I'm not sure what is ignorant about your case in saying that it, as clearly outlined, was not rape.
It's not that hard a thing to understand, really. Your rational is that rape victims can be partially blamed for being raped, because you don't want to come to terms with your decision.
You think regret = rape. And that has large consequences to society at large, and makes a mockery of real rape victims. It's disgusting.
Do you count it is a "win" if you get the last word?
Since you brought it up, it must mean that's the case for you. After all, you've said you've been done several times now, but you keep trying to get the last word in. So, that matches your behavior.