I do not see that as a problem though. I would be a little bitter if I had less worth (by whatever degree in whatever context... it obviously varies) in society because of my gender or any other factor but, I still would take advantage of what benefits I can despite being aware that there should be no benefits. I have no issue with women being both bitter about their position in society and taking advantage of it at the same time. Of course, there are examples and circumstances of which I would find unconscionable.

I am white, male, come from a not poor family, well educated and still under those circumstances I exploit various things, acting in what I consider my best interests. I have/had it easier than many other people but I still must put in effort which I wish to reduce, may struggle with financial security I wish to avoid etc. Thus I take advantage of things. If I were a woman, or a minority, apart of any marginalised group or subjected to more hegemonic forces and so on, I would be even more inclined to take advantage of my situation.

It seems irrational not to, even if I am fighting for equality. If my personal actions do not reflect my ideologies, as long as they are not in some extreme disharmony, thus avoiding cognitive dissonance, then I will happily be labelled hypocrite.

Though note, it is not always in my self interest to exploit certain things, or there are certain examples which I would consider unconscionable to do so, thus I do not. Again, avoiding cognitive dissonance.