by Robert Lindsay | February 27, 2014 · 11:29 PM

Half Your Age Plus Seven

Tulio writes:
But alas, that day will come where no young girl mistakes me for being a 20-something and I’ll have to bump it up. What’s the rule for dating younger women? Half your age plus 7 is as low as you can go? Well I’ve broken that rule before and gladly will again, but by that rule you can be a 60 year old man and date a 37 year old. More realistically though, if you’ve taken care of yourself and have some money and status, a 60 year old man should be able to get an attractive 45 year old no problem.
That rule is not very good. A better rule would be half your age period. I am close to 60, and if I didn’t have a girlfriend, I could easily get 28-29 year olds. Well not easily, but they are certainly out there and available to me in recent years. But then again, maybe I am not an ordinary guy.
When I was 20, a 12 year old girl who I was friends with from my job as school janitor openly propositioned me. I laughed really hard, and yeah, I turned her down.
So that is half my age +2.
When I was 27, I had a 13 year old girl in my class openly proposition me in front of the whole class. The class pointed it out to me and I went up to her and asked her, “Is that true? You want me to meet you after school at the park so I can have sex with you.” She nodded her head very fast and all the other kids started clapping and cheering. At that age, I thought 13 year old girls were hot (not really anymore – that is too much of a little girl to me at age now) but I didn’t take her up on her offer.
So that was half my age again.
At age 33, I had 18 year old girls after me. I was a teacher and they were my students. A couple of them gave me their phone numbers, asked me to be their boyfriend, etc. I turned them down too. One was hard to turn down as she was the Homecoming Queen! She was a real beauty. I believe it was legal, but I was afraid of losing my job.
So that is half my age+1.
When I was 43, I was dating an 18 year old girl.
So that is half my age minus 3.
At the same age, I had a  few girls aged 15-17 openly propositioning me, offering to send me nude pics, all sorts of insane stuff. I turned them all down for sex though.
They would be half my age minus 4-6.
Once I got to age 47, all of a sudden I could not talk to or even look at not only underage teenage girls but also women about 18-23. So that as low as I could go was half my age or 24. I did in fact get a 24 year old woman at that age, and even then, there were a few hotties 18-23 who acted like they could go for me.
As I got older than age 52 or so, even those few hotties dried up, and at this point, for sure no woman age 18-23 wants me, but I would say no woman aged 18-26 wants me. I just figure those are the facts and run with it and don’t flirt with girls that age very much.
A few years ago, I met a 17 year old girl, and it was blatantly obvious to everyone what was going on. That never went anywhere.
That would be half my age -9! Whoa.
However, recently I met a 16 year old girl (!) who was like way, way, way, way too friendly. She was also 16 going on 30, extremely beautiful with a wonderful personality. Nothing happened, just talked a bit, but it was weird even talking to her as she scares the crap out of me. Basically I think she is dangerous as Hell, and I really hope I don’t see her anymore. I don’t even want chicks like that to even be around – too tempting.
That would be half my age – 12. Wow!
I can talk to underage teenage girls, especially age 16-17, but I would be much more comfortable if they had only a platonic interest in me, and we got that out of the way fast. Then maybe I could even have a platonic friendship with them. When they are really hot for you, it becomes extremely tempting.
In 2012, I had a couple of gf’s in the US who were 28-29.
That is 1/2 my age.
However, a few years ago after I joined Facebook, I got barraged by cute little Filipina spinners chasing after me. One of them would somehow friend me, and then pretty soon all of their little friends see the hot American White dude on her friends list, and they all started adding me as a friend.
One by one they would come to me, all from the same area or even from the same city (!), all pretty cute and about 19-35, with most 19-28. Every other day, there was a new one coming up to me. Every one of them was like, “Hey, you like me? You want me? I like you honey. You are so handsome! Hey baby, you come to Philippines, you stay here with me, you like me, you marry me, ok? And I give you a kid too, as many you want. And I stay with you forever and be your devoted wife.”
I told some of them that their friends were already messaging me with the same lines, and it turned out those were their cousins or sometimes their friends.
Then they would often start fighting and competing and saying, “Pick me, not her. She’s bad. I am better, and here’s why.” Most do not out and out ask for money, but some hint around about that, yet I still do not think they are scammers. Just desperately poor people.
A lot of them ask to see pics and then ask if you have any nudes. Some want to see any nude pics you have. I even had one offer to take me some nudes, but she wanted some help for a trip to Manila to get work for those choice photos. I never sent any of them any money.
They are basically all genuine as I see it. They are all desperately poor I think, and they figure marrying an American White dude is a great way to get out of poverty.
Most of the were extremely sweet, kind and loving, with little or no aggression, hate or anger in them. Basically 100% submissive females, and all of the aggression has been cultured out of them.
I was a bit tempted not so much for marriage (but they would make cool wives) but more for a kid. I never had a kid, and I would not mind making one at this point except that it requires a young woman.
So they would be mostly half my age -9 to half my age.
I also had a Peruvian woman age 27 come to me in the past several years. We got on cam a lot and one day she called me. I asked who it was and she said in Spanish, “It’s the girl who wants to marry you.” She too said, hey, you come down here, you stay with me a while, we see if we like each other, if we do, you marry me, and maybe I give you a kid.” She was a real cutie too, and really smart, a college student. Also pretty poor.
That would be half my age+1.
Then somehow I met this older Peruvian woman about 45 who married some older White guy. She found out I was single and she started turning me on to these Peruvian chick friends of hers. They were like 28-32 or so. I talked to one and she was extremely sweet. The ones I met were all pretty smart. Same deal, looking to marry an American White guy and I guess get out of the 3rd World.
That would be half my age+2.
So for the US and the West, at age 56, I would say that I could go as low as 28-29 at this point with some rare exceptions.
And for overseas, at age 56, I guess the sky is the limit. So far the youngest was 19.
If you think this website is valuable to you, please consider a contribution to support the continuation of the site. This is my only job.

