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[–]dorkkaos 86ポイント87ポイント  (33子コメント)

Well, people are allowed to have their own taste in men/women. She gets rejected because people aren't attracted to her. I wonder how many guys she has rejected because they are not up to her standards. If she is constantly talking about her problems and asking for pity, that's another turn off for most people.

[–]Coolaccount2 10ポイント11ポイント  (0子コメント)

She gets rejected because people aren't attracted to her. I wonder how many guys she has rejected because they are not up to her standards.

Yeah, the exact same thing happens with Nice Guys and Girls - they shame the opposite sex for not overlooking their fatness, yet they themselves won't overlook fatness for their potential mates. I guarantee this girl is complaining that guys that look like Channing Tatum don't want her, not guys that look like Larry the Cable Guy.

[–]Eran-of-Arcadia 44ポイント45ポイント  (1子コメント)

You can't claim to be friends with someone then say that you hate them if they don't want to date you?

[–]uell23 71ポイント72ポイント  (3子コメント)

Bet she hasn't dated a single fat dude

[–]ScoobyDoos_Courage 22ポイント23ポイント  (2子コメント)

Or considered that weight loss is a viable and healthy option for her current predicament...

[–]mayjay15 2ポイント3ポイント  (1子コメント)

Yeah, who's ever heard of a fat person trying to lose weight . . .?

[–]hilberts_funny_hat 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

I get the point I think you were trying to make. But she still doesn't want to be not-fat enough to actually make a change. She, and anyone else who is fat and not actively exercising and dieting to change, is complacent with her weight. She would like to be skinny, but she doesn't want to work hard for two years to realize that dream.

[–]Strawberrycocoa 11ポイント12ポイント  (0子コメント)

One of my ex-girlfriends (amicable break-up, for the record) is a big girl and I thought she was ridiculously cute from the moment I met her because she was always laughing and smiling and being silly.

It adds a lot to a person's attractiveness to have sunshine radiate from their eyes.

[–]danceswithronin 28ポイント29ポイント  (6子コメント)

I know several fat women in relationships, both casual and long-term. I have a feeling people are more put off by this whole woe-is-me-I-am-fortune's-foe insecure whiny bullshit than they are by her size.

I don't know a single solitary person who is romantically or sexually attracted to crippling insecurity.

[–]PUBLIQclopAccountant 4ポイント5ポイント  (4子コメント)

I don't know a single person…

You're not looking hard enough.

[–]danceswithronin 13ポイント14ポイント  (3子コメント)

The only people who are attracted to crippling insecurity are red pillers and/or emotionally manipulative assholes, so yeah, I don't really look for that in an acquaintance.

[–]CMarlowe 2ポイント3ポイント  (2子コメント)

You've never met anyone with a "savior" complex?

There are plenty of strange things going in these peoples' heads, but the semi-psychopathic stratagem of "the Red Pill" isn't one of them.

As an example, I know one woman in particular who over the years has tried to "fix" an ex-drug addict, a vet who suffered from horrible PTSD and another guy who came from a very abusive home.

Her choice in boyfriends was odd, and she's odd, but the genesis of this wasn't a compulsion to manipulate anyone.

[–]danceswithronin 4ポイント5ポイント  (1子コメント)

Making someone your "project" is emotionally manipulative and self-serving, even if you are doing it for so-called altruistic reasons.

I can't help but think that these people have more than a touch of schadenfreude, so it's still pretty creepy.

[–]Bytemite 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

Making someone your "project" is emotionally manipulative and self-serving, even if you are doing it for so-called altruistic reasons.

True. When it's all about control it's really a kind of narcissism.

Some people are also just very susceptible to falling into codependent lifestyles as an enabler. They're often insecure themselves, and see helping others as a way to prove their self-worth, and they're afraid to set healthy boundaries because of how the people depending on them often react.

And then there's munchausen by proxy which is some extra messed up stuff. Maybe you're seeing a lot of unhealthy codependency evolve that direction, where the enabler NEEDS to keep fixing the person even if it means hurting them or pulling them down?

[–]Strawberrycocoa 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

A Feeder would probably be all over her.

[–]BloodlustHamster 40ポイント41ポイント  (2子コメント)

If she's that great isn't the simple answer just to lose weight?

[–]well_done_mate[🍰] 29ポイント30ポイント  (0子コメント)

No, the problem is with everyone else, not her.

[–]AreYouThereSagan 8ポイント9ポイント  (0子コメント)

If she had self-awareness, do you think she'd be here?

[–]VaatiXIII 22ポイント23ポイント  (3子コメント)

Looking at her profile pic, it's her eyebrows.

[–]khazar187 2ポイント3ポイント  (2子コメント)

I think you're obligated to post a link to that

[–]VaatiXIII 16ポイント17ポイント  (1子コメント)

I... I just zoomed in on the picture, dude.

