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abicus4343 が 投稿

45 yr old woman. sorry they are so blurry, they are way clearer on my phone, too big on reddit.

http://i.imgur.com/xBrnhuo, http://i.imgur.com/a/BlKUk, http://imgur.com/0xn0o2z

Heres for the haters, im posting the same face pic as before without the super controversial "warm filter" you are all so worked up over. Here is the original photo with no editing whatsoever. If it comes out blurry again there is nothing i can do about that, its stretched out on reddit, the small size is way clearer but i can't change that:

http://imgur.com/D0OYVAP. Judge away.

Now ill go one step further. This photo is as real as it gets. No make up, just out of the shower, hair still kind of wet and im hung over. Its as bad as it gets. I dont know if this is more "real" or not because i dont go out looking like this ever so people wouldn't see me this way. Anyway, im putting myself out there to be judged so its only fair i share the "real" me also. Rip me apart if you like, i can take it.

http://imgur.com/8X0xukq

Im sure ill lose all my fans now.

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[–]Getbusyizzy 41ポイント42ポイント  (2子コメント)

Two hours in and no one suggested r/gonewild?!

[–]johnny121b 3ポイント4ポイント  (14子コメント)

You definitely feel you have a sexual advantage. Good luck with that.

[–]abicus4343[S] -3ポイント-2ポイント  (13子コメント)

I never once said me. You really are determined to discredit me for whatever reasons you may have, thing is it wont change anything for me in the end.

And it is a fact of life that i will have a sexual advantage over some people as well as some people will have one over me. Who cares, thats life like it or not. Some people have more advantages and others dont like that, that will never change either so may as well make peace with it.

[–]johnny121b 4ポイント5ポイント  (7子コメント)

determined to discredit me for whatever reasons you may have

My only problem with you: is this princess-complex you seem to have, coupled with your attitude that a man must be weak or deficient in some way if being graced with your smile isn't enough to cause him to lose his senses, tempered with what appears to be complete oblivion to the fact that neither you nor your audience are teenagers any longer.

Want to come on here and have your ego stroked? Fine. You'll have no trouble finding guys willing to compliment your appearance.

Want to condemn guys in-general, labeling us as weak or feminine? That says more about you, than the males of today.

thing is it wont change anything for me in the end.

Of this, I have no doubt.

[–]hawaiianko 4ポイント5ポイント  (4子コメント)

wow you're a real bitch. No wonder why you're on reddit looking for attention at 45 years old. Nobody wants a shitty attitude like yours

[–]abicus4343[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (3子コメント)

If you were to read back over all the comments from that guy on my thread you would see that i am just trying to defend myself a bit here. For some reason the fact that i made a lingerie post on amisexy has really pissed a few guys off.

[–]hawaiianko 0ポイント1ポイント  (2子コメント)

It's not that, lingerie posts are fine because we see them all the time. It's that fact that you feel like you're above all of the guys on here and that you think you're better than them.

[–]abicus4343[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Thats not true at all. Ive never said i was above anyone here, nor do i feel that way. If anything the guy that was attacking me said the guys on Reddit are all desperate and sad. I defended them. Im not sure where this is all coming from but if you are angry at me for something at least make it something im actually guilty of doing. I just said i wished men would step up and approach me and that im attracted to masculine dominant men, that started a fire storm. I think i should be allowed to be attracted to what im attracted to without being attacked for it.

[–]abicus4343[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

And yes i was directly attacked specifically for posting lingerie posts, maybe read all the posts first and then you will see where im coming from. If you care to, im not trying to change how you feel, not everyone is going to agree with me thats for sure.

[–]skidhs 18ポイント19ポイント  (1子コメント)

Damn ... 19 year old here and definitely yes ... milf

[–]Sydney21212 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

Nice body especially for your age. Not a fan of your face though, looks extremely fake. I don't know if that is due to makeup or plastic surgery but neither way aim for a more natural look. I rate your body 9/10 if you are actually 45. I rate your face 4/10. Averaged out I guess your a 6.5/10.

[–]Thumper_Good 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'd like to see some shots with better lighting. You've got a good body, for sure. The face pics, as you mentioned, are blurry/soft. Try taking some with better light, or outside.

