Background

I went on a three week business trip to Canada. As an experiment I basically ignored her the entire time. Two facetimes and a handful of texts in total. When I came back, the first night I fucked her, degraded her, and was extremely rough. Gave her so much attention afterwards that she started to not value my attention at all. Even going so far as to start ignoring me and letting me do my own thing. She even turned down going to bed sex, which is extremely unusual for her as late. The next day I just played beta all day long and was actually denied sex later that night. My wife is a very tough nut, it's 100% alpha or nothing to her.

Experiment

The next day I took a half day. We had a series of shopping and errands to do and I let her completely plan it out. My wife is a SAHM. She was very annoyed that I seemed to lack the past 6 months of leadership. All is going according to plan. She even brought up some cash she spent while I was gone and "neglected" to tell me about just to test me. Of course I planned for this and /u/stonepimpletilists told me about a little gem called Red Deer. So I spent some time practicing my game. The town was like fish in a barrel. With my thick Texan outfit, cut body, the women there really didn't stand chance. I took the opportunity to sharpen my game, considerably. Even going so far as women to ask me for my hotel room so they could come up when they were done for the day. Of course, all were denied but one in particular made me doubt my marriage vows.

The next day I went and worked a half day and my wife helped a friend at her store for half a day. She gave me shit all morning and second guess everything. I made sure to fail every shit test. Briffault's law, everytime, I tell you what. You don't get a break in your alpha game. I even went so far to tell her to text me when she left so I could also leave. Giving her the lead. I tried to initiate sex when we got home and was given a flat out hard no. Beta's get no sex. They provide bucks. That's my wife, though, it's a hard lesson to learn for some, to me it was all in the game.

After the hard no, it was time to spring my plan. We left together, in my SUV, not my truck. This was to set the mode that we were playing in her territory. We were in her frame. Enter my frame. Immediately I started in on my own agenda. Went to the places in the order that I wanted. Much to her chagrin. Que the "what happened to the plan" and "I thought we were doing this next". The first place we went I chatted up every girl, married or not, that we came across. The list does go on, but for brevity I will only list a few.

The Kroger's girl. This was a super 7 white girl with brown hair by anyone's standards. We were standing in the grocery line and I just started chatting her up and lightly flirting. She was laughing and smiling. We chit chatted and my wife ignored us the entire time. I of course didnt bother to check her reaction, because, you get super double bonus points for this behavior. The girl was married (ring) and was responding extremely well. Wife noticed, I am sure of this, but not enough to make her overtly react.

Toys'r'us girl #1&2. There were two, aggressively hoe'd out black women(6's) shopping together and holding up the line at the electronics register. I let my wife start bitching about it and went up there to stand next to them. Truthfully, just to find out what the hold up was and maybe interject in this cluster fuck and move the train wreck along. As I listened I found my point. I interjected and started conversation with both of them at the same time. I know what you are thinking, a Texan, with boots and a hat, chatting up black women. The man doesn't stand a chance. Step up your game gents, women are women. Ignoring the wife the entire time the girls closed the gap on their own, one of them squeezing my arm, and the other asking me about math while the cashier went and did something. The wife had snuck up behind me and tapped me on the shoulder and asked me about a tablet directly behind me. She was mate guarding and bringing my attention back to her. She doesn't even use a tablet but was feigning interest.

Toy'r'us girl #3. At this point I am thinking that maybe toys'r'us is the place to pick up women. We are standing in line and a blonde women, dd's (solid 9 in my book) was standing in front of us ignoring me. I just start chit chatting and passing shit tests and the girl turned around and started talking to me. We really hit it off. She was asking me about what I like to do and agreeing with things, I was asking her about her interests and she was going on. At some point I turned around my wife had this momentary "oh shit, what just happened" look on her face.

Wal-Mart girl #1, yes I know I hate it, but try buying a boys bike anywhere else, in the north, closing in on winter. This time I was a good boy. We were at the register and I kept my mouth closed the entire time checking the mechanics of the bike and making sure it was sound. The cashier was a 6, being generous, white, dirty blonde, and the most amazing blue eyes you ever seen. As we were leaving the cashier said to me "Have fun on your bike" and I turned around. Smiled at her and winked. Told her I would do a wheelie just for her. She laughed so hard I thought she might snort.

Wal-Mart girl #2. This girl was probably a solid 9 but if you like asians she might have been a 10. We got stopped in security and I checked her out. She caught me, dead to rights. Then she smiled at me and came to me and start chatting me up about my boots. Lol. I can talk for days, but I flipped the script and asked her about her shoes. She responded, started touching my shoulder and the whole time the wife was about 30 ft away getting checked out by the greeter for her alarm being set off.

As we were leaving my wife said to me "You seem awful chatty today, more than usual" and I replied "Maybe its the starbucks" with a smile and a wink. We went to load the car and finish the errands. She was unusually silent, as my wife likes to go on at great length whether you like it or not. We picked up my son and finished the errands. Nothing great to report during this time. Just the unusual silence.

Conclusion

When we got home she went full bore as my son went out to ride on his new bike. Immediately she was all over me. She initiated, she drug me upstairs, and she gave me some of the most amazing sex we ever had. During the entire time I gave her no foreplay, while she gave me everything. Gentlemen, I mean to say, I pushed her to the very limits and found there were none. Literally. You ever had your wife orgasm while sucking your cock? Then you have not lived.

Whats the walk away info, bogey?

Captains, your wife is responding to you and what you do. She doesn't want someone who is loyal to a fault and gives her all your attention. She doesn't want to be coddled and told everything is ok everytime. She wants a man who other women want. She wants to wonder, and guess, and hamster what other women would do for him. She wants other women to soak her panties over conversation. She desperately needs confirmation that she made the right choice. She needs the Tingles^tm and you are providing them or someone else is providing them and all you need to read are posts by /u/trainingthebrain. It's simple.

If you think that by talking to her, being loyal, communicating efficiently, and appeasing her feelz for her to feel secure. All you are doing is securing your inevitable future. You will end up in divorce or dead bedroom. That much is for sure.

Are you man enough to respond accordingly?