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Summary: Women and white knights converge upon OP like a pack of vultures after he talks about going on an uncomfortable date with a girl who is 4-months-pregnant. Top replies call him an asshole and an immature baby for not wanting to raise another guy's kid.
If I had to make a list of the subreddits most populated by male eunuchs, the OKCupid one would be up there. Right behind TwoX and AskWomen. All the men posting there are basically whoring themselves out emotionally in front of the female users, hoping to be good male feminists and that one day it may gain them access to a vagina.
Today was no different. An OP had earlier posted about chatting with a girl who was a few months pregnant. He was shamed and prodded into going on the date anyway, so he did and returned with an update. It's too long to post here so read it on your own, but basically the girl made it incredibly obvious she was looking for a beta provider. Constantly bringing up her child, asking how good he is with kids, etc. OP decided to end the date and later sent her a nice rejection message.
Cue the feminist outrage. The OKCupid readers could not believe their ears - how dare this shitlord not help a woman in need?
Like 80% of the things in this post make me think you should leave this poor woman alone for her and her child's sake. You are far, far too emotionally immature to date a single mom.
Remember folks, it's always the man (in this case, OP) who is the emotionally immature one. Not once does anyone say that about the girl, despite the fact she willingly was a cumbox for her abusive ex-fiance and still carries his alpha genes inside of her to this day.
What was the actual deal breaker for you: potentially having to raise a child, or all the things that come along with dating a pregnant woman? I agree it would be sort of weird to date her while pregnant, but maybe down the line once she has the child and things get a little less crazy it might have been worth it to keep that door open. If you met her when, say, she had a 1 year old child, would this have been a different scenario for you?
Just white knights being white knights. Trying to find a loophole, any loophole, to encourage OP to become this woman's open wallet. "Well what if she does the pregnancy on her own? Can you please come back to her after that and help the child? Please?"
I think you're getting ahead of yourself in a mind-numbing way by imagining yourself as a stepfather after a single lunch. She's fully aware that she's in an awkward spot, but you're making it much weirder. If there's a connection, set a date #2 and go for it. If you can't bear another couple of hours with a pregnant lady, move on. I think that she's trying to date, just like you are, not expecting you to slide in as dad replacement after Panera.
Of course she's looking for a stepfather figure, you dumbass. She's going to have a baby in a a few months. You don't think she's hoping to rope in a beta provider by then so he can pay for the diapers and formula milk? Honestly I'm surprised at this level of denial. I figured even the bluest of bluepillers would understand that she's trying to assemble a new family.
Maybe you were in a bad mood but your post makes you seem like a massive dick and a giant douche. I think it is just your mood because you're scared shitless of a potential future. You want love, you eventually want a family. And she's into you. But she's pregnant and you'd have to be an instant dad in 4 months. Is that why you are coming off so insensitive in your post?
Classic male shaming tactic. Call the OP immature and "scared of a potential future". I swear there isn't a day going by when some feminist doesn't whine about how men refuse to be men anymore, that guys are still stuck in their college phase, that they only care about video games and working out, etc.
You know the saddest thing about this thread? Most of the upvoted commenters are fellow men.
TL;DR: OP is hesitant about dating a single mom, commenters try to shame and browbeat him into doing it. Take this as a warning: society will try very hard to turn you into a financial and emotional sponge for women. Do not fall for it.
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[–]zeus450 420 points421 points422 points  (60 children)
These people are so fucking indoctrinated. It's not his fucking job to help. What happened to womyn being strong and not needing men? They're basically begging him to be her provider. Fuck them to the deepest depths of hell.
[–]Phantom-furious 208 points209 points210 points  (27 children)
Women are strong and independent until things like hard work and the ability to demonstrate any level of accountability for their own actions come in to play.
[–]rebuildingMyself 65 points66 points67 points  (7 children)
And the government benefits no longer cut it. Independent wymyn raising a family on her own is fucking myth. Men pay one way or the other
[–]SleepNowMyThrowaway 9 points10 points11 points  (5 children)
Look at it like this; if you're dumb enough to expend your money - which is an exchangeable proxy for your very life for some bastard sprog - then you deserve fully to reap as you have (or have not) sown.
Time, and evolution has a way of winnowing the weak, both physically weak and mentally weak, from the breeding population.
[–]MuzakNinja 5 points6 points7 points  (4 children)
Time, and evolution has a way of winnowing the weak, both physically weak and mentally weak, from the breeding population.
Bullshit. Look at society. The successes of the strong have produced a breeding ground for the bottom-feeders.
[–]fingerthemoon 2 points3 points4 points  (0 children)
Modern society has totally fucked up 'survival of the fittest'. People with the best genes are the least likely to procreate, meanwhile the dregs are shitting out hordes. Women with good genetics are waiting until well past there best fertile years and having more and more down syndrome babies and birth defects.
When I was young I used to think babies and small children were cute. I wanted my own happy family. Now when I see kids, I see all kids of problems. They've completely lost their charm too me. And there's no way I want to bring children into this world the way it is and where it's probably going. I see that as selfish, heartless and stupid.
[–]SleepNowMyThrowaway 0 points1 point2 points  (2 children)
Today isn't the norm, it's an anomaly.
When the fiat currency dies, so do several hundred millions, at least.
[–]mugatucrazypills 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
a Billion dead is my guess,
also whichever person is first to kill a billion gets to be god in the next major religion.
kill one you are a murderer, thousands a hero, kill a billion you'll be a god.
[–]fingerthemoon 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
You mean in the USA? Probably much more than that globally since we're all tied together.
[–]420SmokeTrees420 comment score below threshold-7 points-6 points-5 points  (0 children)
My mom raised me on my own until i was like 5. We didnt have much and my grandparents helped alot but we got by.
[–]kinggluejar comment score below threshold-30 points-29 points-28 points  (17 children)
The lack of perspective in this subreddit sometimes is puzzling. It's basically feminism with the genders reversed. Currently, 90% of the people that voted for this post voted positively. Seriously, read the damned story. The woman was making the best of a shitty situation. The only thing you could maybe say she's doing wrong is looking for a provider but at least she's not hiding it.
Her boyfriend cheats on her then leaves her for another woman. She's knocked up. It could be her biological clock, religious beliefs, yada yada. The bottom line is she decides she wants the baby and she doesn't ask for child support or anything. She goes to OKC, she's completely up front, and the OP agreed to go out on a date with her.
Oh shit she' 5 minutes late that bitch is wasting the OP's time. Well believe it or not, he's wasting her time too. He made his mind up before the date even began that nothing would happen and He didn't let her know that. She probably brings her friend to their date to make sure he's not a serial killer.
Those women on that thread are mad because they can see where that woman is coming from. The OP didn't handle shit correctly. He wasn't upfront and he was ruled by his emotions. In the end, they still praise him and let him save face for breaking up with her properly.
[–]snusaholic 34 points35 points36 points  (3 children)
I'd argue the post is mostly about the way the blue pill world shames men into towing the line. The man is a fucking retard, and I really don't see many guys bro-knighting here. The girl is also a retard for letting Chad knock her up and then going on okc, looking for a beta bucks to save her from her mistake.
Most of the analysis seems directed at pointing out how blue pill the guy is (bp isn't just about being shit on by the system, it also includes the frustration and desperate behavior surrounding the opposite sex that leads to scenarios like this). TRP is usually pretty good at calling out the blue pill faggots as much as pointing out shitty feminine behavior. Ultimately, some of the anger phase guys will sympathize with bp men and demonize average women, but this is all part and parcel with taking the Red Pill.
I personally see the value in this post for the way it highlights the bp worlds male shaming and the bp man's struggle with trying to balance his bp allegiance, need for validation, and his raw male instincts screaming at him to run. The woman, is behaving as you might expect a woman to behave, she's the neutral party here; it's the bp man's struggle and the retarded double standard bp commenters that provides the most information.
[–]1Overkillengine 24 points25 points26 points  (1 child)
The girl is also a retard for letting Chad knock her up and then going on okc, looking for a beta bucks to save her from her mistake.
This. This right fucking here. It's funny how shitlord bigots like us can bother to understand the female need for a provider to help raise her children, but so many in the feminist camps can't be arsed to understand the male need to raise children that are genetically his.
[–]MuzakNinja 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
but so many in the feminist camps can't be arsed to understand the male need to raise children that are genetically his.
Of course they do. Why do you think they're advocates of child-support? Extra insurance in case they fuck up.
[–]redestofthereds 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
Beautiful analysis of the post, man.
[–]Senior Contributortrudatness 16 points17 points18 points  (0 children)
4 months pregnant - it's not like she's going on a date to have a few cocktails and maybe get busy if she likes the guy.
She's facing a harsh reality, being a single mom - being a single parent in general. You think it's any easier for single dads? And while nobody doubts the difficulty of such a situation, there seems to be a disconnect about how women get themselves into these situations and also what they do once they find themselves in them. Of course, best case scenario would be 50-50 split of parenting time and full involvement of the father in the child's life, having her work and support herself like an autonomous adult - and always act in the child's best interest - but that's not the plan.
Will the baby daddy sign over parenting rights? Who knows? We already know she's planning on alienating the child from it's father who might be thinking the pregnancy is a ploy or that he's not the father, or she could be flat out lying about WTF is going on - you don't know how this is going to shake out. If it was her fault the relationship imploded do you think she would disclose that in a first date? Sounds like a sad story designed to engender sympathy. For whatever reason she got dumped while pregnant and she's mad. Revenge against real dad is him never knowing his own child.
I bet you the perfect scenario in her head is to get some nice beta to come in and play captain save-a-ho, wife her up and adopt her kid.
Oh if it was only 1972, but its not when it was not too far fetched for such things to happen. Back in 1972, maybe the woman would have stayed with beta savior - but not today - divorce is too easy and too slanted in women's favor. Any man who takes on an instant family is foolishly rolling loaded dice.
