I feel bad when one ends and don't really feel happy at all.

I think it's because you see a lot in MRP men that went into it really just looking for a way to "relight the spark" or such and seemingly probably do really love their wives. Unfortunately for whatever reason they got hoodwinked by this terrible community. Often you see posts on MRP about how some guy doesn't know what to do because his RP tactics aren't working and he'd love to save the marriage only to be told by the terps that it's lost and he's better off without her. Maybe I'm naive but I believe at least some of those guys just stumbled into RP stuff while looking for a way to break a rut or such, had the best intentions and just listened to absolutely the wrong people. And maybe some of them could have fixed their issues and had really happy marriages if they'd gone to a real marriage councilor or some such if they hadn't stumbled into this awful internet community.

Divorce is sad and is hard on everyone involved (I'm divorced). If a man has sold his soul to terping the woman probably is better off. But a lot of the time it seems like he hasn't or starts to realize he may have gone over to the dark side when it doesn't work but makes things worse. But then he doesn't really know what to do so he looks back to where he was getting advice from and that shitty community eggs him into doubling down on the dark side.

In the end if that shitty community just didn't exist when some men went down the google rabbit hole looking for ideas on how to re-spark their relationship they might have looked at good places and ideas, and some of those marriages could have gotten the real spark and no need for the divorce. That's kinda sad to think about.