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    I was labelled a feminazi – here is how feminists can fight the word

    Charlotte Proudman
    Charlotte Proudman
    The term is used as a weapon to attack women’s rights, but we can fight back by reinforcing the potency of feminism and exposing misogyny
    Right-leaning polemicist Rush Limbaugh popularised the term feminazi.
    Right-leaning polemicist Rush Limbaugh popularised the term feminazi. Photograph: Chris Carlson/AP
    Most people will know me as the feminazi lawyer. The Daily Mail labelled me a feminazi after I had the temerity to challenge sexism, a crime that apparently justifies invoking the terminology of national socialism. It is rather fitting that the term has gained traction among the rightwing media, as it was popularised by right-leaning polemicist Rush Limbaugh in the 1990s (although he credits economics professor Thomas Hazlett for coining the term).
    Feminazi is not an innocuous insult. According to Limbaugh a feminazi is “a feminist to whom the important thing in life is ensuring that as many abortions as possible occur”. In comparing feminists to the Nazis, Limbaugh is cynically deploying iconography of the most odious kind.
    Given Limbaugh’s notoriety in labelling people extremists, I was interested to investigate how radical his views actually are. An internet search for Rush Limbaugh brings up a seemingly bottomless diatribe against women, and I came across the following gem: “Feminism was created to force popular culture to accept ugly women.” If you thought he couldn’t stoop any lower, he has also said of women: “If we are going to pay for your contraceptives, and thus pay for you to have sex, we want something for it and I’ll tell you what it is. We want you to post the videos online so we can all watch.” Labelling feminists as feminazis is an effective mechanism in deflecting attention from the dark extremism of proponents of the term.
    The word is a direct assertion of misogyny. Women do not need to be radical to be called a feminazi. They simply have to challenge sex inequality. Advocates of the word contend that the inequalities women face in society are acceptable, even inevitable, and cannot be changed by movements for justice and equality. They define harm inflicted on women as insignificant or fictitious.
    The Daily Mail reframes sexist comments in professional spaces as harmless compliments, while Limbaugh defines a woman’s control over her reproductive choices as part of a programme of mass murder. The word is wielded as a weapon to control and conquer the feminist movement. It rebukes and intimidates women who challenge vested male power and strive to improve the situation of women.
    Words that exploit visceral connections to the Nazis, Stalinists and al-Qaida (so-called gal-Qaida) malign feminists as the enemy because they challenge the patriarchal status quo.
    The word feminazi is used by the powerful against the less powerful to silence them. One thing that puzzles many is why women label other women feminazis. In truth, this is likely to be a form of self-protection and self-advancement. Feminism is criticised as a useless movement because it jeopardises the small, incremental gains in power women have made. A woman calling another woman a feminazi is a way of pandering to the men who valorise women who conform.
    Retaliating against being branded a feminazi is imperative. If the word is used without meeting visible resistance, the woman against whom it is wielded is wounded, and many women who watch this play out in popular discourse are hurt. Women who might have spoken out against gender inequality could now be reluctant to put their head above the parapet due to the consequences. The word can therefore be seen as an effective way to silence women.
    Using the label to describe someone is a way of legitimising the onslaught of misogynistic abuse and death threats that follow. You can say these things to a feminazi without recrimination. As the rightwing messaging goes, the feminazi deserves it. The tragic irony is that every time the word is bandied about without retaliation, the power imbalance between men and women is reinforced.
    So how can feminists respond? We must recognise that the label is a strategy to put feminists on the defensive by making them feel morally obligated to distinguish feminism from Nazism. And yet the public promulgation of terms such as feminazi emphasises the need for a movement that seeks the advancement of women. Appropriating such a deplorable term definitely is not an option. Women can instead reinforce the potency of feminism by identifying as feminists. But the most important response to obscenity is to expose the misogyny being used against women.
