I was hesitant to write this as it’s not very bombshell but thought it was worth sharing.

I accepted a last minute happn date with a 42yo man. I am 27 and usually date people in my age range. I didn’t have plans so thought why not.

He picked me up (in a fancy car, I live in a huge city where no one has cars) and we went for dinner.

The good

• The man is charming, good looking, in shape and successful

• We went for a really nice meal with no drinking (it was Sunday)

• Generally engaging conversation, great manners

The uncomfortable

• Once we sat down to eat he said ‘let me feed you’ and insisted he order for me. I was in a placid mood so rolled with it (he ordered a fillet anyway, I love steak)

• He told me his last relationship ended in Jan, it lasted 3 years, when they got together the girl was 20 and he was 38. This made me feel uncomfortable

• He commented on my body a lot, I am in good shape, while I was flattered this happened maybe 50% too much. It made me feel uncomfortable

• We smoked after the meal, he asked to see my teeth, he inspected my teeth like you would a show dog

• He inspected my hands and nails like a show dog also

• He was handsy, we did sit in a circular booth although touch doesn’t bother me too much.

• Admitted to sleeping with over 150+ women, never wants to get married but wants at least one child

I feel that this is basically the best qualities of the redpill ideas in one man and honestly it just felt hollow, not real. He did not care what my career was, he cared how I had such great legs. It was probably the least I have talked on date.

The longer I think about it the more I dislike him.