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[–]GuyAboveIsStupid 4756ポイント4757ポイント  (498子コメント)

What happens if two gay dudes get drunk and have sex? Are they both charged with rape?

/r/ShowerThoughts

[–]StarBeasting 1916ポイント1917ポイント  (131子コメント)

Only the "top" would be charged.

[–]makesterriblejokes 3135ポイント3136ポイント  (111子コメント)

Even if the other guy is a "power bottom"?

[–]theydeletedme 766ポイント767ポイント  (71子コメント)

[–]Thrall_So_Hard 492ポイント493ポイント  (57子コメント)

Speed has everything to do with it.

[–]nefariouslothario 175ポイント176ポイント  (31子コメント)

"he was a twank versatile, you watch yourself"

"ooh i would never be able to satisfy him"

[–]tovarish22 203ポイント204ポイント  (30子コメント)

"A twank on the other hand, that's no good. That's a twink and a skank. Essentially a rag doll that's been tossed around from twink to twunk to bear to otter.

"Wait, wait, wait a minute. What's an otter?"

"Subsection of bear. Still hairy but whereas a bear generates his power through sheer mass alone, the otter generates his power through extraordinary quickness, cunning, and skill."

[–]The_Juggler17 831ポイント832ポイント  (62子コメント)

What about divorce?

If both spouses are men, how does the court know which one to screw over in the divorce?

[–]Avestrial 616ポイント617ポイント  (4子コメント)

maybe this has been the real problem with gay marriage all along

[–]thinkingstone 62ポイント63ポイント  (1子コメント)

Turns out it was never about legality issues, or moral questions. It was just too damn confusing.

[–]nonconformist3 132ポイント133ポイント  (20子コメント)

You know, with this whole gay marriage thing happening, judges will have to seriously review who gets what in a divorce. Might work out for straight guys positively.

[–]Mithious 3521ポイント3522ポイント x3 (97子コメント)

No, if a gay guy regrets having sex the morning after we just chalk that one up to experience and move on with our lives instead of being a right cunt and trying to ruin someone else's life.

[–]zxcsd 1261ポイント1262ポイント  (104子コメント)

What if two lesbians had drunk sex? who's the rapist then?

[–]Tsfrog 4178ポイント4179ポイント  (70子コメント)

Oddly enough, Jake.

[–]jarmoksk 614ポイント615ポイント  (12子コメント)

Of course! He was eye-raping them whole evening!

[–]EmLeingod 91ポイント92ポイント  (9子コメント)

I mean potential energy is just as important as kinetic energy, right?

The potential to rape is just as important as actual rape, right? They're practically the same thing.

[–]dtoast 365ポイント366ポイント  (18子コメント)

Jake? From State Farm? At 3 in the morning?

[–]evictor 194ポイント195ポイント  (0子コメント)

ლ(ಠ益ಠლ)

[–]TopDrawmen 371ポイント372ポイント  (8子コメント)

It defaults to the last 18 or older male they had contact with.

[–]WickedIsGood 3344ポイント3345ポイント  (96子コメント)

Most unrealistic part is how Jake was charged the next day. Our justice system is slow as fuck.

[–]SalamanderUponYou 1125ポイント1126ポイント  (23子コメント)

Maybe he's a serial rapist and he was being charged with rape in a completely unrelated case.

[–]SawinBunda 301ポイント302ポイント  (17子コメント)

Our justice system is slow as fuck.

Conveniently, colleges don't depend on it.

[–]hasapoint 40ポイント41ポイント  (11子コメント)

Nope! They'll just shove you in a room alone without a lawyer to protect you or a jury to listen to your side of it, and read off the list of accusations your crimes.

[–]Flafff 255ポイント256ポイント  (9子コメント)

Jake will probably be expelled from school next day tho, way before any kind of process

[–]vickipaperclips 3204ポイント3205ポイント  (408子コメント)

So does this mean that as a woman, I'm no longer accountable for anything I do once I'm drunk? Because there are definitely some illegal things I wanted to try. Also, DUI's? I guess those don't exist either then, since we're on the "blame it on the alcohol" train here.