Going on OKCupid 4 months pregnant is fucking tacky. It's fishing for a sucker. The type of guy who would respond is likely the kind of guy she ordinarily wouldn't give the time of day if not for her dire situation. This is why we stay clear of single moms. As soon as she gets through this crisis and gets some stability injected into her situation it will be time for a branch swing.
[–]TRP VanguardWhisper 4 points5 points6 points  (0 children)
The woman was making the best of a shitty situation.
I am constantly amused by the lengths people will go to in order to excuse any bad behaviour so long as it is attached to a vagina.
You call it a "shitty situation", as if it were a cancer diagnosis, or some other chance misfortune which fell randomly upon her from a great height.
You say she was "making the best of it", as if she were attending to it herself, rather than seeking strangers to do it for her.
In truth, since the "woman's right to choose" is enshrined by our society as all but holy, and perhaps even that, since the exercise of that right is readily and freely available, and since women's contraceptives are so easily and readily available that it is deemed a "war" upon the female sex itself if an employer declines to pay for them, pregnancy is no longer a misfortune, much less a random one.
It is a choice. She has chosen to be pregnant, has chosen to remain so, and has chosen to seek someone other than the father to shoulder a great portion of the responsibility and trouble of it.
She is free to make these choices, but with freedom to make choices comes responsibility for the consequences thereof.
[–]wrongniggatofuckwit 17 points18 points19 points  (7 children)
Well said, the woman didn't do anything wrong. It's the stupid people that shamed him on the subreddit that are wrong.
[–]Special Olympianmakethemsayayy 6 points7 points8 points  (5 children)
Yes she did. Make sure you have a good fucking father in your kids life.
[–]wrongniggatofuckwit -11 points-10 points-9 points  (4 children)
Sometimes there are circumstances beyond people's control. I can tell you haven't been through much in life because trust me, sometimes fate is fate and there's nothing that can be done.
[–]royal_fucktard 3 points4 points5 points  (0 children)
And if you make a mistake like that, let alone a mistake of that magnitude, the worst thing you can do is go put yourself back out there on OKC so that you can make the same mistake again!
So I agree shit can happen. However, in this case, her circumstance is a product of her own choices it would seem.
All of the replies in the thread are from "nice guys" who deep down would hate to be in that situation but are too cowardice to admit it!
[–]Special Olympianmakethemsayayy 6 points7 points8 points  (0 children)
Nothing is beyond women's control in this society. They can abort whenever they want. They can give it up for adoption. They are supported by society and not expected to do anything. I don't buy that shit.
[–]NPK5667 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
Are u saying this bc your black and black men almost never raise their kids?
[–]Retro93 1 point2 points3 points  (0 children)
"Fate" is for people who do not feel in control of their own life. Fuck fate.
[–]1RPAlternate42 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
The bottom line is she decides she wants the baby and she doesn't ask for child support or anything.
The crux of the beta hunt problem, herein.
Here is the RP slant... the real thoughts going through our head: She is desperate for a real beta bucks... not a government-forced alpha bucks. She could very easily get daddy government to force her alpha-widower to pay, but she doesn't want to inconvenience her alpha because if she makes him pay, he may not come around to get her alpha fucks that the little hamster brain in the back of her head thinks about daily.
Red Flags: 1. Pregnant 2. Refuses to force child support from the bio-dad 3. Dating on OKC while pregnant (either she is deluded in thinking she can find AF OR she is just looking for BB)
[–]So_Many_546283173817 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
Absolutely no one is praising him. I gave you an upvote because, to be honest, that guy didn't really handle himself well at all. However, I don't see any wrong-doing by either one of them because that entire situation is just straight-fucked. I can't imagine what kind of person it takes to start dating a clearly pregnant woman with someone else's kid. Made me feel uncomfortable just reading it.
[–]MuzakNinja -3 points-2 points-1 points  (0 children)
The fact that your post makes valid points and still gets down-voted to hell speaks volumes. I love what this sub stands for, but it really is overrun by sexually immature betas with something to prove. If it doesn't fit the narrative they've been indoctrinated with, they lash out the only way they can. Little different from feminists in that regard.
[–]Unclehouse2 comment score below threshold-10 points-9 points-8 points  (0 children)
That's a broad generalization of women, but I agree that some are like this. And so are some men.
[–]1sir_wankalot_here 35 points36 points37 points  (2 children)
Notice it isn't the job of the guy who knocked her to help. Maybe Chad Thundercock is already back in prison after he knocked up another 25 women. Anwyay he can get that STD cleared up at tax payer expense and then impregnat a female prison guard ☺
[–]occupythekitchen 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
What really boggles me is some girls want to get pregnant at 17-18 so they can raise a baby and go to school and then not have kids again after college. Those women have no worth other than a lay or short term because they dont want children. I want children not right now but eventually so I have nothing to gain even getting attached.
[–]kinggluejar 17 points18 points19 points  (4 children)
I don't think this has to do with "blaming men for everything".
He fucked up by getting animated describing his emotions. It seemed like he wasn't in control of himself. That's probably what's turning off the women. He's a guy that doesn't go after what he wants. He's not direct. By his own admission he went out with her because he hadn't been on a date since his last relationship. It comes off a bit desperate. He was wasting his and her time.
All that aside, it wouldn't surprise me a bit if further down the comments some predestined betabux chump out there screaming "look here buddy, you need to step up like men do and take care of her." I didn't care to look past that first chain of comments though.
[–]1RP-Doctor 5 points6 points7 points  (1 child)
This is the best analysis of this situation. The man looked insecure, women were turned off by it, and ultimately he was beaten down. He was wavering and exhibited some very beta traits, which ultimately got him in trouble. He even calls himself a "little boy" in the comments, meaning he was aware of how immature he sounded.
No one would get mad at a guy for not wanting to date a 5 months pregnant woman as long as he presents it clearly. Single mom? That's where society has gotten fucked up and expects guys to "nut up" and raise other men's children, but we're not so far gone (yet) that we expect a man to date a pregnant woman.
[–]Special Olympianmakethemsayayy 5 points6 points7 points  (0 children)
Do they understand...I only get to marry ONE person, why the fuck would I choose one with other kids? That's for when I have 3 kids and am divorced...they really don't give a fuck about men. at all.
[–]Senior Contributorexit_sandman 2 points3 points4 points  (0 children)
He fucked up by getting animated describing his emotions. It seemed like he wasn't in control of himself. That's probably what's turning off the women. He's a guy that doesn't go after what he wants. He's not direct. By his own admission he went out with her because he hadn't been on a date since his last relationship. It comes off a bit desperate. He was wasting his and her time.
Ding ding ding we have a winner.
I tried to be neutral about the thread and didn't go into the comment section, but just read the post of the OP. And I have to admit, he does come over as immature.
To me it looks as if he had already made his decision to reject her beforehand (and until that point I am totally on board with him), but then actively looked for reasons to be pissed off about her besides her being knocked up and looking for a sucker who picks up her mess, and then ran to reddit for validation. Which makes him an idiot.
[–]Reddington12 3 points4 points5 points  (0 children)
He fucked up by getting animated describing his emotions. It seemed like he wasn't in control of himself. That's probably what's turning off the women.
This. Women despise weak men. He teed himself up real good by coming off the way he did.
[–]thefisherman1961 29 points30 points31 points  (14 children)
These people are so fucking indoctrinated.
By "these people", I assume you mean the white knights, because the women are just group hen pecking. AWALT.
Anyway, you say that like it's a bad thing. We need the white knights to be indoctrinated. Without beta males to provide emotional and financial support for Chad's genetic stock, you'd have a lot more children being raised by struggling single moms. That's bad for the economy because then taxpayers get hit with the bill and the children don't fare as well in the long run.
I'd rather have a beta voluntarily be a provider for a single mother instead of me being forced at gunpoint by the government to be her provider. The more betas, the less money I am required to contribute.
[–]protoss--OP 14 points15 points16 points  (2 children)
By "these people", I assume you mean the white knights
the OP is more retarded than the white knight commenters
from the comments (written by him)
I have nothing against dating women with kids.
29 year old guy, "no problem" dating a woman with kids? it's like western guys now are happy to accept the bottom of the barrel scraps.
i mean why have a "problem" when she's already shown she can't keep a guy and/or makes shitty decisions about having a kid, why not enjoy dealing with some random dude for the next 18+ years, etc.
and from his first post, he already knew she was pregnant but his justification was that she wrote "hes out of the picture forever so there won't be drama" he believed that.
retards today... lol
[–]So_Many_546283173817 8 points9 points10 points  (0 children)
Honestly, I think men are our own worst enemy. So many of us have such low standards and have conceded so much to social pressure that the rest of us have to deal with the results.
[–]NecroticFury 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
And he's supposed to take her word for that. There are literally zero legal protections for a man doing this, so she can make you raise the kids, and still take your money later. It doesn't matter what she does, she never loses her entitlements.
Given all that information, its pretty much someone you just met asking you to risk your life and dime for her.
These women fail to recognize that they use dating as weapons against men, and then bitch about him when he inevitably feels off-put by their actions. He can't quite pinpoint the way he's being manipulated, all he knows is a bunch of women are getting louder by the minute.
If people escalate to yelling at you when you disagree, you know they have ulterior motives. Despite this, nobody in the thread points it out.
[–]NecroticFury 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
Its clear the government puts the gun on a man's head at the end. This time the beta provider's instead of yours.
So in the end you yourself are the biggest idiot of the bunch.
What you dont realize is the beta's are only going to accept such an existence for another twenty years, after that, its up to you anyway. It should be the woman who pays for her indecency, yet we all know nobody will ever ask her to.
