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Rant/VentingAWALT - Found out my younger sister is a whore, and I can't even look at her anymore. (self.TheRedPill)

ParanoidPeace が 投稿

I really don't know where to start with this one, but I'll try to keep it short.

My sister is 19, and she's going to be breaking up with her boyfriend again. As far as I know she's had 2 boyfriends, and with her first year of college being over, I voiced my concern.

"So what, that makes 4 partners now? That's getting a little high"

She laughed, and she wouldn't say the number, I eventually guessed the correct one. 15.

15 dudes, 10 of which were from College, that means FIVE guys in high school! This blows my mind. There were only a handful of girls who were like that in high school, and they were all well known.

Now, my sister is basic, almost as basic as they come. She's glued to her phone all day, or her computer, she's not smart, she can't even contribute to a debate without getting all flustered and crying pretty much. Physically she's nothing, bigger than average nose, no boobs, no ass, no real curves, just a real stick with no brain. I've tried to kind of probe her with information, talk about things, maybe get philosophical, and she just glasses over. God, at her age, I was reading and thinking and exploring anything that I could.

Right, so we have the number and we've determined that she's nothing special, we used to go out but I don't even want to be seen with her anymore, I don't even really want a good connection with her anymore. I'll do what family does, come to bat for her, but I don't want anything more than that.

I told her how I felt about it, yes I 'slut-shamed'. She said she would tell the truth to her future boyfriend about her number, I laughed and said "You just wrote off a ton of great men".

She's not even 20 yet, she can't even legally drink yet! Still 3 more years of College, and I don't even want to talk to her anymore, I have zero respect for her.

How the fuck do I process this?

TL;DR - Found out my 19 year old little sister slept with 15 dudes, 5 in High School, 10 in College, she's had 2 boyfriends. She's nothing special, the epitome of basic both physically and mentally. How do I process this information?

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[–]dogs-not-cats 149ポイント150ポイント  (6子コメント)

Hate to break it to you, but she admitted to "15". The real number is most likely higher than that.

[–]thtngnrgy 27ポイント28ポイント  (3子コメント)

I agree. I pretty much double whatever they tell me. So funny, a guy I know is dating a party girl and she said 15 aswell. I went to a birthday party and she was there, in a short dress looking cute. All was cool till she drank like a man, sat like a man (They were dark purple btw) and tried to get other women to get up, dance, and strip.

Sounds like from the description your sister is well on her way to being an attention whore (will whore for attention). Better sit her down and tell her about the wall, where loneliness really happens.

[–]Dr_Shakalu22 1ポイント2ポイント  (2子コメント)

But it's so sweet to see them hit that wall though

[–]Syriz_ 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

Trp has given me the ability to see this "wall" . Old me would have felt sorry but now when I see a girl hitting the wall I just smile on the inside

[–]ColdEiric 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

You're also able to predict which girl is going to hit the wall hard, and who will have it somewhat okay?

[–]InfectdProlapsedAnus 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

This is different than a girlfriend answering the partner count question. I feel like siblings would be slightly more honest with each other. The real number is probably 20-25.

[–]Pkbeefatude 24ポイント25ポイント  (2子コメント)

I'm kind of glad my sister had. Along term boyfriend who died in a tragic accident, her next boyfriend lasted about a year and they got married.

She luckily was taught a lesson about the fragility of life and grew up very quickly and got married to a great guy relatively young. I have no doubt she would be just like the others (Myself included ). If she hadn't have had a life changing loss like that.

[–]rpscrote 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

that's really pretty incredible insight... I'd never thought of the link between those two things like that. Silver linings.

[–]Pkbeefatude 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

well think about it, she probably never considered the possibility of this person being permanently removed from her.

So the next time someone worth it came along she didn't waste any time.

[–]aphelion3342 50ポイント51ポイント  (3子コメント)

Ay yo hit me with that number tho

[–]sinfulmentos -5ポイント-4ポイント  (0子コメント)

me too bruh, 15, 17, same thang yo

[–]richardnorth 35ポイント36ポイント  (8子コメント)

Spinning plates is all fun and games till you realize your sister is a plate.

The knowledge of this sub is being used to turn everyone's sister into a plate.

[–]BrunoOh 32ポイント33ポイント  (1子コメント)

everyone's sister into a plate

And they wouldn't want it any other way.

Enjoy the decline.

[–]Blacks_Matter_LOL 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

...

I don't think I can truly enjoy things when they are declining.

[–]great_artists_steal 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

Alternatively, you could say that this sub is turning everyone's brother into a greater human being. And RedPillWomen does the same for our sisters.

[–]rebuildingMyself 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

This is why I never want a daughter

[–]1 Endorsed Contributormordanus 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Not really. Its more of the ability to see past the illusion and see women for what they really are. Women fucking everyone around them has been happening for a very long time. Red pill didn't invent that I promise.

[–]brokenshelf 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

That's the thing, though: She's already a plate. She's been a plate since day one. Alpha-thought isn't unique to TRP, it's been practiced since the first day of conscious human thought.