Edit: just for the people taking this a little too serious, I'm using sarcasm to show that I think this is a stupid way of thinking. I thought it was obvious, but apparently some people don't find it so.

[–]day_for_night_ 1761ポイント1762ポイント  (224子コメント)

Yeah I'm surprised at this ad, I've (Australia) only seen ones with the opposite message, eg - http://i.imgur.com/Gv6cO0y.jpg

[–]memeship 1266ポイント1267ポイント  (82子コメント)

I really feel like Americans would flip their shit at an ad like that.

[–]scootscoot 1343ポイント1344ポイント  (31子コメント)

Are you suggesting that people be responsible for their own actions? Yeah, that's not going to go over well.

[–]BulletBilll 537ポイント538ポイント  (24子コメント)

It's always the Liberals or Conservatives or Illegals or Minorities or Wealthy or Poor or Corporation or Gay people's fault that I drove on the sidewalk drunk.

[–]El_Dumfuco 532ポイント533ポイント  (8子コメント)

Treating women like responsible adults? That's insane!

[–]NinjaKlaus 1142ポイント1143ポイント  (91子コメント)

The blurry part says Coastal Carolina University, I cannot find any mentions of this poster actually being real though. It's possible they took a lot of flak for it and pulled it though, or I just can't google.

This is clearly a two way street, I think if I were the Jake, I'd issue a request for charges against her as well.

[–]TJPope 868ポイント869ポイント  (44子コメント)

I attended CCU years ago and can confirm seeing the poster and laughing at the insane logic behind it. I don't remember if it was a short lived ad program or not though.

[–]Deto 331ポイント332ポイント  (30子コメント)

The poster seems to almost intentionally emphasize the absurdity. I wonder if the graphics designer assigned to the job arranged it that way on purpose?

[–]mjstc 283ポイント284ポイント  (10子コメント)

As a graphic designer, I can confirm we have the power to emphasise absurdity. Almost looks like a weird rom-com film poster.

[–]Charlemagne2014 780ポイント781ポイント  (121子コメント)

Let's say this goes to trial and is thrown out, no harm done right?

Well, no.

The guy will be kicked out of college because, as numerous cases have shown, universities are more concerned about showing force against this than providing any sort of due diligence in prosecuting. You only need a preponderance of evidence (literally hearsay and conjecture) and the school will kick him out less they are accused of protecting rapists.

Meanwhile, the guys name will appear in the newspaper as someone arrested of rape. His mugshot will appear on the internet. When a potential employer (or gf, or family member, or friend) looks him up online they will see the charges. The company isnt going to take a chance in hiring him so he wont be able to get a decent job. People will think that he is guilty and only got off on some technicality.

Basically, his life is ruined. The "victim" in the case legally will never have her name released. It is the perfect situation to destroy someone. Can you think of any other instance where you can accuse someone of a crime with NO evidence and then that person's life is destroyed simply because of the accusation? And, added to that, there are no repercussions for the accuser--heck the accuser is still treated as a victim even when it comes out they lied.

[–]Resipiscence 157ポイント158ポイント  (37子コメント)

More men... All men... Who are kicked out of school and harmed should sue their accuser and their school and anybody else involved in these modern legal lynchings.

Sue for defamation. Sue for the financial harm, now and in the future. Sue for the lost time. Sue!

[–]snowcone_wars 117ポイント118ポイント  (20子コメント)

Which is exactly what the guy who Matress Girl claimed raped her is doing. And yet, as is generally the case with these things, almost no one knows this. Because everyone jumped on the story when it first happened and turned it into a movement, it won't really matter when (and it is when, not if) he wins the case against Columbia, becuase no one will care to really know about it, and his reputation will be associated with rape in the minds of most who heard the story.

[–]IceBlade03 41ポイント42ポイント  (10子コメント)

Who would have thought that we'd come to this point. Who would have thought a day would come that we have to question rape charges because crazy people figured out how to abuse it. I now live in fear of false rape accusations where "victims" can become abusers.

