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[–]PM_BiscuitsAndGravy 822ポイント823ポイント  (30子コメント)

The husband just had to have a traditional white cake.

[–]posts_crazy_ideas 269ポイント270ポイント  (0子コメント)

Total Groomzilla.

[–]NikkoE82 60ポイント61ポイント  (0子コメント)

At least he was willing to compromise.

[–]lannhues 39ポイント40ポイント  (0子コメント)

You know, he always has been rather sensitive.

[–]Heavyonthesarcasm 29ポイント30ポイント  (7子コメント)

I showed this to my girlfriend and she said "why can't we just have the whole marvel cake?"

[–]StopBeingDumb 8ポイント9ポイント  (9子コメント)

That's where I am confused.

Where I come from there is the wedding cake, aka the big (in comparison) white one.

Then there is the groomscake, which is smaller and is often decorated in a humorous fashion, such as marvel characters, or just a chocolate cake to provide variety of deserts.

My cousin went so far as to have banana pudding, cause let's face it. Good banana pudding is ace.

[–]ananori 30ポイント31ポイント  (2子コメント)

Ah, what better way to celebrate the union of two people than two separate cakes for each.

[–]Hexxman007 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

grooms cakes have been a part of weddings for well over 100 years. They are symbolic of the single man giving up his decadence to the purity of the bride. Thats why they are traidtionally choclate frosted cakes and usually very bold colored. Now we know brides are hardly pure, but the thought is what counts.

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        [–]DanHamid 1130ポイント1131ポイント  (76子コメント)

        Kill Me

        [–]funkybassmannick 245ポイント246ポイント  (17子コメント)

        The whole thing looks like spiderman wearing a hat, giving the finger, with a mysteriously placed Iron Man head.

        [–]elriggo44 80ポイント81ポイント  (3子コメント)

        Spider-Man calls his dick iron-man and puts the mask on it when he is in his suit.

        It's canon....look it up.

        [–]funkybassmannick 18ポイント19ポイント  (1子コメント)

        So many alternate timelines... could be possible

        [–]therocker791 7ポイント8ポイント  (0子コメント)

        I wouldn't even know what to type to avoid a porno showing up.

        [–]hephaestus1219 18ポイント19ポイント  (2子コメント)

        That's just spooky Iron Man axe midget...

        [–]bkcoldshott 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

        Pretty much what I came to the comments to say. Up arrow for you

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          [–]combatchuck103 331ポイント332ポイント  (14子コメント)

          Ehrn Mern

          [–]Theedon 137ポイント138ポイント  (8子コメント)

          Later

          [–]RainTea 57ポイント58ポイント  (3子コメント)

          Archimedes

          [–]Wolfbane5001 23ポイント24ポイント  (2子コメント)

          NO! ...It's chocolate in zhere.

          [–]ChurchOfSkatan 12ポイント13ポイント  (1子コメント)

          AND ZE DOCTOR WAS NEVER HEARD FROM AGAIN!! AHA!!

          [–]pmeaney 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

          Anyway, that's how I lost my medical license.

          [–]DrivingMyType59 9ポイント10ポイント  (0子コメント)

          Where was I? Ah here we go.

          [–]Asmundr 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

          Reference

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            [–]PickleSlice 109ポイント110ポイント  (13子コメント)

            I too had a derpy Iron Man on my wedding cake.

            http://i.imgur.com/0tpTmak.jpg

            [–]estrangedflipbook 11ポイント12ポイント  (1子コメント)

            This is exactly what i came to the comments for, thank you.

            [–]sudstah 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

            spidey is at it again!

            [–]aboveandbeyond27 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

            Yes, with my stomach I will.

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              [–]M1L3N 794ポイント795ポイント  (37子コメント)

              The compromise is having both Marvel and DC, right? :)

              ps. that's a great idea for the wedding cake!

              [–]Sandcracker 133ポイント134ポイント  (14子コメント)

              One of these things is not like the other.

              [–]TheCodeJanitor 56ポイント57ポイント  (11子コメント)

              Yeah, Spider-Man hasn't had a decent movie come out in the last 10 years.

              (Mostly kidding, I actually liked Amazing Spider-Man... but it's been over 10 years since Spider-Man 2 which is crazy)

              [–]Cessnaporsche01 38ポイント39ポイント  (8子コメント)

              I kinda wish Marvel was able to keep Andrew Garfield as Spiderman. He made a good Peter Parker.