So leaving the problem to fester won't get rid of it. Women should either have the right to get an abortion, or suck it up and take care of the baby on her own. Its bullshit that she gets every choice in the matter, and the man is just pulled along for the ride.
The laws have been formed around making it her choice but at the same time not her burden. She gets to make a decision for the man's life, and a child's life, just because she "feels like" she should have the right to do so.
The only burden she carries is for those 9 months of pregnancy. For 9 months, you pay 18 years.
Don't get a woman pregnant. Slip her some Plan B if you haven't seen her take it already.
[–]dejour 1 point2 points3 points  (3 children)
I think it's unclear what would happen.
Obviously if stepdads weren't stepping up regularly, it would put more pressure on the government to fund the kid and mom. It's not acceptable for kids to be underfed, poorly clothed or lacking education and health care. But usually government benefits leave you with a much worse standard of living than a typical middle class income earner.
I think it's quite possible that if replacement dads are scarce that women will be much more selective about who they get pregnant with, whether or not to keep the baby, whether or not to stick around with the biological dad. If that sort of behavior changes a lot, then the need for government benefits would actually diminish.
[–]NecroticFury 0 points1 point2 points  (1 child)
You fucking idiot - I'm sorry.
Law is created around women's needs. Thats all it's ever taken into account. Whether or not the government can keep up means jack shit. If they won't decrease military spending, you think they'll cut "funding for the children?"
No, the banks will just sell more bonds - print more money - offset the bill in the form of inflation to the taxpayers. You guessed it, right back to the middle class working man.
When women fuck up, men foot the bill. When society fails because of a depressed economy, men pay. Women are never run up on their debts.
[–]dejour 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
I didn't say anything about government not being able to keep up.
People change their behavior based on consequences. If they are rewarded for their behavior they keep doing it. If they are punished, they stop doing it - or at least do it less.
Collecting welfare isn't a horrible life but it's not a great life. Being a stay-at-home mom while your husband earns $100k+ per year is pretty good.
If women currently expect a pretty good result (to be wifed up by a beta) when they are single moms and then they start to expect a not so great results (to collect welfare), then women will be less likely to become single moms.
[–]Kalepsis -4 points-3 points-2 points  (5 children)
Fare. "The children don't fare as well in the long run".
To an extent, I agree, but I will disagree with you on a few important points. First, in my opinion (corroborated by many of the single moms with whom I'm acquainted), if there was better access to abortion services there would be fewer struggling single moms. Many of these women I've met were trying to anchor down a Chad with a kid. 90% of them would've aborted if they'd had more education on the subject and access to services. The others were religious or couldn't abort for medical reasons.
I will also firmly disagree with your point about the economy. Our economy was strong between the Great Depression and the late 50's because of war, and men being men, raising their own kids whether they wanted them or not, taking responsibility for their actions, and absolutely refusing to raise the children of other men. Since the feminists took hold of the country, we have blue pill males (they're not men) being content raising other mens' kids to be more worthless, lazy, blue pill fucktards who don't contribute to actual society. Unfortunately, this idea that Chad doesn't have to be responsible for his actions is another example of feminism seeping into society. I'll explain.
A red pill man knows that the sexiest thing about him is his masculinity, and part of that is being responsible for himself, and also for steering the relationship in the direction in which he wants it. A red pill man also knows AWALT. So if, for example, you fuck a woman without a condom and she gets pregnant, that's your fucking fault, and you should raise that child. Oh, she said she was on the pill but lied? No shit, dumbass! AWALT! That's your fault. You take responsibility for it, raise the kid to be a productive RP man. Or a decent woman.
All I'm saying is that the children being raised by worthless, feminized BP males are turning into more lazy, piece-of-shit, worthless BP males, and our economy is lethargic because of it. That last statement you made, about needing more betas to raise the children of others, is the very reason you're forced to contribute more money to the system: those kids are being raised by the women, not the betas! Those women control the betas. And women are turning them into tax-dollar sponges by teaching them that society owes them everything and they should work as little as possible for their share.
What we need is men raising men. I'd love to see more posts about personal accountability in this sub.
[–]thefisherman1961 4 points5 points6 points  (2 children)
"Better access" is a loaded statement - what you really mean is that abortion is too expensive. The high cost of healthcare is the result of decades of government intervention in every sector of the healthcare system. If abortion was cheaper, then I wouldn't be forced to provide for women I'm not banging to get procedures done that I am morally opposed to (under most circumstances). So in general I agree with you on this point, but this is really a separate issue altogether.
As for the rest of your post, those men in the 1940s-50s were being forced to financially provide for the children of other men through the welfare state. Also, betas and women raising Chad Thundercock's children to being blue pill is nothing new. It's been happening for billions of years, so I disagree that there was some magical 15 year period where that wasn't happening because "men were men". Discouraging betas from raising Chad's children is not going to stop Chad's children from being blue pillers.
The reason I have to pay for it is because blue pillers can use the tools of democracy and government violence to pick my pocket. Women and beta males will always make up the democratic majority. So it's a given that, as long as government and democracy exist, the welfare state will exist and I will be forced to provide for single mothers. In that case, the question becomes: What's the best way to reduce my payments? Encourage betas to step up to the plate.
[–]NecroticFury 0 points1 point2 points  (1 child)
No, you don't do that at all. Again, the beta outnumbers you and will crush you. Unless you keep women in check, you yourself will be consumed by her word.
Her word will always sway men in great numbers, so you need greater numbers. Instead you decide to isolate beta's, and you yourself will pay for it in the long run.
[–]thefisherman1961 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
Is English your native language? I don't understand what you're trying to say.
[–]malariasucks 0 points1 point2 points  (1 child)
First, in my opinion (corroborated by many of the single moms with whom I'm acquainted), if there was better access to abortion services there would be fewer struggling single moms.
that's only dealing with the symptom. the root cause is that people are selfish and irresponsible and shouldnt have got pregnant in the first place. Sure, people sometimes get preggo even when being safe, but it's usually people forgetting their pill or going without a condom
[–]Kalepsis 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
I absolutely agree with you (and I said as much in the second half of that post, when I ranted about personal responsibility). Read more.
[–]SleepNowMyThrowaway 11 points12 points13 points  (1 child)
Here's the demonic, inescapable paradox for women; any man gamma enough to put up with the x, y, and z they drag around with them, they instictively find repugnant and recoil from.
"If he'd date me, then by definition he's undateable by me."
[–]PM_Me_For_Drugs 5 points6 points7 points  (0 children)
It's like the relationship version of the old Groucho Marx quote -
"I don't care to belong to any club that will have me as a member."
[–]R706 6 points7 points8 points  (1 child)
They're basically begging him to be her provider. Fuck them to the deepest depths of hell.
They are?
Top comment;
Like 80% of the things in this post make me think you should leave this poor woman alone for her and her child's sake.
Another high comment.
tl;dr: OP is not ready for kids and should not fucking date pregnant women/single moms. Geezus.
The woman in question was upfront about her pregnancy and how far into her term she is, don't go on a date if it's a problem.
They were surprisingly white knighty and sanctimonious about it though I admit, they were all firmly on her side.
Seems like OP was mostly using her for dating practice anyway if you go back and check his first post.
I don't think OP is so bad a person, they can call him immature for 'going into a panic attack' over whether the pregnant lady will attach a ball and chain to his ankle, but they seem to flick from 'Relax it's just a lunch meeting' to 'Don't lead her on, that's a really shitty thing to do' pretty easily.
When you are nervous and scared like OP was, maybe it's because he respects the gravity of potential situations and commitments, whereas someone who is just going to run off like her ex doesn't have due reason to give a shit.
Anyway, her ex said he would never pay child support so she said her plan is to get him to sign away his parental rights, freeing him of child support obligations. She reiterated he was gone forever and would have no involvement in the baby's life. I'm not so sure.
Yeah, always take that with a big pinch of salt.
[–]Senior Contributorexit_sandman 2 points3 points4 points  (0 children)
They still are shaming him for not being a gread guy enough to be fit to date a single mom, though, as if that was the greatest role a decent man could aspire to be.
[–]ChadThundercockII 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
The thing is, no one would say this shit to his face in real life.
[–]BigAl265 1 point2 points3 points  (0 children)
I can't even read that shit. I'm getting so pissed off reading what those asshat, mushmouth idiots wrote, I want to go punch something. The level of delusion these people live in is just staggering. Of course he doesn't want to raise some other guys kid, and sure as hell not with some skank he just met on OKStupid! Good grief, these women can't handle an ounce of personal responsibility.
[–]UniversalFapture 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
Exactly! Then j get Calle doubt for "being a redpiller"
[–]Lipophobicity 169 points170 points171 points  (7 children)
I am in fact "emotionally mature enough" to date a single mom, fortunately I am also smart enough not to date one.
Big difference
[–]Noctis_Cloud 37 points38 points39 points  (3 children)
I think it would show more emotional maturity to not date a single mom.
[–]StManTiS 14 points15 points16 points  (0 children)
Emotions should not run your life. In fact I'm pretty confident in saying maturity is control over your emotions.
So to me emotional maturity is an oxy moron. Emotions are what run children and women.
[–]david_kimba 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
I don't know. There may be some milk left on those titties.
[–]GunsGermsAndSteel 1 point2 points3 points  (0 children)
There's two sides to this, though. I'm a single father myself. I have two kids, and the youngest (7) is with me about half the time. The oldest is out on her own now. Anyway, I vastly prefer dating single moms, because we have similar priorities and desires. It's better to date someone who really understands if I have to cancel plans because my kid is puking or something. My current chick has two kids, and I think they're awesome. We both provide equally for the kids, we live together now and basically just share the costs, chores etc related to children. When we were dating but not living together, it was just really great to have someone who understood that "my kids come first" isn't just a cute thing I say. It's real.
