trapping you because she is scared of seeing you leave. Because she can't face her reality?

Does that hit close to home, or not?

[–]xkulp8 -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

Get the hell out of there. As long as you're living there you will have this problem.

Seriously, 28 and still living with mom, and you wonder what the problem is? By 28 I was making six figures... in 1990s money.

[–]MaunaLoona 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

Only thing I can suggest is find another place to live.

[–]Meloman0001 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

Don't come from a place of anger when talking with her. She'll sense it if you do. Come from a place of reason and strength. The fact that she treats you like this is your ultimately your fault. She feels comfortable enough to be this controlling, so you've got to set boundaries Now, take care of business, put her in her place, and don't whine about it. If she continues to bitch, move out. Do it quietly and with class. Best of luck, brother.

[–]oldredder 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

Nowhere in that does it leave time for shit I really don't want to deal with or conversations I have no interest in. I pay half the rent (begrudgingly so) because if I didn't she'd be in a really tight fucking spot,

Leave. I was there once and it's not worth it. Living on your own is key. You can't have women fucking with your life, pushing at your soul.

Leave

[–]spurdo_dialogue 2ポイント3ポイント  (1子コメント)

This post.. Is this like, how the internal dialogue of your mind sounds? Something is just really off about this... I can't quite put my finger on it. It's this weird vibe, like the person who wrote it came out of a gamepro ad for a psx game.

[–]Wollem[S] 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'm drinking of that gives you any solace.

[–]Mr_Siggy 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'm the other way around from you my friend. I live at home with my pops and half my check does go for helping him out. I couldn't stand his girl when was staying with us for a weekend. He told me after she left.. "I like her.. But I love my freedom more.".. "I agree father."

His girl was a harpy .. Pushing me to do this or do that. Assigning me shit to do on my days off... Gun loading sound

In FACT my aunts blamed my father for my failure to launch. Back in the day I used to dread that if something happened to my parents I'd have to go live with them. Now dont get me wrong their cool.. For the weekend.. Then that's it. All the demanding shit women do. The "boss bitch" bullshit. Fuck.

Op I say.. Gtfo or just go numb with them and don't stir up anything. My hearts out to you. I'll have a cold one for ya!

[–]monetmanet 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

How do I handle it?

I have boundaries set which they know about. If they cross them knowingly, I, with appropriate enthusiasm, let them know.

With that said, I live away from my parents. Much easier.

[–]fuckthemodlice 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I pay half the rent

In the place where you live? What an outrage!

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