[–]Space_Cadet_1983 2ポイント3ポイント  (2子コメント)

based off your face yes, based off the fact that the picture is only of your face... I'm not so sure.

[–]abicus4343[S] 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

There are more links....

[–]Space_Cadet_1983 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

whoops.

yeah, you're pretty sexy

[–]Over21FakeID 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

You're a little fake looking

[–]johnny121b 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

Only if they have a strong sense of entitlement.

[–]abicus4343[S] -3ポイント-2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Not sure what that has to do with the discussion, we are not talking about people with a sense of entitlement, we are talking about men and women with high levels of sex hormones, which makes them sexier. Whether or not they have a sense of entitlement is of no consequence, thats a different issue all together. I feel you have just decided that anyone with a sexual advantage over others must have some kind of negative trait. Many probably do but many do not. Its not relevant.

[–]elasticelle 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

Wish I had your body, and i'm 19! xx

[–]abicus4343[S] -4ポイント-3ポイント  (0子コメント)

Thanks babe! Its always nice to get a compliment from another woman :) you are 19, that means you're stunning no matter what, enjoy it!

[–]thisismySFWprofile 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

this fellow 40+ thinks you're outstanding, good for you ;)

[–]xerofailgames 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

Last pic is the best..we can see YOU for all ur natural beauty....

[–]abicus4343[S] -3ポイント-2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Hmm, ok then, thank you, but hard to believe....i wouldnt go out like that.

[–]LarryLove 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

You look good, keep doing what you're doing. 7/10

[–]azguy29 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

amazing 8

[–]ForrestSmith151 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

no way your 45, you look lime you could be in college. if i saw you in a cafe id definitely hit on you and im way too young for ya. 9/10

[–]matteoyoung 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I hope you're real lol. You're too sexy

[–]s4secretsgg 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

I'm not going to judge your character, because you're getting attacked from many sides, so it's no wonder you're getting defensive.

So purely on the physical side, speaking as a 27 year old guy, I want to do dirty, dirty things with you. I'm sitting behind my desk at work and it's probably best to not get up for a while. It's just perfection all around. I am just hoping you're in Amsterdam and I run into you, because reading your comments, I know I wouldn't hesitate a second to go up to you and introduce myself.

[–]abicus4343[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Lol! Thank you! I didnt realize amisexy was the moral police station, thought it was just for tna....im obv pretty polarizing. Im happy you are actually enjoying my pictures, that was the point....

[–]_dontbanmepls 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Wow yes.

[–]otownblue 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

nice

[–]mmmilflover 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Holy shit, you're gorgeous!

[–]Jedeyesniv 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Hell yeah you'd get it :)

[–]mapscat 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Very sexy. 9/10.

[–]Inferno_v3 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Very much sexy.

[–]keepgettinbetter 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

You are ultra sexy, this is a no doubter. Beautiful face, great looking lips and mouth. And of course the all fours pic is a true hard on generator. Thanks for asking the question...

[–]misfitfunboy -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

Sexy? Of that there is no doubt :)

[–]alastarx -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

Oh my god, yes!

[–]pervyguy18 -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

even being blurry didn't ruin the photos

[–]Hastilygrim -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

Damn, you are amazing.

[–]lonchaneyforbatman -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

Wow, you look incredible.

[–]Armyaces2505 -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

OMG!!!!!! You are stunning!!!!

[–]Mach1_85 -1ポイント0ポイント  (26子コメント)

The third photo is your sexiest!!!!

In what way's should a guy approach you? Or do you want to catch more guys check you out?

[–]abicus4343[S] -2ポイント-1ポイント  (25子コメント)

If guys just made the first move at all id be impressed these days. Men are feminized now though, those days are done.

[–]ImFromTheSouth 3ポイント4ポイント  (8子コメント)

If guys just made the first move

Why should we have to? If you're interested in a guy, why can't you make the first move?