[–]SnideJaden 20ポイント21ポイント  (2子コメント)

My mom's best friends father blew his brains out before court ruling because two teen girls, from his church no less, lied about being raped by him. They admitted they made it up and they didn't get in trouble.

[–]Waldemar-Firehammer 74ポイント75ポイント  (21子コメント)

If you're talking about the USA. Other countries if it turns out someone lied then there is a huge retraction by the press, and reversal off charges. The accuser is then charged, put in the sex offender registry, and fined a huge amount to go to the accused.

[–]CreedDidNothingWrong 4273ポイント4274ポイント  (399子コメント)

So that's how it's gonna be, eh, ladies? Fine. We'll just start fucking each other. Supreme Court says it's legal. Let's get weird fellas.

[–]Why_You_Mad_ 323ポイント324ポイント  (57子コメント)

This raises a very important point. If two men are drunk and have sex, who gets charged with the rape?

[–]Rhaski 100ポイント101ポイント  (18子コメント)

or two women. with a double ended dildo. think about it. neither can give consent, both have been penetrated, by the same object. is it considered, like, an accident or something?

[–]koy5 137ポイント138ポイント  (45子コメント)

Just wait till the fuck robots come.

[–]Cakemiddleton 5420ポイント5421ポイント x2 (1013子コメント)

So according to this ad men can still think clearly enough to be charged with a crime when drunk but women are plainly too stupid to know better

[–]Epithemus 4785ポイント4786ポイント  (672子コメント)

Clearly this means women can't be charged for crimes while drunk. They're not responsible for that behavior.

[–]Sloppy1sts 319ポイント320ポイント  (5子コメント)

"You can't arrest us! We're high, we don't understand our rights!"

-Ricky

[–]TheGreyGuardian 4736ポイント4737ポイント  (287子コメント)

Clearly this means women should not be legally allowed to drink alcohol because their inferior brains can't handle it.

[–]Sooper_trooker 3432ポイント3433ポイント  (244子コメント)

Yes the drinking age for woman should be raised to 45.

[–]ThisVersionOfMyself 3105ポイント3106ポイント  (223子コメント)

I would say 60. Have you ever seen a ladies night out for 40 and 50 year olds?

They're worse than 20 year olds.

Edit: damnit I was always so proud bacon was my top comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/20tj4y/whats_something_about_your_boyfriendgirlfriend/cg6wwhn

[–]Cornwall 999ポイント1000ポイント  (170子コメント)

Me: Hmm, I've never actually seen a middle aged ladies night out...

Thinks about it

Me: Nope, that can stay the fuck away from me, thanks.

[–]SillyOperator 1302ポイント1303ポイント  (87子コメント)

As a bartender, it's fucking terrible. Think women who are already filled with regret, so they really don't give a fuck about what happens. It's like having an already established porn star go on Girls Gone Wild. Oh and since they don't get out much, they're going to cram an entire year's worth of drinking into one night.

Tl; dnr More regret, less shame, no tips. Good for single guys though.

Edit: word

[–]THE_CENTURION 1294ポイント1295ポイント  (98子コメント)

Yup. Women drives drunk and kills a person?

No way she should be held accountable, I mean she was drunk! If she was sober, she never would have driven the car while impaired.

Woman starts a fight and puts someone in the hospital?

Well she was drunk! She can't be charged with assault! That's ridiculous, she wasn't of sound mind, you can't hold her to what she did, if she were sober she would have never hit that person.

Oh she said "yes" to sex after drinking?

Noooooooo that doesn't count. She would never have had sex with that man if she were sober. That man's a rapist! Lock him up! No, you don't need any evidence, just do it!

[–]ivosaurus 1055ポイント1056ポイント  (27子コメント)

If she was sober, she never would have driven the car while impaired.

I love the perfect circular logic in this sentence.

[–]DungeonDepartment 917ポイント918ポイント  (136子コメント)

Inherently, this sets a precedent that states that women cannot act in accordance with their conscious self when in an altered state of thinking.

This means that a woman is understood to be of lower mental capacity than a man would be, and has objective limitations that would justify treating them as second-class citizens.

This is, of course, running under the assumption that thus sign is real, and I refuse to believe anyone is THAT stupid.