              [–]player_three3 75ポイント76ポイント  (6子コメント)

              He made a good Spider-Man. Peter Parker on the other hand isn't nearly as suave as Andrew Garfield plays him.

              [–]B_jerrell 94ポイント95ポイント  (1子コメント)

              Tobey McGuire was the perfect Peter Parker. Andrew Garfield was the perfect Spider-Man. Only their love child could rise to accurately portray Peter Parker and Spider-Man.

              [–]Flannel_Channel 10ポイント11ポイント  (0子コメント)

              Just get Andrew Garfield to watch the dancing scene from Spiderman 3 and he'll be pregnant.

              [–]Cash091 16ポイント17ポイント  (1子コメント)

              Right?! Garfield was way too cool, and McGuire was way too lame. Where is the middle ground? They should have Daniel Radcliffe take it over. He is a decent balance of nerdy and cool.

              [–]slowest_hour 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

              That's a great description of Danny Rad.

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                    [–]fork_yuu 24ポイント25ポイント  (0子コメント)

                    They don't know where batman is?

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                      [–]Superty1 45ポイント46ポイント  (1子コメント)

                      If your husband is willing to mix the 2 then leave him

                      [–]SenorDing_Dong 41ポイント42ポイント  (11子コメント)

                      that's a great idea for the wedding cake!

                      If you're six.

                      [–]Barkatsuki 94ポイント95ポイント  (2子コメント)

                      No a wedding is between 2 people, not 6.

                      [–]20quid 64ポイント65ポイント  (2子コメント)

                      Good point well made SenorDing_Dong. You truly are a bastion of maturity.

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                          [–]Redditkilledmycat 159ポイント160ポイント  (3子コメント)

                          I wanted a marble cake, not Marvel cake!

                          [–]Soleil14 99ポイント100ポイント  (12子コメント)

                          I thought spiderman was giving me the finger at first.

                          [–]DysenteryBarry 320ポイント321ポイント  (41子コメント)

                          It hurts me that 3 of the layers are Marvel yet one is DC.

                          [–]HITNRUNXX 235ポイント236ポイント  (13子コメント)

                          That's the compromise.

                          [–]gbowjixsen 6ポイント7ポイント  (3子コメント)

                          why cant you like marvel and dc? they like rivals or something ?

                          [–]Low_discrepancy 8ポイント9ポイント  (0子コメント)

                          But the Batman one looks like it's giving everybody the finger.

                          [–]gmark109 24ポイント25ポイント  (17子コメント)

                          Me too. What are those other three layers doing there? (Please don't kill me, I love all those characters).

                          [–]Zuggy 36ポイント37ポイント  (16子コメント)

                          I love all those characters

                          Robert Downey Jr. is the only reason anyone likes Marvel's second rate Batman.

                          [–]oginalh 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

                          You mean RDJ is the only reason people like RDJ... He is iron man.

                          [–]00nightsteel 5ポイント6ポイント  (1子コメント)

                          He is Iron man... And yeah but he's so freaking awesome I can't see anyone else as Iron man now...

                          [–]Zuggy 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

                          I absolutely I agree. RDJ really turned Iron Man into an amazing character in the MCU. I would say if they try replacing any of the actors RDJ will be the hardest by far.

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                              [–]RollAd20 9ポイント10ポイント  (0子コメント)

                              Surprised by all the hate this cake is getting. Poorly titled by the way. The bride wanted the cake too. Both the bride and groom wanted a cake to show both their serious/classy side and their fun side. They both planned the design of the cake together. (Link)

                              It would probably be easier to accept/enjoy if we were actually friends of the couple.

                              In general, it's a really cool concept and you could really put anything in place of the superheroes. Even just a fun design.

                              Everyone who is hating on it, well. At least it wasn't your wedding? And the people throwing the word "manchild" around are the ones who truly need to grow up.

                              [–]yourMOMvg 52ポイント53ポイント  (2子コメント)

                              Wedding equivalent of the mullet right there: business up front, party in the rear.

                              [–]Crouch_Ender 75ポイント76ポイント  (9子コメント)

                              The lady that made this is making our wedding cake too. We've got a Monopoly theme.

                              It was actually quite affordable.

                              [–]TexasSnyper 79ポイント80ポイント  (2子コメント)

                              Must be one of the first two rows then

                              [–]skadoosh0019 17ポイント18ポイント  (0子コメント)

                              "For that price, best I can do is Connecticut Ave."

                              [–]trippy_grape 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

                              It sounds like she has a monopoly on niche wedding cakes.