[–]khazar187 13ポイント14ポイント  (0子コメント)

Hahaha at an [8] I'll go to bed now

[–]Miora 13ポイント14ポイント  (3子コメント)

That was a shitty poem.

[–]mntt 15ポイント16ポイント  (2子コメント)

She's too fat for you to see the beauty of her poem.

She hates you.

[–]my_toast_sings 2ポイント3ポイント  (1子コメント)

It's snowing on Mount Fuji

[–]centristism 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

My penis can not get erect.

[–]mashedpotatoes_52 13ポイント14ポイント  (0子コメント)

I HATE YOU NOW LOVE ME

[–]CrushCoalMakeDiamond 13ポイント14ポイント  (1子コメント)

This definitely belongs here, believing attractive people who make an effort with their appearance should be attracted to you despite you not making any effort with yours just because of your personality is Niceguy 101.

[–]SwallowRP 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's not the norm... but there's always guys like me. Mmm chubby girls

[–]7deTreboles 8ポイント9ポイント  (0子コメント)

#poetry

Yeah I finnally understood what is a poetic license, this girl must have one.

Brb gotta go fuck all the girls that I have ever considered friends I don't wanna walk the world as a shallow human being.

[–]RaceAgainstDawn 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

Oh god this has definitely happened with me. I never had too much trouble in the guy apartment, but have always had close guy friends who would literally say, "Why can't girls be more like you _____? GEEZ!" It can be obnoxious. But, still. Everyone is entitled to like who they like.

[–]Bytemite 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

...She looks completely normal, what the hell

This is like forever alone stuff where everyone over there actually has extreme body dysmorphia or something.

[–]FistofanAngryGoddess 4ポイント5ポイント  (1子コメント)

Just wondering: why does it get FPH-lite in this sub when Nice Girls are involved? Doesn't happen quite as much when it's just Nice Guys.

[–]TheZerocrat 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

Because a lot of people here are closet NiceGuys who love an opportunity to hate on feeeeeeeeeeemales

[–]crackercider 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

If you think the only thing holding you back from happiness are due to you being fat then fucking lose the weight, or accept yourself and look for the other person that will do the same without being a whiney bitch in the process. Quit expecting everyone to bend to your standards.

[–]Guy_Buttersnaps 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'd be totally fine with 'Nice Girl' posts were it not for the fact that every single person that submits one has to give it some bullshit title like it's something unusual.

[–]Gamps_ 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

lose weight then. God fuckin damn.

[–]sexrobo_male_20 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

i´m sure "doesn´t hate me" is part of everyones standard

[–]HeroicHeist 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

Fat often means lazy too! So yeah we kinda overlook the fact that being fat is not only a visual issue. I wouldn't want to date a fat girl and have it procastinate in her whole life to die at 40 because of a stroke.

[–]mayjay15 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

I dunno, I know a few fat people who work regularly work double shifts at physically demanding jobs. They're not lazy, per se, they just don't dedicate a lot of time to calorie-burning exercises and don't really watch what they eat.

[–]sherryj28 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I think that poem needed to lose a few lines...it reads a little hefty

[–]NyrkkiErkki -3ポイント-2ポイント  (0子コメント)

luckly there's people that like fat people in particular, people have their "beauty standards" i'm okay with those unless you've been single your whole life and you complain that you are alone while having millions of impossible to meet standards

[–]johnwithcheese -2ポイント-1ポイント  (4子コメント)

Just lose some bloody weight lady.

It's really not that hard once you start. Eventually it just becomes fun. I've done it and fitness is a very rewarding journey.

[–]mayjay15 3ポイント4ポイント  (1子コメント)

I'm guessing the 2/3rds of the US population would disagree that it's not that hard once you start, particularly when it comes to maintaining the weight loss for years.

[–]johnwithcheese -2ポイント-1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Well then either 2/3 should stop bitching about being fat and lonely or do something about it. That's the only way i see it.

And your right really. Maybe I was just trying to be motivating. It is really fucking hard.

But I was tired of the life of ridicule I lived so I spent 2 years going from 98 kilos to 63 kilos.

It was painfully hard but I am living a much happier life now and 7 months into my next goal, building solid muscle mass. I go to gym 6-7 days a week an now my body feels smooth like a stream of water.

For me, Fitness is the only thing that makes sense. It me working for my body. I love it and I'll never stop. I this to my mostly obese family every day. They admire my progress but they are too lazy to be like me.

But if you want to sit on the sofa all day, watching reruns of seinfeild, then don't complain nobody wants to fuck your beached whale ass. It's rude but true.

[–]AlphaLupi 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

Seriously, it's long overdue for everyone to get over this bullshit that "oh it's so impossibly hard to exercise and lose weight". No it's fucking not. Like any self-improvement, it takes time and work. Using that as an excuse means you're just lazy.

[–]johnwithcheese 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's baffles me how people disagree with this sound logic.