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Red Pill TheoryOn the Bitterness of single women (self.TheRedPill)

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Summary: Today I was thinking how post-wall, single women develop bitterness unmatched by any other human being. It's a special kind of hatred, a void that compels them to spread misery all around.

Pop culture often makes fun of men's midlife crisis – it's an established comedy genre –, yet shows single women's meltdown in an unrealistic, cutesy manner, like Bridget Jones.

This is, of course, complete bogus. While men's crisis is fueled by the quest for meaning, women's crisis is the cry of lost youth. The masculine energy seeks answers, the feminine energy only laments their lack of.

She usually doesn't find the resolution in herself, but in a new lover. That same lover will be pushed into submission commitment, or consumed until he can't provide any more validation. At each cycle, the bitterness grows.

Most exceptions to this cruel reality reveal one saving feature: mature women who find some substitute for missed motherhood – as a teacher, social worker, care-taking roles – take back their femininity and could find fulfillment. But that's rarely the case.

Why do women longing for their own femininity act in such a self-destructive way? I have no clear answer, but emasculated men behave counter-intuitively as well: they don't raise their status, they just whither away. Femininity ends with a bang, masculinity with a whimper.

Men's saving grace is teamwork. the red pill sub and the mgtow sub Reddit clearly show how any man can conquer back his masculinity and learn by example. Unfortunately, women's well of knowledge has been poisoned by feminists who are stripping their own protegé of femininity and responsibility. Entitlement is surely comfy, but it denies emotional growth.

The new lovers of post-wall women won't see their anger – at first. However, it will come back at full force as soon as they inevitably leave them: unexpected pregnancy, false accusations, ruined reputation, abusive behavior... It's not a coincidence that the Greek embodiment of vengeance was stalking, monstrous harpies.

Final thoughts: women who haven't reached emotional fulfillment can be extremely dangerous. They surely won't find their femininity neither in you nor anybody else. Don't expect to be the one that "will change her for the better".

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[–]Di-onysos 36ポイント37ポイント  (5子コメント)

Post wall women who rode the CC but failed to catch a long-term mate develop a massive chip on their shoulder for the male sex, the oh-so-feminist notion that masculinity is the root of all the world's problems, and they are not even aware of the source of their feelings.

Of course, every clear-eyed observer can see the sour grapes-mentality lying under. It is the sister of the incel, elliot rodgerish hate for female sex for failing to reciprocitate their inflated sense of self-worth. "I deserve a high quality mate, and as the opposite sex has failed to provide it, it must be flawed at the core!"

[–]sodainthewatercup6 17ポイント18ポイント  (2子コメント)

For a public reference, see Amy Schumer.

[–]Diabolical_Nuke 17ポイント18ポイント  (1子コメント)

I tried watching her stand up special and ugh, that was horrific.

"I get drilled a LOT!"

"I have a menstrual cycle!"

"Women's lives are tougher than men's!"

"My vagina!!!!!!!!!!1!11!"

[–]ColdEiric 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Watch the trailer for Trainwreck. If you're not disgusted enough, watch the movie.

[–]1exit_sandman 12ポイント13ポイント  (0子コメント)

Post wall women who rode the CC but failed to catch a long-term mate develop a massive chip on their shoulder for the male sex, the oh-so-feminist notion that masculinity is the root of all the world's problems, and they are not even aware of the source of their feelings.

Let me quote my favorite feminist, Norah Vincent, and her book "Self Made Man":

But for those women - who had never dated other women, and thus never been romantically hurt by them - men as a subspecies, not the particular men with whom they had been involved, were to blame for the wreck of a relationship and the psychic damage it had done to them.

It's hardly surprising, then, that in this atmosphere, as a single man dating women, I often felt attacked, judged, on the defensive. Whereas with the men I met and befriended as Ned there was a presumption of innocence - that is, you're a good guy until you prove otherwise - with women there was quite often a presumption of guilt: you're a cad like every other guy until you prove otherwise.

"Pass my test and then we'll see if you're worthy of me" was the implicit message coming across the table at me. And this from women who had demonstrably little to offer. "Be lighthearted," they said, though buoyant as lead zeppelins themselves. "Be kind," they insisted in the harshest of tones. "Don't be like others," they implied, while having virtually condemned me as such beforehand.

The bitterest women I met were usually in their midthirties or older. They'd been through the mill a bit and they'd probably had more than their share of hellish dates or hit-and-run relationships before I came along. To hear them tell it, the pool of eligible, mature, stable, reciprocating, emotionally evolved men out there was small and polluted, and having to wade through it when what you wanted most in life was to settle down and start a family would be enough to shorten anyone's fuse.