If she isn't a plate yet, she will be. It's a rite of passage that all women will encounter in their lives. It's simply human nature. The only way for a woman to NOT become a plate is for her to marry the one who takes her virginity.

[–]putsch80 78ポイント79ポイント  (31子コメント)

A more interesting question arises from all this. In 8-10 years, your sister will be running hard into the wall. At some point, she will probably show up to your house with her BB fiancé (who she rarely fucks). This BB will have stars in his eyes and think she's the greatest. Sure, she's told him she's not very sexual, which is why she only puts out every other week, but he loves her and can look past that. When this happens, what will you do? Will you enlighten him about her n-count? Will you tell him you think he's engaged to a whore? Or will you let her ruin this guys life so she has a provider to leach off of?

[–]TRP VanguardJP_Whoregan 10ポイント11ポイント  (0子コメント)

OP will not do this simply because he will be under intense family/social pressure not to ruin sis' big wedding day. Mommy's dream of picking out the wedding dress, daddy's dream of walking her down the aisle, etc, etc. Also, you're making a bold assumption that Mr. Future Betabux would actually care about her n-count, even if he knew about it. Remember, one of the staples of blue pill conditioning is fully buying into the "past is the past" dogma. It is silly to think that women's slutty pasts will come back to haunt them. 99% of the time, they don't. They will get their beta bux, they will get their divorce rape, they will get their cash and prizes. Simply because there are still far, far too many beta men waiting with their wallets open.

[–]rainbowhotpocket 34ポイント35ポイント  (8子コメント)

That's a hard moral delimma.

[–]goremanbates 40ポイント41ポイント  (4子コメント)

Nah, that's easy. Assuming this dude is thirty-something, he should have enough wisdom to know what chicks to commit to and what chicks not to. If he's too fucking stupid then he's gonna pay the price. It is what it is.

[–]BrunoOh 11ポイント12ポイント  (0子コメント)

If he's that stupid, even if he actually dumps her he'll just wife up the next slut who assures him she's "not like that".

[–]Okeseko 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Totally agree. I won't say a damn thing.

[–]cookiecutterbullshit -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yea, this sort of ignorance was understandable 10 years ago. But the way things are today, it's more denial than ignorance. Just because you don't like the truth doesn't mean you shouldn't factor it in.

I hate that women like OP described will try to "settle" with me when, from my perspective, it would be me settling with them.

I hate that most women who take interest in me will do so largely due to money.

I hate that, by virtue of being alone when I was in high school and college, I can take the absence of women in my life as proof that I, myself: my brain, my body, and my character, counted for nothing in the dating game.

But I ignore these facts at my own peril.

[–]S74RK 11ポイント12ポイント  (2子コメント)

A lot of people are saying fuck it, someone else's problem, bro knighting, etc. While I don't necessarily disagree, allow me to play devil's advocate for a second.

People who found their way to TRP generally did so because of some traumatic event. Let's face it, Chad Thundercock, who's gotten everything from women, doesn't need TRP. Guys who have been fucked over after social conditioning indoctrination, do. Therefore I think it's fair to say there's nothing special about being some BB versus being a reformed BB on TRP; it's just a matter of circumstance. The painful triggering event hasn't occurred yet.

So if we can agree with the premise that it's better to be a "reformed BB" than an actual BB, can we not agree that there is moral benefit to helping out our fellow man (bro), before he has to undergo such pain? Will he not be better off, and eventually become happier and more productive for society with the knowledge of how to successfully navigate the SMP?

Or, put another way, would you rather have more BB's in society getting taken advantage of, or more men of substance whom you can relate to, work with, and compete against? Shit, I wish other guys would up their game more. I had to quit my last gym because there were no real lifters, nobody better than me to compete and push against. It was demotivating.

That's the best argument I can come up with for "bro knighting". Some of us give a shit about the larger picture, others say enjoy the decline... Neither conflict with TRP in general, as sexual strategy is amoral.

[–]Overkillengine 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

Or, put another way,

Also, more unplugged men means women being held to better behavior via less available enabling.

Because more men know better.

That's the difference between hedonistic short term self interest (basic bitch/chad thundercock/locust strategy) and enlightened self interest with an eye to the longer term.

[–]jiveraffe 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

So if we can agree with the premise that it's better to be a "reformed BB" than an actual BB, can we not agree that there is moral benefit to helping out our fellow man (bro), before he has to undergo such pain? Will he not be better off, and eventually become happier and more productive for society with the knowledge of how to successfully navigate the SMP?

I appreciate the attempt at playing Devil's advocate, and I don't disagree that a reformed beta is better than a BB, but there's almost zero chance he will reform if you try to save him. If you rescue him from the painful triggering event then he shall no reason to challenge his worldview. He'll remain a BB and the chances are that even if he dumps the whore of a sister he'll just go off and final another CCing, wall-hitting "princess" instead.

It's like babysitting a toddler in a booby-trapped haunted house. Every time you save him from one trap he just wanders off towards to the next hazard that caught his eye. He has to get burned first.

