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[–]doctorb_gus 900ポイント901ポイント  (202子コメント)

That was an uncomfortable watch. Too many familiar scenes.

[–]IRipShirts 89ポイント90ポイント  (8子コメント)

Hell, it was uncomfortable for me and I'm not even overweight.

[–]farmerwouldsay 14ポイント15ポイント  (3子コメント)

Think how awkward that casting call was.

"Hey, you here for the morbidly obese 30-something too?"

[–]Disig 163ポイント164ポイント  (112子コメント)

Yup. I was basically raised off of McDonalds as a kid. My grandmother constantly fed me snacks and left cookies in the house after she'd visit. She actually believes cookies are healthy. My mother feels bad about it but "I wouldn't eat anything else." Not gonna happen to my kids. I wont give up like that.

[–]FearLoathingHolland 75ポイント76ポイント  (16子コメント)

I wasn't much of a picky eater but my little brother used to trow a huge tantrum if he had to eat healthy. Full on crying, yelling, getting agressive and trowing punches and just not eating anything. My moms solution was the same for all of us.

If we did this my mom said fuck you, eat your food or sit here all night. Oh, still didn't eat it an hour later? I'll put it in the fridge and it is the first thing you'll ever eat again. Didn't eat by bedtime? Go to bed without food. Can't sleep because you're hungry? Well, here's your diner honey. Enjoy your cold food.

Next day we would eat. Don't want to eat again? Same solution.

[–]RunningNumbers 13ポイント14ポイント  (3子コメント)

How is your relationship with your mother? I can't tell if you are ambivalent and endorsing this method.

[–]FearLoathingHolland 25ポイント26ポイント  (2子コメント)

It's wonderful, couldn't ask for a better one.

Definitely think she did well with this. We were raised really good and turned out great due to this. We were raised with a lot of freedom but there were just some rules you had to follow. Like eat your food. We all were allowed to pick one dish we never had to eat and that was it. If wanted to eat a particular food it meant we had to cook it for everyone, which we got the opportunity for once every week when we had to cook to help out with the chores and what not.

I eat everything now, usually healthy, know how to cook and am just grateful for all of it.

[–]ferlessleedr 3ポイント4ポイント  (1子コメント)

My mom told me that if I didn't want what was served (plenty of home-cooked meals) that I could make myself a peanut butter and jelly sandwich. Didn't even give me an alternative option, just a PB&J, and we didn't always even have all the fixings for it around. My siblings and I are all very UNpicky now.

[–]Chemicalien 88ポイント89ポイント  (14子コメント)

It is truly amazing how readily children will eat wholesome food when the other option is not eating anything.

[–]mr_hongzhong 116ポイント117ポイント  (6子コメント)

Hunger is the best spice.

[–]ITNinja 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

Uh, listen Jet. You said "bell peppers and beef." There's no beef in here. So you wouldn't really call it "bell peppers and beef," now would you?

[–]Etherius 59ポイント60ポイント  (11子コメント)

Was raised fat. Refuse to raise fat kids.

It's very simple, and I want you to remember this and give it a try when you become a parent.

Step 1) cook healthy food.

Step 2) If kid refuses to eat, put food in microwave and let them go to bed hungry.

Step 3) If kid says they're hungry at any time during the night, reheat healthy food and give it to them. THIS PART IS IMPORTANT!! Is it annoying to sit down and watch your daughter eat her dinner five hours late at 11 pm when you're trying to play video games? Yes, but it's your goddamned job to take care of your kid. Don't force them to go hungry. The option to eat their dinner needs to be there at any time. This isn't meant to be a punishment.

Will they complain? Absolutely. Will they eat it? Most of the time. Will they grow up fat? No.

They'll eat to live, not live to eat.

[–]tanajerner 18ポイント19ポイント  (4子コメント)

The only thing I would say if it kid doesn't like something you shouldn't force them to eat it. As an adult we forget how easy it is for us to pick and choose what we want by what we like, children don't get that choice.

So when making them eat healthy find out what they like and compromise, forcing kids to eat something they don't like isn't going to do them any good.

Also don't do the eat everything on the plate before you get down from the table ( there's starving kids in Africa blah blah) it's not healthy to force fees kids and not a good habit to eat everything put in front of you. Eat till you are full a useful tip

[–]Etherius 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

Oh no, if they're full I'd never force them to continue.

As far as forcing them to eat things they don't like, that's one thing. They DO have to eat at least one vegetable per dinner and they can choose which veggie they get served. They just can't say "I don't want grilled chicken and rice, I want a hamburger".

[–]Monteze 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

Seriously, if a kid doesn't know sugar sugar sugar he won't crave it or complain that he isn't getting it. It starts young man.

[–]HeyZuesHChrist 10ポイント11ポイント  (4子コメント)

My grandmother

Grandmothers are exempt from any kind of rules of making sure you eat healthy. Everyone knows this.

[–]LivingUnderSomeRock 27ポイント28ポイント  (57子コメント)

Plot Twist: raised eating only McDonald's salads and veggie wraps.

Edit: the salads are perfectly healthy guys calm down, I know you all have your prejudices against mcdees but come on.

[–]CharlieTroy 7ポイント8ポイント  (10子コメント)

Actually a salad from Mcdonalds has more fat and calories than a mcdouble cheese burger and that's before you put the dressing on. Dressing for one serving (2 table spoons) adds 155 calores all but 15 of those from fat. Those packets contain about 4? table spoons or two servings. Most people tend to use two.

Here's a basic graphic to sum it up: http://isitunhealthy.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/mcdonalds-salad-worse-than-.png

[–]limnusJosh 10ポイント11ポイント  (1子コメント)

It looks like the fried chicken in there might be an issue...

Also, fat isn't the enemy. Fat doesn't make you fat like sugar does.

[–]jquest23 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

I was not aware that there is only one salad choice for McDonald's. Someone's at McDonald's better wake up and give us more then one salad choice.

[–]owattenmaker 3ポイント4ポイント  (1子コメント)

But 480 calories is a perfectly reasonable meal size.

You have to eat some calories every day. Usually recommended 1500-2000 for a healthy adult.

It doesn't really matter if all you eat is mcdonalds, you can lose weight eating twinkies and soda if you are dedicated enough.