[–]SNeddie 90ポイント91ポイント  (15子コメント)

The sign is real. As someone who is forced to attend annual training on this I can assure you it's real. It's outdated as shit but that's exactly the type of BS we were being fed for years in the USAF. Our favorite question to ask after being briefed about this both drunk situation was, who can claim rape if they are drunk? I shit you not, their response was whoever makes it to the Sexual Response and Coordinator office first.

[–]jubbergun 783ポイント784ポイント  (28子コメント)

This is, of course, running under the assumption that thus sign is real, and I refuse to believe anyone is THAT stupid.

Ah, the enviable, hopeful ignorance of youth. As you grow older not only will you find that many people can be that special kind of stupid, but when you're not paying close attention that you yourself can be, too.

[–]doughboy011 217ポイント218ポイント  (13子コメント)

but when you're not paying close attention that you yourself can be, too.

I should tape this to my wall to take a gander at each morning.

[–]Traiklin 1122ポイント1123ポイント  (54子コメント)

Ok here's my plan, I'm going to gather up 5 women, get them "Intoxicated" (remember one drink is considered intoxicated) and then take them to rob a bank.

After they steal all the money we can split it up and live happy lives, since they were "Intoxicated" they can't be tried for the robbery! it's fool proof.

[–]welsh_dragon_roar 278ポイント279ポイント  (37子コメント)

What if they're sick all over the money and poo in the getaway car?

[–]gorilla_head 439ポイント440ポイント  (69子コメント)

"female on male attacks are categorized as "made to penetrate" (unless penetration of a male occurs using an object or other means) and are not included in official rape statistics, but are assessed separately under sexual violence."

[–][deleted] 180ポイント181ポイント  (50子コメント)

I heard (on like CSI or SUV, so totally solid info) that rape means putting something in another persons orifice without consent, so if that is the definition, men can still definitely be raped but being made to penetrate would indeed count as a separate thing. Which I think can be problematic, and in my opinion being made to penetrate should be seen in the same way.

[–]hurrrrrmione 173ポイント174ポイント  (37子コメント)

The FBI's definition of rape is "Penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim."

However in most cases in the United States a rape case is going to fallen under state jurisdiction, and state rape and sexual assault laws vary. Some states don't even use the word 'rape' in their penal codes. You can check the rape and sexual assault laws by state here: https://www.rainn.org/public-policy/laws-in-your-state

[–]projectbluue 3173ポイント3174ポイント  (235子コメント)

Setting back womens rights about 50 years.

[–][deleted] 814ポイント815ポイント  (67子コメント)

our feeble female bodies just can't handle alcohol in the same way the strong male bodies can, and therefore we cannot be held responsible for our drunk actions! Men are always in control, no matter how much alcohol they drink. It's simple biology!

/s

[–]TheRighteousTyrant 85ポイント86ポイント  (2子コメント)

When it's a legitimate drunkenness, men's bodies have a way to shut that whole thing down. /s

[–]Magzattack 25ポイント26ポイント  (7子コメント)

My boyfriend's life has been ruined by this. It happened to him. She was the one insisting it happened and she said yes but the next day she decided she 'wouldn't have done something like that' and told the cops.

[–]vgraz2k 121ポイント122ポイント  (9子コメント)

Happened my freshman year of college to a friend of mine. Hooked up with this rich, stuck up bitch. She was white and he was Jamaican. They had some great sex as they were gone for a while. They were both blacked out and when they were finished, he came down to our room to hang out more. I don't know why he didn't just stay at her place. Not an hour later, public safety and the city police busted into his room and then our room looking for him. He was expelled and arrested on the spot.

Turns out, she gave him consent but felt guilty afterwards and thought that she had shamed her parents. She got off free, and he was not allowed back in the school we were attending.

I haven't heard from him since but one of our mutual friends said he wasn't doing too well. He got involved with some drugs and that's that.

False rape charges should be more severe because they can ruin lives just as easily as actual rape.

[–]ponyass 5462ポイント5463ポイント x3 (2041子コメント)

Men can be raped to, Jake couldn't consent, Josie should be charged with rape as well.