[–]Sdom1 29ポイント30ポイント  (9子コメント)

Why in God's name would he do that? What would be in it for him or his family? He doesn't owe this mythical guy shit. Enough with the bro knighting.

If you think this is a moral dilemma, you've never run into a real moral dilemma.

[–]rpscrote 13ポイント14ポイント  (1子コメント)

It's a moral dilemma for people who subscribe to different morals than you.

Just like how "If God is omnipotent, omniscient and good, why is there suffering in the world?" isn't a moral dilemma for me personally as an atheist, but its still "a moral dilemma"

[–]ColdEiric 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

"If God is omnipotent, omniscient and good, why is there suffering in the world?"

That's an easy dilemma.

God doesn't want you to be a soft, weak, impulsive fuck. So punishes you for doing the wrong choices.

[–]Primemale 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

Surely family trumps some mythical guy, I would rather my sister was sponging off some guy than me having to worry about her. My altruism is saved for my ''in group'' family and close friends, some dude who wants to be with my sister anyway, and wants to provide may aswell do it.

[–]103342 6ポイント7ポイント  (3子コメント)

I actually had to laugh at people thinking this is a moral dilemma.

Bro white knighting is just as retarded as regular white knighting.

[–]FedoraTip9000 1ポイント2ポイント  (2子コメント)

Helping a guy out is stupid to you?

[–]THE_SWAG_CHAMP 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

Isn't helping a woman out stupid to you ?

[–]ForgeAndTemper 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

Indeed. Better to have an eunuch looking after the women in your life than having them clawing for your resources, family or hareem. You want as many of these court jesters soaking up period blood as possible (Disclaimer: theory)

[–]cookiecutterbullshit 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

That's about the most repulsive way you can put it, but there's merit to this line of thought.

My aunt never married, and never had kids, and right now she constantly hits up the rest of my family for money, and she's not even thankful.

I swear to you I would never take care of my sister if she became a spinster in this day and age, when the bar for women is so low that all they have to do is not be a whore.

[–]barryberry 4ポイント5ポイント  (1子コメント)

Turning it around: What would you do if your brother is marrying a fat boring women that's leaching off him? I'm thinking about giving him advise about pre-nups. But I imagine that wouldn't even go down well.

[–]putsch80 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

I tell everyone I know that is getting married (men and women) about getting a prenup, why they each need to use a qualified attorney to represent them (separately) in drafting it, and why it's important to have one. It just makes so much fucking sense that I am stunned it's not a legal requirement to have one in place in order to get married.

[–]Laconises 4ポイント5ポイント  (2子コメント)

If she's 19 and already average (and that's why she's accommodated at least 15 chads in her snatch, because none of the alphas want to commit) then what kind of man will she attract when she's 30?

Probably the lowest of the low genetically and intellectually. Why bother wasting your time saving a dude like that? He's already dug his grave and digging up ain't possible.

[–]putsch80 9ポイント10ポイント  (1子コメント)

Because you don't want that dude polluting your family's gene pool? Because her spawn will suck up resources from OP's parents and take a piece of the inheritance? Because you don't want to listen to their bullshit at family gatherings or have to deal with their dimwitted kids at Christmas?

Better you save the guy and keep her from spawning at all.

[–]Laconises 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Good points. You can throw a hail mary and pray for the best. But I don't think stories of your cockgobbling sister will faze such a guy. He either won't believe you or he will and not give a fuck, cause hey pussy's pussy and he's one desperate sonuvabitch.

And she'll spawn sooner or later. If not with Brandon Beta, then with Todd Crackhead or Tyrone Dindonuffin. It's almost inevitable judging by her sexual history.

What I would do is tell my father about his daughter and if he doesn't disown and disinherit her then...

Fuck the inheritance. Fuck spending time with such a dysfunctional family and pussy-whipped father. Just go your own fucking way.

[–]formermangina 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

will you let her ruin this guys life so she has a provider to leach off of?

Of course, man. I pick helping my sister over some random beta cunt.

[–]this_guy2001 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Why the f would I care about the guy?

[–]thefisherman1961 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Depends. I try to avoid giving advice to anyone (in real life) who doesn't ask for it, because often times that's just rude and annoying. It's also none of your business, and you don't owe that guy anything. But if he starts asking you questions, just be tactfully honest.

[–]-Quotidian 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Whichever choice lets you sleep at night.

You don't owe anything to the BB. If your sister doesn't eat him alive, the AFC will probably run into the open maw of another future hambeast. More than that: handing him the pill can have two outcomes. Denial, where you become the asshole and potentially alienate your family, or acceptance, where you save the life of a chump for little to no reward and now have to put up with your cat-lady-in-the-making sibling.

Or, worse, your post-wall sis fails to snag a second BB and gets Scumbag Steve instead. Some starry-eyed beta bitch? Unless he's a greasy cunt you want to burn at the stake or a good-guy greg you legitimately empathize with, don't bother.

[–]brianjamesxx -5ポイント-4ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'd tell him his fiancé is a fucking whore. There's no room for others' morals in the SMP.