    Claiming that those who challenge gender inequality are feminazis is, arguably, libellous. It is a false statement because feminists are not Nazis, and it could be defamatory because being branded some kind of a crypto-Nazi implies extremist and even homicidal ambitions – precisely why Limbaugh referred to “as many abortions as possible”. Labelling someone a feminazi publicly castigates and vilifies them and creates public perceptions that are untrue. It renders them at risk of being stigmatised, hated and unemployable. All of this for daring to contest the abuse of women.
    Let there be no mistake: a war of words is upon us. It commenced because women spoke out. Now words are being used against women in an attempt to silence them.

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    • 380 381
      For Christ's sake guardian
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    • 68 69
      "We must recognise that the label is a strategy to put feminists on the defensive by making them feel morally obligated to distinguish feminism from Nazism. "
      Is it really? I imagine it's just a pretty rubbish term of abuse. Can we just agree to stop mentioning it, rather than letting Rush Limbaugh and the Daily Mail make the running on this?
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      • 63 64
        It's ridiculous, as well, to take it literally. The odd Limbaugh-esquire nutter aside, people don't use it to make a literal comparison between feminists and nazis. They use it to flag up that they think someone is a fanatic or extremist.
        It's a bit like the less-often seen "Tali-bike" for fanatical and argumentative cyclists. No one's suggesting they're actually going to take over the country and ban dancing...
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      • 14 15
        A closer one:
        Tali-van for mobile speed camera units.
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      • 6 7
        Demonisation of cyclists in this way has real life consequences on the streets as any cyclist will tell you.
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    • 270 271
      I am fairly certain its not actually trying to equate feminism with actual naziism.
      However your actions are pretty damn fascist (as a rhetorical flourish) and disproportionate to A) the intention of the perpetrator, B) the consequence of the harm inflict.
      A public shaming on twitter is the modern equivalent of being locked in the stocks, and any punishment which doesn't fit the actual crime committed, but is meted out pour le encourager of autres, is one that should not be inflicted.
      The man was unprofessional and mildly offensive, you were within your rights to send him a rebuke or even complain to his firm. To splash him all over twitter and report him to the SRA is total overkill and loses you a lot of support for an otherwise decent platform.
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    • 6 7
      What is different between sexism and misogyny?
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    • 179 180
      So it's not ok to misuse the term Feminazi but ok (for feminists) to misuse the term misogyny? Feminists seem to always want things both ways.
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    • 153 154
      Make it stop!
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    • 25 26
      I think I preferred this article when it was written by Zoe Williams
      I thought it was snide and unfair for the Daily Mail to call Proudman a feminazi on their front page, and it's a childish, peurile term where once used in place of an argument.
      And yes, it is language used in order to discredit. Language is potent - too often, on whatever side of the argument you're on, we assign labels in order to dismiss the speaker, without engaging or challenging what they have to say.
      I find it difficult to see that it's actually libellous though, but would be interested if Proudman tried to sue the DM.
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      • 24 25
        If you follow the link to the Daily Mail article, the full title is "Feminazi vs the Leering Lawyer" so the lawyer doesn´t come off too well from that does he? I think the Daily Mail is probably fairly discriminant about the shit it dishes out. In the article itself, reference to feminazi are made with reference to what was said on social media. They never said "Charlotte Proudman is a feminazi". Not that I am defending the Daily Mail in particular, just that everything seems out of proportion. The guy was out of order to make the comment, her response was disproportionate, the Daily Mail raked up shit, and the Guardian gleefully picked up on it...
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      • 7 8
        The front page said "A glam lawyer and the feminazis who hate men who praise their looks", next to her picture. Obviously I wouldn't dream of looking inside the actual paper. But I think that in itself gave the impression they were talking about her.
        I agree it escalated out of all proportion though. I had my fill by the time she was being referred to in the fuss about lack of women's judges (and then wrote an article about that referring to herself).
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      • 17 18
        Really, the headline should have said something like 'genuinely horrible person vs genuinely horrible (but in a different way) person' - that would have been much more accurate.
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    • 137 138
      All this publicity over a minor bust up on Linked. Good Lord.
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    • 74 75
      No, here's where you're deliberately missing the point.
