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[–]redchords 3ポイント4ポイント  (1子コメント)

Most women only care about what other women think of them. This is why most are obsessed with fashion. This is why they are obsessed with anything that appears powerful; Everything (including men) is nothing more than a product to most of them.

As a man who grew up with a working mother and a little sister this realization hurts but it has to be said: Most women never mentally develop past their teenage years in consumeristic cultures. Around 13-16 years old most experience far too much validation from men and wind up becoming addicted to this imaginary, petty game world wherein they compete with other women for the most validation. This stunts their growth almost immediately.

The important concept to keep in mind, in my opinion, is that this breed of woman is just that: socially bred to be immature, conceited, and stupid; the current psychological state of American women is not indicative of their natural potentials. Personally I have dated 3 women, admittedly out of several, who were intelligent and non materialistic (and yes they were pretty). Good women still exist.

In the words of Esther Vilar: "By the age of twelve at the latest, most women have decided to become prostitutes. Or, to put it another way they have planned a future for themselves which consists of choosing a man and letting him do all the work. In return for his support, they are prepared to let him make use of their vagina at certain given intervals. The minute a woman has made this decision she ceases to develop her mind. She may, of course, go on to obtain various degrees and diplomas. These increase her market value in the eyes of men, for men believe that a woman who can recite things by heart must also know and understand them. But any real possibility of communication between the sexes ceases at this point. Their paths are divided forever."

The best and possibly only option with regards to creating change is to starve the system which is why more and more everyday I consider going mgtow.

[–]bluemetal97[S] 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Well said and good points. Yes, women are taught they can act like children and get away with it because men are programmed to let them. It goes both ways as well. And like others have said, not all women are completely like that, BUT, there are certain concepts and social programs embedded deeply into the subconscious minds of your average westerner girl. Most people profess to be fair, objective, good, decent, and aware, intelligent people, BUT, there are subconscious programs, belief structures, habits, subtle lessons, traumas, all kinds of stuff in our subconscious minds that bias our conscious decisions, feelings, inclinations, lifestyle, etc.. So while it does seem harsh to point our the widespread general, collective flaws of, (the dark side) of women, it is necessary. Because healing starts by making the unconscious conscious, and there really is a lot of subconscious beliefs that are not healthy. We see the effects in our lives with relationship problems and imbalance in society, but the root of it lies in subconscious biases. Most women are affected by this subtle and negative programming, some resist, some aren't overcome by it, but we're all mostly pressured to be influenced by societal norms, media programming, and school. You really can see these feminist biases pop up all the time in social interactions, almost everywhere, and most people aren't aware of these things.

[–]Phroneo 2ポイント3ポイント  (1子コメント)

Mostly true I think. And yes, children seem like a cheap shortcut to fulfillment that is desired by biology even though it leads all the mums and dads around me to lose their hobbies and sleep.

I'd also add that society tells us that it's acceptable for women to behave the way you describe. If things truly were equal, I guarantee that there would be more mature girls.

[–]bluemetal97[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Imagine if men acted as childishly as women...

[–]Nomad40 3ポイント4ポイント  (8子コメント)

It depends on the woman. I dated a girl who was a software developer, and would rarely lose her cool. She was able to objectively debate topics based on both facts and the flavor of her opinion.

[–]Agamand 3ポイント4ポイント  (2子コメント)

Dude, that was a trany.

[–]Nomad40 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Hah, nope. But....I did meet several trannys when living in Thailand recently.

[–]Natsume21 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

there are exceptions, i am good friends with one.

[–]bluemetal97[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (3子コメント)

Yeah I agree, not all people are the same. When talking about overall gender trends we're looking at the average person, a generalized thing. I'm grateful my girlfriend isn't average. We even talked about having kids in the future and agree I might be a stay at home dad as it suits me well. But we'll see...

[–]Nomad40 1ポイント2ポイント  (2子コメント)

In general, yes this tends to be the case with the masses. Most I know however, fall more in to the counter culture type of mindset and can discuss things logically.

[–]bluemetal97[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

That's cool. Hey, I noticed something not too long ago. I started thinking that women tend to be more logical and men more intuitive. That goes against the social stereotypes we're fed. Women tend to focus on smaller details and use logic in a roundabout way, while men can see the larger objective picture. Know what I mean?

[–]Nomad40 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Sometimes. With certain people (women), I find my self saying 'get to the point already', instead of giving a play by play detail of every last thing they take 30 minutes to tell you, which could be summarized in 2. But again, that's part of their charm (or lack of, depending how you view it.)

[–]bricardo 2ポイント3ポイント  (2子コメント)

I have to go against the grain here. Yes, most women are pretty vacuous, mostly because their lives are easier than men's(society is more lenient). However, there are plenty of intelligent women around that are far better than the average man.

Marrying and having close relationships with women can be dangerous and costly for men, but let's not fall into simple name calling and full on prejudice. Both women and man have a place. It's female entitlement in this day and age that is the problem, not women themselves.

Funny as it is, the most intelligent and capable women don't need men and often don't marry or have kids. They go their own way as well. They are the small minority.

[–]Natsume21 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

i know one. And god, it's amazing.

[–]bluemetal97[S] 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Very good points. Yes of course the problem is not necessarily people, or certain kinds of people, but the attitudes, beliefs, prejudices, and abstract concepts that inhabit people that are the problem. People are born innocent babies, then society messes with their minds and they lose touch with their natural loving, fair natures. As adults we're in the business of sorting ourselves out and acknowledging and letting go of social programming and expectations, see through the BS and do what's really important.

[–]abertsa 2ポイント3ポイント  (3子コメント)

Men feel deeply and carry deep feelings inside.

I think you don't spend a lot of time outside your own group of friends... might be confirmation bias, or something of that sort. MOST people are like this nowadays, not just women but men too. But I know where you're coming from by not being able to have discussions with women.

[–]bluemetal97[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (2子コメント)

Where I was going with that thought was that females expressing emotion seem more superficial and dramatic compared to men's. Because males are taught to repress emotions. I'm not sure what you mean about your assumptions of my social life.

[–]abertsa 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

my assumption is you have intelligent male friends.

[–]bluemetal97[S] 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

I see. Well I've been mostly a hermit most of my life with few friends, and the friends I had were not always the brightest, but some were brilliant. Haven't dated much at all for 24 years, spending most of my time working, practicing music and reading and writing. Not much of a socializer myself. Got pulled into a partying lifestyle too much and found that's not for me. I have no problem having conversations with men and women, though people can be a drain. I love people but keep my distance. My general observations about males and females is based on having a lot of interaction with different folk. I've moved a lot, had many jobs, lived with all kinds of different people and I do notice general trends...and I don't exclude myself from the problems in society. Its so easy to project your issues onto others so I try to work on myself, and I do. Some things you just feel like saying though...like complaining about women, ha!.