[–]scurvy_tail 64ポイント65ポイント  (3子コメント)

She's family. Let it go. Trying to preach to family members will only lead to bitterness and distance. You'll create a void you'll eventually regret simply because of differing values. You cannot blame a woman for being a woman, and that, really, is all she is doing. When you're not with her, she's subject to a whole host of powerful stimuli and powerful opinions. Strong, independent women preach to her in a language she can relate to. You're trying to shame her, and women don't like to be shamed. You're going to have to let go. So, your sister's a slut. That's not something you can change or affect. How do you process the information? You do what you do with your parents, in that you don't think about them as sexual creatures. Because that information is not relevant to you.

[–]r_Slash_Badass 13ポイント14ポイント  (1子コメント)

Best advice in this thread. She's family, just because someone is fucked up doesn't mean they're not your blood. My sisters are obese and it drives me crazy watching them kill themselves, but at the end of the day how can I not love them?

[–]Primemale 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

I agree. I used to shame my sisters for eating unhealthily (I'm a ''health freak'' go figure) any way long story short they just stopped wanting to be around me and saw me as oppressive and demanding.

There is a way to go about getting people to change their behaviour and it is not through telling them to do something different (particularly in a hostile manner) or even giving scientific/logical arguments. You have to get them to trust/respect you and then you need to educate in a SOFT way, plant seeds and lead by example.

@ OP, She's still your sister man, WTF do you expect in this MTV based western society? which allows and even PUSHES women to fuck many different guys, Where the fuck were you or your dad, to explain to her why it might benefit her to not fuck a ton of different guys? Also have you ever fucked a slaggy girl yourself? if so then it's somewhat hypocritical. This doesn't instantly make your sister unworthy of contact with you, it just makes her an undesirable mate for a high value man, and you said she wasn't that hot anyway, not to mention, what do you care about the guy who ends up with your sis that's his problem. Show her the light SOFTLY otherwise she will resent you.

[–]FedoraTip9000 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

Hogwash. If my sister was a slut I would call her out on it too.

[–]flying_cumshot 19ポイント20ポイント  (3子コメント)

You do realize her true number is actually higher right?

She admitted to 15 dudes. Ok now multiply that by 3 and you have the real body count.

[–]Endorsed Contributorkempff 21ポイント22ポイント  (2子コメント)

And remember, oral sex doesn't "count".

[–]steelerfaninperu 7ポイント8ポイント  (0子コメント)

Neither does anal if you're a Christian in Texas.

[–]1 Endorsed Contributormordanus 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Woah wait... you're counting handjobs too? Then fuck if I know the answer!

[–]pheluhnee 33ポイント34ポイント  (22子コメント)

How do I process this information?

You know the answer, you just can't get it. AWALT. The first A stands for "all".

Your sister is no better or worse than anyone else. No reason to treat her differently. She's still a normal good person, "as basic as they come".

Are you jealous of her taking advantage of her SMV?

[–]ParanoidPeace[S] 41ポイント42ポイント  (20子コメント)

Are you jealous of her taking advantage of her SMV?

Not at all, my number is much higher than hers. You know what I think it is? Because my sister is maybe a 6, and has 15 partners at the age of 19, how the fuck am I going to eventually 'settle down' with an 8+ with a very low count/traditional values. I guess I'm finally grasping that Unicorn concept. Fuck.

[–]_newbeginnings_ 11ポイント12ポイント  (0子コメント)

I feel you brother. It's still hard for me to keep the pill down all the time, like when I meet a nice cute chick but I have to keep reminding myself the ugly truth...AWALT. This way I'm not so disappointed when the truth does reveal itself every time.

[–]frys180 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

You're tying to have your cake and eat it too. There are many guys out there just like you with similar N counts. If all of these guys "held out" until they found the "right one" then maybe you'd have a chance of finding "an 8+ with a very low count/traditional values."

However, the way things are now, the chances of that happening are less than 1%. Especially when taking millennials into account. Don't be upset at your sister for sleeping with 15 guys. The sexual dystopia we live in harbors this inevitable result. Your sister is just part of the system. As are you. Both sexes are contributing factors despite high N counts being socially beneficial for men and detrimental for women. Don't be confused. I'm not applying morals to this. It's just the way it is.

[–]max_peenor 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

how the fuck am I going to eventually 'settle down' with an 8+ with a very low count/traditional values

You could be a BB. That's how.

[–]ColdEiric 6ポイント7ポイント  (0子コメント)

Embrace the suck, man. Embrace the suck.

[–]moosevice_dot_com 15ポイント16ポイント  (0子コメント)

I told my 19 yo sister not to whore around if she wants a good husband. She is not listening. I did my part. The mark of an intelligent being is learning from other's mistakes. Only idiots ignore sound advices.

Pro-tip: Don't lend her money.

[–]rdaily207 10ポイント11ポイント  (0子コメント)

what's her phone number? sounds like i won't even need the roofies.

[–]JackDallas 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

This is SEP - Someone Else's Problem

stick with MOP - My Own Problems.

N.B. SEP first told to me by Douglas Adams' character
Ford Prefect in the Hitchhiker's Guide to the Universe.

