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[–]kinggluejar -33 points-32 points-31 points  (19 children)
The lack of perspective in this subreddit sometimes is puzzling. It's basically feminism with the genders reversed. Currently, 90% of the people that voted for this post voted positively. Seriously, read the damned story. The woman was making the best of a shitty situation. The only thing you could maybe say she's doing wrong is looking for a provider but at least she's not hiding it.
Her boyfriend cheats on her then leaves her for another woman. She's knocked up. It could be her biological clock, religious beliefs, yada yada. The bottom line is she decides she wants the baby and she doesn't ask for child support or anything. She goes to OKC, she's completely up front, and the OP agreed to go out on a date with her.
Oh shit she' 5 minutes late that bitch is wasting the OP's time. Well believe it or not, he's wasting her time too. He made his mind up before the date even began that nothing would happen and He didn't let her know that. She probably brings her friend to their date to make sure he's not a serial killer.
Those women on that thread are mad because they can see where that woman is coming from. The OP didn't handle shit correctly. He wasn't upfront and he was ruled by his emotions. In the end, they still praise him and let him save face for breaking up with her properly.
[–]snusaholic 39 points40 points41 points  (3 children)
I'd argue the post is mostly about the way the blue pill world shames men into towing the line. The man is a fucking retard, and I really don't see many guys bro-knighting here. The girl is also a retard for letting Chad knock her up and then going on okc, looking for a beta bucks to save her from her mistake.
Most of the analysis seems directed at pointing out how blue pill the guy is (bp isn't just about being shit on by the system, it also includes the frustration and desperate behavior surrounding the opposite sex that leads to scenarios like this). TRP is usually pretty good at calling out the blue pill faggots as much as pointing out shitty feminine behavior. Ultimately, some of the anger phase guys will sympathize with bp men and demonize average women, but this is all part and parcel with taking the Red Pill.
I personally see the value in this post for the way it highlights the bp worlds male shaming and the bp man's struggle with trying to balance his bp allegiance, need for validation, and his raw male instincts screaming at him to run. The woman, is behaving as you might expect a woman to behave, she's the neutral party here; it's the bp man's struggle and the retarded double standard bp commenters that provides the most information.
[–]1Overkillengine 26 points27 points28 points  (1 child)
The girl is also a retard for letting Chad knock her up and then going on okc, looking for a beta bucks to save her from her mistake.
This. This right fucking here. It's funny how shitlord bigots like us can bother to understand the female need for a provider to help raise her children, but so many in the feminist camps can't be arsed to understand the male need to raise children that are genetically his.
[–]MuzakNinja 2 points3 points4 points  (0 children)
but so many in the feminist camps can't be arsed to understand the male need to raise children that are genetically his.
Of course they do. Why do you think they're advocates of child-support? Extra insurance in case they fuck up.
[–]redestofthereds 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
Beautiful analysis of the post, man.
[–]Senior Contributortrudatness 18 points19 points20 points  (0 children)
4 months pregnant - it's not like she's going on a date to have a few cocktails and maybe get busy if she likes the guy.
She's facing a harsh reality, being a single mom - being a single parent in general. You think it's any easier for single dads? And while nobody doubts the difficulty of such a situation, there seems to be a disconnect about how women get themselves into these situations and also what they do once they find themselves in them. Of course, best case scenario would be 50-50 split of parenting time and full involvement of the father in the child's life, having her work and support herself like an autonomous adult - and always act in the child's best interest - but that's not the plan.
Will the baby daddy sign over parenting rights? Who knows? We already know she's planning on alienating the child from it's father who might be thinking the pregnancy is a ploy or that he's not the father, or she could be flat out lying about WTF is going on - you don't know how this is going to shake out. If it was her fault the relationship imploded do you think she would disclose that in a first date? Sounds like a sad story designed to engender sympathy. For whatever reason she got dumped while pregnant and she's mad. Revenge against real dad is him never knowing his own child.
I bet you the perfect scenario in her head is to get some nice beta to come in and play captain save-a-ho, wife her up and adopt her kid.
Oh if it was only 1972, but its not when it was not too far fetched for such things to happen. Back in 1972, maybe the woman would have stayed with beta savior - but not today - divorce is too easy and too slanted in women's favor. Any man who takes on an instant family is foolishly rolling loaded dice.
Going on OKCupid 4 months pregnant is fucking tacky. It's fishing for a sucker. The type of guy who would respond is likely the kind of guy she ordinarily wouldn't give the time of day if not for her dire situation. This is why we stay clear of single moms. As soon as she gets through this crisis and gets some stability injected into her situation it will be time for a branch swing.
