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What screams insecurity to you? (self.AskReddit)

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[–]A_Real_Wolf 2574ポイント2575ポイント  (43子コメント)

There's a lot of girls who scream security at me.

But that's not the answer you're looking for

[–]whenim30iwilllook20[S] 544ポイント545ポイント  (35子コメント)

Well shit, if you are in fact a real wolf, I don't really blame them.

[–]AlekRivard 334ポイント335ポイント  (29子コメント)

Check your homo sapien sapien bipedal privilege, shitlord

[–]embur 161ポイント162ポイント  (15子コメント)

Did you just call that guy a homo? Fucking rude.

[–]AlekRivard 83ポイント84ポイント  (12子コメント)

Hey, shitlord, they could be a female; stop fetishizing their assumed gender identity /s

[–]TheFeshy [スコア非表示]  (10子コメント)

Way to force your binary gender bias on the world, asshole. /s

[–]AlekRivard [スコア非表示]  (9子コメント)

Hey, shitlord, stop assuming that all those on this planet identify as being a part of this world; ever heard of the spirit plane? /s

[–]KazWolfe [スコア非表示]  (7子コメント)

Hey, assface, don't force your cisplanal binary view of multiversal planes on universe 16-C.

[–]jusdeknowledge [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

Hey, Weinercat.

You...

YOU'RE WRONG!!

[–]AlekRivard [スコア非表示]  (5子コメント)

Hey, asshole, quit pushing your alpha-numerical categorization of the multiverses on me.

[–]KazWolfe [スコア非表示]  (4子コメント)

Hey, assface, stop shoving your Unicode compliant emojiverses on the Namuh species of Kepler 62f!

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          [–]IranianGenius 19ポイント20ポイント  (1子コメント)

          I thought he was a security guard.

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              [–]RockinMadRiot 1116ポイント1117ポイント  (61子コメント)

              When they need to put others down to make themselves feel better.

              [–]Aerron 419ポイント420ポイント  (49子コメント)

              I was looking for this one. The douche-bro that is your buddy until chicks show up. Then he starts tearing you down. "Chill, bro, it's just a joke!"

              He picked on you because you're his biggest competition.

              [–]mikdavi84 428ポイント429ポイント  (35子コメント)

              Thats why I like my friends. We make up stories about each other that are so ridiculous that it keeps the girls around.

              "This guy....owe him so much. Saved my life in Dubya-Dubya Two."

              Girls: "You're 30. That like, doesn't make any sense"

              "Thats not the point. The Jerries, they were hammering our position hard until Greg here insert something ridiculous

              [–]Gayburn_Wright [スコア非表示]  (4子コメント)

              Saved my life in the DUBYA-DUBYA-EEE SOOOPER SLAM!

              Just thought I'd fix that up for you :)

              [–]ZachMorrisT1000 [スコア非表示]  (3子コメント)

              You guys sound so chill and funny bro. I bet you guys wreck poon non stop.

              [–]ryannntv 129ポイント130ポイント  (6子コメント)

              Dubya-Dubya Two

              Lost my ever loving shit right there

              [–]DweadPiwateWawbuts 15ポイント16ポイント  (0子コメント)

              Sounds like a good band name. The best is after you leave it, you can talk about your days in Dubya Dubya Two.

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                    [–]GottlobFrege 79ポイント80ポイント  (6子コメント)

                    /u/RockinMadRiot is a shithead. I'm way cooler than him.

                    [–]RockinMadRiot 55ポイント56ポイント  (5子コメント)

                    Have you ever beat a angry bear off using a spoon and copy of Playboy magazine? No? Well I'm cooler than you then so fuck you.

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                      [–]causal_friday 1448ポイント1449ポイント  (24子コメント)

                      Websites served only over http, not https.

                      [–]Star_Lord1997 1213ポイント1214ポイント  (116子コメント)

                      Girls putting up photo's on Facebook with titles like " I'm so ugly in this photo :( ". All so their equally insecure friends will comment back " I'd kill for your body "

                      [–]5peasinapod 364ポイント365ポイント  (49子コメント)

                      This. It's like the Mutual Flattery Association.