MOP thought up on my morning walk.

[–]reisli 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

You're jealous. Any girl (even a basic bitch or ugly bitch) with a pussy (all of them) can get 10-20 dicks a day if they want.

but it doesn't work the other way around.

Women don't need ANYTHING besides a pussy to survive in life right now. They don't need to improve themselves. They don't need jobs. It's kind of funny.

Pussy is a powerful tool, and they know how to use it. While riding the CC, they can get dick from men who are much better than them.

[–]Assassin1476 11ポイント12ポイント  (0子コメント)

Why would you think your little sister would magically be any different than all of the other little whore bags that you went to high school with at the age that are basically doing the same thing that she's currently doing? You basically stated that she's nothing special as majority of women are so why would she not end up being typical?

You'll be alright man. This is just another tough pill to swallow because you don't want to look at your sister that way. Rather than trying to figure out how to process this; you should be looking like the cool older brother that all her of your sister's friends want to fuck. Go out and get yourself some young pussy.

[–]MeatCurtainRod 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

She admitted to 15. We all know there are those that she isn't proud of, or those that 'just happened'. The number is much higher.

[–]ChaletBoy 4ポイント5ポイント  (1子コメント)

Any 19 year old dude would have love to had sex with 15 women before 20. One dude a month? Honestly I feel like 12 girls a year is too low for me if I had it my way, I'd prefer 52.

Interesting thought....realistically 15 dudes now have an N-count of 1. And one girl has an N-count of 15. The only way those 15 dudes can grow their number higher collectively is if there are more girls like your sister. Your sister might as well be an escort. Because where the fuck are the other 14 girls? Not helping me out me out on my list of 52.

[–]Sdom1 5ポイント6ポイント  (1子コメント)

Why the hell are you talking about number of sexual partners with your little sister anyway? Why ask a question when you don't really want to know the answer?

Talk to her about it and then let it be, she has to make her own choices.

[–]mrgogo1 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

Exactly,you offer good advice but you dont ask for details or get emotional about it. This is weird.

You just nod and carry on doing whatever else is more important.

[–]captainsciencepants 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

I can relate to this with my older sister. We used to be best buds then as I got older I found out about some of those things. Trp gets weird and can be emotional when it comes to family. I don't have any advice really. I can just tell you what I've done. And that's hold communication to when you're with each other for holidays and ect. There's no sense in slut shaming. Hamsters gonna hamster.

[–]sinfulmentos 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

How the fuck do some of you people come to the conclusion that he's JEALOUS? lmao

Maybe you guys are jealous of how much dick she's getting eh? ;)

But real talk tho, you guys don't have a sister of your own do you? Family is family and if my baby sister was growing into a nasty trashy slut I would do something about it, unless she really is just beyond help, then fuck it I tried.

[–]mrmeyhemn 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

"how do i process this information"

awalt- basic bitches are the worst of them because they have less to offer than women with both intelligence and beauty. since they are basic and never work to be anything more they reduce themselves to little more than a series of holes.

[–]gangstaman9000the2nd 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

Got any pics of her? I'm looking for new plates

[–]zachspear 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'm not religious but I like to follow what Jesus said to a mob wanting to stone a woman for committing adultery. "Ye throw the first stone, who hasn't committed a sin", AKA everyone makes mistakes stop judging.

If anything I would try to talk to her about it and go deep with her. Sexuality is something to not shame people, but to openly communicate, discuss, accept, and reveal things about one and another. I think alot of guys shame women because they can't sleep with the amount of people women can. Maybe your sister feels lonely, is depressed, is seeking fulfillment, ran into the wrong guys, she is 19 and it really isn't her fault at that age. At age of 19 so much of who you are is upbringing and your peer group. Give your sister a break. Also one of the biggest reasons I think beta males can't sleep with women is they have the same attitude you do about sluts and judging women. Guys that "get it" don't judge and accept the female for what she is in all her beauty and range of emotions

[–]1CleverNeologism 7ポイント8ポイント  (0子コメント)

Found out my 19 year old little sister slept with 15 dudes, 5 in High School, 10 in College, she's had 2 boyfriends. She's nothing special, the epitome of basic both physically and mentally. How do I process this information?

There's nothing to process: that is how women are. Your sister is no unicorn.

[–]goremanbates 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's probably 45 LOL. But yea man, guys don't have standards. They would fuck anything that moves.

[–]weatherstaff 11ポイント12ポイント  (6子コメント)

You sound a little jealous bro. You try to put her down by calling her basic and judging her physical appearance. Then you reduce her worth as a woman to the number of men she's slept with. Then you try to control her by attempting to tell her that she "wrote off a ton of great men." Are you talking about yourself here?

Do you plan on marrying your sister? Why are you so concerned about the number of dudes she's been with?

[–]Sdom1 12ポイント13ポイント  (1子コメント)

This reminds me of the Chappelle Show skit, the black white supremacist, where the racist character says "if anyone sleeps with my sister, it's gonna be ME!"

[–]GrandmasterHurricane 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Lol I remember that. Chappelle is a very good comedian. I like the topics he approaches. Very smart dude.