                              [–]Tatsuuu 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

                              OMG you should totally make a wedding game with over sized die! I've seen it done, one of those things to do to get the bride and groom to kiss instead of clinking glasses.

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                                [–]CivetSeattle 168ポイント169ポイント  (68子コメント)

                                I'll say. That much fondant is a major compromise.

                                [–]ChunkyTruffleButter 21ポイント22ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                Didnt have to scroll far for this circle jerk

                                [–]Perplexico 58ポイント59ポイント  (52子コメント)

                                Fondant is some nasty shiz.

                                [–]starphaser 16ポイント17ポイント  (15子コメント)

                                I have actually had some really good Fondant but its really hard to find.

                                [–]JustARoomba 70ポイント71ポイント  (11子コメント)

                                It's called Buttercream.

                                Edit: I want to be clear: Buttercream is not fondant. I was being facetious. Fondant is always gross.

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                                    [–]KaChilde 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                    Everyone grab the dick to your left, we're goin' on a circlejerk!

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                                      [–]Broussed 66ポイント67ポイント  (11子コメント)

                                      I just want to know how many people would be defending this cake if it was a MLP cake or a ICP cake, and not something every Redditor was obsessed with.

                                      [–]Everybodygetslaid69 19ポイント20ポイント  (5子コメント)

                                      Every highly upvoted comment would be just tearing the cake apart. But it resonates with the nerdy sensibilities of reddit. This feels like "leave brittney alone"

                                      [–]HungryHippo1492 6ポイント7ポイント  (4子コメント)

                                      its bad because as someone who grew up reading and loving comics, I just feel like the odd trendiness of the media cheapens my enjoyment of it. like, yeah, spider-man is great and I love the comics but fuck me am I getting tired of "hurr durr look at mah marrvull stuff plebbit! le upboatzz! XDDDDDD"

                                      [–]blackOnGreen 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                      My cousin got a full leg tattoo of the avengers a couple weeks ago... never saw him read a comic, never heard him geek out about anything related to them. What a fuckin tool

                                      [–]DogPoop_Longitude 6ポイント7ポイント  (2子コメント)

                                      I'm with you brother. All I think when I see this shit is "That sensible woman is marrying a child. Why can't this guy just not give a fuck about the cake like every other red blooded North American male?"

                                      [–]dinosaurs_quietly 6ポイント7ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                      Honestly I don't like either cake concept, but if it makes the couple happy then who cares.

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                                        [–]ChaosMotor 23ポイント24ポイント  (1子コメント)

                                        Three Marvel and a DC? Yeah, there were some serious compromises made here.

                                        [–]KindaPatrick 37ポイント38ポイント  (1子コメント)

                                        Be careful biting into it. It's probably soap.

                                        [–]CrudelyAnimated 31ポイント32ポイント  (13子コメント)

                                        I know couples that would do this, plus wedding party cosplay and Klingon finger food. I saw a beautiful outdoor wedding in sundresses and off-white casual jackets, not a necktie in sight. It may not be traditional or "adult", but it's fun for the couple and probably most of their friends in attendance. The line for grousing about the newlyweds starts on the white side of the cake. The rest of us, at the bat-signal.

                                        [–]drexpendable2 7ポイント8ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                        Klingon finger food

                                        Where did they find the live gagh?

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                                          [–]Scurvydog29 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                          Everyone here is taking cake way to fucking seriously

                                          [–]ChexBoxJuanito 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                          "Pretty cool that children are allowed to marry"

                                          -Jared

                                          [–]nMaibO 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                          People are too obsessed with superheroes.

                                          [–]IncredbleFartKnocker 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                          Is she marrying a child?

                                          [–]FredFredrickson 93ポイント94ポイント  (19子コメント)

                                          Not a comic hater at all, but I just don't understand why you'd want comic book franchises to be part of a wedding cake. It's like having the baker put your favorite soda brands on the side of it.

                                          [–]cleaver_username 12ポイント13ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                          Have you ever met a Monster drinker? lol

                                          [–]pumpkinarium 67ポイント68ポイント  (7子コメント)

                                          Or your favourite sports team, or a rendition of your favourite artwork, or literally anything that you're passionate about. A little unusual, sure, but if and your husband share a mutual passion for stomping around conventions in full stormtrooper armour, maybe a fondant rendering of the Death Star has earned a place on your wedding cake.

                                          [–]sailorh 14ポイント15ポイント  (5子コメント)

                                          If they both share a passion for it, sure. But if it was really a "compromise" that one person wanted it and the other didn't then it has nothing to do with mutual passions.

