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I don’t say “boom” because I don’t want to diminish fireworks

Posted by Bradley Metlin on in Columnist, Opinion | 6,148 Views | 17 Responses
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“Breaking Brad”
On Homecoming, I was walking out of the UCC and heard a series of loud noises. They scared the shit out of me until I noticed the sky light up in a brilliant red.
This series of spontaneous explosions in the sky reminded me of an anonymous letter to the editor I had received a few weeks ago — we have a policy of not publishing anonymous letters.
The letter described that the fireworks displayed during Orientation Week took place on the anniversary of the Sept. 11 terrorist attacks. As such — and also because of the loud noises that resemble gunshots — there ought to have been a trigger warning before they were deployed.
My initial reaction was probably similar to yours: really? Fireworks! Can we do anything now without a complaint? Even orientation planning committee co-chair Taryn Scripnick said the fireworks were meant to be positive.
“It was never our intention to create that kind of atmosphere to anyone who was exposed to any of these [events or circumstances]. It was honestly just a great way to end one of our keystone events,” she said in an interview Thursday.12045477_763815970408396_4850949545572617748_o
This fireworks complaint speaks to the increasingly over-sensitive orientation program that Western seems to be embracing — one which banned bandanas because they could be triggering to people from war-torn countries. It’s a program that has made O-Week increasingly concerned with micro-aggresions and trigger warnings. In most settings, Scripnick should shrug off and dismiss the complaints as overzealous complainers.
Instead, the orientation program just launched a brand-new campaign featuring sophs with the words “I don’t say…” followed by something deemed to be offensive. The campaign says these words are triggers and should never be used in a safe or inclusive environment.
Dubbed “Western’s Orientation Language Awareness Campaign,” it is horrifically misguided. Once again, it encourages a culture of silence rather than one of conversation and debate.
You shouldn’t be saying things such as: “ginger,” “bossy,” “depressing,” “skinny” and a host of other things, according to the leaders of our orientation program.
At Western and other university campuses we seem to be unaware that there are some things that are legitimately hateful and offensive while others are simply rude. There is a very important difference between a genuine trigger and something that just annoys you.
If someone said to me, “Who wears the pants?” in reference to my same-sex relationship, I would roll my eyes and continue with my day. It would not and should not trigger or destabilize me.
As Hermione says in Harry Potter and the Chambers of Secrets, “fear of a name only increases fear of the thing itself.” We should be fearful of hateful people but in a campaign that writes out “fag,” “retarded” and “slut” — why say “the n-word?” If it’s an awareness campaign, why be afraid of writing “nigger”?
12045743_763814647075195_252811128418755101_oMost of the words in the campaign should not be eliminated in the name of a “welcoming” environment. This orientation program initiative is merely an attempt for many people to jump on the progressive opinions bandwagon.
We now live an environment where bandanas and a host of other things can be banned because a handful of students complained about them — at least that’s what we were told just over a month ago.
“The bandana [ban] came from a member of OPC who works for Western International,” Scripnick said, implying that OPC never heard directly from students. Now, the very idea that one student complaint is enough to change an entire program seems like a mere charade.
While the fireworks scared me for a minute, they are not — just like the majority of words that are part of this new campaign — offensive. If words and phrases like “no homo,” “I slaved away” or “ratchet” trigger you then clearly we are not teaching people proper coping mechanisms.
To be clear, genuine triggers should be treated with the utmost respect and if someone asks you to not say something around them, follow through. However, this culture of hyper-sensitivity is something that people quite frankly need to get over. Although that is apparently offensive to say, too… oh well.
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        • Bob 20 hours ago
          This is the greatest op-ed piece I've read in a long time. Seriously, you've written some real shite in the past but this perfectly skewers campus PC culture and it's many, many cultural, moral and ethical wrongs. I appreciate your bravery to continue writing despite your many detractors. You got balls bro. Cheers!
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              gh a day ago
              Great article, thank you for putting this out there. There are a lot of people who are going to pick apart the things you said and take it out of context but I can agree that yeah, a lot of things do need to be taken with sensitivity, but the same people that are pushing being PC and a social justice warrior, are also the ones attacking and creating a greater divide with their "I'm so much better than you because I'm more sensitive" attitude. There is such a thing as moderation, we have to accept both and not some communistic dystopia...