                      [–]Star_Lord1997 191ポイント192ポイント  (43子コメント)

                      Seriously , it does my nut in. I mean , if you really think you're so ugly in this photo , why the fuck did you take it and upload it? Makes no fucking sense

                      [–]5peasinapod 231ポイント232ポイント  (29子コメント)

                      Or even better:

                      #nomakeup #nofilter

                      and I'm like, honey, I can see that eyeliner...

                      [–]TheViper9 50ポイント51ポイント  (13子コメント)

                      put a \ before the # to make it #no makeup #nofilter.

                      [–]soulkitchennnn 24ポイント25ポイント  (0子コメント)

                      Called out a girl (nicely, I tried) for wearing makeup in her hash tag no makeup selfie. She hasn't done it since.

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                        [–]dick-nipples 18ポイント19ポイント  (4子コメント)

                        It does your nut in?

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                            [–]Sadistictoastie 280ポイント281ポイント  (22子コメント)

                            One of my favourite pictures is a bunch of girls post a picture of them (in bikinis i think, or at least very skimpy clothing) doing something like this. And a bunch of guys start posting comments talking about the cars in the background, then a small discussion starts about the cars.

                            The girl then proceeds to post "Excuse me?" and it's so funny to watch her fury at being completely ignored.

                            Edit: here it is http://imgur.com/4MpiVcc

                            [–]Gooddayhans 118ポイント119ポイント  (10子コメント)

                            To me, that doesn't actually scream insecurity. It screams that the girl is very full of herself and considers herself very pretty and wants her friends and acquaintances to confirm it. She's just smart enough to know that people may turned off by arrogance if she outright declares herself hot - so she pretends she's insecure because she knows that will make people try to cheer her up.

                            I think that people who genuinely consider themselves ugly and are unhappy about it will usually not fish for compliments - because they fear that people will either agree that they are ugly, or not comment at all.

                            [–]lel0 49ポイント50ポイント  (3子コメント)

                            Someone can think they're attractive but still be insecure because they don't know if others find them attractive or not. It's about seeking validation.

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                                [–]Greatest_Trochanter 594ポイント595ポイント  (52子コメント)

                                When somebody speaks loudly over everyone else, as if their voices are more important rather than contributing to the conversation in a normal way

                                EDIT: for the 400 people asking, there's a massive difference between "having a loud voice by nature" and "actively trying to butt your opinion into a conversation, noisily"

                                [–]openupmyheartagain 46ポイント47ポイント  (6子コメント)

                                That and constantly cutting you off to do it. Like they didn't listen to shit you said because they're too busy thinking about what they're going to say and it's so important that they have to cut you off to be the center of attention. Had an ex that used to do this..

                                Me: "I'm tired because-". Him: "You don't even KNOW tired! I work two jobs blah blah blah." Yup not only was he a talk overer, he was also a cut offer and a one upper. They'll never find the body.

                                [–]HaydenPlanettierium 4ポイント5ポイント  (5子コメント)

                                "You don't know" and "You don't understand" are two overused bits of hyperbole that I've grown to hate. If you come at me with that, you better have something I couldn't possibly empathize with. Because otherwise you are just invalidating me completely.

                                [–]whenim30iwilllook20[S] 175ポイント176ポイント  (19子コメント)

                                THIS IS FUCKING ITTTTT

                                I have a friend that I also had in mind when making this post.

                                Speaking loudly over everyone, constantly wanting to be the center of the conversation, and constantly talking about himself. If you have a conversation in his vicinity, you can bet your ass he will tell a story that trumphs yours.

                                [–]iPeeLavaLampGoo 31ポイント32ポイント  (8子コメント)

                                Or he'll interrupt when someone is telling a story to ask a question about a very minor detail or to reference a story he has that's similar or to let everyone know that he knows what you're talking about / what happens in the story.....

                                That guy?

                                [–]jonjonthemanman 33ポイント34ポイント  (2子コメント)

                                Or hes just making conversation meanwhile you never have jackshit to say and everyone thinks youre the creepy asshole that keeps talking shit about good guy greg.

