Summary: One of the girls I have been fucking has been recently starting to flake and blow me off to hang out with “girlfriends”. I know she’s losing interest and on her way out. Do I: preemptively shut it down first, use more soft next strategy, just stop responding, or like the black dragon blog describes, completely ignore her for 4-6 months then maybe re-engage.

Body: I have always been the kind of guy to burn bridges strictly when it comes to romantic relationships. When it is over with a woman I never talk to her again. I would like to change that and become the asshole women come running back to in-between their LTRs. I have a plate on the way out so I would like to get advice on how to maybe preemptively end it in a favorable way for me, in positive light, and basically start a discussion on the best way to end all relationships (LTR, Flings, Plates) so it is beneficial to the man.

One of my plates has been pissing me off lately by flaking on me, blowing me off to hangout with her “girlfriends”. I respond by holding frame and all that, responding to flake texts with simple “ok”. I understand and accept that 1. She’s probably losing interest and on her way out 2. She may be getting close to another guy 3. Her main girlfriend doesn’t like me and is probably introducing her to other guys in an effort to break the spell my dick has on her. I’ve been reading TRP long enough to understand and accept all this, just my turn and all. I am thinking about preemptively ending it to either rush the inevitable, or employing a form of dread to make her shape up.

I know a lot of people always ask about background so let me get this out of the way, a little background on her and I: She’s 21, ten years younger than me, good fuck, my bottom bitch if you will. She has been really hooked on me until recently. Normally can’t wait to come get fucked by me, sends me lovey-dovey texts and snapchats without my reply, does what I say. I lift and work out at MMA gym (occasionally surprise her with bruises on my face from sparring sessions and she literally gets wet from it, just eats that shit up). Yes I’m fucking other girls like I should be, she doesn’t ask but assumes.

TL;DR Best way to end relationships? Does preemptive ending of relationship instill dread and make her shape up? OR is it better to just next her and gtfo, leave her wondering why?