[–]abicus4343[S] -3ポイント-2ポイント  (7子コメント)

Because its a turn off to me, and if im turned off from the first second how would it ever work. A huge part of my attraction to a man is his masculinity and dominant nature, those are the first things that get me. If i have to make the first move those things are gone for me right from the start, then there is no sexual tension or attraction. Polarity gets me, feminine/masculine, dominant/submissive, aggressive/receptive, otherwise the energy is dead, instant freindzone. If i make a move it would be subtle, nothing more than eye contact, maybe a slight smile, a tilt of the head. If a man doesn't pick that up and make a move its dead in the water. It is what it is. You can't help what you are sexually attracted to. Its like trying to tell a man to be attracted to an overweight woman because its 'whats inside that counts' regardless of the fact that he normally gets hard for slim fit women, its not going to happen. Same for us, women are generally attracted to strong masculine men, especially beautiful feminine women, thats how nature made it.

[–]ImFromTheSouth 1ポイント2ポイント  (6子コメント)

You're hot. You're just very entitled and judgmental.

[–]abicus4343[S] -4ポイント-3ポイント  (5子コメント)

In what way was i judgemental? You asked me why i wont make the first move, i told you, sorry it wasnt the answer you wanted but it was the truth. Im naturally attracted to what im attracted to, its not a choice. That's not a judgement, its just the reality of life. In your view then is a man being judgemental for his attraction to beautiful women over unattractive women? And is a gay man being judgemental of women for not being attracted to them? But im being judgemental for what im attracted to?

Anyway, no point in defending myself here, people will put me in whatever box they are comfortable with and thats where i will remain. Its not like i asked for the moon, i just asked for a man to take a risk and make the first move. 20 years ago this wasnt even a debate, men just naturally enjoyed chasing women, now they want to be passive and sit back while the women chase them, well women will only chase alphas so by that theory the rest of the men will be left out in the cold, that seems a worse fate than risking a little rejection.

[–]ImFromTheSouth 2ポイント3ポイント  (4子コメント)

I called you judgmental based on the rest of your comments in this thread and in your posting history. It wasn't simply based on that one comment to me.

And, on top of being judgmental, you have an uncanny knack to generalize based on your small view of the people around you.

men just naturally enjoyed chasing women, now they want to be passive and sit back while the women chase them, well women will only chase alphas

Talk about putting people in boxes.

[–]abicus4343[S] -4ポイント-3ポイント  (3子コメント)

Ok, well i expect you to feel that way, i won't change your mind here and its just become a circle debate at this point. Generalizations are just observations based on a persons experience, of course there are always exceptions to the rule, we all know that. You calling me judgemental and entitled based only on a few amisexy posts is also very judgemental. So we are both painted with the same brush at this point. Ill let it go now, as a human race we are all judgemental on some level anyway.

[–]ImFromTheSouth 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

Well, good luck to you anyway. I hope you find what you're looking for.

[–]abicus4343[S] -3ポイント-2ポイント  (0子コメント)

I believe i will, because i know exactly what i want. I hope the same for you. Take care.

[–]abicus4343[S] -3ポイント-2ポイント  (0子コメント)

I find it interesting tho that you have personally attacked me as a person here and if you read back i have never said one disparaging thing about you or how you feel so you seem to be taking my world views personally for some reason. They are not meant as an attack on you, they are just my observations and experiences. Im feel as i do and that is ok, one day that may change but it is what it is at this point.

[–]Skatelife31 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Seems I was born two decades too late. I love where your heads at keep on keepin on, oh yeah.. great photos sexy as hell.

[–]Marsh2 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

Would this work for a younger man with you (someone on his 20)? Say, if he approached you confidently on the street.

[–]abicus4343[S] -2ポイント-1ポイント  (0子コメント)

No but thats because im not interested in men in their 20s, i would be flattered and respectful, but nothing would work as far as picking me up.

[–]Mach1_85 0ポイント1ポイント  (12子コメント)

It's sad on both sides

You are gorgeously sexy Do you ever wear a ring on your wedding finger by any chance?

I'd like to be able to approach a woman in public to give her a compliment but there are so many ways I feel my genuine compliment will come off poorly to her.

[–]abicus4343[S] -3ポイント-2ポイント  (11子コメント)

I dont have to wear a ring, men never approach me, i catch them looking when they think i dont notice but thats it. Only drunk guys and assholes talk to me, and thats even rare, i may as well be invisible.