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                                    [–]hyugafan 38ポイント39ポイント  (9子コメント)

                                    guilty of this, but I just have a loud voice... I'm sorry I'm a loudmouth, but I don't think I'm insecure.

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                                      [–]JojenReed2 1495ポイント1496ポイント  (188子コメント)

                                      Guy with a shirt on in a pool.

                                      [–]cyberexpert 834ポイント835ポイント  (28子コメント)

                                      Maybe he has a rocking bod but doesn't want other people in the pool get insecure

                                      [–]dick-nipples 624ポイント625ポイント  (22子コメント)

                                      That's the problem I have.

                                      [–]Ourlittleblessing 269ポイント270ポイント  (18子コメント)

                                      Well with those nipples, you really can't be too safe. Plus, a sunburn would wreak havoc.

                                      [–]ThePeoplesBard 151ポイント152ポイント  (13子コメント)

                                      When I was in college, I read a short story (or maybe a poem?) about a man who was hiking in the desert in the SW U.S., and hours into his hike, he realized he didn't put his dick away after his last piss and his pecker was sunburned. It was a beautiful metaphor for the fragility of life or some bullshit. Does anyone know what this was? I can't find it Googling "story sunburned dick".

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                                            [–]BitDow 77ポイント78ポイント  (6子コメント)

                                            I do that so I don't get a sunburn because I'm that white.

                                            [–]fatty_fatshits 382ポイント383ポイント  (20子コメント)

                                            He's just being considerate. I'm sure you'd prefer to look at his awesome teenage mutant ninja turtles shirt instead of his giant hairy breasts (of which he was mercilessly taunted for until grade 11).

                                            [–]tribecalledquest1 180ポイント181ポイント  (14子コメント)

                                            Dam that hit close to home...

                                            [–]fatty_fatshits 94ポイント95ポイント  (10子コメント)

                                            I speak from experience. And also from insecurity.

                                            [–]MadmanDJS 57ポイント58ポイント  (9子コメント)

                                            Maybe start with not calling yourself fatty_fatshits? I jest, the struggle prevails in my life also.

                                            [–]Civil_Barbarian 12ポイント13ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                            I'm sad now.

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                                                [–]Mardkayin 99ポイント100ポイント  (27子コメント)

                                                Once we get in the pool, we aren't getting back out until nobody's looking.

                                                [–]whenim30iwilllook20[S] 115ポイント116ポイント  (26子コメント)

                                                Ugh, I can relate to this so much, and was part of the reason I asked the question..

                                                See, I was born missing the right forearm. And up until I was about 14-15 years old, I was freakishly anxious about what people thought about it. Confidence was an issue.

                                                So whenever we where out on vacation in a tropical country, I would sprint in the water, and only try to get up when the least amount of people were around....

                                                Now I'm 20 years old, and confidence is through the roof now. I get compliments all the time, and people don't even THINK about the fact that I'm missing a part of my body - perhaps because of the fact that I am so confident in myself now.

                                                I see people all around me, and I wonder where other peoples insecurities come to the surface. This really hit home, haha.

                                                [–]writetaildeer 139ポイント140ポイント  (8子コメント)

                                                You should have only sprinted out of the water after dousing your arm with ketchup, screaming SHARRRRRKKKKK!

                                                [–]whenim30iwilllook20[S] 91ポイント92ポイント  (7子コメント)

                                                Hahahaha!

                                                See, when I was 15, I would've gotten mad and embarrassed by a joke like that..

                                                Now, I actually do that sometimes when the opportunity arises, to fuck with someone, haha.

                                                [–]boxoffice1 27ポイント28ポイント  (5子コメント)

                                                Holy shit I'm sorry for your anxiety about your difference but I need to ask this question and I feel so bad but please just go with me and I promise I'm not trying to be mean. When you say that you're missing your right forearm, does that include your hand as well or do you just have like a half arm with a hand attached to it? OP I tired to google it to see if that's a thing but all I found were people missing their hand as well. But the way you just specify your forearm makes me think that you still have your right hand. OP please

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                                                  [–]cameneyeha 139ポイント140ポイント  (17子コメント)

                                                  TIL mexicans are insecure

                                                  [–]LOLingMAO 74ポイント75ポイント  (12子コメント)

                                                  Fuck man, do you know the shit that's in the canals in Mexico? If you don't wear a shirt you could slip on a rock and cut your back. A shirt at least kind of warns you.