[–]CallMeZach 4951ポイント4952ポイント  (534子コメント)

They totally raped each other!

[–]Just1morefix 4531ポイント4532ポイント  (418子コメント)

Mutual rape. It's so illogical it makes perfect sense!

[–]hurtsdonut_ 2295ポイント2296ポイント  (240子コメント)

A negative times a negative is a positive.

[–]PM_ME_POTATO_PICS 1481ポイント1482ポイント  (191子コメント)

Exactly! Like when your campfire is getting out of control, light more fires to fight it. Fight fire with fire.

But that's how my town lost the train station.

Still a useful trick most of the time.

Edit: since no one has said it yet (twelve times), this is actually a popular method for putting out forest fires. I live in Saskatchewan, and we currently have many forest fires up north. Damn yokels keep lighting our train station on fire trying to preserve the forests. The method doesn't fucking work.

[–]Gggeshenien 239ポイント240ポイント  (37子コメント)

You just start more fires until the world is on fire. The world becomes fire and all of humanity must adapt, or die.

Soon the living generations develop skin that is fire retardant, becoming thick, leathery and dark. Their offspring become shorter in an effort to stay below the ever present smoke that rises. On their bellies they crawl through burning embers of fires that shaped their own history.

The eyes that were once wide and bright now become very small and closed to keep the smoke out. In a further attempt at keeping they smoke out, they develop a second eyelid in order to see whilst avoiding smoke coming into their eyes.

As the generations pass, people no longer walk on two legs and become 4 legged creatures, with long, black bodies covered in thick leathery hide.

And that, kids is how we turned into fire geckos*.

Edit: by popular demand, we become fire lizards instead of crocodiles. I agree that this is a strictly better definition.

[–]MasterHooman 587ポイント588ポイント  (64子コメント)

Rape the rapist. A classic win win situation.

[–]Lobstrositiesbitme 688ポイント689ポイント  (38子コメント)

Michael: Okay so Kevin makes sexually suggestive remark at Angela. My solution is that Angela is now allowed to make sexually suggestive remarks at Kevin.

Kevin: I accept.

[–]dangerousopinions 634ポイント635ポイント  (85子コメント)

Not unlike charging a minor for possession of child porn for having photographs of themselves on their phone? You're both the perpetrator and the victim and you must be prosecuted to protect yourself from yourself.

[–]84username 508ポイント509ポイント  (50子コメント)

Believe it or not, you can actually charge a minor as an adult for making nude pictures of themselves.

Think about that for awhile. It's enough to make your head explode.

[–]AKnightAlone 152ポイント153ポイント  (19子コメント)

you can actually charge a minor as an adult for making nude pictures of themselves.

http://i.imgur.com/zn68qa1.gif

[–]sawarahh 32ポイント33ポイント  (13子コメント)

I have spoken to some younger kids on a game I play who didn't realize that snapchatting nudes to each other was stupid. A screenshot of a 15 year old girl was leaked among friends, and was being passed to the point where some people over 18 inadvertently saw it. The girl was upset, and wanted to report the players who spread the picture. I talked some sense into her. She realized that people over 18 couldn't look at CP, but she didn't realize that it was still considered spreading CP even if she is a minor and the person she sends it to is a minor.

I can see a situation like that happening.

Or perhaps the minor decides they want to screw with someone, not truly grasping the long-term consequences of their actions.

Dumber things have happened.

[–]WTFppl 145ポイント146ポイント  (10子コメント)

They both need restraining orders against themselves so they cant get within 500ft of their own person.

[–]tehfly 237ポイント238ポイント  (36子コメント)

I'm expecting the first rape vs rape case any day now.

[–]hurtsdonut_ 106ポイント107ポイント  (23子コメント)

So do they both get assigned a prosecutor and both hire a defense attorney? I'm confused how this would work.

[–]tehfly 54ポイント55ポイント  (3子コメント)

I'm thinking there might be an opening for a new kind of divorce lawyers.

