Everyone, repeat after me:

THE CONSEQUENCES OF GENDER NON CONFORMITY ARE NOT MAGICALLY A MILLION TIMES WORSE WHEN THEY HAPPEN TO MALES. EVEN GENDER NON CONFORMING MALES BENEFIT FROM MALE PRIVILEGE. EVEN GENDER NON CONFORMING MALES HAVE PRIVILEGE OVER FEMALES. GENDER NON CONFORMING WOMEN ARE NOT REWARDED FOR BEING GENDER NON CONFORMING. THIS IS NOT FUCKING DIFFICULT.