                                                  [–]megarack 22ポイント23ポイント  (2子コメント)

                                                  We do it to avoid sunburns :(

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                                                    [–]LearningLifeAsIGo 45ポイント46ポイント  (3子コメント)

                                                    This is why I don't go in the pool.

                                                    [–]3_14159 72ポイント73ポイント  (2子コメント)

                                                    "Why isn't he going in the pool?"

                                                    "He must be insecure."

                                                    :(

                                                    [–]TheVoiceOfRiesen 45ポイント46ポイント  (8子コメント)

                                                    I have manboobs, why wouldn't I be insecure?

                                                    [–]Endzeitkind 16ポイント17ポイント  (5子コメント)

                                                    Me too, but I don't give a fuck. Might have something to do with age. I'm almost 30, I have bigger problems.

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                                                      [–]Random-Miser 26ポイント27ポイント  (6子コメント)

                                                      Ha, I always wear a shirt in the pool, but it has absolutely nothing about insecurity, and everything about avoiding sun burn. A shirt is a hundred times better than any sunscreen to keep your skin from peeling off in nasty chunks. I don't bother wearing shirts swimming at night or in the shade though.

                                                      [–]RumAndWhiskey [スコア非表示]  (1子コメント)

                                                      Same. People can say what they want but after you've had a sunburn that causes blisters that shirt seems like a pretty damn good idea.

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                                                        [–]BRCstarthegreat 30ポイント31ポイント  (6子コメント)

                                                        I do that, but only because I'm skinny as fuck and I don't want people to think my parents are horrible people. :(

                                                        [–]MoonHopLite 39ポイント40ポイント  (5子コメント)

                                                        I do too. People know that its rude to point out people who are overweight (Most people anyways), but people also think its perfectly okay to point out people who are underweight and even crack jokes about it. In my experience, anyways.

                                                        [–]sfzen 7ポイント8ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                        I wear one at the beach a lot of the time, but it's mostly because I get sunburnt like a fucking vampire. Apply sunscreen, sit on beach, 30 minutes later, re-apply sunscreen and roll over so I cook sort of evenly. Fully baked in one hour or less.

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                                                          [–]ProjectMorpheus 611ポイント612ポイント  (87子コメント)

                                                          Teenage boys arguing over the strength of their country's militaries. Chinese and Russians in particular.

                                                          [–]WholeWheatJesus 87ポイント88ポイント  (15子コメント)

                                                          Russia is definitely better though right guys?

                                                          [–]EvilDoctor130 194ポイント195ポイント  (9子コメント)

                                                          DIRTY COMMIE SCUM GET OFF MY HARD EARNED LAND I EARNED WITH MY OWN SWEAT TEARS AND FECES GET OUT OF HERE WE DONT SUPPORT RUBLE HEADED BASTARDS LIKE YOU THIS IS A FIRST WORLD COUNTRY WHERE WE DONT SHOVE OUR HEADS INTO BEARS ASS AND DRINK POTATO JUICE ALL DAY U LIL KALASHNIKUNT I BET I CAN REK U IN A RACE OWP SORRY ALREADY HAPPENED COSMONAUT MORE LIKE KOSMO-NOT AMIRIT HYUK HYUKHYUK GO BACK TO YOUR BREAD LINE HAR HAR MEANWHILE ILL BE HERE TEACHING MY SON HOW TO RIDE MY BIKE AND MEET JOHNSON IN THAT PRESS MEETING WE HAVE O LOOK IM GETTING A CALL FROM HIM RIGHT NOW OH HELLO JOHNSON HOW IS THE BUSINESS REPORT GOING SPLENDID MHM YES INDEED WELL IVE FINISHED PAYING MY BILLS AND GOING TO PLAY BILLIARDS SEE YOU AT WORK CLICK

                                                          [–]Gluten_free_wheat 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                          I see you have an affinity for wheat.

