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tour sluts (self.asktrp)

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My wife (26) is a drummer who put together a little girl band. Shitty music, cute, whatever. Not really giving a fuck or thinking twice about it. I never come out to her shows because it aint my thing. Anyway, by the power of pussy pass some old lech at a label has decided that they want to have some vag rock on their roster and gave my wife some kind of licensing deal? I don't know the specs other than my wife thinks she can handle everything and she got another little girl attorney to suss out the logistics for her. That's all fine and good and they can play businesswoman if they like but I'm not ok with my wife traveling on tours. What kind of a married woman wants to do that shit anyway. She's devestated and invited me to come along any time she travels. She's a publicist and her firm aint making this any easier on me because they're thrilled for her and have arranged a schedule where she can work satellite from the road. I've told her if she brings it up one more time she's on the street and I'm keeping the dog and will never let her see it again. This is a total fucking whore, right? What kind of a girl would leave her husband for several weeks a year to be surrounded by guys in bands. Just wanted to get a quorum of opinions because I don't know how this could be considered anything other than an open declaration of hypergamy. Or am I over reacting like my wife would have me believe and she really actually just does this for the love of writing and playing music? Through a redpill lens the latter seems impossible. I think I'm fucked either way. Divorce rape ahead...

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[–]cholomite [スコア非表示]  (3子コメント)

Your wife's band will probably be opening for a more popular band or bands. I don't think she is outright thinking of upgrading and fucking around, but after the first night when the front man for the headlining band, who may have hundreds or thousands of girls screaming to let him fuck them, her intentions may change. Basically, I don't think her intentions are negative or sinister now, she probably just wants validation for her music, but that will change after a shower of panties and bras fall on the stage for the other bands. That much preselection is going to be very hard for her to ignore. So basically yes, you're fucked if she goes. Sorry you're married, I'd say your best bet is to let her do her thing but tell her she's violating your boundries and you will no longer be monogamous while she's gone. Who knows, maybe her band will blow up and you can divorce rape her.

[–]Thizzlebot [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

maybe her band will blow up and you can divorce rape her.

lol that would be a first

[–]Ptrident[S] [スコア非表示]  (1子コメント)

I own my own company and could definitely go on tour with her to oversee, but I'm not into the music and fail to see why I should be put out like that. On top of everything else her histrionics (because of my rules) are making me despise her. There needs to be consequences for this kind of behavior. It's like, stop with the fucking crocodile sobbing and wipe the goddamn snot off your face. She called me again today blithering about how she still has the receipt for the dog and that she paid with her credit card. She took the dog to her parents house. Little girl wants to play hardball. This is going to be a nightmare for her. I won't play fair. She better wise up real fast.

[–]cholomite [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

You sound way too butthurt and childish about this dog thing. Remember, your wife is essentially a teenager in an adults body. I think telling her she'll never see the dog again was a bad move. You're falling into her frame when you sink that low. You should definitely not go on tour to keep an eye on her, that will just make you look weak. Instead of making threats and creating some nightmare scenario for her, you should play it cool. Tell her if she goes she'll be violating a boundry and it's unacceptable and any agreements you may have regarding your relationship are null and void. Say it calm and with a smile. I know it's a shit situation, but you need to be the man here and just lay it down straight. No anger or bitterness about it. Remember, abundance mentality. If she leaves you'll have her replaced within a week. Stop with the passive aggressive threatening shit. That's what women do.

[–]WillMarshall69 [スコア非表示]  (4子コメント)

Women don't have innate interests like men. So no, she doesn't play music without ulterior motives like trying to impress men above her SMV. You have every right to lay down the law. You drew a line in the sand and you have to uphold it or else she will never respect you. The dog thing is pretty cruel though but you have to follow through. She shouldn't be going on tours as a married woman. It's only going to make you look like a giant cuck whether or not she fucks around.

[–]watch_ping [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

This. You drew a line and you had better stick to it or your marriage is over anyways because she'll never respect you again.

[–]ShounenEgo [スコア非表示]  (2子コメント)

They always do it for the social acceptance. Even if they are going for a PhD they don't do it for the sex of it, they do it so they can walk around bragging how they have a PhD and implicitly demand respect and admiration, whereas a man does it for his passion.

[–]WillMarshall69 [スコア非表示]  (1子コメント)

How weird and empty that's got to be. They really don't have any drive or motivation to learn for the sake of learning. It's like they're quasi human. It definitely makes it easier to contemplate restrictions on their rights and opportunities.

[–]ShounenEgo [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

I knew a PhD holder girl who kept feeling depressed. I asked her once out of curiosity for the reasons and she told me that she feels bad that there are girls out there with boyfriends who do much less work than her and they are happy with their lives.

Good luck explaining to her that the other girls are also envious and insecure about some other girls and the whole thing is a shit show that could end in the moment a single girl would stop giving a fuck about social value.

But that's impossible, as I know now.

[–]WillMarshall69 [スコア非表示]  (4子コメント)

You could also threaten to talk to the press and let everyone know how she broke up your marriage if she goes on tour. The interwebs will brigade the fuck out of her band and ruin the entire band's career. Let her band-mates know you're going to do this if they don't kick her out. Problem solved. They will drop her ass so fast her head will spin. This is your solution right here.

[–]Ptrident[S] [スコア非表示]  (3子コメント)

That's the money shot right there. Make her band do the dirty work. I don't see how they could proceed with a member who would be such a liability. Thanks this is genius!

[–]MMABouncer [スコア非表示]  (2子コメント)

You'll still have to leave her, though. Since you've said you will.

[–]Ptrident[S] [スコア非表示]  (1子コメント)

I'm going to leave and destroy her place in the band. This no female accountability thing stops with us.

[–]pandapplexo [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

Where is the absence of accountability? Sounds like your wife invested due diligence and achieved something cool. Is it really a superior game plan to ruin a goal she's worked toward versus compromising and traveling with her a couple weeks a year. What a little piece of shit you are. Threatening her dog? Blackmailing her friends? Where's your accountability?