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Need some help with some issues (self.TheBluePill)

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Ok, I'm going to tell my BP/RP story, and I need some help figuring some stuff out. I was very tall and lanky in college, at about 6'3, 160 lbs. I am introverted and never tried to get with any girls, and girls weren't attracted to me anyway. Then after senior year in college, I found TRP, I didn't care about the misogyny parts, I was a 22 yr old virgin, who wanted to get laid, I was desperate.

I started lifting, dressing better, and made some good friends after college. I started talking to more girls using RP techniques. Now, it's two years since I've went RP, and I have slept with 12 girls since then. I'm tall with decent muscle now and a decent face, so that helps, but literally RP techniques work for me, like dread and negging, aggressive behavior, and utilizing shit like abundance mentality to get even more women. Practically, every women that I've gotten with has been a product of an RP mentality towards women, and practically every women (I don't believe in AWALT) has lapped it up.

As an experiment with one girl who I had been seeing, I employed more traditional "BP" techniques, so I tried to get really close to her, by texting her more, taking her out more, putting her on a pedestal, being a "nice guy," basically. She stopped seeing a few weeks after I went the BP route.

But, lately, I've been feeling worse about my behavior towards women, but Idk if I want to stop, because for me it works so well. Basically, I treat women like shit and they sleep with me, I don't want to treat them like shit, but to keep sleeping with them it really works better if I keep treating them like shit. Wtf do I do? Help plz.

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[–]the_real_NickThrowaways are cowardice. 3ポイント4ポイント  (9子コメント)

Shit! Bluepill techniques mean being passive and putting people on a pedestal?

I've been bluepilling all wrong all these years!

[–]WestsideMoonWalkerLychee Gummy Candy is like Crack, except better 1ポイント2ポイント  (8子コメント)

I know! Apparently my planning of dates is entirely wrong as a blue pill man is clearly submissive to his female! /s

[–]the_real_NickThrowaways are cowardice. 0ポイント1ポイント  (7子コメント)

I need to dread game way more so I can sleep with more women. Connecting with people on a personal level is so bluepill.

If I can't cite an impressive number of sexual partners to strangers on the internet, what's the point of interpersonal relationships?

[–]WestsideMoonWalkerLychee Gummy Candy is like Crack, except better 1ポイント2ポイント  (6子コメント)

Exactly. It's not like actual long term relationships count. You need to be spinning over 9000 plates at once.

[–]hoshizuku 1ポイント2ポイント  (3子コメント)

Over 9000 you say? That would be impressive.

[–]WestsideMoonWalkerLychee Gummy Candy is like Crack, except better 1ポイント2ポイント  (2子コメント)

Yep, and clearly they have to have their sexbot turned up to 11.

[–]hoshizuku 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

I might love you, just a little.

[–]WestsideMoonWalkerLychee Gummy Candy is like Crack, except better 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Ahhh good a new plate. I shall make sure to alfalfa widow you. Now go cover yourself in alfalfa and black widow spiders and I will see you in a moment.

[–]youguysarecool[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

You can circlejerk all you want. But my post is serious and truthful+it happens to a lot of different guys.

[–]WestsideMoonWalkerLychee Gummy Candy is like Crack, except better 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

You realize you are in a circlejerk sub, right? There is a middle ground between being a whipped "nice guy" and going full cringe mode with TRP man. Most people on TRP don't understand that at all.

[–]PM_ME_UR_GROSSKREUTZriding the kampl carousel 1ポイント2ポイント  (7子コメント)

putting her on a pedestal, being a "nice guy,"

for fuck's sake broheim

[–]youguysarecool[S] -1ポイント0ポイント  (6子コメント)

It's what I did though. I stopped aggressively groping her in public. I stopped being a massive dick towards her. I told her how beautiful she was all the time/said shit like "I need you in my life."

Didn't work, dude.

[–]PM_ME_UR_GROSSKREUTZriding the kampl carousel 2ポイント3ポイント  (2子コメント)

women are people. they are just people. they don't belong on pedestals any more than they belong in redpill sex factories.

[–]WestsideMoonWalkerLychee Gummy Candy is like Crack, except better 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

redpill sex factories.

Wait, those are sex factories? I thought those were chronic dissatisfaction factories.

[–]PM_ME_UR_GROSSKREUTZriding the kampl carousel 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

potato potato

[–]WestsideMoonWalkerLychee Gummy Candy is like Crack, except better 0ポイント1ポイント  (2子コメント)

said shit like "I need you in my life."

That just sounds needy and sad.... There is a difference between "I need you" and "I'm glad that you are in my life". One is expressing gratitude, the other neediness. Is that difference really that subtle?

[–]youguysarecool[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

yeah, you're probably right. I probably scared her away with neediness/creepiness over my comments. It may have been too over the top. To be fair, that's not I usually act around women, so I bet it did come off really weird. Even so, it doesn't change the fact that RP/douchebag technique has worked amazingly for me. And I couldn't have had 9/10 of the girls I have had in the past two years if I didn't act the way I did.

"I'm glad that you are in my life"

Even when using RP technique, I would still say stuff like this to keep a balance of dread/gratitude. You can't be all negative, you have to sprinkle in some good stuff to keep tension high and make the dread seem more lighthearded.

[–]WestsideMoonWalkerLychee Gummy Candy is like Crack, except better 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Even when using RP technique, I would still say stuff like this to keep a balance of dread/gratitude. You can't be all negative, you have to sprinkle in some good stuff to keep tension high and make the dread seem more lighthearded.

Funny, it's so easy to maintain a functional relationship when there is no "dread" involved. Dread game really only works on someone that can't trust you. Plus TRP really works better on someone who is insecure and/or looking for something casual. If someone wants something serious, TRP techniques are a run for the hills signal.

TL;DR: Dude, you don't need to be a twat to people to be attractive. And saying you use the "douchebag" technique underscores your "nice guy" roots.

[–]F_S_RocksShit Test Ninja 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

I genuinely can't tell if you're a troll or not. Ah the typical RP conundrum...

[–]le_greatest_ledditorSWEATY, BLEEDING MAN 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Red pill "game" is mystery method stuff retooled with a slick edgy edge, and "blue pill" game is just being needy neurotic.

I think being mean or nice is totally irrelevant compared to just showing women that you're sexual and that you want to fuck em.

I'm no puss-magnet though, this advice is just the extrapolation of the things i've seen and done, the opportunities i missed and the successes i've had.

[–]WestsideMoonWalkerLychee Gummy Candy is like Crack, except better 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

putting her on a pedestal, being a "nice guy," basically

Uh what? I have done none of that and have been in a pretty damn awesome relationship for the last 10 months. Honestly, the only difference between how I treat her and how I treat my (other) friends (since she is one of my best friends) is that I buy her food sometimes and snuggling/other physical stuff. We also talk like, every day and want to stay together for a long time.

TL;DR: You are normaling wrong.