[–]Vlaid 47ポイント48ポイント  (1子コメント)

Depends on the gender of the attorneys, and whether or not the attorneys are sober enough to legally consent to everything.

[–]sillymod 1323ポイント1324ポイント  (298子コメント)

I think a lot of people are missing that rape laws often explicitly require penetration. (I do not condone this, I am simply reporting the laws.)

For example:

FBI Definition: Previously, offense data for forcible rape was collected under the legacy UCR definition: the carnal knowledge of a female forcibly and against her will. Beginning with the 2013 data year, the term “forcible” was removed from the offense title, and the definition was changed. The revised UCR definition of rape is: Penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim.

UK Definition: A person commits rape if they intentionally penetrate the vagina, anus or mouth of another person with their penis without consent.

Canada removed "rape" from the legal code, and changed the laws to have degrees of sexual assault that account for a gender-blind definition for sexual activity without consent. One might argue that this is very progressive, but opponents of the change (anti-rape activists, primarily) argued it was regressive.

So, in the legal definitions in the US, the only way the female could possibly be guilty of rape is if she used an object to penetrate the male via the anus or the mouth. In the UK, she cannot rape him no matter what she does.

[–]This_Land_Is_My_Land 500ポイント501ポイント  (7子コメント)

Some laws are changing it over to include "forced made to penetrate" as well.

And that's how it should be -- Rape is rape regardless of whether or not it's a male or female. Statistics should show both. Both are equally as important. Women are not incompetent, lesser beings who need to be protected all the time. It affects everyone.

Laws can be changed, and this should. There simply cannot be equality between men and women if something like this happens.

Yes, OP's picture is making me unreasonably angry.

[–]MalZoclypso 982ポイント983ポイント  (133子コメント)

Wow. Thank you for this input.

So.. as a dude, when a woman I don't want to have sex with gets me drunk, slips me a Viagra, and holding me down rides my frightened, yet erect member... that's not rape because her clitoris didn't enter my asshole?

Wow. That is messed up.

[–]kangareagle 191ポイント192ポイント  (11子コメント)

There doesn't have to be Viagra. Men and women can be sexually excited without wanting to have sex with the person in front of them.

This is part of the problem. "You were hard, so you must have wanted it." No.

Some female rape victims have the same issue because it's not unheard of for them to have an orgasm while being raped. Many people (including by the victims) can't understand how that could happen. But orgasms and erections are not a sign of consent.

[–]ducemon 1007ポイント1008ポイント  (95子コメント)

But wait,it gets better! She can still accuse you of rape!

EDIT: Holy flying fuck this got big real fast! Thanks for all the sweet upvotes,ladies and gentlemen!

[–]_bad_ 888ポイント889ポイント  (72子コメント)

And if she gets pregnant, you get to pay for the kid!

[–]Lord_of_the_Bunnies 388ポイント389ポイント  (30子コメント)

There were two articles on reddit ( separate cases) how a male minor was statutorily raped by a woman, the woman got pregnant, and then the state made the minor pay child support to his rapist.

[–]linesreadlines 1963ポイント1964ポイント  (753子コメント)

[–]Orbitir 262ポイント263ポイント  (33子コメント)

and we can repeat the results! yay for science.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7M0MW6ON484

[–]CheetahRei 143ポイント144ポイント  (17子コメント)

Wow, this one was so much better done. It was way more balanced, and a lot more believable. If anything, the woman was being more physically abusive, and yet people were just pointing and laughing. Just wow.

[–]ThePiderman 17ポイント18ポイント  (1子コメント)

The people laughing and pointing are fucking disgusting

Where the fuck has equality gone

[–]KamiNekoSama 31ポイント32ポイント  (0子コメント)

Again.

https://youtu.be/CRCS6GGhIRc

And again

https://youtu.be/ZlHVANXh-yg

And again

https://youtu.be/S51xk68WO_g

Though someome did finally contact police on this last one and she was arrested and charged with assult

[–]SecondHarleqwin 189ポイント190ポイント  (70子コメント)

Seen the first, hadn't seen the second. Fucking hell, that was rough. Really interesting to watch though.