[–]TRP VanguardWhisper 5 points6 points7 points  (0 children)
The woman was making the best of a shitty situation.
I am constantly amused by the lengths people will go to in order to excuse any bad behaviour so long as it is attached to a vagina.
You call it a "shitty situation", as if it were a cancer diagnosis, or some other chance misfortune which fell randomly upon her from a great height.
You say she was "making the best of it", as if she were attending to it herself, rather than seeking strangers to do it for her.
In truth, since the "woman's right to choose" is enshrined by our society as all but holy, and perhaps even that, since the exercise of that right is readily and freely available, and since women's contraceptives are so easily and readily available that it is deemed a "war" upon the female sex itself if an employer declines to pay for them, pregnancy is no longer a misfortune, much less a random one.
It is a choice. She has chosen to be pregnant, has chosen to remain so, and has chosen to seek someone other than the father to shoulder a great portion of the responsibility and trouble of it.
She is free to make these choices, but with freedom to make choices comes responsibility for the consequences thereof.
[–]wrongniggatofuckwit 18 points19 points20 points  (8 children)
Well said, the woman didn't do anything wrong. It's the stupid people that shamed him on the subreddit that are wrong.
[–]Special Olympianmakethemsayayy 6 points7 points8 points  (6 children)
Yes she did. Make sure you have a good fucking father in your kids life.
[–]wrongniggatofuckwit comment score below threshold-13 points-12 points-11 points  (5 children)
Sometimes there are circumstances beyond people's control. I can tell you haven't been through much in life because trust me, sometimes fate is fate and there's nothing that can be done.
[–]royal_fucktard 4 points5 points6 points  (0 children)
And if you make a mistake like that, let alone a mistake of that magnitude, the worst thing you can do is go put yourself back out there on OKC so that you can make the same mistake again!
So I agree shit can happen. However, in this case, her circumstance is a product of her own choices it would seem.
All of the replies in the thread are from "nice guys" who deep down would hate to be in that situation but are too cowardice to admit it!
[–]Special Olympianmakethemsayayy 8 points9 points10 points  (0 children)
Nothing is beyond women's control in this society. They can abort whenever they want. They can give it up for adoption. They are supported by society and not expected to do anything. I don't buy that shit.
[–]Retro93 1 point2 points3 points  (0 children)
"Fate" is for people who do not feel in control of their own life. Fuck fate.
[–]snusaholic 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
Wearing protection, using birth control, having an abortion, are all options among many others that this woman could have taken to shield herself from this situation. This isn't a "circumstance beyond her control", this is a genuine fuck up on her part on a magnitude that isn't fully appreciated these days and her child will reap the vast majority of the consequences.
[–]NPK5667 -1 points0 points1 point  (0 children)
Are u saying this bc your black and black men almost never raise their kids?
[–]1RPAlternate42 2 points3 points4 points  (0 children)
The bottom line is she decides she wants the baby and she doesn't ask for child support or anything.
The crux of the beta hunt problem, herein.
Here is the RP slant... the real thoughts going through our head: She is desperate for a real beta bucks... not a government-forced alpha bucks. She could very easily get daddy government to force her alpha-widower to pay, but she doesn't want to inconvenience her alpha because if she makes him pay, he may not come around to get her alpha fucks that the little hamster brain in the back of her head thinks about daily.
Red Flags: 1. Pregnant 2. Refuses to force child support from the bio-dad 3. Dating on OKC while pregnant (either she is deluded in thinking she can find AF OR she is just looking for BB)
[–]So_Many_546283173817 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
Absolutely no one is praising him. I gave you an upvote because, to be honest, that guy didn't really handle himself well at all. However, I don't see any wrong-doing by either one of them because that entire situation is just straight-fucked. I can't imagine what kind of person it takes to start dating a clearly pregnant woman with someone else's kid. Made me feel uncomfortable just reading it.
[–]MuzakNinja -3 points-2 points-1 points  (1 child)
The fact that your post makes valid points and still gets down-voted to hell speaks volumes. I love what this sub stands for, but it really is overrun by sexually immature betas with something to prove. If it doesn't fit the narrative they've been indoctrinated with, they lash out the only way they can. Little different from feminists in that regard.
[–]Hackey23 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
Usually I'm the sort of guy who makes a comment like this to a post that states it objectively you know what? It gets upvoted. However this post was just a crap post that completely missed the context. Sadly enough you missed it too. The context is actually he comments on OKC not how the dude handled the date. It's about how beta society is that they are ready to shame a man for the simple reason that he refuses to raise some other f uck wits child and would much rather his own children if he goes down that path. If you can't see the insanity in those comments maybe read them again and focus less on the date itself
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