                                          [–]NoGuide 27ポイント28ポイント  (3子コメント)

                                          Could've been a compromise between what the couple wanted and what their parents/families wanted. There's usually a lot of pressure there.

                                          [–]Adacore 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                          Or just a compromise between what the couple wanted and another thing the couple also wanted. There doesn't even have to be any antagonism.

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                                                [–]ThereWereNoPrequels 3ポイント4ポイント  (1子コメント)

                                                What everyone is ignoring is that comics are less about the superhero costumes and more about the storytelling. Perhaps the cake was made for a couple who embodied things that they admire in those heroes? Perhaps they attribute humor to Spider-Man, or steadfastness to ironman, or dedication to captain America, or batman represents the desire to have a badass man cave and a sweet car with machine guns built in.

                                                Perhaps everyone is just taking this cake too much at face value without considering, what does it mean to the couple?

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                                                  [–]Cynykl 110ポイント111ポイント  (34子コメント)

                                                  Fondant, not even once.

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                                                    [–]TheAlmightySHITFUCK 32ポイント33ポイント  (7子コメント)

                                                    Ahh yes, here we are! I was looking for the fondant hate train! Whenever I'm at a celebration of some sort and I see them bring out a cake covered in fondant, I cry a little inside. It's a shame that awesome looking cakes have to be covered in that stuff. Buttercream master race!

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                                                      [–]smf159 16ポイント17ポイント  (2子コメント)

                                                      Marshmallow fondant..just as pretty and tastes a million times better

                                                      [–]kaalaaaa 12ポイント13ポイント  (17子コメント)

                                                      Well you need to make a compromise between taste and looks.

                                                      [–]caesareansalad 37ポイント38ポイント  (9子コメント)

                                                      Buttercream can look very nice if people have the skills to do so. It's difficult to get it so smooth but it's possible (examples here).

                                                      On the other hand... yes, fondant tastes awful, but man can I upcharge the crap out of my cakes when people ask for it.

                                                      [–]Whit3W0lf 14ポイント15ポイント  (8子コメント)

                                                      The pastry shop where I live has the best tasting cakes around and I actually like their fondant. I didn't realize there was hate for it, then again, different strokes.

                                                      [–]Bennyboy1337 15ポイント16ポイント  (4子コメント)

                                                      Buttercream tastes so much better, and can look just as good, you just can't do crazy stuff with it like you can do with Fondant.

                                                      [–]Perplexico 6ポイント7ポイント  (1子コメント)

                                                      It takes a lot more skill to make buttercream look amazing than fondant -- fondant's a no-brainer. Too bad it's nasty.

                                                      [–]usedtobecool84 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                      Yes, but even then, you can do something simple and elegant...it doesn't have to be designer artwork to look good. (But it does need to not have fondant to taste good)!

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                                                        [–]Cynykl 12ポイント13ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                        I have seen stunning wedding cakes that did not use fondant. If you want something for pure looks I suggest your wedding feature an ice sculpture.

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                                                            [–]V0NDERBACH 560ポイント561ポイント  (357子コメント)

                                                            I love comic book characters but I would never be so childish as to have it on a wedding cake.

                                                            [–]Lemina 256ポイント257ポイント  (13子コメント)

                                                            "Today, my wife and I profess our undying love and eternal devotion to each other. Oh and yeah ... I also want everyone to know that I really like comic books."

                                                            [–]Greg_PC 538ポイント539ポイント  (119子コメント)

                                                            Some people don't take things like weddings so seriously. I think it's a fun idea. Most weddings are too stuffy - it's a party after all!

                                                            [–]BaconCheeseBurger 90ポイント91ポイント  (3子コメント)

                                                            I can assure you whoever commissioned that cake was indeed taking it "seriously." That's an expensive, custom cake, not some Sam's club birthday cake with free engraving on top.

                                                            [–]hoodie92 207ポイント208ポイント  (39子コメント)

                                                            The "stuffiness" is what makes it fun. Otherwise everyone would just get married at the bar.

                                                            [–]mattywegman 115ポイント116ポイント  (17子コメント)

                                                            I did get married at a bar...

                                                            [–]hoodie92 72ポイント73ポイント  (4子コメント)

                                                            Fair enough, but I did say "everyone", not "one dude on Reddit".

                                                            [–]swoleinjesus 17ポイント18ポイント  (7子コメント)

                                                            I got married on a bridge and the pastor handed me a fifth of Jameson for our communion.