                                                          [–]RockinMadRiot 16ポイント17ポイント  (3子コメント)

                                                          No, China is better.

                                                          [–]cocosoy 325ポイント326ポイント  (25子コメント)

                                                          As American, I always scoff at those arguments with a perfectly executed "pfft" combined eye roll.

                                                          [–]Cruzzfish1 10ポイント11ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                          It's great not having that disputed.

                                                          [–]Alex_The_Redditor 104ポイント105ポイント  (26子コメント)

                                                          cough cough USA

                                                          [–]Durbokii 114ポイント115ポイント  (9子コメント)

                                                          We will rain freedom all over your asses

                                                          [–]PolarBear89 37ポイント38ポイント  (3子コメント)

                                                          Well ,obviously they are arguing over 2nd place. No one doubts we have the mightiest military! We better, with how much we spent on it!

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                                                              [–]immagrownwoman 249ポイント250ポイント  (15子コメント)

                                                              Forever comparing yourselves to others

                                                              [–]kraliz 404ポイント405ポイント  (60子コメント)

                                                              People that can't be single for any amount of time. The type that get out of a serious relationship after 10+ years and are dating someone else within weeks... or days. Those are the types of people that advertise just how insecure they are about themselves.

                                                              [–]Rearranger_ 55ポイント56ポイント  (8子コメント)

                                                              Oh, and after they get into a relationship, they redefine themselves to match the person they are currently going out with.

                                                              [–]Yeti_Poet [スコア非表示]  (1子コメント)

                                                              Relationship chameleons! This spring she's into rock climbing, next summer she'll be into music festivals! Not just interested, INCREDIBLY VOCAL AND INVESTED!

                                                              [–]Pinksmus [スコア非表示]  (1子コメント)

                                                              Yuuuup. My ex had a guy lined up .00001 seconds after we broke up, and she's his fuckin' clone now. She was vegan up until he cocked his head at the idea, now she dyes her hair his favorite color and eats fuckin borscht.

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                                                                [–]boring_person 92ポイント93ポイント  (12子コメント)

                                                                I've been single for about a year after five and a half years. While I wish I had someone I could talk to about all the crazy shit in my head, the random thoughts and scenarios I run through my head pretty much non-stop again, it's pretty nice not having to check my plans with anyone. I do miss having someone sleeping by me during some (rare) rough nights, but overall it's pretty cool.

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                                                                  [–]OrangeOfRetreat 128ポイント129ポイント  (7子コメント)

                                                                  "Friends" that seem to get along pretty well between each other privately , but once in a large group, act completely differently and are plain dicks.

                                                                  [–]Quiwundi [スコア非表示]  (3子コメント)

                                                                  Damn I do this and I really need to stop

                                                                  [–]peon2 [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

                                                                  and are plain dicks

                                                                  Right? Is it too much trouble to bedazzle the schlong a little? Make it showy for fucks sake!

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                                                                    [–]cold_in_the_south 135ポイント136ポイント  (17子コメント)

                                                                    People who love to fish for compliments and/or put themselves down. You know you look cute in that shirt...don't try to put yourself down while wearing it.

                                                                    [–]TheEvster 230ポイント231ポイント  (6子コメント)

                                                                    http://imgur.com/4MpiVcc obligatory pic

                                                                    [–]totoro11 80ポイント81ポイント  (4子コメント)

                                                                    Idk to me, that actually seems confident. She knows she looks good and she's honest that she posted it to show off so at least she's self-aware.

                                                                    Edit:I feel like an idiot. I didn't read the top line of text. I'm keeping this comment up so others may learn from my mistakes.

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                                                                        [–]ItchyButtCheeks 102ポイント103ポイント  (6子コメント)

                                                                        Blaming others, nothing ever being your fault.

                                                                        [–]schmeer_spear 98ポイント99ポイント  (2子コメント)

                                                                        The Mirror.

                                                                        [–]Better_than_Trajan 114ポイント115ポイント  (13子コメント)

                                                                        Constantly asking the SO if they find other people attractive

                                                                        [–]Dorkysnelm 13ポイント14ポイント  (1子コメント)

                                                                        I'm guilty of that, but Its just because I like to know what people are attracted to. It's not just with an so, it's just a fun little look into other people's heads sometimes.