[–]massiv3_cunt 239ポイント240ポイント  (48子コメント)

I know right? I too know many people who had their lives taken away by video games.

[–]PlutosSelfEsteem 205ポイント206ポイント  (40子コメント)

It was a nice touch to show the video games getting older as the guy got younger.

[–]haffbaked 101ポイント102ポイント  (22子コメント)

Except I played gamecube as a child and I am no where near 32 years old.

[–]yakovgolyadkin 53ポイント54ポイント  (16子コメント)

The time on the Gamecube was wrong. I'm 27 and played SNES as a kid, and Gamecube wasn't a thing until almost high school for me. If he was playing it at 10, he'd be, at most, 24 right now.

[–]brodymitchell 148ポイント149ポイント  (6子コメント)

Yeah, that writer should be fired. I expect my commercials to be 100% plot hole free.

[–]Redfo 11ポイント12ポイント  (0子コメント)

So the heart attack takes place 8 years from now. COULD IT BE YOU!?!?!

[–]luminousbeing9 6ポイント7ポイント  (0子コメント)

Maybe we can assume the heart attack takes place in his future. It does say "Your child's future doesn't have to look like this."

[–]powerfuse 23ポイント24ポイント  (13子コメント)

The way he went from playing a Game Cube to an NES controller 2 years earlier is kinda weird

[–]trunten8 34ポイント35ポイント  (2子コメント)

Kid's first game console was an old one a parent kept in storage from before he was born. The kid likes it and asks for the newer one. Not too strange of a leap.

[–]FuturisticChinchilla 11ポイント12ポイント  (0子コメント)

Well, that de-escalated quickly

[–]twwwy 8ポイント9ポイント  (1子コメント)

People give their kids fast-food, laden with sugar, salt, fat and stuff 'all natural kiddy-meals' and 'junk food' all the time, and don't control them.

It can have disastrous results, and this story needs to be told.

[–]AsskickMcGee 349ポイント350ポイント  (34子コメント)

"Hey, Mom, I got a job in a commercial."
"Wonderful news, Honey! You kept saying nobody would hire you because of your weight, but what did I tell you? Keep believing in yourself!"
"Thanks, Mom."
"So, what's the commercial about?"
"Um..."

[–]BipolarBear0 83ポイント84ポイント  (28子コメント)

That was the most interesting part for me. The guy they used in the opening scene was morbidly obese; I wonder how he felt about the commercial knowing he was acting as part of a PSA against obesity.

[–]I_Am_JesusChrist_AMA 158ポイント159ポイント  (13子コメント)

Most fat people know that being fat isn't healthy. He was probably happy to do it if it meant he could help others.

[–]SoylentGreenMuffins 24ポイント25ポイント  (2子コメント)

He possibly felt that it could help future kids from getting like him. That's at least how I think he would feel.

[–]buttunz 183ポイント184ポイント  (14子コメント)

My dad died of a heart attack in his 50s because he was obese, and yes it started in his childhood with really shitty parents. This hit really close to home.

He was an amazing guy, but if he didn't have an eating disorder we would still have him. Please, if you have an eating disorder, get some help. A lot of times it isn't something you can mentally do on your own, and at least need a support group; whether in person, a subreddit, etc.

Being obese is a serious health issue, even if it is just borderline overweight to obese. You are not a lesser person if you need help and support, you are a strong person making serious steps for change.

Do it for yourself, do it for your family.

[–]Disig 15ポイント16ポイント  (4子コメント)

It hit home for me too. I'm personally doing well but my mother? She lives several states away and is all by herself and is almost 50 now. She never cooks and her freezer is full of instant meals. It's all she eats. When she visits we cook for her and we eat out as little as possible and I get her to come with me when I walk our dog but...when she gets home she just lumps around.

I'm so worried for her but there's not much IO can do other then what I am doing =(

[–]asiunderstandit 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

If you try to fix it you will be demonized as the bad guy. Similar with my mother except she also has a home so disorganized it looks like the start of a hoarder (it isn't, I know, it's just really bad organization). It was so bad and once I said something the whole family turned on me. At least you have some family members that agree with your side.

[–]Bloodyfinger 7ポイント8ポイント  (1子コメント)

Being obese is a serious health issue

Tell that to Tess Holliday and her HAES crew...

[–]ManWithoutSoul 9ポイント10ポイント  (1子コメント)

The problem with food addiction is no one wants to talk about it. Everyone wants to talk about helping addicts of heroin, or alcohol, or tobacco, but no one ever mentions the increasingly large elephant in the room that is food addiction. It's comparatively easy to help an addict kick a habit of a substance they can go their entire lives without than it is to combat an addiction to something that you literally need in order to survive. Now of course no one needs ice cream and pizza specifically to survive but when you live in a food desert with nothing but corner stores and delivery joints a pizza with ice cream is easier and cheaper than the hour round trip to the grocery store for healthy ingredients.

The food industry has capitalized on this at every turn too. Sugar is a poison to our bodies yet they get to pump out 'juices' with enough added sugar to give someone diabetes and even fight regulations that would force them to specify just how much sugar they are adding. Refined carbohydrates like those 'heart healthy whole grains' they've been pushing since they invented the food pyramid to tell people to eat more of it are a big contributing factor too. It's no coincidence that heart disease and obesity started becoming epidemic problems just after those policies were implemented in the FDA. Food can be advertised almost everywhere so people with addictive personalities are sucked in buying and eating stuff that's killing them. Corn subsidies and other handouts from the government have made it so that getting a burger from McDonalds is cheaper and easier than getting a salad from a supermarket. The system has been designed from the ground up to take advantage of the fact that these food companies can get people addicted to sugar-filled and caloric-dense foods and no one will stop them at all because food is something everyone needs to eat.

I'm not trying to say that everyone who is obese or suffers from food addiction is only in that position because they are being manipulated by Big Food into being unhealthy but if we are going to start holding people accountable for the obesity epidemic it can't just be pointing fingers at fat people. Let's point some fingers at the multi-billionaires who made their money on the backs of people suffering with food addiction or stuck in food deserts and prevent them from enabling such unhealthy eating disorders in the first place.

