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[–]1jb_trp 51ポイント52ポイント  (15子コメント)

It's been tough keeping this from Tim for the last 2 years and I don't think I can hold it any longer. But I know it would absolutely DESTROY Tim if he knew I had sex with Jeff, and I feel like he would break up with me on the spot, not just for sleeping with Jeff but for not mentioning it in 2 years.

Some girls take pride in not breaking up with the guy, but instead doing shitty things to make the guy want to break up with them. My ex-gf before TRP was exactly like that. "I've never broken up with the guy, they always break up with me!" It almost gives them a level of moral superiority ("Hey, what could I do? They broke up with me!"). That's some Jedi level hamstering there.

This woman now has an ace up her sleeve. If she ever gets tired of her beta and the relationship turns sour, she can just dump this gem on him, and get him to break up with her. If she's feeling rather vindictive she can also slip in the fact that his bully got him to break up with his first love.

The fact that she seems like she's dying to tell him about this is a sign that this LTR isn't going to last very long.

[–]james-watson 29ポイント30ポイント  (5子コメント)

The H.A.M.S.T.E.R. (Hyper-threaded Autonomous Multi-layered Synchronous Tangential Engine of Rationalization) is woman's greatest weapon. The Force pales in comparison.

[–]ShitfacedBatman 2ポイント3ポイント  (4子コメント)

Men have one too. The seduction community doesn't like to think seduction is manipulation. Guess what: it is. Most PUAs can't decide whether they have a problem with it or not.

The red pill is what allows people to call a spade a spade.

[–]199639 3ポイント4ポイント  (3子コメント)

Not just PUA but all flirting and dating is about manipulating other people, presenting an image of who you wish you were, acting cooler than you know you are.

Hamstring meanwhile is used to avoid responsibility for being an awful terrible person. You can abuse someone for years and still convince yourself that you're the victim. Men of course do this too, but it's far less common and less effective. Men revile these traits in other men- someone who is two faced, deceptive, disloyal, and a cheat. Those are the traits the hamster fosters.

[–]ShitfacedBatman 1ポイント2ポイント  (2子コメント)

I had a female English teacher back in high school that thought it was weird when guys got caught doing bad shit, they'd be like, "Ok, you caught me." Comparatively, she said women will deny their wrongdoings all the way to the grave. Can you imagine how bad your head would hurt hamstering anything all the way to the grave?

Maybe that whole side-to-side brain wiring thing women have makes it easy for them?

[–]tmnt88 3ポイント4ポイント  (1子コメント)

I feel like they hamster it long enough to justify it in their own mind then its over..once they don't feel bad about it any more they just forget it

[–]ShitfacedBatman 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

So it can be held together with scotch tape and not super glue? Hm...

[–]Endorsed Contributordr_warlock 34ポイント35ポイント  (4子コメント)

Women are attracted to dominance and power above all else. They will use their pussy to gain access to it. That is the natural way of female apes and monkeys. Prostitution. All women are like that. To what extent a woman will go to to do this? That varies, a spectrum.

after agreeing with my boyfriend that Jeff was a piece of shit.

You dont have to like them, to want them. Women dont have to like you to want to fuck you. Tingles override every other emotion except fear for her life and possibly the wellbeing of her friends and family. They also feel little to no remorse about the event because it's not efficient to navigate the sexual market place.

The sexual marketplace was never intended to be 'peaceful'. Males exist for competition and gentic diversity. What methods you use, how 'immoral' they are, whether or not they're beneficial for the short term or long term, whether or not they're a smart decision or works at all, is irrelevant. The hindbrain only cares about current results in the immediate context. Does her body look nice right now? Does he have status and power right now? We are animals first, humans second. Amygdala first, frontal lobe second.

If a girl sees you get dominated, get your ass kicked, or sees you submit toanother male, her tingles will idrastically decrease or dry up with you, and increase with him no matter how terrible the act was. Morality has nothing to do with sexual desire. In that moment, in this context, you're a lesser male. The feelz are all about the moment. Remember, women only used to have one context. Women often aren't even aware of this happening. There is a disconnect between their conscious mind and subconscious arousal. Here is a study for you as supporting evidence.

Note: the same goes for men, but in a different way. No matter how shitty a woman is, a nice ass is a nice ass. Nice tits are nice tits. Power is always arousing to a woman.

[–]Iceman3514 6ポイント7ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's true

She fitness tested me the first week of the relationship..on Valentines day. We went to a restaurant where her friend worked. Turns out he was her ex who she has now branch swung to 3 weeks later

[–]IndyBrodaSolo 3ポイント4ポイント  (1子コメント)

Tingles override every other emotion except fear for her life and possibly the wellbeing of her friends and family.