[–]letsgofightdragons 149ポイント150ポイント  (35子コメント)

"Why Rape is Sincerely Hilarious" revealed an otherwise-overlooked victim while the Public Experiment highlighted the discrepancy of gender social inequality. Two powerful videos.

I'm conflicted on that final picture. They mean well, but probably would not garner the reactions they're after, especially on the internet.

[–]my_initials_are_ooo 691ポイント692ポイント  (389子コメント)

It's like all the guys are just standing around to jump in if he ever retaliates.

[–]Traiklin 787ポイント788ポイント  (328子コメント)

Cause it's a girl and girls don't know how to fight, plus if they step in and save the day they get to have sex with them.

[–]Feduppanda 598ポイント599ポイント  (125子コメント)

Holy shit, that was some tough material to watch. That first video was intense, not sure if that guy was an actor or actually talking about himself.

That second video was some of the worst acting I've ever seen but still completely achieved its message. No one lifted a finger even when the girl had been hurting the guy for an extended period of time. Guy stands up for himself and instantly there are 20 guys that want to damn near murder him. A double standard that is not soon to go away, sad. (Not condoning physical violence, just an observation)

[–]CountryBoy06260 488ポイント489ポイント  (92子コメント)

Worst part is she will claim victim.... a woman can punch and kick and scratch and smack a man repeatedly and the second man pushes her away everyone attacks him. Cops will side with her etc....

That second video seriously made me sick. I want to kick that black dudes ass so bad. You just saw her beating on him and him trying to walk away. She followed him and kept assaulting him and he finally uses a little force and you freak on him? Bullshit

[–]Mollelarssonq 245ポイント246ポイント  (18子コメント)

That had me super mad as well. Not only because of the whiteknight syndrome, but also because he was being super agressive himself, shoving him multiple times. Almost looking for a fight.

[–]Jazzeki 316ポイント317ポイント  (6子コメント)

ofcourse he was looking for a fight.

and look at what a jackpot target he found

  1. the guy has allready shown himself to be a pushover get knocked around by a girl. easy target to win a fight with

  2. even if he's looking to start a fight here nobody will actually do anything against him. since you know he just beat up the guy who "attacked" a girl.

  3. if things go south and the guy can actually win the fight 1+2 ensures that he has plenty of backup waiting to kick the guys ass.

[–]colorcorrection 29ポイント30ポイント  (8子コメント)

Yeah, and while it was still messed up that the first group only acknowledged the violence of the man, they handled the situation much better than the guys trying to pick a fight in the second group. They created a barrier between the two and actively just tried to stop any further conflict from anyone. The guys in the second group were clearly looking for a fight with their actions.

[–]give_me_a_user_name 395ポイント396ポイント  (67子コメント)

Actually there was a court case where both parties were drunk, later on the woman said it was rape because she couldn't give consent. The end decision was that they couldn't give consent to each other so the rape charge was thrown out.

[–]unclemilton1 363ポイント364ポイント  (48子コメント)

This would probably be the case in a real trial. On the other hand the rape charge would probably be upheld if it was in a university court.

[–]Zyr47 197ポイント198ポイント  (19子コメント)

That and the damage to the man's reputation has already been done. It's like if someone is accused of being a pedophile, even if proved innocent the person is still treated like shit (if not attacked before then already)

[–]throwaway12317137 76ポイント77ポイント  (31子コメント)

Story time. Throwaway for obvious reasons.

I had sex with a woman a year ago. She recently told the school I raped her. Why? Because she was drunk. She was encouraging me to drink, initiated the sex, and invited me over through texting. I did not encourage her to drink and she seemed to be nearly sober. Even though I was multiple times drunker than her, the university said that I cannot bring charges against her because they would be seen as retaliatory. I have worked at places like the White House. This has ruined my life. I can never apply for govt clearance, no grad school will take me, and I will probably need to transfer colleges. Thank you awful system.

I have lawyered up but there is little we can do because of the nature of university "court" systems.

[–]Hey-its-that-asshole 1695ポイント1696ポイント  (214子コメント)

He can't consent either. They're both wrong.

But it's his fault, because he wears blue shirts.