[–]fearlessdesign 281ポイント282ポイント  (86子コメント)

It's a lot easier to not build bad habits in the first place than try to undo them later in life.

[–]-SPACETARD- 195ポイント196ポイント  (73子コメント)

Yeah. My parents would always make healthy homemade meals when I was a kid. They were boring as shit (plain hamburgers, no bread with vegetables. Plain chicken with vegetables. sometimes spaghetti etc). Eating out was like a fucking event. It just never happened. But I will say I'm fucking glad they took the time to make healthy meals for me. I remember going to my best friends house and they constantly ate out. It was unreal to me.

Oh. On a side note, I watched a lot of bugs bunny when I was little. He got me into eating carrots. I'd sit down and watch looney toons with a carrot in hand. I ate so many carrots. So many. Plus I do distinctly remember a lot of positive reinforcement for my eating good food. It made me want to show off to my parents by eating more healthy food. Of course everyone outside of my family teased me about it. 'here comes mr health nut with some celery and carrots'.

It's actually kind of interesting how people tend to poke and prod a person with healthy eating habits. Probably because seeing someone eat healthy makes them feel guilty.

[–]junkit33 27ポイント28ポイント  (9子コメント)

You can eat healthy and tasty, and that's where many parents go wrong. They mean well, but stick to simple meat and potatoes type recipes that are bland as can be, because they think that's what kids will eat.

Most kids will eat just about anything if you slowly introduce things properly. It's not hard to get a kid to the point that fast food tastes no better than anything they eat at home, just different.

[–]-SPACETARD- 4ポイント5ポイント  (6子コメント)

Oh yeah. The food they made was tasty. Just bland in comparison to what you get most anywhere else. I didn't really go into detail because it's hard to remember everything down to the letter ya know?

And that's another thing. I wasn't deprived of having sweet treats. They were more a rare treat. My parents weren't monsters.

[–]WafflesHouse 3ポイント4ポイント  (4子コメント)

I think the point he was making is that healthy food never has to be more bland than unhealthy food. Knowing how to use salt, pepper, herbs, and your healthy fats and acids correctly can make even asparagus or Brussel sprouts taste freaking fantastic. It's just more work than buying McD haha

[–]Books_4_LYFE 59ポイント60ポイント  (11子コメント)

It's the same reason some sap will key an expensive car. Someone is doing better than you? Better try to bring them down to your level so that you all suffer together equally.

[–]MistaJinx 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

Getting made fun of for bettering yourself. Its good to hear it didn't change your habit. I had a summer job with a highway department who were all fat, lazy, illiterate, assholes. I was taking classes for college at the same time, and trying to create healthier eating habits by eating almost entirely fruits and vegetables at work. Reading and eating vegetables are two things no one should ever be made fun of for. Granted, I'm old enough to not be too bothered by it, but it was still hard to work there when everyone was against you because you want to be healthy and happy.

[–]soullecks 9ポイント10ポイント  (16子コメント)

How's your vision in the dark ?

[–]-SPACETARD- 21ポイント22ポイント  (12子コメント)

Really good actually. Though I'm pretty sure the carrots=good vision is a myth. Correct me if I'm wrong though.

But I guess on the topic of vision at night....I can see everything just fine, often times clear as day...but at the same time I get distracted by all the lights in major cities when I'm driving. Having ADD makes this worse.

[–]anObscurity 17ポイント18ポイント  (6子コメント)

I read in one of those "What fact is actually a lie" threads that the myth of carrots producing good vision was actually a cover-up fabricated by the British in WWII to hide the fact that they had developed night-vision radar, or something along those lines. And somehow it stuck.

[–]theyareAs 8ポイント9ポイント  (2子コメント)

Well vitamin K does lend itself to better eyesight but yeah not to the degree that the UK gov were saying. I remember reading it was because they had to ration out food for the troops and they had boatloads of carrots so they propagandized the food to make it more appealing.

[–]OhGodtheAssSpiders 6ポイント7ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yeah it was a myth started in WWII by the English. They wanted to cover up the advent of radar and lead the Germans to believe that the English forces were just good at spotting aircraft from far away. I think I'm remembering it correctly, but I'm too lazy to source.

[–]itstrinsy 6ポイント7ポイント  (5子コメント)

Are you me?

Literally the same story of my childhood. Mom also had a garden and we'd constantly have canned goods and fresh fruit/veggies. Never appreciated it as much as I do today. My mom always had dinner at night and breakfast on the weekend. I think the first time I ate McDonald's I was 12.

[–]Lawls91 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

Honestly, being a vegetarian, people are consistently trying to challenge why you don't eat meat; and this is the majority of the time that you tell people you're a vegetarian. I think it just challenges the status quo or the majority view and there's a slight insecurity about it so a lot of people try and undermine your position.

[–]cooter-shooter 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

Bet that snack pack is pretty good! Wanna trade me the rest of it for this banana?

[–]bbk_6566 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Everytime i read a post like this i get a warm feeling inside, I love reading these!

[–]SirPhlapsit 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

When I would bring rice and eggs to school for food I was surprised how many kids wouod call it gross. Eggs and rice are the best thing to eat when yiu dont know whqt to eat. Delicious, filling, and healthy.

[–]ernie1850 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Bugs Bunny not only ate carrots, but he carried them in a cool looking cigarette case, which 6 year old me thought was the most badass thing ever.

[–]vertigo3pc 35ポイント36ポイント  (6子コメント)

Grew up a "big kid", was a "big guy" into college, family of "big people" who don't acknowledge they're "big". Got fed up one day, and it just clicked: eat X calories per day, and you can't get/be fat because your body cannot store energy if energy wasn't provided for storage. Exercise and eat right. Dropped 60lbs in about 6 months. Still a bit flabby, and I've got an 8 month old, so got the Dadbod going on right now. That being said, I'm mega conscious about sugar intake and activity in my son. He's got my genes. Don't want him to grow up thinking he's born to be a "big guy". He's got my build, but I want him to know he can be whatever kind of guy he wants to be.

[–]fearlessdesign 8ポイント9ポイント  (1子コメント)

I was you. Always big then really got obese in high school/college. At the beginning of the year when I started counting calories and realize I could love running and working out everything changed. It became so easy once I had built good habits. I still have work to do to get to my goal weight but I see no reason I won't get there now that the habits are built. Giving your son those good habits from the beginning is one of the most valuable things you can give him for his future quality of life. You're awesome.