Like this:

Like Loading...
Be the first to like this.

12 responses to “Half Your Age Plus Seven”

  1. Beatrix
    “Love one another, but make not a bond of love:
    Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.
    Fill each other’s cup but drink not from one cup.
    Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf
    Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone,
    Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.”
    -Khalil Gibran
    • guerrer0
      Well, I am 22 years old, and I did find a man 10 years older (about 32 years) handsome. When I was 19 years old I found attractive a 15 years old teenager than I knew in person, that is a difference of about 3 and half years younger. (today we are 22 and 17 respectively) .And that is all I call recall.
      • guerrer0
        Ok , when I knew the teenager for the first time, I was already 19 and he still was 14, however I didn’t do anything to him because he was heterosexual and I respected it, and on top of that, I could only saw him in church! , but I liked to hug him, actually he was quite open to hugs, and he was likeable and kind with me (and handsome ), though I don’t talk with him anymore, and I am not really anymore friends with any person of my church, I still go because my parents, in few months I will finally live alone because my college and bye bye to all of this, I don’t expect any gay man in church, and all the women there expect to marry me in order to have sex! and I wanna be married until my 30’s, screw that.
  2. Clubfoot Superstar
    Got boobs = OK.
  3. Yes the name for a man of any age who finds 13 yr old girls attractive is NORMAL. Especially a younger man.
    Careful scientific studies have shown that all normal males are physically attracted to 13 yr old girls, just at a lesser rate than to mature females. They were attracted to them at a rate of 70% of the level of the mature females, which is a pretty high level. These studies were published in peer reviewed academic journals, and there have been a number of attempts at replication. The results were exactly the same. Get over it. Men are turned on by teenage girls. It’s been proven in the lab so many times that we would be stupid to test it again. It is a noncontroversial fact of Sexology.
    It’s not illegal to find anyone of any age attractive, and it doesn’t really imply anything about the person necessarily in any way whatsoever. Not one person is on the Sex Offender list for thoughts, feelings or even impulses and urges. Thought crimes are not illegal yet. The only thing illegal is messing with 13 yr old girls sexually. I must say, I have never had sex with a 13 yr old girl or even had anything to do with them sexually. Anyway, I had feelings like from about age 13 to age ~33 or so. As I get older, they seem more and more just way too young of a girl.
    My qualifications: Work as a therapist. One specialty is sexual orientation and I work a lot with people who have issues around pedophilia and thoughts and feelings of being attracted to minors. I have worked with scores of people who have these sort of issues, including a couple of 100% real pedophiles (who were not offending). Actually I am now an expert at the diagnosis of pedophilia, among other things.
    Your qualifications? Banned.
    HAVE A NICE DAY!
      • Yes, I have read many such threads. The arguments go round and round. I think the sane answer is that of course it is normal for men of any age to be attracted to teenage girls and it’s completely normal to experience such feelings. However, most discussions on the Web say you shouldn’t be messing with them for a variety of reasons. The typically cited reason is that you are taking advantage of them because children are brought up to obey adults and girls are raised to obey males, especially men. Personally I think it is really cool that we socialize our females to obey us. Hopefully they retain this attractive quality far into adulthood. Also you are taking advantage of them because their minds are not mature.
        The mind is not fully mature until age ~25, so therefore, it should be illegal for older people to have sex with 18-25 yr olds, right? Why don’t we raise the age of consent to age 25 because with their undeveloped brains, persons under age 25 lack the maturity to consent to sex.
        Supposedly girls are brought up to obey adults, especially men. Ok that means that teenage girls ought to be easy pickings for us guys, right? But it’s not really true. Young men age 18-25 can do pretty well with underage teenage girls, but after that, it gets a lot dicier. A friend of mine at age 29 screwed a 15 year old girl, a friend of his sisters, on her request apparently. The guy was basically an Alpha and a sociopath to boot. I do not think most underage teenage girls are into guys over 25 or so and as you get older and older, it is pretty much only the more Alpha guys who continue to attract the jailbait as most jailbaits find men uninteresting past a certain age. An Alpha could conceivably still be attracting jailbaits even into his 50’s, whereas most jailbaits would find 98% of men that age to be “grandpa.”
        This whole discussion centers around the insane notion that jailbaits are easy pickings for any adult male of any age. What bullshit. If the age of consent were lowered to 16 or even 14 tomorrow, how many girls that age do you think I would get, even if I were inclined? Approximately zero, and I know that is true. At my age, I am “Daddy” but more like “Grandpa” to those girls. They are not interested in me. I am an old man. So getting these girls is not an easy feat at all as most of them see us as too old once we are past a certain age. If society realized that, maybe they would lighten up a bit on this issue.