[–]MightyYetGentle 2 points3 points4 points  (0 children)
Thank you for bringing sanity to that comment. When i saw that i couldn't believe some dumbass typed it out
[–]scubar 2 points3 points4 points  (0 children)
I'm not financially mature enough either. Even if I had $100M I wouldn't be.
[–]Endorsed Contributor - Class of 2015Modified_Hackware 98 points99 points100 points  (4 children)
Online Dating.
Where her price approaches infinity and your time is worth nothing.
[–]BowsNToes21 3 points4 points5 points  (3 children)
I feel this way about all the online dating websites besides Tinder. I tried POF and Ok Cupid. Wrote personal messages and Tinder like pickup lines, it didn't matter either way as my reply rate wasn't exceptional and when they would reply it would typically require these long conversations for them to go out.
On Tinder I can plan a few dates in a week, I only need to send a pickup line no personal message, the girls I go out with are much hotter than the ones I could pull on either POF or Ok Cupid despite my profile pictures being the same and the dates are typically planned by the third or fifth message.
[–]through_a_ways 1 point2 points3 points  (2 children)
I wonder how much of this is due to the male populace of these websites.
OKcupid skews older and probably more beta, so women have better financially and emotionally validating offers, increasing their price.
[–]BowsNToes21 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
My job is listed as financial analyst. No doctor but shit.
Part of me thinks it's just the volume of messages and tinder is less because they have to like you first and they took off unlimited likes. While I may pay for it women won't so they're more choosy. Just have to beat out the guy trying to do the whole talking thing by asking them out quickly.
[–]Im_not_lonely 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
Its the medium. Girls are extremely picky on Myspace OkCupid and you can have one thing in your profile that they will read too much into and discriminate you. Tinder is close to real life. What you see is what you get. Charm and wit goes a lot further and its a chat ap, not a dating website like POF/OKcupid. Your profile on those sites should be passive trolling nets, where as tinder is fly fishing.
Plus their profiles are the women they want to be not the women they are. Flosses twice a week and loves to run my ass you dead toothed fat ass.
[–]Phantom-furious 57 points58 points59 points  (2 children)
Bullet dodged. She was just looking for a BB to lock down. Convenient how everyone taking her side ignores the fact that she is single for a reason.
[–]1whatsazipper 20 points21 points22 points  (1 child)
Could be worse. At least her pregnancy is obvious. I dodged a bullet one time when I repeatedly turned down a cute chick. I don't know why, but I got a bad feeling about it. Not long after that she started to show signs of pregnancy.
[–]evileddy 2 points3 points4 points  (0 children)
At least her pregnancy is obvious
They don't really have to hide it anymore.
[–]TRP VanguardCyralea 55 points56 points57 points  (6 children)
The OKCupid sub is worse than all the relationship subs combined. It's been entrenched with high testosterone, bitchy, post-wall women since day one. It was one of the first subs I browsed when I made this account nearly 7 years ago.
Beta guys would come to the sub looking for help with their lack of game, and instead they're instructed on how to worship pussy. Even pre-TRP I knew the advice was shit. However, not knowing better most guys would do exactly what they were told. After all, women should give the best advice on how to date women right? The frequency of posts complaining that the methods don't work was staggering. Literally several per day. And the response to it was always "Well, you were probably a douchecanoe somehow"
The OKCupid sub can be a good resource if you do literally the opposite of everything they say there. In this case, the nearly cucked dude was emotionally mature for not going through with being some random alpha widows' ATM.
[–]1RP-Doctor 16 points17 points18 points  (2 children)
Women's advice on women is awful because they assume attraction. A guy asks her, "what do I do to get this girl to like me?" and she thinks, "what would I want Chad Thundercock to do for me?" Why? She doesn't even consider the 10 guys she rejects for every 1 she's attracted to. She doesn't think about what he does to attract her, she just knows she's attracted, and then she tells her male friend to do what she'd like that guy to do.
[–]DoesNotMatterAnymore 2 points3 points4 points  (0 children)
This is a really good comment. This is why they give the "just be yourself advice" from they perspective it's actually a really good advice: "Chad, I'm attracted to you, I don't know how this happened, but keep it up, don't change anything "
[–]fruit7 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
and this is why women do not think logically - they assume so much based on the most trivial facts.
[–]Senior Contributorexit_sandman 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
In this case, the nearly cucked dude was emotionally mature for not going through with being some random alpha widows' ATM.
I would call him "smart enough", not necessarily "emotionally mature".
I've said it before and I'll say it again: I've been thoroughly sold on the BP-narrative, and I wasn't a terribly emotionally mature person when younger, and still if there was one thing I would never have considered, it would have been seriously (as in: long term) dating a single mom. It was an instant dealbreaker for me that came from the base of my gut.
[–]Im_not_lonely 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
I agree, plus anyone who posts on there and also posts on here will get DOX'd or whatever if they find your profile.
You have to think of the women that post there, they are "experts" at dating. not experts at being in relationships. Dating is a game where the more women date the less value they hold, the more men date the more value we gain.
Perpetually single women are single for a reason, perpetually single men (by choice) know whats up.
[–]8IIIIIIIIIIIID---- 29 points30 points31 points  (0 children)
People don't go on dating apps to be fathers
[–]mechdemon 24 points25 points26 points  (3 children)
WTF is a pregnant woman doing dating in the first place? She must have an extremely high opinion of herself to think thats a good idea.
[–]Noctis_Cloud 8 points9 points10 points  (1 child)
Her narcissism probably has led her to believe that she will get as much attention pregnant as she did when she was not pregnant. Reality is going to bitch slap this woman, unless she finds a really desperate beta.
[–]MadChestHairYuKnight 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
She'll probably find a beta to milk as well.
[–]1sir_wankalot_here 76 points77 points78 points  (21 children)
Dirty slut, 4 months pregnant and still fucking around.
[–]1seenoeval 33 points34 points35 points  (8 children)
I love how no one cares about the kid or that this slut is basically signing herself up for an emotional roller coaster during it's most important brain development.
They should put her in a facility for risk of endangerment to a child. That said, I would have taken a blowjob from her.
[–]1sir_wankalot_here 18 points19 points20 points  (6 children)
I don't care about the kid ☺ Not my bastard lol
[–]1seenoeval 17 points18 points19 points  (4 children)
No but her ex sounds like he should win luckiest man alive if he seriously gets her to release him from his parental rights.
If he walks away from this with zero child support and zero involvement, someone needs to get him a cake.
[–]cragtar -2 points-1 points0 points  (2 children)
Most states don't allow people to just waive child support like that since the strong independent woman's plan is usually to just instantly go on welfare.
[–]MightyTaint 0 points1 point2 points  (1 child)
If she puts the new BB on the birth certificate the state won't give a fuck. If not, and the new guy adopts (given dad surrenders his rights to the child), again, the father won't be responsible.
Happened to a buddy of mine. I never met the BB, but what a tool.
[–]cragtar 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
Those are completely different scenarios than "yeah I'm not going to pay child support and don't want to see the kid so now I don't have to pay child support".
[–]MadChestHairYuKnight -2 points-1 points0 points  (0 children)
I would award him reddit gold if somehow he posts on TRP.
[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen 1 point2 points3 points  (0 children)
The problem is that this kid isn't going to be the only broken one in its generation and you will most likely still be there to witness and suffer from the consequences to our society.
[–]Wheatspin -1 points0 points1 point  (0 children)
Don't stick your dick in crazy yo. I wouldn't.
[–]Endorsed Contributormonsieurhire2 12 points13 points14 points  (7 children)
Supposedly pregnancy makes women super horny, and there are allegedly health benefits to having sex right up until the end of the third trimester. In fact, I recall a Nip / Tuck episode where one of the female characters was basically running around fucking a ton of dudes while pregnant because the pregnancy was enhancing her nymphomaniac tendencies. Also, let's not forget all the porn stars who make films while well into a pregnancy. Can you imagine growing up as a boy and the discovering a video with your mother getting railed by several dudes? That would be quite a shit sandwich. Plus, in the age of the Internet, all of your "friends" at school would be the first to find out and tell you! It's the kind of shit that makes you wish for a Collateralized Therapy Obligation to invest in.
[–]PlanB_pedofile 2 points3 points4 points  (1 child)
Sounds to me she's still hunting for better genes than the one she got inseminated with...
[–]slooberki 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
Instinct. Can't turn it off.
[–]VodkaTankerSpill 0 points1 point2 points  (3 children)
It actually is not always the case. My buddy's wife is pregnant and he said there was not crazy fuck sessions.quote opposite sex in fact.
[–]1VasiliyZaitzev 4 points5 points6 points  (1 child)
My buddy's wife is pregnant and he said there was not crazy fuck sessions.
I bet she's carrying a girl. Sometimes, with a male fetus, women get horny (IIRC, during 2nd trimester); that's Junior's balls coming online.
N.B. I am not a doctor unless you count "witch doctor".
[–]Draki1903 1 point2 points3 points  (0 children)
This sounds like bullshit, but I don't know enough about fetuses to dispute that.
[–]rockinhard130 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
Some women get horny AF some don't
[–]NakedAndBehindYou -1 points0 points1 point  (0 children)
I recall a Nip / Tuck episode
Because television is such a great source of information?
[–]grewapair 3 points4 points5 points  (1 child)
At least there's no chance of her becoming pregnant again if he does the deed with someone already pregnant. I'd have advised him to plate her for a month or two. Guaranteed NSA sex!
[–]PeopleHateThisGuy 1 point2 points3 points  (0 children)
You haven't seen Pregnant Baby.
[–]PlanB_pedofile 2 points3 points4 points  (0 children)
Hahaha oh that's a real kicker. Where the hell is the biological dad for the little bun in the oven?
She's seeing 2 men now.
