You should be fucking ashamed of yourself for saying we should focus on accusing women of lying and making them understand how serious that lie would be if they were lying instead of teaching young men about the fucking human dignity of women and to not treat them as objects for gratification. That is EXACTLY what happens to so many women already when they actually manage to find the courage to face scrutiny and to confront their attacker in reporting their rape and filing charges.

I didn't say we should do one instead of the other, I said we should do both. Read.

And no I'm not ashamed in the least bit. They should both be taught. And I didn't say anything about accusing women of lying, I said teach them not to, to help them realize that they are indirectly discrediting rape victims. Huge difference. You're the one who should be ashamed for thinking when someone does it it should be pushed under the rug.

UVA? Mattress girl? Many more instances of this give cops reason to be skeptical. And instead of focusing and blaming the cops and calling them misogynists for making sure to get the facts straight, you should actually be caring about ending instances like the above, because I know it hurts to admit it, but it's really them that hurt the credibility of others. Not the cops. Along with everyone else who cries rape as revenge on their ex or regret. You yourself should be ashamed for thinking that should all be ignored and the responsibility and accountability should be taken from them (even though a lot of other people think that). Have a couple friends who it happened to, and don't you fucking dare tell me "they were probably guilty".

Maybe if there was more of a motive for women to stop doing such things, the poor treatment from cops wouldn't actually happen as much.

There was also recently that story about the guy who's mom killed herself thinking her son was a rapist, and then later the girl who accused him was found to be lying and even admitted she made the whole thing up. But if you think that doesn't matter, then, well... guess there's no hope.

Listen to yourself... putting words in my mouth. But yeah, just like women aren't 'beings of gratification' (as is constantly drilled through us), men aren't disposable beings either (as no one almost ever says due to it being a societal taboo for anyone to acknowledge that or be sensitive towards that, as demonstrated in your reaction to me).

I should also add that if someone was lying but a federal court charged the person anyway, then they wouldn't be on the stats you mentioned.