[–]dat1dork 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

I think the guy is just looking out for his family the way an alpha should. He sees her steering away, and well, it's disappointing.

[–]formermangina 6ポイント7ポイント  (0子コメント)

You sound a little jealous bro

You sound very American with a 0 sense of family. There are families around the world where people look out for each other. If BB brother is doing it wrong, I'd expect OP to help him. If sister is whoring it out, same thing. You can see where or how they will end up and you care.

[–]cariboo_j 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yeah he cares a little too much...

Who the fuck keeps tabs on their sister's N-count?

[–]an0n4btc -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

You sound a little jealous bro.

What is there to be jealous of? All a promiscuous woman has to do in her younger years is eat right, dress appropriately, divide the legs to whatever guy grabs her attention (TRP shows you how to be that guy also btw.) and pray not to multiply.

A little thing TRP refers to as 'the wall' will explain why I am not jealous of that, aside from the cocktail of problems such behavior does to women also explained over there in the side bar. -->

Actions have consequences; which is what the OP (and disappointingly not the father) is rightly trying to warn his sister about.

Do you plan on marrying your sister?

Nope, but guess what happens when Clumsy Clive (or was that Clint... anyway some guy who forgot the condom, how silly of him) has his fun and your left with a sister ...and expecting. Yup, the burden that would have been for the father (raising his child) gets picked up by her family.

A fair bet also that Clumsy Clive (Clint or whatever) will not have much money to his name so I wouldn't rely on him to pick up the tab. That of course presumes it was even his real name, not knowing that would compound the world of shit that awaits the OP's niece/nephew on the way.

Even knowing who the father is, and Honest Harry sticking around to raise it for a while, brings a plethora of other issues that arise later in life. The promiscuous sister, having so many sexual partners affecting the strength of her post coitus bond with Honest Harry, will feel nothing more than resent at her shiny personal ATM.

Marriage, divorce and broken households are a bankable result (need a bookie on divorce bets, TRP would make me a fortune) which not only affect the children reared from such partnerships; but also extended family with extra strain upon them having to make ends meet the best they can for the sake of such children.

Divorce is likely from the resent she feels towards Honest Harry (married because of the expectations of others to make an honest woman out of the OPs sister, sounds like beta behavior to me) and she will be also wanting to trade up for more cash and prizes if the opportunity arises (you don't need many skills to get a high number count as a woman).

Such a burden does not necessarily entail being a financial one alone, unless Clumsy Corey (or was that Clint... Clive... ) got lucky and lost his wallet somewhere prior to conception. Can't blame the guy, probably forgot who the OPs sister was by now and not a clue he is a father.

I won't elaborate how low on the totem pole the sisters value on the RMP (Relationship Market Place, you read the sidebar yet OP?) is as a single mother (I guess there is a usefulness to being clumsy) and the raw deal some poor sap dumb enough to be husband, whilst not father of this child, will get as a result from the above (Love trickles down, Men -> Women -> Children -> Puppies).

TL/DR - He is rightly worried about his promiscuous sisters behavior, not because of sex (or jealousy, now seriously "I don't even..." ) but, because of the consequences of such activity including ultimately the risk of an unplanned pregnancy and the additional burden that would cause on himself and the rest of the family.

Spare a thought for the unplanned niece/nephew, though such might have a better shot at life with an uncle like the OP and TRP to help raise such a child.

If you only mange to get one thing out of this post, then it better be:

Read the sidebar.

[–]prodigy2throw 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

If it makes you feel better, long term she'll probably turn out okay.

Find a beta bucks after she hits the wall. Grossly write-down her n count. She'll then settle down and be fine so long as she keeps her hoe tendencies to a minimum and maybe moves to another state as to not catch rumours of her hoe decisions.

She'll be fine dude. Just deal.

[–]Endorsed Contributor2comment 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink.

You did your part. As you get older, you'll realize that the part of "not being able to choose your family" is kind of like "you have to go to school." It's a child's reality imposed by adults, not an adult one. You can stick with your siblings, drift apart, or anything in the middle. You will choose family because you're a man choosing to live as you see fit.

As to how you would process this? AWALT.

[–]WindowsDoctor 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Let me get this straight - if her own brother thinks of her as a nothing and a nobody, how do you think the rest of the world sees her? What do you think that does to her self esteem?

[–]brokenshelf 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

She's discovered that her (what sounds like mediocre, at best) looks are her most marketable attribute. I'd say most women are aware of this fact in high school, but not truly cognizant of it until college. For now, she has no obligations or responsibilities. She has her lodging and food taken care of already, transportation is cheap (a lot of college kids take the bus to parties together). She understands that she can get guys to buy her alcohol, and that with a little complaining or some cleavage she can get guys to do her homework/professors to change her grades.

The whole "glassy-eyed" look is indicative of a woman who has literally nothing of interest in her mind. Her day consists of waking up, using social media, probably stirring up some kind of drama, eating, getting drunk and fucking. Rinse, repeat. This will stay in effect until she's at LEAST 25, at which time she'll start to think, "Wait, what am I doing?" Then before she knows it, she's 30 and realizes she's been rotten for years.