I think the whole problem with men now is that they care too much how they will come off, if she will judge or reject him, but strong men shouldnt give a shit either way, strong men need strong egos that dont give a shit what a woman thinks so they just go for what they want. Thats what women find sexy. Men are so afraid of everything now. It never used to be like that.

[–]johnny121b 2ポイント3ポイント  (6子コメント)

Only drunk guys and assholes talk to me

Bingo! Men can feel that attitude. Look at it from our perspective. "Just by talking to her, there's a high probability she's going to presume I'm an asshole" Think you're the first- not-a-chance.

strong egos that dont give a shit what a woman thinks so they just go for what they want.

We've just established- as a guy, I'm (1) automatically burdened with a high probability of being presumed an asshole. (2) guilty even if proven innocent in any confrontation involving a female.

Men are so afraid of everything now.

You know what men are afraid of? Afraid of a society and a legal system where a woman's word can send you to jail without evidence. But that's a bigger issue, and I suspect, not why you're not being approached.

It's easy to lay everything on OUR shoulders. We're weak. We're afraid. We're timid. That's nonsense!! Stop waiting for US. Say "Hi" Let us know you're approachable, and we'll take the reins. Goodness know, we don't need a lot of encouragement, but we DO need less hostility.

[–]Mach1_85 -1ポイント0ポイント  (3子コメント)

You're right, it's not like I'd go up to every woman and try to pick up. Only every now and then I see that woman who I find for whatever reason absolutely stunning in her own stylish way. I just don't want her to think I another one of those assholes chatting her up.

It's seems we're all doomed

[–]abicus4343[S] -1ポイント0ポイント  (2子コメント)

We are if it doesnt change. Who cares if she thinks your an asshole for chatting her up?! Then she is obv just a bitch, walk away and dont give her a second thought but id be willing to bet if a guy talks to a woman more than likely she will be flattered. I just dont understand why men became so afraid of women in just 20yrs, one generation and its all dif now.

[–]DieFledermouse 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

I just dont understand why men became so afraid of women in just 20yrs

It's a cultural shift due to most women making it clear they don't want random dudes hitting on them. Most men are nice and don't want to annoy women. Now, most men meet women through friends, activities or online. It's no surprise that most of the men who hit on you are assholes. Those are the only guys who persist in hitting on strangers. Dating has changed since you were 20. Hop on match.com and you'll get hundreds of msgs from dudes.

[–]abicus4343[S] -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

Hmm, yes, you are right, but id love random men to hit on me, it used to be so fun in the 80s! The girls that say they dont are just trying to brag to their friends "omg!! This total creeper hit on me! Ewwwww!! I just cant leave the house without getting harassed everywhere i go! Poor me! Im just so hot its such a burden!" its the only way for young girls to brag about being hot without looking conceited so they pretend to complain but they really love it.

[–]33thirtythree -1ポイント0ポイント  (1子コメント)

So uh....no one uh, questioning the legitimacy here? Wow.

[–]abicus4343[S] -3ポイント-2ポイント  (0子コメント)

What does that mean?

[–]Ramrod86 -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yes. I wouldn't throw you out of bed.

[–]darrelltaylor -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

Stunning! More please sexy.

[–]only1mrfstr -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

As a guy who is a month into his 40's.... you're proving to me 40's ain't so bad!!!!

[–]LORDOFTHEFATCHICKS -2ポイント-1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Sexy at any age.

[–]ummX6 -2ポイント-1ポイント  (0子コメント)

The comment I'd like to make is not appropriate here, so MILF!

[–]Gundark927 -2ポイント-1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Goodness yes.
Yay for clean living (?) and sunscreen (?)

[–]MufasaJesus -2ポイント-1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Going on 30!

[–]grody10 -2ポイント-1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Totally!

[–]truthnineseven -2ポイント-1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Oh my god yes fucken yes.

[–]scag315 -2ポイント-1ポイント  (0子コメント)

You're a total fox! You know that already. Yes, sexy.

[–]rralus -2ポイント-1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Smoking hot!!

