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Field ReportGiving up on 1st sign of resistance. (self.askMRP)

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So sex is better and more frequent. My latest problem is what I interpret to be last minute resistance.

I can usually push through a soft no or two, but I'm starting to give up early. Even at the first soft no, or resistance of any kind. I just Shrug my shoulders and I lose my attraction to her.

I go do other things. I even grow distant. I just lose all interest in her. Hell, the next day she'll try and make things amicable and yipyap her feelings about the days events, but i genuinely have no interest. I make it short and move on.

My smv is climbing like a mofo. I am more and more ambitious. I'm out having fun a lot. My testosterone is popping. I feel great.

So shouldn't I be pushing harder than ever, despite her resistance? I'm a fucking predator these days. Hungry for meat. But it fizzles when she displeases me.

Is my withdrawal a bad thing? Should I not give up so easily?
Or is this a natural consequence of her not meeting my needs and expectation?

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[–]CountpudyoolaMod / Red Beret 2ポイント3ポイント  (2子コメント)

It's easy to get jaded once you see things in light of game/test. LMR/duty/frequency.

A lot of laser focus can burn you out. If things are more frequent, try dialing it back a little so that when you are initiating you've had time to rebuild your stamina.

You can overtrain any muscle. Your brain , game and not-giving a shit being another "muscle".

Relax a bit. Make sure when you're going back in that you're not still fatigued by the last test. If you start letting lmr get to you , it's the quickest way to ensure it'll be her go to as a fitness test.

[–]fakefalse[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

Thanks. I'll read up on LMR and come back at it with fresh perspective.

[–]stonepimpletilistsRed Beret 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

one thing that helps me in my DGAF phases is to do it for something other than sexual gratification.

I've done stuff lately just to see that I could. I don't like anal, but fuck it. Little choking (if you're not comfortable strangling someone, just put your hand on the clivicle and push down, no windpipe, same feeling)

Fuck it,

[–]BluepillProfessorMod / Red Beret 2ポイント3ポイント  (1子コメント)

"Is my withdrawal a bad thing?"

Not if it affects her. If it affects you it can lead to you checking out of the relationship completely as is happening.

Should I not give up so easily?

I would read up on breaking through Last Minute Resistance but the short answer is no, you should not give up easily.

is this a natural consequence of her not meeting my needs and expectation?

Yes.

You are a predator- but you have not yet figured out that your wife is your prey. The saber toothed tiger doesn't withdraw when the juicy monkey puts up shields and decides it doesn't want to get eaten. He eats the juicy monkey anyway.

[–]fakefalse[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Ha! Juicy monkey. Good way of puting it. I am far from giving up. Truth is, I'd probably find the juicy monkey less exciting if she didn't resist a little and make me work for that pound of flesh.

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