[–]1Overkillengine 15 points16 points17 points  (0 children)
Because of course any man that does not chain himself emotionally and financially to a woman with a proven track record of bad decision making is a shitlord!
Equality is Oppression! Double Plus Good!
[–]GrandmasterHurricane 13 points14 points15 points  (3 children)
This guy's got the right idea: "bang her for a few months and then disappear before she gives birth. dont hang around for single moms it's always drama and their baby comes first before you".
It's all the way down, the most downvoted comment.
You can just tell that most of these guys are cucks and betas. Living in a fairytale where the knight saves the damsel with a kid from the jerk. Why are bitches this stupid? If the dad is a jackass and won't start a family with you, just abort the baby before it starts to develop into an actual humanoid creature in the womb. They would rather trap themselves and wreck their bodies instead of going for that clean slate and learn from the experience.
The media needs to stop praising single moms and they need to stop using words like "fierce, strong, indepedant" to describe these chicks.
[–]Senior Contributorexit_sandman 0 points1 point2 points  (1 child)
The media needs to stop praising single moms and they need to stop using words like "fierce, strong, indepedant" to describe these chicks.
This, so much.
Let's be honest here - while single moms may not be as bad as the most recent stickied post said they were ("99% subhuman trash" or something like it), they're still on average worse than non single-moms. Because they are considerably more likely to either suck at picking guys (which correlates with being a CC-rider and Chad-groupie) or to suck at being partners (by breaking up with the father of a child, which is a retarded decision, or by driving him away, which is a retarded decision as well). Either way they've already shown poor judgment and long-term thinking, and possibly poor personality as well.
And yet everything one reads about single moms appears to be some sort of sales pitch - awesome women who deserve constant praise as heroines who got into their unfortunate situation because of shitty men.
[–]GrandmasterHurricane 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
Exactly. It's not like they can't abort. If the foetus is already at its humanoid form, I can understand being against the abortion. But bitches be a week pregnant abd decide they're going to keep it because they "always wanted a baby". It's like they couldn't get pregnant at any other time but now so they HAVE to keep it. No! Dumbass get pregnant when you're secure and fairly stable, find yourself a decent/good enough man and stick with him. Don't get pregnant by the loser with no job who doesn't want to be a father, or that guy you fucked semi consistently who doesn't know your last name. You're breeding with a worthless male, you're basically validating his genes to be passed on. The kid will be a living reminder of him. It's like they don't even care about the quality of the sperm that grows inside of them. All because "I always wanted a baby", like it's some kind of toy.
[–]MadChestHairYuKnight -1 points0 points1 point  (0 children)
Single moms = top class feminist beta kids
[–]ransay3277 20 points21 points22 points  (1 child)
Had to up-vote this. I have seen this a number of times. I bet that thread is littered with the term "Man up". This guy needs to grow a pair, dump that bitch and for gods sake get off the OKCupid sub. That's why you will never see a red pill guy on there: because they know to never ask a woman, beta or a white night for advice. I'll bet there is almost no mention of the guy that got her pregnant and then told her to fuck off. Probably not a word about his responsibility.
[–]Retro93 44 points45 points46 points  (8 children)
Jesus tity-fucking Christ. I knew it was bad out there in blue pill land, but holy fuck. Do these people actually think about anything before they open their stupid fucking mouths? Of fucking course not.
It's all about feeeeeeeeelings in blue pill land. It's so obvious that these people feeeeeeeeel bad for little Ms. Single Mother, to the point that she is owed something from society (but especially men). Even the OP has been indoctrinated to believe this shit. Why else would he waste his time posting a thread and asking others for opinions if he wasn't? He felt uncomfortable on the date, but he's also uncomfortable about rejecting this delicate, little, special snowflake who just deserves to be treated with respect and compassion!
Fuck that. Fuck a single mother. They're human fucking trash. Especially this one, fucking around while she's goddamn four months deep into pregnancy. Her fucking baby is going to come out with an indention in its forehead because of all the dick mommy's been taking leading up to its birth. And really guys, how fucking hard is it to keep us around? All a guy needs is fucking sex from time to time with a decent looking girl who doesn't act like a goddamn piece of retarded shit. But then you realize that most single mothers are single by their own choice. Because they aren't haaaaaaaappy!
They're the lowest of the low. Don't even put your dick in them. They'll do everything in their power to rope you in and bring you into their fucked up situation. Stay away from trash. You don't owe anyone on this fucking planet anything, especially the ones who are too ungrateful and unhappy to appreciate it. Law 10, always keep it in mind.
[–]Dustin_Bromain 4 points5 points6 points  (0 children)
Fuuuuuuuuucccckkkkkk Blue Pill land. Fuck that so much. Needs to get nuked.
[–]aherne18 4 points5 points6 points  (1 child)
Words of truth. Two years ago when I went to Holland I met an extended family living in a single apartment. One of the women there (ugly) had two kids from previous marriages (both husbands died, if I remember well), was shit poor, an alcoholic like all her siblings (all drank until they collapsed on couches: ethnic Russians 101). One of the kids was a four years old boy who instantly bonded with me (typical single-mother children seeking love in strangers). Seeing that, I guess his mother found a huge BB potential and AGGRESSIVELY tried to fuck me that night. After saying NO a million times, she came to my room (while I was sleeping) and mounted me with her kids sleeping in that very same room. Such desperation for a meal ticket...
DO NOT "date" single mothers.
[–]Senior Contributorexit_sandman 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
This is what riles me up about the way women are depicted in our society: as a rule they don't want to take advantage of you but only have your common best interest in mind.
She doesn't lower her standard because she's desperate, she "matured" and "finally knows what she wants". When she tries to rope you (the hapless BB) in, she doesn't have her own selfish interest in mind and doesn't give a shit about you, oh no, she of course has fallen for you since she finally realized that you're the best thing since sliced bread.
And when everything goes south (as is to be expected) the only thing you're getting is a heartfelt "but but but NAWALT!"
[–]Special Olympianmakethemsayayy 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
You're right though. We're so fucking genetically predetermined to LOVE women, it should be a piece of cake for them to keep us around. Be MODERATELY acceptable and you should be fine. But nope, they manage to chase us away despite our programming.
[–]GunsGermsAndSteel 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
Stop holding back. Tell us how you really feel.
[–]through_a_ways -1 points0 points1 point  (2 children)
Even the OP has been indoctrinated to believe this shit.
This is not true
Indoctrination implies that the attitudes he expresses were instilled in him by some external agent (society, culture, schooling, media, etc.)
Feminism is biologically hardwired into every male's brain. The social development of feminism simply harnesses this into something more focused and effective.
If you said that "education enables people to reason", you'd be wrong. The mental faculties for logical reasoning are inherent in every man (stronger in some than in others). Education systemizes this reasoning to make it more effective than it already is.
Likewise, OP isn't indoctrinated to feel bad for the woman, he feels bad for the woman because she's a woman, and women are more physically neotenous (look more childlike) than men. However, on top of this, systematic feminist memes make him feel even more guilty (she'll make less money because she's a woman, she's probably been physically abused, she has a 25% chance of having been raped, etc.)
[–]Senior Contributorexit_sandman -1 points0 points1 point  (1 child)
Feminism is biologically hardwired into every male's brain.
Feminism and the WaW-effect aren't interchangeable. Feminism profits immensely from it, but it also works in a very traditional environment.
But you know what's biologically hardwired into every male's brain? Not wanting to take care of another guy's spawn.
[–]through_a_ways 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
Feminism profits immensely from it
That's an understatement. Feminism can only exist because of it.
[–]2 Endorsed ContributorCisWhiteMaelstrom 10 points11 points12 points  (0 children)
Hahaha, oh my god what a ludicrously extreme case. Team girl is fucking shameless in how they see the world and how disingenuous they are for men. They don't give a fuck about his happiness or self respect. They don't respect him because he they know he took out a pregnant chick in the first place. Now they're just trying to beat him into securing a victory for their AFBB teammate. I mean, look at this advice:
You're nearly emotionally mature enough to date a single mother.... So you better go date that single mother!!!
It's not even pretending to be wise, respectful, understanding, or just. It's just team girl shittery enforced by manginas.
[–]jaredschaffer27 5 points6 points7 points  (1 child)
Interesting that the man is emotionally immature, but the late, 4 month pregnant woman without the father around is a bastion of maturity.
[–]randarrow 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
Women are three years more mature than men. It's science! /s
[–]HS-Thompson 14 points15 points16 points  (8 children)
I read the linked post. The guy comes across as a fucking wierdo, obsessing about her baby and showing signs of having strange rage/anger issues. The replies you quoted are just keying off that, something is wrong with that guy.
Obviously it's trashy for a pregnant woman to be going on Internet dates and it's ludicrous for any guy to go on a first date with a pregnant woman, but are those really TRP lessons? They seem more like how to not be trailer trash lessons. Not feeling much actual insight in this post.
[–]snusaholic 12 points13 points14 points  (2 children)
Any bitterness he had seemed to come from his need for validation from okc redditors. He pretty much notes that he gave her a chance only because of Reddit telling him to go on the date, and ends the post by saying "reddit needs to know this".
It's a great example of a regular blue pill man doing what he feels the herd wants him to do while struggling with the logic of why it was a terrible decision. He seems bitter that he felt pushed into the date by reddit, while also being bitter that to pursue this, otherwise, acceptable girl (within his current standards) he would have to become a cuckhold. It's a perfect example of blue pill bitterness, validation seeking, and the overwhelming natural male instinct to run as fast as he can colliding in one fucked up moment.
Very, VERY, relevant to TRP.