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                                                                          [–]Iowa_Viking 513ポイント514ポイント  (41子コメント)

                                                                          When manly men on reddit talk about how manly they are. "I'm a manly man with a beard who chops wood and eats rare steak with whiskey but this made me cry a single manly tear."

                                                                          [–]LookUpDontOverlook 102ポイント103ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                          Yeah I never thought about them being insecure before, but I hate that shit.

                                                                          [–]SpookyMeier 65ポイント66ポイント  (5子コメント)

                                                                          something something Ron Swanson

                                                                          [–]musical_throat_punch 15ポイント16ポイント  (4子コメント)

                                                                          That was beautiful. *sheds a single tear

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                                                                            [–]throwaway01000000000 243ポイント244ポイント  (36子コメント)

                                                                            Trying to be too nice, lacking opinion, and apologizing too much.

                                                                            [–]Love_Freckles 44ポイント45ポイント  (1子コメント)

                                                                            Yeah, that's me.

                                                                            [–]downvote_allmy_posts 165ポイント166ポイント  (12子コメント)

                                                                            we're looking at YOU Canada.

                                                                            [–]CacklingPickle 116ポイント117ポイント  (6子コメント)

                                                                            While I personally feel ambivalent about this, on behalf of all Canadians, I do apologize for such behaviour.

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                                                                              [–]tapeforkbox 12ポイント13ポイント  (2子コメント)

                                                                              Me too thanks

                                                                              [–]Aeto_the_Wizard [スコア非表示]  (1子コメント)

                                                                              It's not that I lack opinions, I just don't like to confront people about them (except for on the internet, of course).

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                                                                                [–]AnAppariti0n 114ポイント115ポイント  (16子コメント)

                                                                                Arguing something when you know you're wrong. Hating to be corrected is the most insecure thing ever.

                                                                                [–]3-cheese 40ポイント41ポイント  (8子コメント)

                                                                                Custom license plates that are flaunting. "S3LF MADE" "2FAST4U" etc

                                                                                [–]methinksitlikea 33ポイント34ポイント  (4子コメント)

                                                                                People who jump from one relationship to another like they are afraid to be single.

                                                                                [–]Angelswordd 248ポイント249ポイント  (76子コメント)

                                                                                Hands in pockets, not the "I'm just resting them" kind, I mean the "all the way to mid forearms deep, and walking around like that" kind.

                                                                                [–]Challa6 152ポイント153ポイント  (14子コメント)

                                                                                I'm not that insecure but I do that... I fidget a lot and I put my hands in pockets so I can keep them still.

                                                                                [–]AlekRivard 119ポイント120ポイント  (23子コメント)

                                                                                Speaking of mid-forearm deep

                                                                                [–]Mega_Bidoof 32ポイント33ポイント  (7子コメント)

                                                                                I put my hands in my pockets all the time, mostly because it's a lot more natural than having your arms awkwardly dangling from your body while you're standing still because you don't know where to put them. That isn't insecure, is it?

                                                                                [–]nsto 16ポイント17ポイント  (1子コメント)

                                                                                It's also the sloped shoulders that go along with that posture

                                                                                [–]johnscoats 19ポイント20ポイント  (3子コメント)

                                                                                i fail to see how this screams insecurity

                                                                                [–]3_14159 4ポイント5ポイント  (4子コメント)

                                                                                What about in the winter?

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                                                                                  [–]Contraband_Fruit 103ポイント104ポイント  (10子コメント)

                                                                                  Whenever an attractive girl walks by, and the older women pre-emptively look at me to see how I'm reacting to her.

                                                                                  I can feel your dirty look. And it isn't making you look any prettier.

                                                                                  [–]grffnbone [スコア非表示]  (4子コメント)

                                                                                  People do that ... 0.o

                                                                                  [–]Contraband_Fruit [スコア非表示]  (3子コメント)

                                                                                  Oohhh yeah. Ursula Complex. Every time I go out, it happens at least once.