[–]macallen 7ポイント8ポイント  (2子コメント)

I'm the opposite. I was super skinny (6'3", 115 when I graduated college) and always hated fat folks. I ate trash, drank soda, etc, super unhealthy diet.

Around 28, my wife cheated on me, my best friend died in a car accident, I lost my job, etc, all in the span of a year. My metabolism died and in 2 years I literally doubled in weight, with no other changes to my lifestyle. When I was 46, I weighed 380 lbs, diagnosed borderline diabetes, and was miserable.

I then came to the same conclusion you did. Now I'm 50 and weight 230 and am still dropping weight. I run 5 miles a day (minimum) and control my diet. I hate every second of it, I hate dieting, I hate exercise, I hate nasty healthy food, but I'm healthier than I've been in 20 years. Half the time I do it out of spite, honestly, because I never want to feel like that again.

[–]Skomarz 43ポイント44ポイント  (5子コメント)

As a new father, watching this video gave me a sense of real duty to make sure my Son develops healthy habits. I've been working on my health for the past two years, lost over a hundred pounds; it all starts with me and his Mom. We can't fail, because unhealthy habits and weight issues have been a real problem for the both of us, and I fear it'll be hereditary.

[–]cortmalone 114ポイント115ポイント  (62子コメント)

I just recently watched the documentary "Fed Up" on Netflix. Oh man is it an eye opener. I stopped drinking soda cold turkey.

Sugar is bad, mmkay

[–]Nezzi 54ポイント55ポイント  (48子コメント)

My hubby and I are both health professionals so anytime we see stuff like "fed up" we check it out to see what it says/if it's accurate/if there is a slant. It was pretty good.

Remember it's the sugar/fast releasing carbs that are the problem, usually. A dietician I worked with put it well, "I refuse to drink my calories". Every time I reach for a calorie laden drink, that isn't milk, I say this to myself. Now cola tastes a little funny to me and juice is just too darn sweet. Even some yogurt is too sweet for me! (Now, the pasta and rice are more of a challenge to give up..)

Good luck kicking cola for good, it's tough, but worth it!

[–]ConceptualTrap 26ポイント27ポイント  (8子コメント)

I refuse to drink my calories

I'm still waiting for them to invent a calorie free beer.

[–]ratunnels 5ポイント6ポイント  (4子コメント)

Why would you give up Pasta and rice, as an Asian, I think life without rice would be unimaginable.

[–]Trizled 17ポイント18ポイント  (9子コメント)

I can't remember precisely when I quit drinking soda, but it was many years ago. Cola is, now, for me, utterly repulsive.

Soda can be nice, of course, like a version of a black cherry soda, or a ginger beer, something like that. But very, very rarely (and not the whole bottle).

[–]AcuteAppendagitis 300ポイント301ポイント  (70子コメント)

I hope this video makes the front page.

These kinds of things are usually over-dramatized, but this one isn't. While 32 is still a rare heart attack age, I'm considering it in younger and younger patients when they present to the ER. We investigate chest pain in a lot more 40+ year-olds than we used to, and are seeing the middle/late age problems such as diabetes, joint problems, etc in progressively younger people. It's killing us, and in a very costly way.

[–]Davey_Disapproves 12ポイント13ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's already been there.

[–]n0ggy 41ポイント42ポイント  (23子コメント)

Did you seriously doubt for a single second that a video showing that being fat is rarely due to genetics would reach the front page?

You're on Reddit mate...

[–]Rakonat 28ポイント29ポイント  (18子コメント)

Obesity and weight issues aren't Genetic, they are habitual. A person isn't fat simply because members of their family are fat, they are fat because their habits are identical to their family.

Teaching proper diet and exercise at schools, and doing what ever can be done to push that education to the homes and families so they don't undermine, intentionally or accidentally, the children's future.

Even if there was a case for genetic pre-disposition for obesity, thats not an excuse to do nothing about it and abandon a person to obesity and health issues, it's all the more reason to work harder with such a person to help them lose weight and keep it off.

http://www.filmsforaction.org/watch/this-video-dispels-every-nature-vs-nurture-myth-youve-ever-heard/

[–]Defraga 39ポイント40ポイント  (25子コメント)

Oh daamn. Was literally eating a bowl of ice cream when 0:18 rolled around. Just gonna go for a quick run...

[–]TaxExempt 30ポイント31ポイント  (7子コメント)

Whelp, I'm off to run, too.

edit: That felt good.

[–]Shpadoinkles 3ポイント4ポイント  (2子コメント)

/r/running, swing by! There is a lot of new runners there and a whole lot of good information!

[–]Geordant 17ポイント18ポイント  (0子コメント)

Sponsored by Paunch Burger.

[–]nipple_burrito 14ポイント15ポイント  (0子コメント)

Fun fact, the dad in this was my high school drama and film teacher. Good guy.

[–]Ephemeris 84ポイント85ポイント  (47子コメント)

Only thing this video is missing is the shit tons of alcohol

[–]FatGirlsInPartyHats 72ポイント73ポイント  (35子コメント)

I'm a thin alcoholic. Don't bring us into this.

[–]Zolkowski 16ポイント17ポイント  (27子コメント)

Alcohol amounts to a shit ton of calories. I can't tell you how many times people have told me their metabolism has gone to shit when in reality they are just drinking more on top of their regular diet.

[–]ClassySavage 6ポイント7ポイント  (12子コメント)

Really depends what you're drinking. If you're always going for heavy craft beers, wine, or cocktails then yeah, but straight liquor isn't that bad. Check out getdrunknotfat.com

[–]Entthrowaway49 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

I enjoy the fact that there is a website that works alcohol in to your diet.

[–]EatATaco 9ポイント10ポイント  (4子コメント)

It's talking about setting up healthy eating habits *as a kid. * most people don't feed their kids alcohol.

[–]BadAthMOFO 82ポイント83ポイント  (6子コメント)

This ain't brutally honest...

It's just regular honest.