[–]HS-Thompson 1 point2 points3 points  (0 children)
It's a great example of a regular blue pill man doing what he feels the herd wants him to do while struggling with the logic of why it was a terrible decision. He seems bitter that he felt pushed into the date by reddit, while also being bitter that to pursue this, otherwise, acceptable girl (within his current standards) he would have to become a cuckhold. It's a perfect example of blue pill bitterness, validation seeking, and the overwhelming natural male instinct to run as fast as he can colliding in one fucked up moment.
Very, VERY, relevant to TRP.
Yes absolutely, I agree with you 100%
The problem of course being that the OP didn't say any of those things, and was talking about the commenters.
[–]through_a_ways 2 points3 points4 points  (0 children)
OP is obviously a damaged person as well.
Also lol'd at the 5 minutes late bit. Getting pissed at 5 minutes of lateness (unless you're in the military) smacks of mental femininity.
[–]htbf 4 points5 points6 points  (1 child)
something is wrong with that guy
He has a Nice Guy syndrome but he's also "clever" enough to realise that he's not fucking ready for this task. Hence the mental conflict and struggle.
He walked away though, so good on him for that.
[–]terryducks 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
he's also "clever" enough to realise that he's not fucking ready
As a guy who has 2 kids ... you are never ready. However, at the time of conception, i was married for 6 years and was "settled". AKA I had my shit together.
If you asked me about kids, 8 years earlier, oh FUCK no, not going to have them.
One problem, whoever is on the birth certificate ... is the "daddy" in the State's eyes. Once the kid was born and then you hooked up there's a better chance of leaving if things aren't working.
[–]Momo_dollar 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
Take away the justifying and what does he get angry /annoyed about? Same things men should find annoying, things that actually show he has a sense of worth, but has been indoctrinated to believe its wrong.
He gets annoyed/angry @ she was late and didn't let him now. Subconsciously he understands the meaning of this, even if he cannot explain it. She bought a friend without telling him, subconsciously he knows this is deceitful. An honest girl would have said, " its the first time I'm meeting you I'll feel better if I bring a friend along". She was evasive about her job it means she has none, he realises this. The baby's father is refusing to pay child support, he knows she is looking for someone else to pay for her and her child. The only reason she would not chase the father for child support is if he is also a bum, or low earner , and she is betting that she can bag a higher earner to provide for herself and her child.
[–]Solitary_Wolf 8 points9 points10 points  (1 child)
TIL Im far, far too emotionally immature to date a single mam.
[–]randarrow 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
Sex and the single mammery.
[–]Senior Contributortrudatness 4 points5 points6 points  (7 children)
Holy shit read this and try to resist the urge to stick a gun in your mouth.
[–]Robert_Walker 2 points3 points4 points  (1 child)
Pregnant, lucky enough to find a guy she likes that's into her, chooses to keep getting railed by multiple men, can't define why it didn't work out, over it in a day.
A real prize woman there.
[–]Noctis_Cloud 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
Hahaha I stumbled upon that article earlier today too. This is one of the most insane things I have ever read, and the only thing more disturbing is not one of the commenters even questions what this lunatic is doing. Not only are women thinking this behavior is ok, they are collectively agreeing that it is completely acceptable.
[–]JimmyTheIntern 0 points1 point2 points  (2 children)
What the fuck, dude? Good thing I haven't eaten anything yet today, or it would be all over my laptop. Absolutely fucking disgusting.
[–]Senior Contributortrudatness 1 point2 points3 points  (1 child)
Cock carousel riding, AF/BB while being pregnant from artificial insemination.
[–]Senior Contributorexit_sandman 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
Dunno if it was AFBB.
There are two types of guys who would react with "that's cool" if their date told them she's pregnant by sperm that isn't his.
  • a complete omega who feels compelled to think everything women do is great and beyond criticism and to demonstrate how supportive and dependable he is at all cost.
  • a guy who doesn't really give a shit because he knows this fling won't last and instead sees it from the bright side (his fuckbuddy - and yes, in that situation she is one - won't get pregnant by him).
[–]jsphere256 3 points4 points5 points  (1 child)
This is, like, high school girl level logic. I'm willing to bet most of the people shaming this guy have a great deal of expectations for the world to shower them with attention and a free living once they get knocked up. They should look at the single mom and realize that they had better be responsible themselves so they don't end up like that. People in that situation deserve our pity, but they are entitled to nothing else. Especially not from a random guy who spent a few hours hanging out with them; a date is not a contract.
[–]2 Endorsed ContributorCisWhiteMaelstrom 6 points7 points8 points  (0 children)
In a traditional society, it'd be nearly impossible to groan at the amount of sympathy, niceness, respect, and love that women get for free during their early years. Motherhood, by which I mean actual committed motherhood and not the bullshit mothers do in 2015, is actually huge commitment and sacrifice. She's also making that huge decision at too early of an age to really consider all the details and the decision really is selflessly for the good of society and the child.
During this time, people would shower her with favors, protection, validation, and reassurance. Why wouldn't they have that kind of reverence for someone in her position right?
Feminism is an abomination of that dynamic. During a woman's social celebrity time, she is selfishly abusing it to suck a world of dick and have drinks bought to her so that she can destroy her body a little more easily. She does no good for society, prioritizes partying over production, and acts like a total bitch to everyone. She still expects the pregnancy-years treatment though.
The red pill does an honest examination of what women provide nowadays, how justified the pussypass is, and how we ought to think about the new woman without getting white knighty or emotional about it. There's only one conclusion worth reaching and we reach it. Anyone who doesn't reach that conclusion (ie punchingmorpheus or srsmen) is specifically trying not to.
Women can't provide actual reasons for why we shouldn't reach that conclusion and so they resort to shaming tactics. They stop the conversation from being held at all costs. They make it seem like if you have that conversation, you will never get laid. The red pill's hysterically ironic in the sense that we tell men that having that conversation (though not openly) is actually a pathway to pussy heaven. In doing that, we get the conversation to be had and we make feminists cry.
[–]Baylien2 4 points5 points6 points  (0 children)
I fucking swear to god.....why can't people realize that maybe women who get impregnated by deadbeats are fucking dumbshits themselves? No...it's always the guys not "manning up". To any women reading this: it is your responsibility to vet whoever cums in your pussy. Woman up, hoes.
[–]hairaware 2 points3 points4 points  (0 children)
This right here is all you need to say to show the craziness of the situation. "Top replies call him an asshole and an immature baby for not wanting to raise another guy's kid"
[–]AirBacon 2 points3 points4 points  (0 children)
I can top that one!
I went out on a date with some girl I met on POF who turned out to have been recently diagnosed with Breast Cancer!
At first... Things were going great. She didn't tell me about the cancer until about 30 minutes into the date. Things got awkward as fuck after that. And no... I didn't ask her out on a second date. Last time I checked, her profile is still up on the site several months later.
I felt bad for her... But... Who wants to start a relationship with a woman who might start to die a slow and agonizing death in the somewhat near future?
[–]ztsmart 2 points3 points4 points  (1 child)
Wtf does a girl in this position thinks she has to offer a man?
[–]annuncirith[🍰] 1 point2 points3 points  (0 children)
A child that may or may not be healthy and one he certainly will not have a natural emotional attachment to, obviously! /s
[–]JohnGalt316 2 points3 points4 points  (0 children)
please continue to provide summary posts from OKC, 2X, and relationships
they bring the lulz
[–]Dustin_Bromain 1 point2 points3 points  (0 children)
The stupidity and irrationality of the blue pillers responding to his post leaves me in a state of utter shock and awe. I cannot even fathom how they think that shacking up with a pregnant woman is a good idea. That post baffles me to no end.
[–]haverfist 1 point2 points3 points  (4 children)
Since when can a person not have a preference in the women he dates and not want to raise someone else little bastard?
[–]boston_of_gilead 4 points5 points6 points  (3 children)
Coming soon: a man who refuses to date a man is a homophobe.
Not hard to imagine.
[–]needsomehelp3211[S] 5 points6 points7 points  (2 children)
Activists on feminist subreddits have already begun to deploy this "logic" when it comes to transsexuals.
"Ugh, you dumped her just because you found out she has a penis? Gender is a social construct, you misogynist pig! She's still a woman - just a women with male genitalia. Why is that a problem?"
[–]cariboo_j 1 point2 points3 points  (0 children)
"Don't think of it as a penis... think of it as a really big clit"
[–]ShitlordRick 1 point2 points3 points  (0 children)
Dating a single mom and providing for her bastard child seems to be biggest achievement for beta cucks...
[–]hirjd 1 point2 points3 points  (0 children)
This reply is gold: "Every date I've ever been on in the past year the girl has been at least 5 minutes late. It's sort of how things go."
Dude, just accept your worthlessness.
[–]Momo_dollar 1 point2 points3 points  (1 child)
He is honest and they hate him. Yet many low level people would manipulate her need and exploit her, use her, and dump her. IMO he is a true gentleman
[–]MadChestHairYuKnight -1 points0 points1 point  (0 children)
He is a gentleman. But being one in 2015 means fuck all.
[–]The-Ban-Hammer 2 points3 points4 points  (0 children)
I'd never date a pregnant woman. She was literally just marked in the most natural of ways. She was literally seeded and carrying another guy's child.
Anyone who tells you to "man up" and help her carry and raise this other guys child might as well tell you that the only "sex" you'll ever have is to literally suck cum out of the guy who impregnated her. If you enjoy being a cuckold in the rawest form, date a pregnant chick and eat her pussy while you're at it.
Fuck that.
[–]iloveyou271 1 point2 points3 points  (0 children)
OP sounds incredibly awkward. He's 'super pissed' she's 5 minutes late? He determines they have no chemistry after waiting in line for food?
Also, who the F would go on an OKC date with a pregnant woman? What?!??!
And he had to run to Reddit to tell them all about the date? So much cringe and awkwardness here.