        Also, does a girl automagically become mature enough to have sex and lose her undeveloped jailbait brain when she hits 18? Dubious. So then really a 38 year old man with an 18 year old girl is about as bad as a older male of any age with a 16 yr old girl. He is still “using his age to his advantage,” “manipulating her,” “taking advantage of the fact that she was raised to obey men,” bla bla.
        And what about states and countries where the AOC is 16 instead of 18. Is there any evidence that in those states 16 and 17 yr old girls suddenly become much more mature at age 16 than in states where the AOC is 18? Of course not.
        I agree that you shouldn’t be messing with jailbaits at some point as an adult. What that age is where you have to watch it, I have no idea. But 20 year old men are getting nailed for doing 15 year old girls, so you might want to watch it. Age 18-22 is a grey area, and you may or may not get away with it, but by 23, you best keep your hands off period. I have not touched any jailbait since age 21, and I am very happy with that. Human beings are capable of restraint you know
        Personally, I think most of the “taking advantage” and “immature” arguments are retarded, and I don’t think those are good reasons not to do such thing. The real good reasons to keep your hands the Hell off is the law. And nowadays the law has become increasingly insane about this area. At my age, if I mess with a 16 yr old girl (which to me is not even immoral if she is 16 going on 30), I would probably go down for 10 hard years. I might get beat up in jail. The papers would write me up as “child molester,” “pedophile,” and other bullshit lies. When you get out, if you get out, you go on the stupid Sex Offender Registry for the rest of your life. You have to register everywhere you go and you are often prevented from residing in many locales. You may indeed find it hard or impossible to get a job. If your neighbors look up that registry and see you on it, they may vandalize home or vehicle and they may beat you up. And for some young nookie. Yeah, that is so worth it. Not.
      • Big G
        its very interesting how everyone who discusses natural responses to human mating is promoting sex with children. many who commented on the above link find it difficult to separate, cultural , moral , anthological, points to human sexuality. there is a very good argument for the cultural or moral rules of the decision process that a young women goes thru in those adolescent years garnishing years of psychological problems. who doesn’t have psychological problems from those years. its too bad that the act hasn’t created near the problem as the stigma society puts on it. I read once that a guy who was just turned 18 had dropped off his 17 year old girlfriend too late one night. the mother and daughter fought. the mother had the 18 year old male arrested for rape on a minor. he spent 4 years in prison and even after 10 years married to the same girl and 4 children later he has to register and talk to all the neighbors as a sex offender. while these laws are put in place to protect people lets not feel that they don’t lay waist to many, probably at the same rate of the so called abused. every law should have constant review and all the ideology of culture, society, and science should be taken into affect. not just the views of the moral minority. religion has no place in society outside the church or home. period.
  4. Tulio
    Adobe Flash Player or an HTML5 supported browser is required for video playback.
    Get the latest Flash Player
    Learn more about upgrading to an HTML5 browser
  5. Self-hating Indian
    Heh heh..made me laugh but it’s true that younger girls however look at you more as a coach or a mentor than a dating material (there are exceptions of course). If I apply your half your age + 7 rule, yes there was this girl who was 22 (I’m 31) she wouldn’t leave me alone at my last office. She needed someone to talk to and would trust me with things one would only tell their own family. I felt tempted to take advantage of her vulnerable side but there was some higher power that prevented me from abusing my coach/mentor role.
    • I would be more than happy to take advantage of the vulnerable side of any attractive younger woman.
      And of course I would be delighted to abuse my coach/mentor role with any attractive younger woman.
      But then again, I am depraved, degenerate and somewhat amoral. Those adjectives sound terrible, but really they just make life more fun.
      Everyone uses everyone; everyone manipulates everyone. It’s called life.

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:
WordPress.com Logo
You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. ( Log Out / Change )
Twitter picture
You are commenting using your Twitter account. ( Log Out / Change )
Facebook photo
You are commenting using your Facebook account. ( Log Out / Change )
Google+ photo
You are commenting using your Google+ account. ( Log Out / Change )
Connecting to %s

  • Blog Stats

    • 12,970,921 hits
Beyond Highbrow – Robert Lindsay · I Distort, You Deride
Follow

Get every new post delivered to your Inbox.
Join 1,140 other followers
%d bloggers like this:
    loading Cancel
    Post was not sent - check your email addresses!
    Email check failed, please try again
    Sorry, your blog cannot share posts by email.
    0%
     
    10%
     
    20%
     
    30%
     
    40%
     
    50%
     
    60%
     
    70%
     
    80%
     
    90%
     
    100%