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                                                              [–]Chicky587 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                              My ex had his reception at a bar....he got kicked out of his own reception....I'm glad I didn't keep him

                                                              [–]majeric 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                              You confusing formalism with effortful. One can have an elaborate celebration with whatever theme that reflects their personality. for some it might be formal wear. For others comic book heroes. Another might be medieval costumes.

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                                                                  [–]mootz4 136ポイント137ポイント  (14子コメント)

                                                                  I don't know why, but I get the feeling that people who identify strongly with "nerd" culture feel as though they need to inject it into every aspect of their lives. Maybe its like a natural reaction to the "its just a phase" comments they got from their parents as kids...like some kind of "SEE MOM! I TOLD YOU MARIO WAS MY LIFE! HE'S ON MY WEDDING CAKE" thing.

                                                                  Then again people are just as obsessive with football culture...

                                                                  [–]pumpkinarium 75ポイント76ポイント  (10子コメント)

                                                                  I think what you're missing is the fact that nerds generally hang out with other nerds. If you're a geek and you're a huge Assassin's Creed fan and your bridesmaids and groomsmen are all huge dorks, suddenly those cosplay wedding photos make a lot more sense. It's not about flaunting it to the mundanes, it's about laughing with the people you love -- people who get it -- while you pretend to shank them in the ribs.

                                                                  [–]DAE_90sKid 9ポイント10ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                  I've played football for over a decade, love it and it's a huge part of what I've become, but I still think it'd be stupid to have a football themed wedding.

                                                                  [–]VAPossum 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                  Then again people are just as obsessive with football culture...

                                                                  That's the thing. You have hunting, sports, religious, university, ethnicity-that-is-not-your-own, historical, Disney, even color themed weddings, and no one blinks. But you have some fun with one set of Batman cufflinks and some superheroes on a cake, and suddenly you're the weirdo.

                                                                  Some friends of mine had a Star Wars wedding, with optional dress up. It was in a park, and the whole wedding party (and some guests) came in costumes of their choosing, and they exited through a sword arch of lightsabers. And it was awesome.

                                                                  No one remembers buttercream and white peonies, but they remember lightsabers, laughter, and a celebration of who you are and what brought you together.

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                                                                    [–]joalr0 116ポイント117ポイント  (28子コメント)

                                                                    A wedding should be a celebration of the couple who are getting married. If comic books represents a piece of who they are, then there isn't anything wrong in embracing that.

                                                                    I have always believed that there is nothing more childish than to give up what you love out of the fear of being perceived as childish.

                                                                    [–]SSBBWgirl 48ポイント49ポイント  (7子コメント)

                                                                    My problem with it is not that it's childish or un-serious, more that it's commodified. Those are corporate images. I find it just as weird when people style weddings to make things look like Tiffany boxes (even though the colors are cool). I am aware that this is an argument most people wouldn't share btw. Downvote away.

                                                                    Beautifully done cake, though!

                                                                    [–]20quid 8ポイント9ポイント  (1子コメント)

                                                                    Would you have preferred the cake had the V for Vendetta mask on it?

                                                                    [–]tcorts 13ポイント14ポイント  (2子コメント)

                                                                    To me, those super hero symbols don't necessarily say "corporate" to me, although I suppose they are. Tiffany & Co. is just a store, but the superheroes are characters from stories, with emotional connections that have probably affected the groom and/or bride's lives.

                                                                    Sure, they are corporate images, but they have a very different meaning than a Tiffany box or McDonald's arches. They don't represent companies; they represent people who want to make the world a good place.

                                                                    [–]SSBBWgirl 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                    I meant corporate in the literal sense. Whatever feelings you have about them, they're still copyrighted, lawyer-managed images. Feels weird to me in this context, even though I understand what you're saying. <---just my $.02

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                                                                        [–]hIDeMyID 49ポイント50ポイント  (2子コメント)

                                                                        I wonder if they'll be spending their wedding night on Spider-Man sheets in a bed shaped like the Bat-mobile?

                                                                        [–]caesareansalad 92ポイント93ポイント  (4子コメント)

                                                                        Maybe they both like comic books? Or maybe they have a sense of humor? I don't see an issue with it, then again I'm kind of weird myself and I also make wedding cakes.

                                                                        [–]LiftsEatsSleeps 16ポイント17ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                        I really don't think it's childish to plan your special day the way you will most enjoy it in agreement with your future spouse. If anything this is a pretty good indicator that they accept eachother as they are and are willing to compromise, very adult.