      Feminism used to be about equality between the genders, men and women, that ended with the beginning of third wave feminism. Now people that listen to reasoned debate, have valid concerns aren't what we're talking about here.
      We're talking about a certain subset of Feminists that claim infalibility, that there is original sin in being a man and that masculinity is "toxic". It is deliberately comparing the methodology of media manipulating and delusion along with the incapcity to realise they are stuck in a groupthink mentality that the Nazi's did, and seek to impose their will. Like say by misleading the UN into defining criticism of feminists by saying "you are wrong" as "virtual violence".
      They are trying to actually silence everyone that disagrees with them, because they can't win an argument grounded in facts any more.
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    • 76 77
      'Feminazi' is indeed an inane term, a way of shutting down conversation - much like 'MRA' or 'mansplaining'.
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    • 52 53
      When you're in a hole stop digging!
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    • 108 109
      The Daily Mail labelled me a feminazi after I had the temerity to challenge sexism.
      Weren't you shown a few days later to have indulged in a little sexist Linkedin activity too?
      Or is it ok for wimmin?
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    • 141 142
      Don't worry Ms Proudman, you're not a feminazi, you're an opportunist who rode the mass of seething outrage looking for a cause that is Twitter.
      Sometimes shooting fish in a barrel surfaces a kipper, sometimes a sturgeon. It's interesting to see you making the most of the caviar the sturgeon has provided.
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    • 80 81
      Guy who initially insulted you seems like a douchbag.
      Your over the top response makes you seem like a bit of a douchbag.
      The term Feminazi is not acceptable and is not being condoned by anyone in moderate society. Stormy teacup that grew into a stormy teapot by your own choosing. It is actually possible for everyone in an argument to be wrong. Just a thought.
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      • 11 12
        Guy who initially insulted you seems like a douchbag. Your over the top response makes you seem like a bit of a douchbag.
        But does it? She now seems to write regularly for the Guardian. Result, I'd say.
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      • 35 36
        Guy who initially insulted you seems like a douchbag.
        Did he insult her? She was offended by what he wrote, but that's not the same thing (assuming we're talking about the linkedin message).
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      • 34 35
        Guy who initially insulted you seems like a douchbag.
        He did not insult her. He complimented her picture in a response to a connection request from Proudman.
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    • 30 31
      "Claiming that those who challenge gender inequality are feminazis is, arguably, libellous. It is a false statement because feminists are not Nazis, and it could be defamatory because being branded some kind of a crypto-Nazi implies extremist and even homicidal ambitions."
      Given the seriousness of these charges so eloquently explained by m`learned friend here, I presume the moderators are going to start taking vigorous action against those BTL who label people Nazis, fascists and white supremacists because, for example, they aren`t wholeheartedly welcoming to the people who pitch up on Europe`s shores?
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      • 21 22
        No, thats perfectly acceptable. Disagree with the party line, you're the other to be dehumanised and "removed" from society. Accuse said people of acting like Nazi's who dehumanised others and "removed" them is of course highly offensive and must be banned for the Third Re... Wave of Feminism!
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    • 65 66
      If you want to talk about the manipulation of words, how about "feminist" itself?
      Despite constant bleating to the contrary - and, I admit, original intentions - it is clear that the word does not mean "gender equality". It means "advocating for and supporting women". Which is fine, I suppose, but isn't necessarily gender equality.
      Or how about "sexist"? That's one that gets thrown around a lot by feminists. As does "misogynist". It's far from clear that either retains what might be called its "common sense" meaning: sexism is apparently anything a man does which upsets a woman and misogyny is anything anyone does in response that isn't telling the woman that she's right to be upset.
      When Proudman says that the war of words "commenced because women spoke out" she's probably right, but another way of putting that (I do like these "wars of words") is "they started it". Which I doubt Proudman believes, but hey.
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      • 9 10
        It's newspeak. Intelligent people have taken words that already existed and changed their meanings over time so that they now, apparently mean something different. There was already a word for equal rights: egalitarianism. But now apparently "feminism" means this too.
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