[–]JesusRasputin 1348ポイント1349ポイント  (273子コメント)

and still people are defending obese people, telling them "no fuck society. you are a beautiful butterfly and only dogs want bones! thin privilege!"

fucking disgusting.

[–]inmapjs 117ポイント118ポイント  (17子コメント)

There's a big difference between promoting self-love and declaring that being fat is healthy (not mentioning "health at every size" because it's a dumb concept). People who love and respect their bodies will take better care of themselves and will also eat better. Body shaming won't get us anywhere.

[–]-Themis- 42ポイント43ポイント  (10子コメント)

HAES is about healthy behaviors at every size, it's about eating healthy foods, and doing healthy activities, regardless of what size you are, and not focusing on the scale. It doesn't say and was never meant to say "you're healthy no matter how shitty your habits & how bad your health actually is." It's meant to say "be active & eat healthy foods & feel good about yourself, and stop obsessing about weight." There are plenty of skinny people whose metabolic health is shitty, because they have shit habits.

Which is not to say that some people don't try to do the "but fat is awesome!" bullshit. But they are a tiny minority. Most people are closer to the "treat people like human beings regardless of their weight" view point.

[–]inmapjs 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

Wow, I've never looked at it that way! It really does change the perspective and makes much more sense than the "your body can be healthy at every size even with no healthy habits" concept I was thinking about. Thank you for explaining it! Sadly, I think a lot of people (those for and against HAES) interpret the concept the same way I did.

[–]pipboy_warrior 16ポイント17ポイント  (0子コメント)

So many people don't get this, they seem to legitimately believe that being an asshole is in their target's best interest. "I'm doing people a favor by calling people fatties!"

[–]Erdumas 44ポイント45ポイント  (3子コメント)

My personal take on the matter is this: obesity is unhealthy. If you want to change, do it to get healthy. Don't do it to try to be beautiful.

Being happy with the body you have doesn't mean you don't think there's room for improvement.

I mean, if you had $100,000 in the bank, you'd probably be happy, right? But you'd also want to turn that into $1,000,000; right?

[–]AnalogDan 13ポイント14ポイント  (1子コメント)

My personal take on the matter is this: obesity is unhealthy. If you want to change, do it to get healthy. Don't do it to try to be beautiful.

This is literally what the "Health at Every Size" movement is trying to do. HAES doesn't mean "fat is healthy!" It means "get as healthy as possible and your weight will go down." Be healthier at 300 than you were at 350. Be healthier at 275 than you were at 300.

Reddit: upvoting HAES hatred and inventing the concept of HAES in the same thread.

[–]wmarsh 96ポイント97ポイント  (14子コメント)

and still people are defending obese people, telling them "no fuck society. you are a beautiful butterfly and only dogs want bones! thin privilege!"

Look at your words. Defending fat people? They're not criminals. They don't think it's awesome that they're overweight. They want to lose weight for the most part. Some have a defensive attitude and might claim they're healthy/fine, but your undirected rage isn't helping that.

It's very obvious when somebody like you just has an unsophisticated mentality and distills everything down to a way to hate fat people. You automatically act like all fat people are indefensible, which is such a simplistic, ignorant opinion that it could only come from somebody who isn't particularly good at thinking.

Being "considerate" doesn't necessarily mean unconditional niceness. It means considering the situation and being able to empathize and understand what's going on. If you capable of that you'd realize that what you are doing is no different from yelling at people for having mental illnesses. And if you're fine with that, you should just accept it when somebody tells you to fuck off and die for being a sociopath.

[–]mvolkovin 27ポイント28ポイント  (0子コメント)

Found the human being.

[–]MetalMunchkin 16ポイント17ポイント  (5子コメント)

This is a scary sentiment in my mind. The fact that the top comment was something hateful towards fat people is bad. Why is there so much empathy for drug users and the outcry to treat it like a medical condition when we as a group just throw fat people under the bus. It's the only group of people left in this country where it is ok to publicly hate/shame them. We have all this pent up rage because we're always monitoring our language to be PC and so it comes out here in an ugly way. I also feel there are some scary implications with this attitude as well. With gov't mandated healthcare I could EASILY see how we might feel right and justified in taking away benefits and forcing certain diets on people on this basis. It wouldn't be wrong to think that way either because with the system in place now they are in fact a strain on public resources.

Let people speak their minds if that's what they feel.

[–]blankemp 8ポイント9ポイント  (3子コメント)

People don't see obesity as a mental problem or an addiction and merely see people as being "lazy". Question for everyone. Who wakes up one day and says to themselves "Gee I think I'll gain 300 lbs"?

[–]Ephemeris 434ポイント435ポイント  (147子コメント)

I see you're getting downvoted by fatties. I will accept these downvotes with you.

Edit: This guy is top comment now, so you can stop upvoting me.

[–]TotallyNotGlenDavis 134ポイント135ポイント  (131子コメント)

Pretty sure most people who rip on fat people are fat themselves. I assume everyone on /r/fatpeoplehate is either fat or used to be fat. Thin people don't give a fuck about if people are fat or not.

[–]OriginalFlacko 23ポイント24ポイント  (0子コメント)

well... i think there actually are thin people who give a fuck about people being fat.

[–]DatAperture 180ポイント181ポイント  (71子コメント)

Thin people don't give a fuck about if people are fat or not.

I didn't care until I ran into a real fat activist on facebook. and then another, and then another. their stupid SJW bullshit tumblr pseudoscience opinion articles flooded my FB until I had no choice but to hate them.

clarification: I hate fat activists, not fat people. there's a difference between being a regular but pudgy person, and being a person who makes fat activism their cause and taking it upon themselves to spread pseudoscience at every opportunity.

[–]RabidMuskrat93 30ポイント31ポイント  (30子コメント)

God the pseudoscience is what kills me. I don't care if you eat yourself into a fucking grave at 35. I don't care if you weigh 600 pounds and haven't seen your toes in 7 years. None of that bothers me at all. But when you start telling me you can't lose weight for whatever reason, be it a thyroid condition, be it that everybody is different and some people hold onto weight more than others, or whatever, that's when I just stop all conversations about health and fitness. Because you literally have no fucking clue what you're talking about.