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                  kkk 19 hours ago
                  Honestly, I don't understand how the campaign breeds silence. It does not in any way, shape, or form, say that if this word is ever spoken, you will be outcasted. It is simply showing that different people are offended by different terms and you should be cautious of what you say. It is basically a school-wide "Words That Hurt" campaign. Plus, Bradley says himself that the campaign should promote debate and discussion, but instead it encourages silence. Is this article not a debate, or a very discussion of the issue itself? The whole thing is hypocritical and frankly refuses to touch on the other side of the topic. Plus, no where does OPC say that these words are "triggers" (although there is a caption that says Trigger Warning). It is simply an awareness campaign. I get that Sophs are all upset about the OPC bans but this is bigger than having a part of your uniform banned. I'm a soph who wasn't affected by the ban so frankly I don't care -- but I do see where the frustration comes from. But, this campaign is trying to abolish stereotypes, racism and classism from our campus. Yes, some words from the campaign are not necessarily trigger-inducing (i.e. calling somebody a ginger because their hair is.... well, ginger), and some should not be taken so seriously; however, it is not Bradley's place as an author to say what people can and cannot find offensive. We do live in a hyper-sensitive society, I totally agree, but you don't know where somebody is coming from. As the author is a white male, I don't see how he could possibly delegitimize some of the statements from this campaign. You can't say that people saying"slaving away" isn't offensive -- you are not a part of the culture that has been marginalized since the era of slavery. You don't know what they find offensive, and it is not your place to say it. I personally don't find it offensive, but I'm not going to tell somebody if they shouldn't either. Not to mention -- we need better "coping mechanisms"? I know that you are always going to run into assholes, and we should learn how to face confrontation and be strong, but how about we breed more common sense and breed kindness rather than making sure people can just "cope"? IMO, this article is just down right offensive and extremely ignorant. I appreciate where it is coming from, hyper-sensitivity is an issue, but this was not the right way to go about it.
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                    • carla > kkk 17 hours ago
                      Definitely, thanks for this. I wouldn't have had the energy to say all of what you did, but I feel the same way.
                      "Hyper-sensitivity" feels like a way of delegitimising and devalue someone else's lived experience in order to justify the meager maintenance of catch phrases. As you said, "slaving away" IS pretty insensitive, much like saying that one is "starving." People were and are enslaved, one man's privileged history doesn't eradicate another one's historical subjugation.
                      As you said, definitely, there are some things that it's difficult to relate to (a la ginger), but I'm much more comfortable potentially being "hyper-sensitive" and avoiding language that someone else finds offensive outside of my range of experience, than arrogantly demanding that the offended deal with their sense of offense better. It tastes a bit like placing onus on the victim to deal with their victimisation better, if you ask me (though this particular narrative does not strictly suggest a victim or victimiser, I think parallels in dialogue exist).
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                        Bad 18 hours ago
                        Sorry that you take issue with being a human sensitive to the situations of those around you.
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                            Lindsay 5 hours ago
                            This is another example of how privileged white males take it upon themselves to decided what's offensive and what's not. Just because you dub the term inoffensive does not mean that it has no hurtful meaning to someone else. You don't know what individuals are dealing with on a daily basis and you don't know what they have experienced in the past. Avoiding trigger words should not be viewed in a negative way. It's not hyper sensitivity, it's just being a good person. We shouldn't be fighting to use these terms and telling others to just "roll their eyes and go on with their day". You're fighting for the right to hurt others and suggesting that they just suck it up and learn to deal with it. How is that fair? Is it really that difficult to stop saying these words?
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                                oly 20 hours ago
                                Wow. Gazette, you need to hold your writers accountable for spewing ignorance of this breed. Disgusting.
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                                • CEE 8 hours ago
                                  Could not agree more, we are breeding a generation of over sensitive people. Even in daycares and kindergarten now, teachers are avoiding telling children "no" and encouraging an environment where "everyone wins" rather than teaching children that you can lose a game, and it is OK. People should not be crumbling at the slightest attack. No, it is not right to use inappropriate and offensive language, but guess what? It happens. People say things they don't mean or yes, sometimes people want to hurt others. Learn to be stronger, know that you are more valuable than what someone else decides to say. Grow into a stronger community rather than one which falls at the lightest touch.