[–]itmustbeitalian 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

I know RP advocates finding the truth in everything...but that's one truth I would not search for!

[–]1oldredder 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

That's not even "slut" where I come from. At least half the 19 year olds I ever knew fucked at least 10 guys by that age. No one ever felt that was abnormal

[–]TheRealMewt 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

What does her partner count matter to you? I seriously hope you weren't trying to fuck your sister.

[–]chewy_dragee 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

He had to fuck her out of respect.

[–]wisdom_is 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's none of your business if your sister is fucking around. Hell, you would do the same. About her not being to smart, she is born that way. Some people are more gifted than others. Dont look down upon people that are less blessed in certain departments then you. If my sister would be like yours, I would look the other way and focus on my live. No need to police someone else's business. You gain nothing by doing so.

[–]cagethepepper 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

Your sister is the reason I'm MGTOW.

[–]EurasianAesthetics 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

BAHAHAHA your sister's a slut!!!

[–]BuffaloSoljah 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

How the hell does OP's sister riding the cock carousel help me become a better man and a better version of myself? This sub's content has taken a drastic turn for the worst lately.

[–]HalfPastTuna 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

You must be naive as hell to consider 4 at all out of the ordinary for a 19 year old in college

[–]beastofthefield 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Our species is going down the drain, who cares anymore how many guys a girl slept with. They are ALL megawhores now.

[–]Raijodin 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

You don't process this information - your sister's sex life's none of your business ya weirdo.

[–]druganswer 0ポイント1ポイント  (2子コメント)

The partner count circle jerk is the worst part of this sub... we get it... AWALT, your little sister isn't some snowflake... no shit. who cares, women are going to fuck around more than in the old days because they can and even if the whole partner count lowers attachment thing is true (note: IDC) we should be accepting of it because A) it is what it is B) you sound like a jealous beta bitch when you "omg she is such a slut" a girl who has fucked 15 people... we should be focusing on how to take advantage of this positive trend. Haven't seen many posts on here advocate LTR anyway so who gives a fuck that women are having more sex?

get over the partner count shaming, it's fucking retarded

[–]aboveaveragebabydick 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's in their nature... I agree, it's a hard truth to accept. I'm getting there, accepting reality is liberating

[–]KnG_Kong 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

So don't date her haha she's your sister and as you said thick as a brick,so probably easily gamed. In men vs women your sister is on the opposite side and getting owned. She's not cockolding at all and losing it all. Teach her to be better, not better at holding out and playing BBs, but try to teach her to be that unicorn.

And remember girls like sex too. They're just better at getting something out of it. (Maybe not your sister, maybe she just likes sex)

[–]bdub85 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

This is why I'm glad that I'm an only child.

OP just let it go. Everyone knows you can't tell people what to do especially family. It's her life, and she can deal with the consequences of her actions.

[–]linershipping 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'm curious at the BB she'll settle with poor dude lmao

[–]chefcj 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Literally the definition of AWALT. Welcome to basic trp

[–]Scroph 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

This reminds me of a Louis CK quote about the fathers of teenage girls who are afraid their daughters might have bad sexual experiences. According to him, you have no role in your sister's sex life : not advisory, not supporting, nothing. You're just her brother, that's it. I personally do not agree with this, but that's only because of my culture and upbringing. The Louis CK line seems to be more applicable to your situation.

[–]IronMeltsinmyHands 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Now, my sister is basic, almost as basic as they come. She's glued to her phone all day, or her computer, she's not smart, she can't even contribute to a debate without getting all flustered and crying pretty much. Physically she's nothing, bigger than average nose, no boobs, no ass, no real curves, just a real stick with no brain.

[–]yummyluckycharms 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

OP: I think you are still in the anger stage.

Hating a woman for obeying her biological instincts and programming is silly. Its the equivalent to hating a boat because it floats - women will ride the CC until they find a high enough Alpha or until they hit the wall - and your sister is doing exactly what society has conditioned her to do. Its normal.

Just accept AWALT, let the anger melt away, and move forward in your life using this knowledge to your benefit.

[–]Spiral-knight 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Cut her out? if it bothers you this much and continues to then drop her and move away from this "family" mentality. Right now if push comes to shove and you "come to bat" for her should her whoreing get her in shit all you'll do is tell her that she has a bodyguard and that her behaviour is fine

[–]-Quotidian 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I can kind of relate. The difference between us lies in our responses: after the shock, I was emotionally detached enough from my sense of ethics to decide that my sister's sex was none of my concern and that while I was willing to disabuse a future BB of any misconceptions he had about my sister that I would not feel obligated to.

I don't bro-knight. I'll look out and stick up for a friend, stand up to people I care about for their benefit--even if it costs us our relationship--and do basically whatever I decide I can live with when it suits me. Your sister's a whore. That's even worse than AWALT: you discovered TRP, but she never had a chance of becoming a woman of value.