[–]chloe1204 1 point2 points3 points  (0 children)
This is laughable. People need to consider if the shoe was on the other foot. Would a lot of women want to date a man who had a currently pregnant ex? I am sure many wouldn't and I am sure they wouldn't be judged for this either. I have no issue with men who choose to date a pregnant woman and help take care of the child. My brother and his wife met this way and he adopted the child and now they have other kids and are still together 12 years later.
I think when people feel insecure about something, their first response it to attack. I think that women often worry that being a pregnant single Mum will make them completely undesirable, so they attack any man who would reject a woman based on this premise, rather than thinking about it rationally.
[–]TheEssexian 2 points3 points4 points  (0 children)
This happens in a society where people can't see past the 'victim' label.
Not all 'victims' are nice people. Nor are they emotionally mature. 95% of being a good parent, is picking a good parenting partner. If you pick an abusive man to be your child's father, you have already failed as a parent. Victim or not, a person who chooses an abusive person as a co-parent is demonstrating that THEY are too emotionally immature to raise a child. You can feel bad for them being a victim, but that doesn't mean that they aren't in LARGE part responsible for putting their own child in a VERY bad situation. I've known any number of parents (with penises and vaginas alike) who have children with a partner they KNOW to be abusive, and at that point I no longer feel bad for them; I feel bad for their children.
If this woman decided to get pregnant by a man she knew to be abusive, and this guy doesn't want to date somebody who has ties to an abusive ex, I don't blame him. I've been out with a girl who had an abusive ex, and he kicked down a door when we were watching a movie at her place and started a fight with me (with their baby upstairs). The cops had to be called, and she ended up getting back with that guy (though she did testify against him and ended up dumping him later). That is a head case no sane man should latch himself on to.
YES!! This guy should ABSOLUTELY question the situation. If this woman is mental enough to let some abusive guy knock her up, chances are this abusive ex is going to be dragged in to their relationship and likely break it up inside the first year, and this guy would have wasted his time.
I'm not saying I wouldn't date a pregnant woman. Or a woman with a child (the later I've done a number of times). But no way am I going to date a woman in THAT situation.
[–]mugatucrazypills 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
I give this woman credit for ambition. Most women would feel they were out of the dating game trying to rope in a BBuck provider half way to term. Who goes on a date with a 4month pregnant woman ? You're with child ! your dating life is over.
[–]eyejuantyou 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
Let's get one thing straight here and now. That's spawn that she has inside her is not of an alpha male. Real alpha males father their children. This was necessarily a pretender who weaseled his way into her womb. Look to any inner-city neighborhood and you'll see the effects of fatherless culture. Do you think these neighborhoods are the products of Alpha men? Anybody who thinks so is mistaken.
[–]TRP VanguardArchwinger 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
Uh...
Dating a single mom because I don't have any non-pregnant, child-free options and she's all I can get, and getting involved with someone else's child is emotionally immature. You don't do shit like that just to be with a girl and maybe even score some sex.
Walking away from a woman like this is, hands down, the more emotionally mature option. Admitting, politely, that you recognize that her situation is not something you want, not leading her on, not getting involved -- that's emotional maturity.
[–]ckmtpm 1 point2 points3 points  (0 children)
In the original thread, a ton of people told him to reconsider dating her though. I didn't see all that much shaming.
[–]Stythe 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
The guy does seem immature to be fair. He's pissed about her being 5 mins late for example and he agreed to a date while he clearly has issues with her being pregnant. Thats dumb on his part.
That said, it shocks me that nobody mentions things like how the girl showed up with a friend (weird) and that she's dating while 4 mo ths pregnant (implying she ls barely had time to get over the ex). The whole thing g stinks on her part. I half wonder if she isn't just trying to make the ex jealous by finding another guy. She also said he was sending some trashy girl texts, which is why she ended it. My question is. If she was cute and not trashy herself, why did the ex even bother? Let's be real, it at s two to tango and she screwed up as well. Regless, the entire situation is a red flag and the dude never should have bothered.
[–]MightyTaint 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
you'd have to be an instant dad in 4 months
That right there is the whole situation in a nutshell. People are already acting like it's his kid. No, it's some other dude's kid.
[–]Torridzone92 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
This girl sounds like a fucking train wreck.
"Yeah, I've always wanted kids which is why I'm keeping the baby. I probably want a few more." 
She literally has no long term plans or goals. She just wants to pump out more units! And why? Because she had totally surrendered herself to her most basic instincts. From OP's post, it sounds like the entire date was one giant daddy interview, and now the white knights and feminazis of Reddit are shaming him for being wise enough to notice.
I don't want to raise somebody else's kid either.
This guy is wise beyond his young years. I hope to god society doesn't beat it out of him.
[–]GenericallyEpic 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
oh, thank god he broke it off with her.
[–]1RP-Doctor 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
I hate to say it, but the guy is a bit clueless on how to present himself. It is not the actions, but the delivery that gets him in trouble here. If he had said, "hey, so I've got a date with this pregnant woman, but I don't think I'm really comfortable with that and I'm going to politely cancel," he'd be met with praise (note how when he lets her know he's not interested he's upvoted in the comments). I don't think we're in a society that is so far gone that we'd expect a random guy from OkCupid to date an already pregnant girl and raise her baby. Sure, we're very much pro "single mom and stepdad" in this society, but we still haven't gotten this far yet.
He makes several claims that just make him seem unlikeable, and that gets him in trouble. Can you really expect people to respond positively to a "slow fade" approach with a pregnant woman? As much as I feel no sympathy for the modern woman, this woman is in a position of extreme vulnerability (unlike the typical modern woman), so just in terms of morality in general it wouldn't hurt to tell her his intentions, even if it's her fault that she's in that situation.
Yes the thread is overly harsh and it makes a ton of awful comments (she's not just looking to date, she is looking for a stepdad). Yes we should never expect a man to be comfortable raising another man's child. Yes this is indicative of the way that society is going, but this thread took a bad turn because he presented himself poorly, not because people expect him to raise the kid or be okay with this situation.
[–]Fafner2 0 points1 point2 points  (1 child)
These BP comments are hilarious-- we live in an interesting time where bastard children of alphas can be raised by deluded manginas hahahhahahaha.
[–]MadChestHairYuKnight -1 points0 points1 point  (0 children)
That's how the superior genes survive.
[–]F_Dingo 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
What was the actual deal breaker for you: potentially having to raise a child, or all the things that come along with dating a pregnant woman?
Deal breaker for me would've been having to raise a kid who isn't related to me at all!
[–]TheBronzeYi 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
If you are looking for a date then of course you aren't "mature" enough for a kid. It's like being able to run a mile and then told to go run a record pace marathon.
[–]monzzter221 -1 points0 points1 point  (0 children)
I used to fuck a chick that was ~1 month pregnant. She was fucking amazing in bed and fine as hell. I fucked her for a couple months so she didn't show. Had no intention of seriously dating this chick, we just wanted to fuck. She stayed with the dad, don't know about now it was a long time ago.
It was great, I nutted all up in that pussy.
But I wouldn't suggest seriously dating a pregnant woman.
[–]ConfirmedCynic 1 point2 points3 points  (0 children)
"Man up" seems to be code for "assume the responsibility for someone else's shit".
[–]1RPAlternate42 1 point2 points3 points  (0 children)
From the thread:
We sort out the food and start eating and I ask (trying not to sound uncomfortable) "How's the pregnancy thing going?"
OP shows interest in the kid.
"So, the father is out of the picture?"
OP shows more interest in the kid.
Anyway, her ex said he would never pay child support so she said her plan is to get him to sign away his parental rights, freeing him of child support obligations.
RED FLAG: She has basically guaranteed money from the feminist-government machine and refuses to get it from her AF because she doesn't want to lose the AF status... hell, once the kid pops out and her new OKC-BB is locked in, she can call up her old AF who...
lives in a town about 30 min away from us.
Anyway, this is when the "dad interview" part of the date started
RED FLAG: Confirmed, looking for a BB.
This part is cringeworthy from her:
"So, you said when you answered your OKCupid questions you want kids?"
"Yeah, I want kids someday."
"Yeah, I've always wanted kids which is why I'm keeping the baby. I probably want a few more."
I wonder how many more AF kids she can squeeze into the cuck-family.
Ultimately, OP decided on this:
UPDATE Sent her this: "Hey <name>. I had a really great time at lunch. I just think we're at different points in our lives and I don't think a relationship would work out between us right now. Best of luck with everything."
OP has also identified himself as a "nice guy:"
I'm too nice a guy to let people down easily although it would be more fucking humane.
But he wants to stay friendly within the feminized world.
OP has some introspection on the father's status:
She's pregnant with somebody else's kid - bottom line. I don't know if she would take the father back if he came back.
Except he's not concerned that he may come back and push him out of the way, he seems more concerned about whether his status as "new daddy" would be concrete.
I guarantee his status as BB-new daddy would be concrete.
Her ex-AF isn't going to come back for the kid... but he will come back to give her you another kid.
[–]DarkSayed 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
You are far, far too emotionally immature to date a single mom.
I'll take that over raising someone else's kid.
[–]BlueFreedom420 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
This civilization is going down the toilet, and I don't care anymore.
[–]Snivellious 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
This is incredibly depressing, the commenters just quietly gloss over the fact that a string of questions about how OP is at raising kids aren't quite a perfect match for a "no strings" first date.
At least when video games ask me to raise someone else's kid, I can turn them off.
[–]ClosetAmish 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
There is no way she can claim the baby is his. I'd just plate it up. Am I missing something? Please advise.
[–]Endorsed ContributorRedBigMan 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
If she wasn't able to hook the baby daddy, she's not worth keeping around.
[–]QueefBucket 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
He is emotionally immature. She's pregnant. Why the fuck would you go see her AGAIN?
