I am for the most part new to reddit. I've only used it to play Pokemon with other people or read funny satire. I've never been a redpiller, but I do have a question. Throughout my romantic life, I've mostly come across girls who've had fleeting feelings for me, then get over it rather quickly. I unofficially dated a girl on and off for 3 years and she eventually got tired of me. She found another guy in less than a month and they've now been dating for a long time. I also had a girl bestfriend whom I had feelings for but then she stopped feeling anything after about a week and went on to date other people. I'm not at all pissed about these things and I don't see these women as less than human because of the experiences. I don't hate them for it either. After so many years of lukewarm romantic incursions it has left me wondering "What exactly does it take?" What do all these other guys do in which they hardly try to get a girls attention and the girls fall really hard for them? Why is it that being myself has almost never been good enough? I'm sorry if this comes off as bitchy. This was the most logical way to get this off my chest. I can't really tell anyone this because most of my friends were more fortunate in the dating department and they wouldn't see the problem was.