Then again, many of the women I met weren't emotional giants either, nor were they particularly well adjusted or stable. They just considered themselves as such. And even the ones who knew they were damaged seemed to feel entitled to expect stolidity from a man, as if, in the time-honored way of things, a man is supposed to be strong, to hold things together for a woman, to hold her up when she can't do it herself.

[–]Derbi50 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

Oh man you hit it on the head with the "masculinity is the root of all the worlds problems". I was on a chatty chat board and there was a dude who's LTR who he put through college had been fucking Chads behind his back. He was miserable, bitchy, depressed, etc.

I told him that being in an LTR drains your test levels and that low T is a recipe for depression and sloth. Naturally I told him to go lift hard so he could get his testosterone levels up.

You would think I had told him to eat babies. Girls and white knights absolutely piled on saying how bad that advice was.

A bunch of other people suggested exercise, but as soon as I pointed out his likely low T and advised him on how to rectify it they lost their shit as if T was like fucking meth or something that should be avoided at all costs.

[–]RP_Vergil 19ポイント20ポイント  (0子コメント)

On the topic of middle age crisis for both genders. Males who are self aware either slump down further into their misery, or get a grip of themselves and become better with a support group behind.

The reason behind it is Man are able to work towards a goal by putting instant gratification aside. Knowing that their gender is always the scapegoat for everything wrong allows them to swallow the albeit bitter pill.

Females on the other hand chase after happiness. It's important to keep fueling happiness after happiness. Look at most of the common world products driven for instant result.

Woman stop learning how to prepare and cook proper meals, resorting to instant food or delivery services. Quick, crash diets to lose weight or Wonder bra/slimming corsets to look better. All for the better benefits of becoming happy.

It's with this different kind of mindset which makes Woman much less able to put a long term goal at hand. Not to mention the amount of pussy pass they get compared to guys.

It's always easy to be blaming others until the finger points back at you. That's when Captain Roid fed Hamster comes to rescue with "Reasons!"

[–]aa223 10ポイント11ポイント  (2子コメント)

I think that feminism is just angry post-wall women who are taking out their frustrations on everyone else so that way younger women will become them. After all misery loves company.

[–]jb_trp 9ポイント10ポイント  (1子コメント)

Feminism feeds on the misery of women and their perceived victimhood by the patriarchal boogeyman. Feminism has nothing to offer the woman who is happily married, or happy with her career, or even happy riding the CC. She must be miserable for the feminist worldview to work. If she’s an unhappy wife, then her husband and children are oppressing her and feminism is the answer. If she’s unhappy and miserable with her career, then patriarchy and workplace sexism are the cause for her misery and feminism is the answer. If she’s unhappy sleeping around with a bunch of random men, then misogyny and the men screwing her over due to fear of commitment is the cause of her oppression, and guess what, feminism is her path to a brighter future.

[–]through_a_ways 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Feminism hurts everybody but superior men.

Inferior men get no women

Inferior women become single mothers or alpha widows

Superior women have a slightly smaller pool of men to choose from

[–]crimson-hound 6ポイント7ポイント  (1子コメント)

I saw some news coverage just the other day on heroin addiction SOARING in use by women. Heroin is a huge problem in my city and a lot of neighboring nearby cities.

I'm beginning to believe that it's because women were taught that traditional feminine roles are bad and "the patriarchy mannnnnn". They all talk up their "indie panda dance" to the point where they drive a lot of men away or men just don't want to deal with it… Leaving them with nothing but beta providers and thug life chad-types who will just use them as a hole without protection.

For example: Women who party a lot.

Women who don't treat their spouse/boyfriend with respect (although I think it's fair to mention that spouse/boyfriend probably isn't WORTH said respect.)

Women who claim to not want children (even though they do, they just lie for acceptance in their peer group because the important group [family] has eroded. (I actually know SEVERAL girls in their late 20's who do shit like this).

Women who cheat, have had grossly irresponsible sex lives, and bad impulse control.

There's a common trend in female junkies around here. They're usually broken women. They're too lazy to even complete a community college education never mind embark on a career path without one, so "independence" for them is a joke unless they want to live in a corroded studio apartment in the crack-head tenement building for the rest of their lives.

Pop culture and media like "elite daily" or whatever click bait sites are big are always throwing ideas in these womens' faces like "You go girl! Rock on with your bad self!" Instead of telling them "Hey, there's room for improvement".

