"pornographic, overly sexualized, animated representation" "The overly sexualized, adolescent male fantasy that Bayonetta is" "its basically a patriarchal adventure porno fantasy"

And yet that's the obvious truth which you apparently don't want to accept so you're freaking out about it. The game's director said...

To Kamiya, the core theme of the game and its protagonist's attacks is "sexiness".

There you go. So how is this woman wrong? The whole point of the game is to titillate players.

He said Bayonetta's ability to transform into a panther reflected the developers' desire to "make her a sexy witch".[8] To emphasize "her femininity and sexuality", the developers made Bayonetta lose rose petals instead of blood when hit, and used a butterfly motif that manifests in her wings (which appear in her shadow and during double jumps), her giant fist attack (a butterfly appears on the back of the fist), and the arms of her glasses.[33][34] Her giant boot, fist, and monster attacks reveal some of her body—her hair is magically formed into clothes but must be temporarily reallocated to forming offensive weapons—and when the player targets an enemy, red lips mark the enemy's chest; this led IGN to call the developing game a mix of "action and a great big helping of fan service".[2] The game's sexual tone is reflected in its age rating in the United States: the Entertainment Software Rating Board rated the developing game "Mature" ("M", for ages 17 and older) for containing "Partial Nudity" and "Suggestive Themes", as well as "Blood and Gore, Intense Violence," and "Strong Language".

So you're basically arguing against the director of the game himself. Instead of being so upset that person X said Y, you should be asking yourself first, "Is Y true?" And according to the game developer: yes, yes it is. If you now feel bad about yourself or something for enjoying it, don't blame the messenger.