                                                                        [–]choochmonster 21ポイント22ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                        This type of garbage is pretty much done so people can post it on the internet and show everyone how hip and different they are.

                                                                        [–]Daft_Funk87 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                        Well...I would be...

                                                                        [–]The_Unreal 30ポイント31ポイント  (23子コメント)

                                                                        Conflating one's preferences with maturity is a common failing of adolescence.

                                                                        [–]bergamaut 58ポイント59ポイント  (8子コメント)

                                                                        It's not about liking comic books. It's about liking comic books to such a degree that you want it to be part of a wedding cake.

                                                                        This guy didn't wear a comic book tee under his tux coat, right? Actually, don't answer that...

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                                                                            [–]avball 47ポイント48ポイント  (5子コメント)

                                                                            Light hearted groom's cakes featuring his interests aren't exactly a new idea. Doing a half and half cake is pretty cool. Not surprised at all the people on Reddit making judgemental comments about total strangers.

                                                                            [–]kyle_albasi 29ポイント30ポイント  (2子コメント)

                                                                            You're judging it as pretty cool. I'm judging it as kinda lame. I thought the comment section was to share your opinion on the thing.

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                                                                              [–]gigthem 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                              Anyone else think it looks like a bride's dress lifted up in the back, exposing her classic super hero undies?

                                                                              [–]itsallgoodtogo 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                              How old are you?

                                                                              [–]Willtheemulator 24ポイント25ポイント  (5子コメント)

                                                                              I love this idea. It wouldn't be a compromise in my relationship between what my SO and I want, because we are both nerds. But it would be a cool twist on the traditional wedding cake (expected by friends and family).

                                                                              [–]TargetBoy 14ポイント15ポイント  (2子コメント)

                                                                              That is a great way to look at it as well. It wasn't a compromise between the bride and groom, but between the two of them and the conventional expectations of everyone else.

                                                                              [–]zombiimatt 16ポイント17ポイント  (1子コメント)

                                                                              Finally someone who isn't a complete jackass. Thank you. After reading all of the other posts putting this cake down. I was starting to wonder if my wife and I were one of the only nerdy couples that are adults that enjoy comics and superheroes.

                                                                              [–]Willtheemulator 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                              Yeah, I am not absolutely in love with this particular design. Personally, I prefer more subtle and even abstract references (especially if it was my wedding), but that's just an opinion on aesthetics. I do like the concept, though. Either way, if it's our wedding, and we're paying for the cake, then my SO and I will make it look however we want! I actually showed him this, and we brainstormed what nerdy references we would use in a cake like this.

                                                                              [–]Ponceuse 6ポイント7ポイント  (3子コメント)

                                                                              Why do people insist on inserting fucking super heroes in everything? This is the day you are getting married to a real person, how is your mediocre taste in comics/film THAT relevant? It is a cake.

                                                                              [–]Taucher1979 3ポイント4ポイント  (2子コメント)

                                                                              You have said what I was thinking better than I could. I feel like my generation consists of over-grown children.

                                                                              [–]Iworkonspace 16ポイント17ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                              I'll never get the comic book infatuation

                                                                              [–]ThePensAreMightier 9ポイント10ポイント  (2子コメント)

                                                                              Do the buildings on the right side of the Batman portion look like a hand giving the middle finger to anyone else?

                                                                              [–]MAG7C 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                              Yes, first thing I noticed for some reason. Need to check in with my therapist...

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                                                                                [–]lsrwLuke 10ポイント11ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                                Iron man wants someone to put him out of his misery.

                                                                                [–]n00dzR4n00bz 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                                Plot twist, he wanted the traditional cake, she wanted the heroes.

                                                                                [–]fecal_cocktail 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                                That's not compromise. Both of them wanted their thing and didn't compromise a fucking bit. In other words, Two Zillas.

                                                                                [–]Someuserguy 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                                If you pretend Iron Man just got thrown through the cake by The Hulk then it's not so bad.

                                                                                [–]Duckism 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                                This is really cute I think their marriage will work

                                                                                [–]M0dusPwnens 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                                That's not a compromise, that's a cake with a secret identity.

                                                                                [–]Thierry_Ennui 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                                That awkward moment when all your friends and family realize you are marrying a man-child.

                                                                                [–]__dilligaf__ 23ポイント24ポイント  (45子コメント)

                                                                                Marriage is all about compromise. I have high hopes for this couple.

                                                                                [–]mrmustard12 38ポイント39ポイント  (20子コメント)

                                                                                you know what marriage isn't about though? Thousand dollar cakes

                                                                                [–]m1m 16ポイント17ポイント  (2子コメント)

                                                                                oh god are we really going to fucking get into this conversation again and again and again on reddit?