Tingles override even those. Serial killers for example get plenty of love letters from women.

[–]KartagoPill 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'm reading your words man. For 10 minutes and I'm thinking about it.

So that's why saying: "oldest job int the worlds is prostitution" is true. Also every man wants a personal slut but faithful only to him. Beta dreams. It's a man world and man fight man even at peace. I think every man worst enemy is himself and fear to change and adapt.

Fuck.

[–]babydocnorman 13ポイント14ポイント  (0子コメント)

I don't want to lose him, he's everything to me.

Do I try and conceal it, so he doesn't get hurt?

Lesson #4. Most women have no honor and possess an incredible ability to turn even the most selfish decisions into acts of selflessness and compassion in their delusional minds.

The words "right" and "wrong" are nowhere to be found on the female moral decision tree.

[–]slothsenpai 12ポイント13ポイント  (6子コメント)

I've never been the type to make a huge fuss about a woman's sexual history but this is one of the female traits that makes me rage the most. It's one thing women valuing the aloof alphamale type over the nice guy beta though it makes me angry that they go the most degenerate scum. So many girls knowingly go for guys who've bullied me, tormented me, treated me like shit etc.

I see all these dumbass feminist posts who call out all men (especially whiteknights) to actively call out sexist bigots and to stop associating with them, yet, these dumb bitches associate themselves and sleep with some of the worst scumbags. This is why a lot of men are inclined to be assholes; cause whilst the nice guys get shitted on, all the assholes get sexuallt rewarded which reinforces that behavior further. Fuck that bitch and fuck Jeff!

[–]GoldPisseR 9ポイント10ポイント  (4子コメント)

How can fucking guys not care about their partner's past will never cease to amaze me.

If you ltr her or god forbid marry her you need to make her spill the tiniest details regarding her past.

[–]LoveLord1000 5ポイント6ポイント  (2子コメント)

I'd say it's best to (a) not care about her past and (b) never marry her.

[–]LargeDan 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I feel like (a) is true to a point. If a girl has a partner count of 300 I would certainly want to know. For safety reasons.

[–]slothsenpai -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

Well unicorns don't exist and if there's one negative trait I'll have to overlook, it's that. I can overlook past slutty actions as long as she respects me, isn't going to divorce me or cheat on me. I'd rather pick that than fatties or those with rude obnoxious attitudes in an LTR.

[–]babydocnorman 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yeah, if sexual history isn't such a big deal (like feminists claim), then why does nearly every woman lie about her history to guys she wants to have relationships with.

Figuring out how to cut through the lies and figure out a woman's true history is worth a separate post, especially for guys in or looking for LTRs.

[–]Da-Aaron 12ポイント13ポイント  (1子コメント)

You guys don't see that you're being baited?

[–]forscienceyeah 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

Seriously, this is one obvious troll post.

[–]Sdom1 21ポイント22ポイント  (14子コメント)

OK, first off, this sounds totally made up like 80% of the shit on Relationships, but let's just assume it's true.

She's no prize, but some of the guys on the board take this shit too far sometimes. I've been noticing that they use the whole idea of hamstering to basically establish whatever intent they want, even when that's totally not supported by any logical reading of the text.

Even if a concept is correct, there are still a lot of ways to misapply it, and hypergamy doesn't really enter into this situation in any logical way.

This hypo is really about this girl witholding info when it's in her best interests. The fuck buddy I actually understand. There's no good that comes of bringing that up. If I were her, I'd keep him in the dark unless I knew there was a good chance of it coming out. A simple risk/reward calculation, if you will.

The much thornier issue presented is that she knew the cheating allegation against him was bullshit, but hid it for her own benefit. THAT'S the damning part, and it's also part of what makes me think the hypo is made up.

[–]NagarajaIsHungry 6ポイント7ポイント  (0子コメント)

Even if a concept is correct, there are still a lot of ways to misapply it, and hypergamy doesn't really enter into this situation in any logical way.

Agreed, there is no evidence for AF/BB here and is probably just happen-stance that she has slept with both of them. The post (if real like you mentioned) is better suited as an example of hamstering rather than hypergamy, as she is trying hard to find a way out of this while retaining her sense of altruism, especially with this gem:

Or do I try and conceal it, so he doesn't get hurt?

His sake? No, no darling, you're worried about your own hide and could give a damn about your BF.

[–]Endorsed Contributorexit_sandman 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

Thank you, agree on all accounts.

I mean, it's not as if that girl told him he was her first and only after she let the whole football team run a train on her.

However, that this hypothetical girl knew that her FWB was telling shit about her now-BF and never interfered is different.