[–]DatAperture 14ポイント15ポイント  (14子コメント)

I snapped when a person said it was all because of their hypothyroidism. I also have hypothyroidism and take the same meds they do. One of us however eats 2000 calories a day, and the other eats 4000. One of us is fat and one isn't. but it's easier to blame meds than take ownership of your shitty diet.

[–]Areign 8ポイント9ポイント  (12子コメント)

man i wish i could casually eat 4000 calories a day. Thats such an absurd amount of food...weight gain would be so much easier

[–]pairyhenis 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

The pseudoscience accusations go both ways. Yes, obese "fat activists" have little appreciated of the science underpinning obesity. But similarly, as a researcher of molecular and epigenetic mechanism predisposing to obesity, many people decrying their obesity have not heard or refuse to recognise the public health research which lays the blame for the obesity epidemic at the doorstep of our obesogenic environments, and ultimately globalisation and mechanisation of our world.

I challenge anyone to find an academic paper which argues willpower and life choices are the driving factor in this. Popular discussion targets the symptom, not the cause.

[–]Meth-Damon 24ポイント25ポイント  (6子コメント)

More than likely. I'm a fat fuck and I tend to ridicule those who are overweight and don't try to lose weight, but say that they're fine. No. You're not. You're going to die early. I'm not okay with that which is why I try (and succeed) to lose weight. I've lost 200lbs in the past 2-3 years. I had fucked up my ankle so many times and just got overwhelmingly depressed that weight ballooned. I've had many people tell me to not push myself, or that being fat is fine and to just accept it. Fucking no. I am not going to die because I've got fucking tits. And I'm sure as hell not going to respect you if you want to continue destroying your life, but defend that action.

You don't accept Alcoholics saying that they'll be fine.

You don't accept heroin addicts saying they'll be fine.

Why the shit would you accept fat people who are putting them in a situation to make themselves worse? You shouldn't. It's self-destructive behavior and if you truly care about someone you shouldn't fucking let them slip into a state where they will only get worse and worse and die young.

[–]HydraulicTurtle 41ポイント42ポイント  (13子コメント)

I'm a healthy weight and from the UK, and I sure care about fat people being fat and happy about it, they're crippling our health service with their life choices

[–]LFBR 20ポイント21ポイント  (4子コメント)

So are smokers. I don't hate smokers, but if I could get them to quit I would. Same with unhealthy eaters.

[–]-Themis- 11ポイント12ポイント  (4子コメント)

Actually, because they die earlier they cost more upfront but are cheaper in the long run. Kind of like smokers, who are more expensive because they get sick earlier, but cheaper because they die earlier.

But you know that it's not the economics of it, right?

[–]TheDallasDiddler 6ポイント7ポイント  (1子コメント)

People that use the health and economic arguments are usually the first people to admit to just outright disliking fat people when pushed for a better answer.

[–]DrBabyManPhD 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

I have never been anything but thin or athletic build in my entire life and I loathe fat people. I find them disgusting and I thoroughly believe every negative stereotype about them how they are lazy and have no self control.

At 43 years old, I don't think this will change anytime soon.

[–]davanillagorilla 24ポイント25ポイント  (3子コメント)

Shaming people doesn't improve anything. People like you only make the whole situation worse.

[–]Kyoraki 46ポイント47ポイント  (41子コメント)

"Health at every size" is a movement that seriously needs to die. At least the creationists aren't hurting anyone.

[–]StormwindWarlock 48ポイント49ポイント  (2子コメント)

oh, there is a lot of dying going on in that movement.

[–]DaneelR 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yeah, they are dying, but at the expense of the tax payers.

[–]Kukuroo 6ポイント7ポイント  (1子コメント)

What the fat acceptance movement is all about is that each person deserves to be treated with respect regardless of if they are fat or not. Not that being fat is a healthy lifestyle. Cause it isnt.

[–]Disig 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

The message is definitely not what it should be. When you're overweight it's HARD to get thin, and pressure from society doesn't help it just makes it worse. Discrimination about it does exist as well. So I can see where they wanted to come from but....it's instead turning into "being fat is perfectly healthy!" thing and no...just no.

They SHOULD be saying don't lose weight because you want to look good, lose weight because you want to be healthy. It's a MUCH better mentality.

[–]drfezzik 9ポイント10ポイント  (5子コメント)

This was my life until about 4 years ago ( was 31). I was 330lbs at the time. in the 90s my grandfather had a heart attack at age 60. I just had a fear that I would end up dead early and not enjoy my family and kids. Plus when I could not run around and play with them really helped me change. Fast forward 3 years and my father had a heart attack as well. Helped reinforce my healthy eating and physcial habits. My life was exactly like that commercial. I ate taco bell almost at every lunch, with a large coke. Ate out all the time and unhealthy options and portions. Now I feel better and can keep up with anything. Did the hike in Kauai on the northern trail (Kalalau Trail) without hardly breaking a sweat. Waking heart rate is now at 40

My childhood eating habits consisted of coke all day, a whole bag of funyuns while playing console games, and big lunches and dinners. Then going to grandparents house on the farm was like thanksgiving every weekend. I could not tell the difference in thanksgiving and a weekend at grandmas. 4 different pies to choose from and a huge table of food.

[–]Rolling_Boomers 6ポイント7ポイント  (0子コメント)

MUH TRIGGERS

But for real though, epic advertisement

[–]dryeraser 13ポイント14ポイント  (2子コメント)

Commercials like this need to be aired everyday, as much as the quit smoking campaign commercials - effective PSAs. Childhood obesity is a serious epidemic.

[–]thebiglouboo 12ポイント13ポイント  (5子コメント)

Honestly, as a sufferer of childhood obesity, this makes my stomach turn.

My mother would so the same shit, too lazy to learn how to cook properly so she just got us fast food every day.

Flash forward to high school and I'm 320 pounds in ninth grade, having been obese my whole life until that point.

Through the years I have cut my weight down to 200 then back to 250, but It's a challenge

[–]jerryzzzz 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

Millions of Forever Alones felt a glimmer of hope as they watched that video and saw was that he played video games, ate junk food, might be 5'9" and 300, but he's got a hot wife.

[–]drax117 126ポイント127ポイント  (98子コメント)

I love how the show video games throughout the whole thing. With a little fucking motivation and restraint you can actually play video games and be fit at the same time!