                                                                                  Try this- next time you're out at the store or something and a pretty girl walks by, look at what the older/unattractive women do. First they look at that girl, then they stare daggers at you to see if you're checking out that girl.

                                                                                  I've gotten up to the point where I won't even try to avert my gaze.

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                                                                                    [–]thinhotboy 13ポイント14ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                                    after an awkward situation with someone, i totally ignore them now even though we're working together in a group

                                                                                    P.S: its my own insecurity that i think some can relate

                                                                                    [–]bla_bla_blacksheep 49ポイント50ポイント  (6子コメント)

                                                                                    Consistently judging random strangers about the most mundane things. I mean sure, we all judge people when we walk down the street, but keep that shit to yourself.

                                                                                    Also, overconfidence.

                                                                                    [–]Spenerwill 60ポイント61ポイント  (8子コメント)

                                                                                    This is a thing my friend is super guilty of:

                                                                                    Making all of your jokes centered around putting other people down.

                                                                                    (We're in high school) bragging about the one time you got laid and never missing an opportunity to say "I can't hear you over the sound of your v-card."

                                                                                    Always talking about how you'll beat the shit out of some kid that's pissing you off. It's always someone at least 2 years younger than us, never the same or bigger than him, and let's be real dude, you've never been in a fight and you'll likely never be in one. Stop saying your gonna beat up kids when we both know that'll never happen.

                                                                                    [–]BeanieMcChimp 121ポイント122ポイント  (9子コメント)

                                                                                    Walking around with a tattered blanket all the time. I mean wtf, kid. Grow some balls.

                                                                                    [–]Lenore_23 195ポイント196ポイント  (86子コメント)

                                                                                    Avoiding eye contact.

                                                                                    [–]IntHatBar 46ポイント47ポイント  (10子コメント)

                                                                                    Try not to assume that going into a conversation, you may be surprised what it really means.

                                                                                    [–]Lenore_23 54ポイント55ポイント  (7子コメント)

                                                                                    The inability to hold eye contact (as opposed to intentionally avoiding it) is actually a very common symptom of social anxiety disorder.

                                                                                    Source: my CBT-therapist

                                                                                    [–]Wilburied 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                                    Yep. I deal with this all the time. I try to make up for it by paying very close attention to what people are saying and asking questions that try to show that I'm taking it in.

                                                                                    If you can get people to play cards or something like that you've got a reason to look away.

                                                                                    It sucks.

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                                                                                        [–]Alden0 169ポイント170ポイント  (46子コメント)

                                                                                        During a conversion I avoid eye contact at times because I just get uncomfortable when I hold eye contact for a long period of time. It has nothing to do with being insecure for me.

                                                                                        [–]Bowlslaw 134ポイント135ポイント  (33子コメント)

                                                                                        I think it does have deeper insecurities. Why are you so uncomfortable? Let's all psychoanalyze him, fellow armchair psychologists!

                                                                                        [–]DBAY012 62ポイント63ポイント  (16子コメント)

                                                                                        well nobody STARES at the other person during the whole conversation, you just look,maintain for what feels naturally comfortable and then diverge for a second, maybe look up to the ceiling while you're laughing or whatever....someone who maintains eye contact for a very long time is usually pissed about something or intending on being aggressive

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                                                                                            [–]Dismalhead 31ポイント32ポイント  (6子コメント)

                                                                                            Fuck eye contact. It's too different for different cultures, including sub-cultures within the US. Also studies done with students show that making someone look at you makes them less likely to remember what you're saying.

                                                                                            [–]tallwindycitychik 6ポイント7ポイント  (1子コメント)

                                                                                            That's culture specific though. Some cultures don't do eye contact when speaking with elders as a sign of respect. Eye contact is seen as viewing someone as your equal or as a challenge. Transplant someone from one of those cultures into America and they appear to lack confidence. Transplant yourself into their culture and you come across as arrogant and rude.

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                                                                                              [–]StandardBlue 140ポイント141ポイント  (76子コメント)

                                                                                              PDA, or at least excessive amounts of it.

                                                                                              [–]Silent-b0b 71ポイント72ポイント  (1子コメント)

                                                                                              No, you're schmoopie!