[–]flying-gogoplata[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (7子コメント)

The point of the thread I made here was to show women will lie without remorse to cover up their past. Not hypergamy. She is self preserving, like you said, in her best interest. Problem is most blue pillers think all women are honest, loyal, etc, so hopefully this is a wakeup call.

This example in this thread is perfect proof of many RP truths. Not everything RP is about getting pussy or keeping it around, but exposing women for what they can really be - downright disloyal and dishonest.

[–]Da-Aaron 0ポイント1ポイント  (6子コメント)

It's a creative writing piece. With every part carefully thought out, the timeline of her behavior carefully planned to throw one surprise after another, until, viola! Grand Finale that sets Red Pills exploding like fireworks on the 4th of July.

[–]flying-gogoplata[S] 5ポイント6ポイント  (5子コメント)

Stop calling everything fake that seems textbook RP. There's nothing unbelievable about this story. Women do shit like this every day, and do far worse than this. I have no idea why you are so stuck on the idea that this is fake - nothing about it seems fake. You're just disempowering us every time you guys claim a post is fake. First, you have no proof, second, because half the comments are legit and telling her to continue to lie, further proving RP tenants.

[–]Da-Aaron 1ポイント2ポイント  (2子コメント)

I know women do worse. I've seen it. But this isn't just textbook, read through the original story again. Pay attention to the syntax. Her vocabulary. Some bitch in college who is too busy screwing everyone behind everyone else's back wouldn't be bright enough to write that well. She was never smart enough to know big words like that, use words like "fawn" that nobody uses in normal conversation, structure everything so well, and not make a fucking mistake! Have you ever seen a basic bitch that could? No.

[–]allagame -1ポイント0ポイント  (1子コメント)

"Fawn" is a big word? She's in college, not in elementary school. The structure of the post is nothing exceptional. If the story is true, the person obviously lacks common sense but that doesn't mean that she is illiterate.

[–]Da-Aaron 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Sorry, I was trying to write this post in a rush. Fawn isn't a big word, it's just not heard in common usage by many 24 y/o coeds who fuck over their boyfriends. The way the post was written, it read like it was above the typical slutty sorority student's ability.

[–]Da-Aaron 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

Whoever is doing it is doing it to 1) watch the reaction. 2) distract everyone from developing themselves into better men and 3) Upset and knock everyone back and undo the work they've done so far.

[–]flying-gogoplata[S] -2ポイント-1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I completely disagree, I see nothing that makes me think this story is fake. Just because its textbook RP doesnt mean its fake, thats why we have a textbook in the first place, cus these women wrote it for us.

[–]GoldPisseR 0ポイント1ポイント  (3子コメント)

Why would anyone date a girl who had a fuckbuddy anyway?

[–]Probably_Sleepy 4ポイント5ポイント  (1子コメント)

Because everyone who has fucked another person was a fuck buddy in one way or another. Or do you just date virgins?

[–]Endorsed ContributorEpicureanist 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Because everyone who has fucked another person was a fuck buddy in one way or another.

Do relationships not exist? Or do you consider that extended fuck buddies?

[–]One_friendship_plz 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

Because she chose to not tell.

[–]tomysotomayorfuxboys 6ポイント7ポイント  (0子コメント)

  1. Assume all women have fucked a bunch of other guys a priori.

  2. Assume that they'll cheat on you given the chance with someone who seems more alpha.

  3. Don't commit to them unless they provide value and make heavy sacrifices for you. For example a woman giving me her youth, fucking up her body by having my biological children, etc. etc. Those things might qualify them for relationship status. Women who looking for a relationship with me when they're 55 years old or have several children from other men, would be disqualified.

[–]skyller2s 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

Somebody hand tim a redpill, I'd imagine the end result would be amazing

[–]3 Endorsed ContributorSkorchZang 4ポイント5ポイント  (1子コメント)

If she came to /askTRP with that, I'd tell her to be ruthless, keep on lying, and keep her good thing going.

The truth, Tim? You can't handle the truth.

[–]Throway99038 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Agreed Tim won't be able to handle the truth. Either she keeps lying and prays they never runs into Jeff or she breaks up with Tim now. Cause Tim is a good candidate to go on a killing rampage if he ever finds out that his gf was banging Jeff and knew about his plans to break up his relationship with his "true love". Breaking up now will be the better option, cause life's a bitch, there is a very good chance they will run into Jeff one day and given Jeff's bullying nature he won't keep his mouth shut. A clean break up now, saves a lot of future headache and possibly a suicide or homicide.

[–]RedditDotaMan 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

I know most people seem to look down on women with RP knowledge, but I think I've gained more respect for them. I mean these girls are coldblooded as fuck. They'll do anything (usually involves fucking over men) to maximize the odds of their offspring's success. It's honestly beautiful.

