I've been lurking here for a while, but focusing on improving myself for a long time before that. However, I had an interaction with a couples females the other day and I'm struggling putting it into context and understanding how it came about.
tl;dr: met two women, but one's poor attitude and out of no where rant on relationships killed the mood.
Background:
Went up for a football game to a big SEC school, I have no connection to the school other than I like football and it was supposed to be a good game (it did not disappoint). One of my roommates was gonna go up with me, but got plucked to stand duty so I decided to go by myself. I'm average in the looks department and have good and bad days when it comes to approaching. This weekend overall was definitely above average
Summary:
I got to my seat first and was talking to a guy and his wife who happened to be locals. He turned out to be a lawyer and we were having a very interesting conversation about real estate and the impact of the FED rate increases. So it didn't really register when a group of girls showed up on my left, I knew people had arrived, but it wasn't till a natural lull in the conversation that I realized the one sitting right next to me, lets call he A, was fairly attractive (HB8) and her friend, lets call her B, was probably a HB6 (more on the cute end of the spectrum than hot).
I struck up a casual conversation, but I was more interested in the game which was just about to kick. They were tipsy and, as I quickly realized, very flirty. They were being fairly forward doing things like sitting my lap to take selfies, initiating their own kino, and constantly trading places in order to get next me. Mostly I was ambivalent, but they were having a good time so during a lull in the game I joined in.
Started talking, reciprocating kino, focusing more on A and was getting a good response. Nothing was overtly sexual due to the environment and I was thinking they were gonna be there for the length of the game so I didn't feel rushed at all. A couple minutes later B (who has continued to drink and is getting progressively more drunk) gets my attention from the seat opposite A and starts going off about how I'm gonna find a good woman some day and how I just need to wait since I'm a nice guy and she has a lot of respect for me based on what I do (RP posts are flying through my head, and I know its a load of crap). A is trying to calm her down/shut her up, but its not working. B is determined to speak her mind. This goes on for a couple minutes and I'm trying to ignore her thinking it is just the babble of someone who has had one too many.
A begins to focus more on B (I assume to quiet her down) and I go back to focusing on the game and not really paying attention to what they are saying. I didn't go to the game to get laid, I went for the quality football and anything else would have just been a bonus for the weekend. After things calm down a little I resume the casual conversation with A. She is still into me as far as I could tell and is being really good about not interrupting me and only taking when their is no action. A and B end up switching seats again, why I have no idea, and then it just dies. B is in a poor mood coming off the back end of drinking too much and A is now blocked from direct interaction.
At this point I'm done, they are distracting me from what is turning into a really good game. About a half an hour later they decide they are gonna leave and go hang out with friends outside the stadium. Both are looking over at me and implicitly asking if I want to join them, which I didn't. I'm tired of B and don't even ask for either phone number as I stand up to let them out of the aisle. A gives me one last glance as they walk out and that's the last I saw of them.
Questions:
1. What the hell do you think prompted B to bring up the comment of me waiting for a good woman if the conversation was nowhere close to that?
2. Anybody else experience something similar to this and how did you handle it?
3. Any critiques?
I realize this is a long read, appreciate your perspective.
Any errors will be corrected later, have to go in to work.
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