Edit: lots of comments off mine, want to clarify a few things: no means no, bad touch is bad. Mix alcohol in, shit gets real complicated. Damn well need a written consent form with witnesses from a time prior to alcohol consumption to be safe if someone, male or female, cries rape. I'm just poking fun at the situation but the truth is, that's some scary shit.

[–]BreakfastJunkie 554ポイント555ポイント  (152子コメント)

I got married when I was 19. My ex-wife/now on going 8 years girlfriend is two years older than me. We got drunk and had sex when I was underage.

Did I rape her or did she rape me?

[–]PaulAttacks 298ポイント299ポイント  (57子コメント)

Is your girlfriend your ex wife?

[–]BreakfastJunkie 440ポイント441ポイント  (55子コメント)

Yup. Got married in 04. Divorced in 06. Got back together in late 2008 and get along better than ever since then. The time apart did us both good as painful as it was.

[–]PaulAttacks 225ポイント226ポイント  (29子コメント)

Man, that's something. Glad you could make it work.

[–]BreakfastJunkie 112ポイント113ポイント  (25子コメント)

Thanks. It always requires tweaking though. Talking is always better than yelling or bottling it up.

Not trying to be preachy.

[–]Lamaste 24ポイント25ポイント  (4子コメント)

Well of course your first time together didn't work out, it was based on a double rape!

[–]splurgeon 290ポイント291ポイント  (36子コメント)

What's the organization that put this ad out? It's in the bottom right but too blurry to tell what it says.

[–]Leftycrow 625ポイント626ポイント  (120子コメント)

This isn't an accurate statement of the law, at least not in any jurisdiction I'm familiar with (I'm a military prosecutor by trade). However, this is consistent with what I've seen from many victim advocacy groups. Frankly misinformation like this does more harm than good from a prosecutor's standpoint, because any smart defense counsel will ask the victim if this is what she was taught. If so, they can then argue that she only "cried rape" because her miseducation about the subject caused her to believe she was sexually assaulted, when in reality, she made a decision that she now regrets.

Just being "drunk" has no legal significance for either the victim or the accused. Voluntary intoxication is not a defense to sexual assault. Therefore a court can only view the accused's actions through the eyes of how a reasonable, sober person would act. The law states that a person who is "substantially incapacitated" cannot consent to sex and that the accused knew or should have known about that condition. Basically that means that a victim has to be so drunk that they lose the capacity to consent, i.e., really, really drunk, and the offender knew it.

The choice of whether to charge this case in civilian jurisdictions belongs to the prosecutor and in military jurisdictions it belongs to the commander (who almost always follows the recommendations of his prosecutor). Hopefully the prosecutor takes all of the facts into account before charging someone in this type of case.

TLDR - The system works as well as it reasonably can, but this poster is a misstatement of the law.

[–]rrrraptorr1234 68ポイント69ポイント  (5子コメント)

The problem is that these cases are handled by uni courts. And they are not fair.

[–]SIGRemedy 822ポイント823ポイント  (254子コメント)

It actually has more to do with who can and who cannot be charged with rape. According to the FBI, who recently brought their rules for rape cases in line with the majority of states... "The penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim." Link

So the issue isn't so much SJW or anything, but that the actual legal definition of rape is define as the act of penetrating someone. Obviously, if both the male and female in a sexual act are too drunk to consent, only one of them is even equipped to rape the other.

Whether that is fair or not is another story, but that's the law behind it.

[–]RUST_LIFE 974ポイント975ポイント  (85子コメント)

So lets get this straight. If you're male and are going to have drunken sex, you have to insist she fingers you 'for legal reasons'

Brb off to tell my wife its the law

[–]CertusAT 647ポイント648ポイント  (51子コメント)

"You gotta finger my butt hole woman, you gotta do it, you gotta do for the LAW! THE LAAAAAAWWAWAWWWW!!"!

[–]connstar97 50ポイント51ポイント  (17子コメント)

By this definition he could be anally raped by the woman or object, but clearly the definition needs to change as there is grey area left over that leaves men vulnerable to sexual abuse