If you're wondering what you can do for her...don't. She's riding the CC as hard as she can get away with justifying right now, and she'll cry twice as hard when the wall hits her. It sucks when the people you care about disappoint you, but at this stage she doesn't want to be "saved" or "taught" anything.

How do you process this? AWALT. You had preconceived notions of your sister's character, and that illusion was just torn down. It's life. It's not your fault, it isn't right or wrong, and there's nothing you can or should do about it. You may swallow the Red Pill once, but that's just where your journey begins. Side effects may include bitterness, disappointment, and anger until you've fully absorbed it.

Where you go from here is all you. Good luck, man.

[–]Riddick_ 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

The girls that "look" sexy by the time the graduate cock garden that is high-school rack at least 30. Maybe 50. Then in University the count speeds up like Millennium Falcon towards Warp speed. They basically work at the cock factory, and all they need to do is spread their clam to jam one in.

But all that it doesn't count, because it is after all that's just experimentation. All those handjobs were a joke, all those times she took it up the ass was just good fun, and all those tree somes were really just one time.

She's still a Disney Princess after all - a story that will be sold line hook and sinker to the willing beta douche idiot that will wife her. With nothing but pain, payments and sadness to look forward to. Such is the world today. Enjoy folks.

And about your sister. There is nothing you can do. Just accept it for what it is.

[–]Syriz_ 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yes more or less. Its all out there, just the trp lens is required to actually see. Personally I know two girls both post wall. One is dealing okayish the other is a text book crash n burn case

[–]Okeseko 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Ignore it. Don't take it personally. I think average girls are more likely to have a high notch. Their inability to make a alpha commit results in a endless streak of pump and dump.

[–]cl3ophatra 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Pretty weird how occupied you are with the number of men your sister has slept with. I mean, you aren't exactly leading by example either if your way of life is "spinning plates" and you're talking to her about men committing despite choosing a lifestyle that is clearly (at least at the surface) founded on non-committal beliefs for many. She sees that inconsistency. Both of you cannot relate to one another and she will only resent you for 1) being strangely curious about her sex life and 2) judging her for it. The best you could do is wait until she asks for your advice and is willing to listen.

[–]1 Endorsed Contributormordanus 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'm honestly just chuckling at this post. This is essentially where we as men go wrong. We assume that women are somehow pure or good or whatever. We assign them purity as a trait and get amazed at the fact that they have none.

Here's the news flash man. All Women Are Like This. The ones that you thought were slutty in high school actually fucked like 300 or so. You need to get that through your head. Any future girl you date is going to be just like this. Your mother was like this. Girls don't give a fuck about purity. Only us men do and we only care about it so long as they are pure.

That concept is one of the main pillars that supports blue pill mentality. We begin to think that somehow women are amazing or interesting or special just for being them. Then when we realize they are whores we rip it away. Realize that all of them are like that and enjoy them for what they are. Don't marry them or get attached to them. Just enjoy them for what they are here for and move past them.

[–]MentORPHEUS 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Dude, this one is your Sister. What were you going to do about this, plate her?

Here's an opportunity to become a Mentor. Let it be the first of several times over your life.

[–]SirGuileSir 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

It wouldn't matter if she was 40, OP. It's still heart-wrenching to know this of your own sister. Found out mine is, and dropped all contact even though it fucking hurts.

edit: AWALT. I had hopes, but FUCK no.

[–]WidmerBeer -1ポイント0ポイント  (1子コメント)

And get this OP, that's probably just an average number among her peers. There's a reason why college campuses are notorious for high STD rates... and it's not because of the poor hygiene on toilet seats. That's just the world we live in now.

[–]Chinkibus 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Who gives a shit if she fucks a lot of dudes. All chick's do

[–]ledditor_1337 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Just disown her. Why degrade yourself by being in contact with something like that?

[–]nantucketghost 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

... and say goodbye to any good future husband prospects. So short fucking sighted.

She's the perfect case of low self-esteem. She only feels good about herself if she's being wanted by someone. She's found that though easy sex, which is no special feat for a girl honestly. Tell her she's better than that and see what she says. I'm curious.

[–]RedPillAnonymous -1ポイント0ポイント  (1子コメント)

This isn't a bible values club. Your sister likes dick. So what? Liking to fuck guys isn't something that affects you as her brother, she isn't your virgin wife. Fucking lots of dudes doesn't make a woman a bad person, it makes her a bad potential wife.

[–]formermangina -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

Liking to fuck guys isn't something that affects you as her brother

Trying to help family is not a bad thing.

Fucking lots of dudes doesn't make a woman a bad person

Being a beta cucked bf doesnt make a man a bad person. If that was your brother you would still help him.

[–]EmpyMagazine -2ポイント-1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Hire a male escort to have sex with her; have him pretend the condom broke. Then have him contact her a month later, so he can tell her he has HIV. Then she will become a very conservative nice girl when all the tests reveal that she is okay. If by some chance, she comes up positive from her gangbang lifestyle you can pat yourself on the back, and rest easy knowing that some of the scum out there that have violated her will die slowly over the next decade.

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    [–]raceAround126 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

    I actually laughed at this.