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[–]gerbadagin[S] 3ポイント4ポイント  (1子コメント)

Here's my take on it. I just dumped Facebook, because it's an endless string of duck lip selfies, cats, and harpy's. I met a woman there and told her all the things I was interested in... Astronomy, Cosmology, Physics, Philosophy, the nature of existence, Apologetics, History, electronics, cern, medicine, biology, the nature of information, The Big Bang, The multiverse, String theory, m theory, politics, the destructive nature of Islam in the world, ... you get the idea.

Other than being able to ply 2 word answers from her mouth there was no possibility of substantive conversation on any level except maybe an emotional one. The crazy came out too fast so I just deactivated Facebook and have no intention of returning to any social media site... the bowel movement of the internet.

I work with 4 liberal chicks, and the other day I went off about 3rd wave feminism which none were actually familiar with, and I said, "I have yet to find a women who is either interested or can keep up in two or even one of these things let alone know they even exist. It's a huge universe out there to explore and understand. One says on the rare occasions I bring these things up, "Slow down, you use too many big words that I don't understand, and I have a hard time following you (That occurs after the eyes glaze over)" This person has a higher education than I do.

Another said, "I can see why you're not married!" I laughed, and said "there'd be too much dumbing down for copious amounts of the day with one dimensional uninteresting topics... for fucks sake why would I want to waste my time with that? I understand it's necessary to communicate about life's utility, cooking, cleaning, honey do lists, shopping, bills, but after that there's nothing but the bachelor, Kardashians, blah, blah, blah and endless online shopping.

I have been single and celibate for the last 10 years because there's just too much to know and not a single fucking women to talk to any of it about.

[–]Trekbiker 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

good post.

I cohabitated with my last girlfriend. I was miserable. She was a facebook addict and it was so mind numbingly banal. I would try and interest her in a conversation that was actually about something but it always ended up sounding like I was giving a lecture and I got so sick of listening to myself talking. Lack of understanding, lack of interest/curiosity, glazed eyes. fuck it, I'm done with that

[–]taewoodz 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Well essentially your expecting something out of females that only 5% can do well enough to make you feel like your actually talking to somebody who matches your intellectual level. You can't be mad about females not being generally good at holding conversations. That's like getting mad at McDonald's because they serve you crappy processed food that's going to kill you in the long run , but expecting quality products from them at the same time. it's impossible, you have to lower your expectations in order to raise your standards

[–]redchords 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Appearances. When a person obsesses over appearances, they stunt their personal growth…This is why very few women today have actual passions or anything to talk about in depth. Women today are overwhelmingly obsessed with appearances and this causes them to only be able to appreciate the end outcome of any event without gathering as much information from the journey itself (because they are not focused on the journey just how the outcome makes them look). This is a generalization but I think if a person investigates this for themselves it's rather undeniable.

For example my gf and I went to a party last week and the conversation drifted towards marriage (everybody there is around mid 20s). One woman was showing off her engagement ring and someone said congratulations.... I simply asked if getting married is an accomplishment and every single woman unanimously (and almost aggressively) agreed that it was. They argued that not everyone could get married (like getting married is rocket science) and that they knew that every girl wants to get married someday so to have what every girl wants is special. They really said this. Marriage, whether most women know it or not, has become more about status than love.

Combine women's natural willingness to compare themselves to other people with today's social media and you've got a generation of status whores that can only understand concepts as they pertain to their appearances/status. If that's as far as their thoughts reach of course they're not going to have much to say. The saddest realization for me is that as women continue to develop this way more and more men will become motivated to buy into this vapid, status driven culture to compete for mating opportunities. Men are becoming whores too smh.

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