[–]MerelyIndifferent 43ポイント44ポイント  (0子コメント)

But it's talking about the cumulative choices you make. Nothing shown could be individually responsible for a heart attack.

[–]project64mm 25ポイント26ポイント  (2子コメント)

Video games alone aren't the problem, just like how ordering a deep dish pizza alone isn't. It's a combination of eating shit and not exercising for years. Playing video games after hitting the gym is perfectly fine, ordering your favorite unhealthy meal once a week is fine. But you can't eat shit everyday, and your body needs to move.

[–]ArconV 18ポイント19ポイント  (3子コメント)

You can say the same about tv. No need to be offended...

[–]harmonigga 59ポイント60ポイント  (21子コメント)

You can also eat fast food and stay in shape, just don't be lazy.

[–]StanleyDarsh22 3ポイント4ポイント  (2子コメント)

dude mcdonald's double quarter pounder has 48g of protein. holy fuck. them gainz.

the trans fat though, that's the bad shit.

[–]drax117 11ポイント12ポイント  (12子コメント)

Every once in a while you definitely gotta treat yourself with the fast food place of your choice. Good for the soul.

[–]Erdumas 1ポイント2ポイント  (2子コメント)

The only reason I don't eat fast food terribly often is that it puts my wallet into terrible shape.

[–]dallusdapwnage 93ポイント94ポイント  (42子コメント)

I have the opposite, I often forget to eat while playing video games some times only eating dinner on the weekends

[–]Sie_Sayoka 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's a storytelling device. It reinforces the backwards passage of time as well as showing that he's not exercising in his spare time. I saw the usage of the controllers as rather brilliant as it was a much more personal touch to the generic birthday cakes and other cuts but that's just me.

[–]MasterCharlz 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

That was my only clue that time was going backwards through the whole thing. I was like weird he went from Xbox to GameCube. Then the NES controller came up and I was like ohhhh this is travelling back in time

[–]tickertinkler 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Shoot I play video games like crazy but I also spend an hour weight lifting everyday.. 15 hrs just on borderlands in a few days..

[–]barbaa42 91ポイント92ポイント  (35子コメント)

The mom feeding the baby fries saying "its the only thing that will make him stop" is fucked up. Basically at that very moment the kid was doomed for food addiction.

[–]MightyLabooshe 4ポイント5ポイント  (3子コメント)

My son was born six months ago, I think constantly of the scene with the mother feeding the baby fries. I think of it to remind myself to not let that happen to my son.

[–]ArrenPawk 4ポイント5ポイント  (1子コメント)

Fries are fine, but you just have to remember to do it in moderation. I give my 18 month old daughter fries sometimes...but I also give her carrots, and broccoli, and fresh blueberries. Despite the fact that we share chicken nuggets and hot dogs, her favorite food is bananas. Just keep it balanced and you'll be good to go.

Also, congrats on your boy. Hopefully you're at the stage where you can finally appreciate the nugget as a treasure and not just a crying shit factory.

[–]FU-allthetime 101ポイント102ポイント  (22子コメント)

Really? At no point from age 18 to his mid 30's did he have an opportunity to make his own choices? You're saying the die was cast as a toddler?

I completely disagree.

Our food culture in the US is seriously flawed to be sure...but if you're aware of the situation (going to the doctor in this case) and him telling you its a problem, and you continue to make bad mistakes...maybe the problem isn't the culture...it is an individual's own bad choices.

[–]deadbeard 104ポイント105ポイント  (9子コメント)

The child's fate isn't etched into stone or anything, but it certainly creates a hurdle for them to overcome that wouldn't be there if they were brought up differently.

[–]omgscottlikewoah 18ポイント19ポイント  (1子コメント)

Bingo. It doesn't outright doom the child, but it definitely presents them with a huge challenge and a lifetime of conditioning to overcome.

My parents were, for the most part, good parents. They kept a roof over our heads, disciplined us, and made sure we never went hungry. Unfortunately, their way of doing the latter often involved a lot of fast food, boxed dinners, and frozen foods (chicken nuggets, corn dogs, pizzas, etc.)

By the time I was 12, I had developed a heavy dependency on these foods. To be fair, my parents were slightly overweight at the time too, so that was just the way of life. As a result, I was quickly pushing 190 lbs at 5'4. According to the BMI chart, I was obese, and it played heavily into me being anti-social and having terrible self-confidence.

8th grade year, I finally decided enough was enough. This was during the whole Subway fad, so I started eating a lot of low-cal sandwiches instead of fast food. I'd eat Lean Cuisines instead of chicken nuggets or pizza. I started to learn to cook my own healthier meals. I also starved myself way more than I should have. This, coupled with a growth spurt, had me down to a "normal" 5'10 and 140 by Freshman year. It worked, but it probably wasn't the healthiest year my body has ever been through.

These days, I still struggle with my body image, despite the fact that I am pretty slim and athletic, hit the gym 3-5 days a week, and participate in sports. I've pretty much cut out fast food, but if I don't keep a beat on my diet, I can easily fall into the trap of eating anything and everything that is unhealthy for me, and next thing I know, I'll have packed on 10-15 lbs in a blink. Those old habits are still hiding in there, somewhere, and they still like to be fed on occasion (pun intended).

I don't blame my parents for this...they were just keeping us fed the best way they knew how. But I also know that my story isn't entirely uncommon these days, because the food that is cheap, convenient, and tasty is often the worst stuff for you.

[–]FU-allthetime 11ポイント12ポイント  (3子コメント)

You just summed up parenting in a nutshell. You have a series of dubious choices put upon you for 18 years that you work the rest of your life to overcome.

Sometimes your parents are right. Sometimes they aren't.

The kid who eats broccoli every day for 18 years and binges on pizza for the next 20 is just as much to blame for circumstances as the happy meal kid who decides to get fit and work out.

[–]ThereAreOnlyTwo 7ポイント8ポイント  (0子コメント)

I don't know... The habits of the parents are EXTREMLY important and of course they carry over to the children, but blaming it 100% on parents and their habits (I know thats not what you did, but with the "doomed" it kind of implied it seems too... convienient.