[–]bittr_n_swt 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
that was hard to read ffs white knights are the worst
[–]ktchong 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
This thread has opened a floodgate into that other thread and completely transformed the climate in that thread.
"Release the Kraken!!!"
[–]squidracer 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
I too an to emotionally immature to date a single mum.
That and I just don't want to
[–]occupythekitchen 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
She isnt even a mom he'll literally deal with all the pregnancy bs for none of the gain
[–]joyrider5 comment score below threshold-6 points-5 points-4 points  (5 children)
This is a little beside the point, but ya'll should try fucking a 9 month pregnant girl sometimes it's hot as fuck.
[–]JimmyTheIntern 0 points1 point2 points  (1 child)
Buddy of mine met a 9 month pregnant girl and did exactly that. Baby came out stillborn.
Enjoy that image, you gross bastard.
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    [–]Foochoski -3 points-2 points-1 points  (0 children)
    tl;dr: TRP is a great ideology that has its message lost with illogical, extremist posts like this instead of quality posts that explain/give examples of what TRP truly stands for. This is ruining the community, as you can see by everyone's reply in this thread.
    Did anyone actually read the original thread?
    I believe in the true fundamental ideas about TRP, but extremist posts like these only hurt the community and prevent outsiders from ever joining because the messages are construed into thinking we're just a women and beta hating angry mob.
    Like 80% of the things in this post make me think you should leave this poor woman alone for her and her child's sake. You are far, far too emotionally immature to date a single mom.
    Remember folks, it's always the man (in this case, OP) who is the emotionally immature one. Not once does anyone say that about the girl, despite the fact she willingly was a cumbox for her abusive ex-fiance and still carries his alpha genes inside of her to this day.>
    The consensus wasn't that he was immature for not wanting to date a pregnant woman, the consensus was he was immature for being a weirdo with no game and making things super awkward for her. He knew she was pregnant before going on the date and practically used her to make himself more comfortable talking to women, since he hasn't dated one in over a year. Furthermore, he just pestered her about the pregnancy because he's socially awkward. He asked about what happened to the father and was contemplating bringing up abortion. No wonder why this was his first date in a year, he can only attract women in a "take what they can get" condition.
    What was the actual deal breaker for you: potentially having to raise a child, or all the things that come along with dating a pregnant woman? I agree it would be sort of weird to date her while pregnant, but maybe down the line once she has the child and things get a little less crazy it might have been worth it to keep that door open. If you met her when, say, she had a 1 year old child, would this have been a different scenario for you?
    Just white knights being white knights. Trying to find a loophole, any loophole, to encourage OP to become this woman's open wallet. "Well what if she does the pregnancy on her own? Can you please come back to her after that and help the child? Please?"
    Your point would be spot-on if he was blindsided by the pregnancy and was given shit for it, but he went into the date specifically knowing she was already pregnant. Furthermore, OP replies to this comment stating he's OKAY with dating women with children. Additionally, the comment wasn't aggressive, the commenter seemed to just be curious.
    I think you're getting ahead of yourself in a mind-numbing way by imagining yourself as a stepfather after a single lunch. She's fully aware that she's in an awkward spot, but you're making it much weirder. If there's a connection, set a date #2 and go for it. If you can't bear another couple of hours with a pregnant lady, move on. I think that she's trying to date, just like you are, not expecting you to slide in as dad replacement after Panera.
    Of course she's looking for a stepfather figure, you dumbass. She's going to have a baby in a a few months. You don't think she's hoping to rope in a beta provider by then so he can pay for the diapers and formula milk? Honestly I'm surprised at this level of denial. I figured even the bluest of bluepillers would understand that she's trying to assemble a new family.
    Yeah, this was kind of a foolish way for him to start off his idea. There's no doubt the woman was looking for a provider, hence going on dates. But OP was more weirded out by the fact of taking care of a baby i.e. changing diapers. Again, he knew she was pregnant and is okay dating women with kids. If he was so unwilling to raise the kid, why did he go on the date in the first place?
    Maybe you were in a bad mood but your post makes you seem like a massive dick and a giant douche. I think it is just your mood because you're scared shitless of a potential future. You want love, you eventually want a family. And she's into you. But she's pregnant and you'd have to be an instant dad in 4 months. Is that why you are coming off so insensitive in your post?
    Classic male shaming tactic. Call the OP immature and "scared of a potential future". I swear there isn't a day going by when some feminist doesn't whine about how men refuse to be men anymore, that guys are still stuck in their college phase, that they only care about video games and working out, etc.
    I'm just beating a dead horse at this point, but to sum up what happened: he went on a date with a girl that he knew was pregnant and acted socially awkward/beta, essentially using her to make himself more comfortable because he hadn't dated anyone in over a year (no kidding).
    When he decided to stop acting like an immature twat and messaged her politely that he wasn't interest,
    UPDATE Sent her this: "Hey <name>. I had a really great time at lunch. I just think we're at different points in our lives and I don't think a relationship would work out between us right now. Best of luck with everything."
    guess what? He wasn't ousted, he was praised for handling the situation with some maturity, further proving that the attacks on him weren't because he didn't want to date a pregnant woman, but because he acted beta and didn't know how to properly handle the situation.
    Please do not ruin the good word of TRP will illogical rubbish. You're almost as bad the bluepillers/betas/extreme feminist.
    [–]r1chten -1 points0 points1 point  (0 children)
    the guy brought it upon himself, he should have cancelled/declined upon learning she was pregnant.
    [–]RationalKing -1 points0 points1 point  (0 children)
    Even if someone gave him useful advice he wouldn't see it because of the down votes.
    [–]Fen94 -1 points0 points1 point  (0 children)
    TIL that someone saying you're not emotionally mature enough to raise someone else's kid is an UNFORGIVABLE SHAMING TACTIC. is it really redpill to care what people think of you? I'm asking this seriously.
    [–]TheBumpAndRub -1 points0 points1 point  (0 children)
    You take this little pregnant slit back and pump a load in her. Cut off contact and move the fuck on. OP's a little bitch himself, consulting a bunch of internet people to decide his dating life for him. Give me a fucking break.
    [–]bloodfoxtrue -1 points0 points1 point  (0 children)
    Unless the lady really has something going for her, I'd rather not pay to spread some other guy's genes.
    [–]Spreadumm -1 points0 points1 point  (0 children)
    Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha, no. Slut.
    [–]anonymousapple111 -1 points0 points1 point  (0 children)
    Women can only shame men who give a fuck about what they think.Have you own set of principles and adhere to them. Also,most people on that subreddit are life's losers.
    [–]TRPBackpacker -1 points0 points1 point  (0 children)
    All idiots.
    Pregnant woman cannot get impregnated by you. She has at least 1 more month left before the belly gets in the way of sex. Act the part of the beta provider, fuck and dump.
    [–]1Goomich 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
    Someone should just send him that story about guy who was beta wallet, cared for the spawn etc. When she was getting married, they never invited any one who BW suggested, and when during some preparations, she was excited about her real dad escorting her to the altair, BW finally broken and told everyone to GTFO.
    I don't have link for that, but it's good story.
    [–]malariasucks -2 points-1 points0 points  (0 children)
    think about the types of people that would actually go to an OKcupid thread. no surprise here.
    [–]Shortonoil 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
    I will admit that the fact he made this post shows how petulant the guy really is. I mean if I was deceived sure I would be angry but I would simply walk away and get on with my life. It's silly to write 1,250 words (I put it in a word document to see how many words) about a bad date where you got catfished. The only person who looks like an idiot is you.
    She explained that she was in a long-term relationship and went through her (then) boyfriend's Facebook messages and found he was sending sexy shit to some 'trashy girl.' He left her for 'trashy girl,' and now lives in a town about 30 min away from us.
    Buddy, if she has kids and isn't married(assuming not a widow), 99% of the time she is trashy herself. I guarantee it.
    I don't know if she would take the father back if he came back.
    Hah! He will always be there, whether he is physically there or not is irrelevant.
    You are far, far too emotionally immature to date a single mom.
    Charge of Puerility (Code Green) – The Peter Pan Charge (https://exposingfeminism.wordpress.com/shaming-tactics/)
    Classic, "You're so immature."
    [–]bl33dingr3d 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
    How has it become socially acceptable to shame a man for not wanting to raise another man's child? This shit depresses me so much.
    [–]throwawaydefriended 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
    Commenters tell him to man up
    pack of vultures
    I only see one person (yes, a dude) in that thread taking that stance, that being the one you quoted. The people calling him out on it are upvoted way more and that guy even has comments below the threshold.
    It seems like the 'pack of vultures' are on this one guy, not OP.
    Sure there are in fact other people saying that, as obvious satire. As far as I can see, he was the only serious one in that thread.
    That sub has its faults and a share of manginas, I won't deny that, but at least don't be misleading in the topic title and slam an instance where people are actually mostly showing common sense.
    [–]progwhat -2 points-1 points0 points  (0 children)
    The only emotionally immature people mentioned are the commenters in the original post, and the guy who knocked her up.
    [–]wayoftheright -2 points-1 points0 points  (0 children)
    Well at least I've come across a good one so far on okcupid. Possibly relationship material but I don't have a clue if she could be an F WORD. Im still digging on that one.
    [–]royal_fucktard -2 points-1 points0 points  (0 children)
    So what would happen if the script was flipped? Woman is turned off when man shes dating reveals infant child. YOU SHOULD SUE HIM FOR RAPING YOUR TIME LIKE THAT.
    [–]dirtyhotthrowaway -4 points-3 points-2 points  (0 children)
    I'm gonna get down-voted, but this post is just a circle-jerk. OP was pretty immature; if his standards are above dating a preggo then don't date a preggo. He wasted so much energy shitting on her, and then at the end says he likes her. Gtfo and stop wasting both parties time.
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