[–]hawaiianko -2ポイント-1ポイント  (0子コメント)

wa not expecting this... milf

[–]tido325 -2ポイント-1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Gorgeous. Fantastic body and sexy face. Looks Iike the whole package to me

[–]swimminguy121 -2ポイント-1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Not sure. We'll need to see more of your body to make the determination.

[–]manchking -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

The offer for the seafood dinner still stands! ;)

[–]abicus4343[S] -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

Thank you sir ☺

[–]horny-lizard -2ポイント-1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Wow. I wish my wife will look like you with 45! Amazing. 11/10.

[–]phi186 -3ポイント-2ポイント  (0子コメント)

ew

/s

ok clearly the /s wasn't obvious enough that i'm kidding, she's fucking gorgeous

[–]bongo1138 -2ポイント-1ポイント  (0子コメント)

My.... My God...

[–]Good_Bruce -2ポイント-1ポイント  (0子コメント)

You're the milf that I dream and live for!

[–]le_wild_troll -2ポイント-1ポイント  (0子コメント)

You look a little bit like Jan from The Office in the last link

[–]gia_was_here -2ポイント-1ポイント  (11子コメント)

Nose job? Still sexy. Good job.

[–]abicus4343[S] 2ポイント3ポイント  (10子コメント)

I find it interesting how younger men today all assume any woman that looks good has to have had surgery. I have not had a nose job or any surgery. I actually used to hate my nose as a kid, i thought it was too small so i would fall asleep pulling on it to make it grow. People here say i look fake, oh well, i am wearing makeup in the second photo but im done with being accused of using botox and having surgery because i havent. So what people think is fake is actually real, but i doubt anyone will believe me anyway so its a waste of time. When i start looking old damn right ill use botox or whatever i can within reason, why the hell not?!?

[–]TatdGreaser 0ポイント1ポイント  (9子コメント)

The availability of porn and Photoshop has destroyed what younger guys think normal women look like.

[–]abicus4343[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (8子コメント)

Yes!!! Porn has ruined men on so many levels, dont get me started on that one!! I am part of the last generation that knew life pre and post internet porn and its not pretty. If i could say one thing to younger men to improve the quality of their lives it would be to never watch internet porn again. Porn has killed men socially and sexually, they don't approach real women anymore, they dont get turned on by real women, they are terrible at sex, they are wasting their sexuality in basements by themselves watching homo erotic images day in and day out. Its the saddest thing. Straight porn has nothing to do with feminine sexuality, its all male centric. Men should be learning about sex with real women, not online. Men used to be romantic, intense, sexual and masculine, not anymore. Now when a man sees a hot woman in real life he just stares at her longingly, does nothing, then just goes home and jerks to porn. Such a waste. Dont get me wrong, women are also fucked up now to in their own way and its bad on both sides but im talking about porn. If i meet anyone again i hope he doesnt watch porn and i hope more and more men wake up and join the nofap or noporn movements. Sorry, bit of a rant there.

[–]TatdGreaser -1ポイント0ポイント  (7子コメント)

I don't know if porn can be blamed for guys not approaching women in public. Speaking for myself, I just assume women I see in public are taken and/or don't want to be hit on in public. Maybe that's my own issues, maybe it's society, I don't know. Probably a combination.

I believe that women should also be more forward in going after men. Times are a changing!

[–]abicus4343[S] 1ポイント2ポイント  (6子コメント)

Times have changed yes, not for the better though. Biology has not changed and wont for a million years or more. I will never be attracted to a man that cannot even risk approaching me, it is what it is.

[–]TatdGreaser 0ポイント1ポイント  (5子コメント)

Nothing wrong with liking what you like.

[–]abicus4343[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (4子コメント)

Exactly. Just hard to find these days, that's the sad thing.

[–]Thejacobplumb -3ポイント-2ポイント  (0子コメント)

I would NSFW this but yeah you are sexy

[–]folterung -3ポイント-2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Holy crap. If more women looked like you at 45, I'd do more dating in my age bracket.

[–]sr_gawain -3ポイント-2ポイント  (0子コメント)

I think the bra and panty look is sexy. I would like a full body view to enjoy more sexiness. I will make the first move with you.

[–]Fruloopz -5ポイント-4ポイント  (0子コメント)

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