Everybody can make a change, and when we blame the parents (again, even though they play a big part) it makes it easy for people to go "yeah, I'm obese, but it's my parents fault, nothing i can do about it, oh well"

[–]fish024 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

If you say that constant fries when your a baby makes doomed to bad eating habits then you can make the same argument that constant ridicule in your teens for being fat is bound to shame you into taking control of your weight. It just doesn't compute.

[–]BoozeoisPig 4ポイント5ポイント  (1子コメント)

Well, he did get a treadmill. That's how I lost all my weight while still watching TV. Every second you are running you can be watching TV (at least if you can afford the machine). And every second you are lifting you can listen to music.

[–]LicensedProfessional 9ポイント10ポイント  (2子コメント)

I've seen this before. I couldn't get to the end this time.

[–]Goofyface 59ポイント60ポイント  (1子コメント)

did you run out of breath?

[–]ELEMENTALITYNES 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

There was no running involved.

[–]-SPACETARD- 69ポイント70ポイント  (14子コメント)

Fat shaming! Triggers! HEALTHY AT ANY SIZE! BUBLDSFGGHGHGLFFFfsssspppptttt****

[–]faceisamapoftheworld 29ポイント30ポイント  (3子コメント)

You forgot to mention how inaccurate BMI is because it would classify most NFL players as overweight!

[–]idofbatosai 11ポイント12ポイント  (4子コメント)

We get it, those people are wrong and are spreading misinformation. We know obesity is a problem, anyone that is not willfully ignorant knows it. I wish people would stop shining a light on these outball minorities, it's not helping anyone and acknowledging them is diverting the conversation from solutions to finger-pointing.

[–]uratool2 22ポイント23ポイント  (4子コメント)

She gave him birthday cake? What a fucking cunt of a mother.

[–]gettothechoppaaaaaa 15ポイント16ポイント  (13子コメント)

This commercial is great and all but it's still missing half the story of why Americans are so unhealthy. It's the way our cities and lifestyles are designed. It's the automobile. It's driving. It's the American suburban sprawl. Americans drive to work, school, eat, shop, entertainment, etc. People in Europe and Asia walk. Americans walk an average of 2000~4000 steps per day. People in Europe and Asia walk 9000~10,000 steps per day. Yes, quantity wise Americans do eat much more, but in terms of food quality, there's a ton of unhealthy fatty shit in Europe and Asia too. There are reasons beyond diet and poor choices as to why people in America are fat and why people in Europe/Asia are healthier.

Americans just don't fucking walk. Walking might seem like so little, but when you do a lot of if everyday, it makes the biggest difference. Unfortunately it's a massive issue that no one talks about.

I suggest people check out Mick Cornett: How an obese town lost a million pounds and or The walkable city by Jeff Speck.

[–]telmyn 7ポイント8ポイント  (0子コメント)

I live in the UK, we walk everywhere.

Childhood obesity is right below the US and rising whereas in the US it's dropping slightly.

[–]harry3harry3harry 6ポイント7ポイント  (1子コメント)

Fat fuck comes in with a heart attack. Doctor: "how the hell did that happen?"

[–]lazar7797 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

He meant how did he get to be that fat to the point where he had a heart attack at age 32. A doctor in another comment said that heart attacks are rare even in the obese at that age, usually its late 30's and 40's

[–]particle409 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

Hey, remember when the First Lady tried to make healthier school lunches, and she was called a socialist? Maybe she was on to something.

[–]cleancutmover 5ポイント6ポイント  (5子コメント)

Ha. I have a 7 month old daughter. Poor kids never setting foot in a McDonalds. Sorry honey.

[–]maggieeeee12345 7ポイント8ポイント  (0子コメント)

Best thing I've seen since FPH got taken down. Upvotes all around for healthy life choices :)

[–]druucifer 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

The music and cuts reminded me somewhat of Requiem for a Dream

[–]bigmikevegas 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

This brought a legitimate tear to my eye, because since December i've lost 85 pounds and I was on the same track, it's brutally honest but it's what this country needs.

[–]Reddy_McRedcap 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Wait. Are you telling me there were iPods in 1996? Fuck off with these lies! Now where is my Baconator?

[–]Xandah 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

My jimmies would be rustled if they had the room to rustle.

[–]rdlrr 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

Brutally honest indeed, but what I applaud more is the fact that this organization is throwing a lifeline early in the development of a potentially harmful lifestyle...the best form of care is preventative care, which this country's health care system overlooks

[–]Nico__Laos 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

You know how when you see an obese child with an obese parent, and someone always says something like "That's child abuse. That mother should be locked up for doing that to her kid." ... You see it all the time. People will make fun of fat people, but feel sorry for the fat child because he never had a chance. I always think ... so when is it okay to make fun of the fat child? When he turns 18? Is that when his obesity is clearly his fault and no longer his parents'? It isn't that simple, is it? It's something we all should think about. When you see an adult that's 300+ lbs and you feel contempt for their very existence, realize that they were almost certainly a fat child. And just because your parents were responsible enough to teach you proper eating habits, doesn't mean everyone else had the same luxury. I'm not excusing people for decades of poor health choices, I'm just pointing out that there is a reason for this sort of thing, and it typically goes far beyond 'laziness.'

[–]Dontmakemechoose2 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Okay so my two young children eat fairly healthy food. My daughter is just over a year and ears way healthier than her older brother because she'll eat anything we put in front of her. My 3 year old son is a fight to get to eat. We try to make sure he's eating well but sometime in the video it's just easier to get to eat shitty food. I'm headed over to this website now. Commercial worked on me

[–]Dexter_Jettster 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

I wish my 15 year old son would see this, unfortunately he's not talking to me right now because I'm "too strict" and according to him "act like you're my girlfriend" when I am attempting to parent him. This scares me. Like I said, he's 15 years old and clothing stores DO NOT carry size 46's. Please don't let this be your child, please, please, please... :(

EDIT: Want to add, this is not my doing, but his father feeds him crap food constantly, it's so fucking sad. I don't care what you do to YOU, but don't encourage our son. So far past the point now.

[–]jhilton3 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Wow, just wow. I see kids (and adults) like this everywhere and it makes me sad and angry at the same time. I think ads like this need to be more visible, more mainstream.