                                                                                "I had a $2 wedding, and my wife & I are SO happy. much happier than any couple ever."

                                                                                jesus. why do people feel the need to judge & dictate what others spend on their own damn weddings?

                                                                                for some people, $1K is a lot of money to spend on an entire wedding (e.g. my grandparents on my mom's side had no money at all when they got married and neither did their families). My cousin recently got married and I think one of her shoes (yes, just one) was around $1.5K.

                                                                                that side of my family who spent a lot on the wedding, they are very wealthy. they are generous, kind, loving people ... who had enough money to throw a huge celebration for their only child's wedding. it was a celebration for the entire family - we made it a big family vacation. lots of friends were there, lots of family. and my grandma & grandpa were ecstatic.

                                                                                you don't get to decide how much people spend on their weddings, and no one is thinking "yes, I bought a nice cake so now I'm all set, marriage-wise". what a stupid thing to assume.

                                                                                how much did you spend on your wedding? what was the last big purchase you made? because I can assure you, there are plenty of people out there who would find your purchase frivolous - or at the very least, stupid.

                                                                                [–]foxbluesocks 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                                To be fair, a lot of couples spent thousands of dollars on traditional cakes too.

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                                                                                    [–]Maoist-Pussy 27ポイント28ポイント  (1子コメント)

                                                                                    In what state is it legal to marry a 12 year old boy?

                                                                                    [–]jarvispeen 20ポイント21ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                                    more like cringe cake

                                                                                    [–]ronarden 13ポイント14ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                                    You couldn't decide between Marvel and DC? Looks amazing btw.

                                                                                    [–]zecrissverbum 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                                    Ah, I see. Wife likes marvel, husband likes DC. Good compromise.

                                                                                    [–]surreal_sub 8ポイント9ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                                    it just looks like a lame children's cake out of the flipbook from DQ. The regular side is one of the better wedding cakes i've seen.

                                                                                    [–]InfectedP0tato 98ポイント99ポイント  (82子コメント)

                                                                                    I'm prepared for the downvotes

                                                                                    Why do people get superhero things on their cake? Superheroes are meant for people 10-20 years old and it's just immature to get it on a cake at a very adult event. I get that you like comics, but seriously, it's pretty Damn childish. Not to mention your stepparents thinking the same way.

                                                                                    Edit: I'm not saying liking comics is bad, if you get Superheroes on your birthday cake it's 100% ok but a wedding cake is something completely different. Wedding cakes don't have any pictures or writing on them anyways.

                                                                                    Edit 2: holy shit I'm surprised I got so many upvotes for being a dick

                                                                                    [–]spamjavelin 43ポイント44ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                                    It's not an inherently adult event though, it's whatever you want it to be. If you're dropping thousands on a single day, you might as well be happy with how that money is spent.

                                                                                    [–]Nosteme 54ポイント55ポイント  (3子コメント)

                                                                                    It's an excellent question, but the answer is purely cultural. Honestly, is the whole white lace and pearls thing any more "adult"? A wedding is no less important if it's Star Wars themed than if it follows the traditional wedding rituals. Tradition =/= maturity.

                                                                                    The important thing is that the wedding serves as a celebration of the love between two people, and if those two people share a passion for something--especially if the object of passion is the very thing that brought them together--why not include it?

                                                                                    [–]tauisgod 6ポイント7ポイント  (2子コメント)

                                                                                    I knew a couple that met at the airport during a layover. They decided to have the ceremony and reception there on the walkway over the plaza against the glass wall. The invitations were made up to look like boarding tickets and the theme was travel. It was pretty cool.

                                                                                    [–]PMMeDuckPics 94ポイント95ポイント  (18子コメント)

                                                                                    I went to a wedding where the bride went down the aisle to the Throne Room Song from A New Hope. Then the bride and groom played rock paper scissors to see who had to do their vows first. The reception was at a brewery. It was the best wedding I've ever been to.

                                                                                    [–]RollAd20 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                                    A friend of mine surprised everyone (only the groom, dj, and her knew about it) when she walked down the aisle to The Imperial March.

                                                                                    Her wedding theme was a general space theme. Very pretty with silvers, dark blues, and stars everywhere. It had little touches of "fun" things that related. Like the song my friend walked to, they had WALL-E and EVE as cake toppers, a small moon cake, and such. It made the whole wedding enjoyable as it had elements that definitely brought out the couple and their personalities.