[–]Lemeiux 9ポイント10ポイント  (0子コメント)

Who wants to bet Jeff ends up getting a job as a police officer? Anyone?

[–]GoldPisseR 6ポイント7ポイント  (10子コメント)

Even the prettiest chick will lose her appeal if she's been fucked by a guy I don't like.

Goddamn , is there any hope of finding a 20+ virgin?

[–]always-be-closing 5ポイント6ポイント  (1子コメント)

Goddamn , is there any hope of finding a 20+ virgin?

1) religious (and a conservative culture)

2) good relationship with father

3) conservative politics

4) not ridiculously attractive/living in a large city/college town

5) lives out femininity; knows how to cook, knows they want kids (while young), doesn't act like a bitch as an ersatz for male independence.

Then, maybe.

And even then; AWALT to some degree. Trust, but verify.

[–]Gawernator -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

Conservative/Christian girls are probably the last bastion, but even then it's iffy nowadays. Society has taken so much taboo off sex

[–]MyLittleAtomBomb 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

Internationally and within conservative circles.

[–]Gawernator 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Move to the bible belt.. lol

[–]Probably_Sleepy -1ポイント0ポイント  (1子コメント)

Virginity is overrated. Chicks with no idea what they are doing don't typically make for a good time.

[–]CSMastermind 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Girls, even virgins, are generally willing to do anything for a man they find attractive enough.

[–]Dmhgrosso2 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

damn. I feel like if some dude lied and ruined my relationship like that. Regardless of TRP training. It'd be natural instinct to crack his head. Just for being a douche. Send a message. That's so fucked.

[–]thefisherman1961 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Fake, fake, fake. She says how disgusted she is with Jeff, but right off the bat the first thing she mentions is how good the sex was? I don't think so.

[–]Throway99038 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Mentally, verbally and physically abusing people are not Alpha tendencies. People should stop equating bullying to being an Alpha. A guy like Jeff is not an Alpha, he is just a fucking asshole. There is no Alpha in this story, there is Jeff the asshole and Tim the weakling Beta.

[–]unassumingusername7 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

Now it took 5 minutes to make this, I'm not even going to re-read what I wrote.

I've always wanted to know how to shitpost.

[–]jeffwingersballs 3ポイント4ポイント  (2子コメント)

This seems too much like an episode of 90210/O.C. to not be a troll job.

[–]Da-Aaron 7ポイント8ポイント  (0子コメント)

Unless...Are you Jeff?! Dude! That's fucked up what you did to Tim!

[–]hardurcoco 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

Don't you think trying to figure out her past is kinda beta mindset tho? How would you do that?

[–]moneyandsexislife 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I ever see one of my bullies from my past, I'm going to fuck them up so bad and whoever's with them.

Little coke'll do ya!

[–]Hard_Bodied_Man 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

this guy is an exception. he's a huge bitch for taking shit from some guy in college.

[–]magus678 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Chic on relationshits

Honestly man, kind of childish. That subs lack of worth is obvious to everyone here.

No need to name call.

[–]waynebradysworld 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I just don't understand how you can get bullied in college. Like, find a new social circle? Most colleges have 10,000+ people, mine had 50,000+... If people are treating you poorly, move on...

[–]unseen1unknown 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

True or not this story just reinforces that lifting isnt just important for attracting chicks, it's also good at making fuckwits think twice before messing with you

[–]sezamus 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I would smash the face of Jeff. No questions asked.

I have some friends that are not physically strong, but are very smart or music talented people. Without strong body they are still valuable persons to me and great friends having really good LTRs. I could not imagine bullying someone just because he is not able to hit me back. What he did deserves punishment. Many people have weaknesses, but using them to make a hell of someone's life? On the other hand Tim's first GF wasn't smart. How could she leave him, because some douche said so?

You Americans are fucked up more than we in Europe think...

[–]UniversalFapture -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

A girl I met today lied to me today for no reason. I asked her what her name was and she just made up something totally different. Little did she know her name tag was dangling from her neck. Tired of these girls lying to me for no reason

Makes want to take what they say with a grain of salt.

[–]GhostOfAladdin 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Alpha isnt the dude that thinks it's fun to break up couples. Getting validation from that is beta yo.

[–]KnG_Kong -2ポイント-1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Previous sex partners ? No cheating or anything just previously fucked the Alpha before they were together but still wants the Beta, bitch may not be perfect but as close to unicorn for this beta as it gets. And still in prime not some walled up 35 old. 2 years later whining about College tormentor? I would get sick of listening to that at year 1.

[–]ShitfacedBatman -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yet when you go to that sub and say the words "red pill" you'll tempt their mods' banhammer.