                                                                                              [–]Contraband_Fruit 20ポイント21ポイント  (6子コメント)

                                                                                              Fun fact: The people who are horrible with their PDAs (or the ones who do constant schmoopying over Facebook) always have the messiest break-ups. Whenever I see someone posting about, "My super sexy boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/etc" a break-up is on the horizon. Every. Time.

                                                                                              [–]Strixxi 35ポイント36ポイント  (2子コメント)

                                                                                              For me it's when people get uncomfortable around PDA, although I would agree with you in the cases where they are pretty much having sex in the middle of the grocery store

                                                                                              [–]Alex_The_Redditor 10ポイント11ポイント  (48子コメント)

                                                                                              What is that?

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                                                                                                [–]Starl19ht_2 134ポイント135ポイント  (28子コメント)

                                                                                                Acting overly straight. If you were comfortable in your sexuality, then the sight of a dick shouldn't send you into a fit if testosterone.

                                                                                                People who act overly straight just scream "closeted" to me. It's the 21st century people, loosen up.

                                                                                                [–]Poppenhoffer [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

                                                                                                As a straight guy completely comfortable in his own sexuality, I make gay jokes about myself all the time! It's funny and it's a good way to freak out all those overly manly guys who try to act tougher than everyone else. Plus I'm an athlete, so everyone in the locker room already acts pretty gay anyway.

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                                                                                                  [–]n3rdopolis 33ポイント34ポイント  (2子コメント)

                                                                                                  Running a Internet Explorer as "NT AUTHORITY\SYSTEM" on a Windows computer...

                                                                                                  [–]MyBobaFetish 43ポイント44ポイント  (7子コメント)

                                                                                                  Cockiness. Usually the ones who have to talk about what a "real man" or a "bad bitch" they are, are very insecure.

                                                                                                  [–]StrongBad_IsMad 17ポイント18ポイント  (1子コメント)

                                                                                                  Facebook invitation to Carrie-Anne's 4th annual 29th birthday bash.

                                                                                                  [–]-eDgAR- 37ポイント38ポイント  (13子コメント)

                                                                                                  Seeing these on a truck.

                                                                                                  [–]Docdoesit 6ポイント7ポイント  (1子コメント)

                                                                                                  People who always criticize other people for how they look or how they act. Once you criticize them they feel attacked. Basically people who can talk crap but not take it.

                                                                                                  [–]letshidd 6ポイント7ポイント  (1子コメント)

                                                                                                  Always having to "one up" people. Like always having to be better or always having to have a bigger problem.

                                                                                                  [–]Whoelseisbored [スコア非表示]  (1子コメント)

                                                                                                  When couples share social media accounts.

                                                                                                  [–]bossyar 25ポイント26ポイント  (10子コメント)

                                                                                                  Fat guys who tug outwardly on their shirts

                                                                                                  [–]burningmidnight 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                                                  Self proclaimed "nice" people.

                                                                                                  [–]PainMatrix 10ポイント11ポイント  (4子コメント)

                                                                                                  The perpetual check-in:

                                                                                                  Eg "What do you think? Does this look okay? Am I crazy or...?"

                                                                                                  [–]corby315 18ポイント19ポイント  (2子コメント)

                                                                                                  Not trusting your SO.

                                                                                                  Even when they are simply talking to a member of the opposite sex you think something is going on. This leads to smothering and false accusations, which inevitably leads to resentment.

                                                                                                  [–]Monomart 54ポイント55ポイント  (26子コメント)

                                                                                                  Refusing EVERYTHING.

                                                                                                  "Do you want some water?"

                                                                                                  is dying of thirst "uh, n-no thanks..."

                                                                                                  is a common example

                                                                                                  [–]Space_Cowboy21 29ポイント30ポイント  (18子コメント)

                                                                                                  That's insecurity? Can you elaborate?

                                                                                                  [–]FutureGeriatric 53ポイント54ポイント  (9子コメント)

                                                                                                  I'm not OP, but I've done the thing that OP described. It's more a fear of causing others inconvenience (which is an insecure fear to have).

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