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                                      PC Principle a day ago
                                      If you think that people react hyper sensitively when you say or write the n-word, then you sir are a(n) [insert insult here].
                                      - a progressive comment made by yours truly, PC Principle.
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                                        Microagressed 17 hours ago
                                        During the Microagressions campaign last year, the AUTHOR OF THIS ARTICLE contributed a sign that said "so like... who pays when you go on a date?" Clearly he is not so concerned about this supposed "culture of hypersensitivity" when it pertains to issues that impact him personally.
                                        That being said, certain students had the bravery to come forward to challenge the USC on barriers to their participation in student life. They spoke on behalf of countless others who did not come forward, and who would have shared the same views. You have no right to adjudicate on their behalf what is a "legitimate" or "illegitimate" problem.
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                                          • Grayson Gales > Microagressed 17 hours ago
                                            I don't think that Bradley was saying that how anyone feels is illegitimate but rather that certain discourse is often written off as "You can't say this ever." This is what I believe is the silence that he is referring to, in that people aren't supposed to say it. I really don't think that he meant to discredit anyone's bravery for coming out and speaking up, I think that he is just saying that they are approaching the subject in the wrong way. He wants a discussion about the topics and discourse, rather than an overpowering 'No'.
                                            Because of this logic, his participation in the Microaggressions campaign last year had nothing to do with discourse, but with the way people approach him about certain things. Yes, he said that he just shrugs it off when it happens, but it can build to a point that breaks through annoyance into triggering.
                                            Also, this is an opinion piece and shouldn't be taken as an I agree or disagree thing. It should be a platform for open discussion on the topic at hand, where people can speak their opinions on the matter as well. I don't think in anyway that Bradley was seeking out to be an all knowing source of knowledge, but is just providing his opinion on the topic, which is his job as opinions editor.
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                                              Cameron a day ago
                                              Brad nails it on the head (once again) with this article. People are afraid to read, discuss, consider ANYTHING if there is the slightest chance it could offend someone. In 2015 it seems that people look for reasons to get offended in situations where neither the intention nor the language used were actually offensive, but the "offendee" already has it ingrained in their head that the other person is "out to get them" when it's anything but.
                                              People reaching university age shouldn't be coddled from certain points of view. Even if it's something you disagree with or don't want to hear, isn't it worth hearing to encourage debate and discussion like we will be doing past graduation and for the rest of our lives?
                                              We've all had an argument with someone that will NOT change their mind on the subject, or even consider the opposing point of view. It can be frustrating, but at least you can have a back-and-forth discussion, hear the other party's views, and make an informed decision from there. What THIS super-sensitive 2015 mindset encourages is "I'm too sensitive to what you have to say, so I'll avoid it entirely". What does this encourage other than silencing others out and turning everyone against each other?
                                              As someone that's been called out on what I've said (by people that didn't know who I am or what I stand for) I am more than willing to change my language if what I've said offended someone. However to have someone get mad at me because I've said "bossy" or "get over" or something that doesn't actually carry any offensive content to it (in either the meaning or delivery of the phrase), we've gone wayyy too far, and need to realize that not everything you hear/see is meant to offend you or your culture. *I'M* offended when you think I'm an intolerant, ignorant person when I'm far from it.
                                              Here's a brilliant article, "The Coddling of the American Mind" that is well worth a read http://www.theatlantic.com/mag...
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                                                  M 2 hours ago
                                                  Comment and discuss the contents of the article. Voice your opinions. But commenting on an anonymous forum to attack the author is not okay. This is an OPINION article. You may agree with it, or you may not. But keep in mind this is someone stating their opinion and everyone is entitled to one.
                                                  With that said, I think the point of the campaign was missed. The campaign does not say "Do not say _____" it says "I do not say___" and then goes on to say why.
                                                  There are certain words that I do not think should be eradicated, but I also think that we should be conscious of the context in which we use them.
                                                  I think that we need to create an environment where we can educate each other instead of putting one another down for the words we use. So if you are someone that does find a word to be offensive or triggering speak up about it. And if you are the person that's using the word, listen. We as a society use a lot of words that are not meant to be offensive or hurtful, but for some, they do come across that way.
                                                  My overall point is that we do need to be sensitive, but we also need to be educational. If you tell someone not to use a certain word because it's offensive, please also explain why that is offensive because someone may not know
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