                                                                                    I love the concept of this cake. A cute way for a couple to add a little personal touch to their wedding.

                                                                                    [–]jtet93 59ポイント60ポイント  (10子コメント)

                                                                                    To each their own, but goddamn that's got to be one of the cringiest thing I've ever heard of.

                                                                                    [–]adam35711 55ポイント56ポイント  (5子コメント)

                                                                                    I know man, I cringe when people have different taste than me too.

                                                                                    Oh wait, no I don't because I'm an accepting human being.

                                                                                    [–]lo_tech 37ポイント38ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                                    "Adult" is the term. You're an "Adult"

                                                                                    [–]colorblind_goofball 17ポイント18ポイント  (1子コメント)

                                                                                    BUT IF PEOPLE DON'T CONFORM INTO THIS BOX THAT I'VE DEFINED AS "ADULTHOOD", THEY'RE WRONG!!!

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                                                                                          [–]m1a2c2kali 10ポイント11ポイント  (3子コメント)

                                                                                          People enjoy different things like having a mascot walk you down an aisle

                                                                                          [–]cefriano 71ポイント72ポイント  (4子コメント)

                                                                                          I will counter your question with another question: why the fuck does it bother you what people put on a goddamn pastry?

                                                                                          [–]NikkoE82 26ポイント27ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                                          At their wedding that they paid for.

                                                                                          [–]_moebiusstripper 11ポイント12ポイント  (2子コメント)

                                                                                          I think it's because "super hero" culture has permeated the American world to a very high degree. They are like modern Shakespeare plays... Over and over again in different forms. It's just strange to me that we allow these logos and shapes and heroes to become our idols, like they came to save us from reality. I dunno though, I might be very wrong, and I can see how people attach to things to things like this easily. Kind of like sports teams.

                                                                                          [–]the_ocean 20ポイント21ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                                          Not to mention your stepparents thinking the same way.

                                                                                          I'm not sure I trust your authority to judge, considering you think that a wedding is where each of your parents gets married to each of the parents of the other person.

                                                                                          [–]Stewthulhu 20ポイント21ポイント  (5子コメント)

                                                                                          Have you read any comics written in the last 30 years?

                                                                                          Did you know that 18-20 year olds can get married?

                                                                                          [–]unsaferaisin 17ポイント18ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                                          Whereas letting other people call the shots about your life is the height of adulthood. That's why kids don't have rules of any kind, or get told what to do.

                                                                                          Like...Jesus, calling people names because they're not doing what you want them to do, or what your parents did, or what Emily Post prescribes, or what Victorian people thought proper seems kind of shitty in a particularly needless way. So you don't like comics. Cool. Don't put heroes on your cakes or bedsheets or car. I sure as hell hope that no one calls you a baby, or a stuck-up asshole, or a conformist (This being my personal unfavorite way to describe people who actually want to do stuff a lot of other people do/want to do), or anything else for it. Because it's not their goddamn business, in addition to being wanky and rude.

                                                                                          [–]Grunherz 16ポイント17ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                                          I know everyone is giving you grief for you comment but I totally agree. If this was Justin Bieber or Twilight instead, all of Reddit would be up in arms (you know it's true) but just because it's super heroes, which everyone is just so into all of a sudden (several years I guess), everyone feels the need to call you out on just voicing your opinion.

                                                                                          [–]909plz 10ポイント11ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                                          yeah, well, that's just like your opinion, man

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                                                                                            [–]slowmotionjohns 37ポイント38ポイント  (7子コメント)

                                                                                            "I married a manchild."

                                                                                            [–]dt403 45ポイント46ポイント  (6子コメント)

                                                                                            I always get so embarrassed for people who do this shit. Are you so defined by your hobbies that your wedding cake has to have superheroes on it?

                                                                                            BUH, I DONT WANT A DUMB GIRL CAKE WITH FLOWERS, I WANNA COOL CAKE THAT HAS THE SAME SHIT ON IT AS WHEN I WAS TEN

                                                                                            [–]fenlain 16ポイント17ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                                            Same goes for the Zelda themed weddings you see on /r/all once or twice a year.

                                                                                            muh video games

                                                                                            Yeesh

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                                                                                              [–]IraqnRoll 38ポイント39ポイント  (28子コメント)

                                                                                              It's legal for children to be married now?

                                                                                              [–]KaliberAideron 22ポイント23ポイント  (4子コメント)

                                                                                              Part of growing up and becoming an adult is not caring about appearing childish or worrying about others opinions.

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