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My date with an 'alpha' (self.TheBluePill)

thelostfox が 投稿

I was hesitant to write this as it’s not very bombshell but thought it was worth sharing.

I accepted a last minute happn date with a 42yo man. I am 27 and usually date people in my age range. I didn’t have plans so thought why not.

He picked me up (in a fancy car, I live in a huge city where no one has cars) and we went for dinner.

The good

  • The man is charming, good looking, in shape and successful

  • We went for a really nice meal with no drinking (it was Sunday)

  • Generally engaging conversation, great manners

The uncomfortable

  • Once we sat down to eat he said ‘let me feed you’ and insisted he order for me. I was in a placid mood so rolled with it (he ordered a fillet anyway, I love steak)

  • He told me his last relationship ended in Jan, it lasted 3 years, when they got together the girl was 20 and he was 38. This made me feel uncomfortable

  • He commented on my body a lot, I am in good shape, while I was flattered this happened maybe 50% too much. It made me feel uncomfortable

  • We smoked after the meal, he asked to see my teeth, he inspected my teeth like you would a show dog

  • He inspected my hands and nails like a show dog also

  • He was handsy, we did sit in a circular booth although touch doesn’t bother me too much.

  • Admitted to sleeping with over 150+ women, never wants to get married but wants at least one child

I feel that this is basically the best qualities of the redpill ideas in one man and honestly it just felt hollow, not real. He did not care what my career was, he cared how I had such great legs. It was probably the least I have talked on date.

The longer I think about it the more I dislike him.

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[–]theomegaconstant 13ポイント14ポイント  (3子コメント)

Just reading this made my skin crawl. I don't begrudge a man for fancy cars or sleeping around - do your thing, bro, as long as it's safe and consensual - but to flat-out inspect a woman like a piece of produce is, um, not a good sign.

[–]thelostfox[S] 8ポイント9ポイント  (2子コメント)

Ja the teeth thing was WEIRD. The nails and hands was ok

But by teeth. I mean. Literally 'let me see your teeth..have you had braces, do you get teeth whitened' urrrghhhhh

[–]theomegaconstant 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

At that point, I'd probably just double down on his transparent shallowness and see how far you could take it.

"So, when do you think you'll get bored of me and look for a new twenty-something? At 27, am I already on the clock here? How much plaque build-up are my teeth permitted before my next cleaning? If I put on a few pounds over the holidays, can I expect you to start sleeping around on me?"

[–]AWeepingAngelsThesisBetter dead than red! 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

mfw

[–]Demonicaxo 5ポイント6ポイント  (2子コメント)

Proceed with caution particularly if you don't want your surreptitiously snapped post-coitus pics posted on the ROK forum. This guy showed you exactly who he is. Put nothing past him.

[–]thelostfox[S] 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

Yes precisely, am tempted by dinner number 2, just to see if it was all real.

But he kept trying to get me to his flat for a 'massage'. urgghhhh

[–]Demonicaxo 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

That's so oily and gross. The only reason I would avoid this guy is that if he's a terp - HE WILL NOT TELL YOU IF HE HAS STDS (just happened to a very heartbroken coworker of mine)!!! Secondly you run the risk of him surreptitiously filming any sex acts. Other than that, here's what else you have to look forward too... :D

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jg_PrMXRvUk&feature=youtu.be

[–]Potato_With_Eyes 5ポイント6ポイント  (4子コメント)

Admitted to sleeping with over 150+ women

Is that a typo? Please tell me that's a typo...

[–]saltinado 4ポイント5ポイント  (1子コメント)

Eh, no judgment. Dude get's around, it's kay.

[–]thelostfox[S] 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

Its a meh, I mean if he has been balls deep for 20+ years now...

its none of my business

[–]Atlaffinity75Do you even lift? 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

Wilt Chamberlain and George Simenon are not impressed.

[–]seeingredagain 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

If it's even true.

[–]_MaoistPussy_ 1ポイント2ポイント  (5子コメント)

Admitted to sleeping with over 150+ women

Ugh, what a slut. So gross.

[–]crazymcfattypants 3ポイント4ポイント  (4子コメント)

Nothing wrong with sleeping around.

Sleeping around is fun.

[–]karleenamarx 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

I think it was a joke, based on what TRP thinks of women who sleep around a lot.

[–]KingMongI Have platonic Female friends, Omega Level Beta Achieved. 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

i know its fun but 150? sure everyone can do there own thing, if that's what your looking for, but with those numbers it tells me they arnt sticking around or they are being unfaithful, its just a massive red flag for people that want more than dinner and a fuck.

[–]Azure_phantomCakejacker of Alpha Cakes! 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I dunno. It does reveal something about somebody, namely that their perception of sex and a more conservative person's wouldn't mesh. So I wouldn't judge him for doing his thing (though I would teasingly call someone like that a man whore or man slut), but I (at least personally) also couldn't date someone like that because their value of sex is so wholly opposite my own.

I don't think there's anything wrong with not wanting to date someone who's gotten around, as long as it's a standard you hold yourself to as well. The thing that gets me with terps is they judge women for sleeping around but then try to do the exact same thing they call women sluts for. The hypocrisy is what bugs me, not that they don't want to date women with extensive pasts.

[–]PonderousHajj 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Oh, God, I lost it at the teeth thing. It reminded me of Leslie Knope.

"Another time I went to a really boring movie with a guy, and while I was alseep he tried to pull out one of my teeth. I literally woke up with his hand in my mouth. We went out a couple times after that, but then he got weird."

[–]Ivabighairy1 -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

Right. So when's the next date?

[–]yo_radical_onetriggers the twerps. -2ポイント-1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Stuff like this is so weird and off.

The fact he is goodlooking all these things, but to then demand you shows your teeth, he tells you he has fucked over 150 girls and that he wants children without marriage. I do think it is good to be handsome and successful but that sort of weirdness even in terms of having girls like you, seems to make it seem contrived rather than effortless.