Then these women hit like 28 or 29 and they start getting baby crazy, except there's one problem.. They've all shattered their reputation around here. They're all alcoholics and drug users so chances of fetal issues SPIKE. She'll take a cock unprotected after a night of drinking and drugging, then continue that lifestyle until she finds out she's 3 months pregnant or something.. Just think of all those chemicals being exposed to her unborn baby- STFU SHITLORD IT'S HER BODY NOT YOURS! WAH WAH WAH!

Now with these womens' lives being completely meaningless and wasted on alcohol and drug binges, they shoot a needle in the arm to let their brain dump out those happy lovey dovey hormones that they'd get simply from pregnancy and nurturing their children. I can't believe how many fucking idiots deny that women want children, it's their biological imperative. I know there's gay women and always the uncommon one in the mix, but for the majority, THAT'S HOW IT IS. Just like how the majority of MEN ENJOY WATCHING SPORTS.

I actually work in a city next to mine that's middle/upper middle class. Families are still together more often than not there and the children more often than not seem to be raised in healthy stable environments. This kind of crap is nearly NON-EXISTENT there. When you cross into that town theres a severe decline in drugs, crime, violence, and other downfalls of society because the family unit is still intact and women still look up to their father as a strong male role model; not some guy who just feeds them free drugs.

[–]RedSugarPill 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Just think of all those chemicals being exposed to her unborn baby- STFU SHITLORD IT'S HER BODY NOT YOURS! WAH WAH WAH!

This makes me furious. The total lack of responsibility for humanity is palpable.

When will these self-entitled meth-whores come to realize it's not just their bodies they are responsible for? They are supposed to be responsible for the creation of another living human being.

These people treat their fetuses with less respect than themselves and the men they whore around with. The fetus gets the shaft; and then—if the babies are born viable—they get to be raised in a shit environment...and the cyclone grows fiercer.

[–]reupiii 6ポイント7ポイント  (3子コメント)

Somehow relevant:

joe rogan vs feminist

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 10ポイント11ポイント  (1子コメント)

Man, that woman sure is a detestable cunt isn't she? Seen this before. She doesn't grow on you, let's put it that way.

If there was ever a case for Euthanasia, here it is.

[–]crimson-hound -2ポイント-1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I think he shouldn't have let her get the best of him and stoop to her level of anger. Would've been way funnier if he just seduced her or laughed in her face the whole time.

BTW.. Look at that big dumb alcohol fueled white knight in the background just waiting for his moment to get violent with Joe.

[–]1favours_of_the_moon 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

The new lovers of post-wall women won't see their anger – at first. However, it will come back at full force as soon as they inevitably leave them: unexpected pregnancy, false accusations, ruined reputation, abusive behavior... It's not a coincidence that the Greek embodiment of vengeance were stalking, monstrous harpies.

It's a special kind of crazy.

Young men can find a gold mine of sex and free dinners from these bitches, just as young bitches make bank on the entirety of society. But wach your backs my brothers.

[–]Countpudyoola 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

and then call that bitterness "empowerment" or "strong".

No way to reverse her failure? Let's redefine it or wear it like a badge and call it "self actualized".

[–]ShitfacedBatman 2ポイント3ポイント  (1子コメント)

women's crisis is the cry of lost youth

Yep. Neoteny fades. I'd heard it described on a Stardusk video as "erotic capital to spend." As though they start off as billionaires and then eventually have a couple thousand dollars by the time they're 35.

Clearly a woman's best strategy is to pairbond early, and clearly they're opting out of it.

[–]through_a_ways 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's not neoteny itself that fades, it's youth that fades.

Neoteny is the trait of carrying juvenile qualities into adulthood.

If you're lactose tolerant until 40, and then become intolerant, you're neotenous (as far as that trait goes). The neoteny is still in your genes.

[–]2FatStig 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Beta whiteknights are just as dangerous if not more.

[–]MrChillBroBaggins 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

Post wall women are akin to anger phase men. It's been said here many many times. Both cases are induced by hamstering, a false perception of biological imperatives which are given by society.

The difference I believe, is that existential crises, such as a mid-life crisis/anger phase are foundations for new growth, whereas post wall is akin to "I fucked up and I can't ever get my youth back."

Of course post-wallers will be bitter the lost their peak fertility LOL gg

[–]Endorsed Contributordr_warlock 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

/u/Rollo-Tomassi talked about the idea that mid-life crisis wasn't about the man, but about his woman (usually wife) aging and becoming less attractive. The stereotypical married middle aged man in the mist of his mid-life crisis buying a new sports car is really just him subconsciously proving to himself that he can attract younger women or an attempt to acquire them.

[–]BowlOfCandy -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

women who haven't reached emotional fulfillment can be extremely dangerous.

burst of defeated laughter. Seriously though, I don't think I've witnessed that yet in my life