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The Aftermath Of Bill Cosby's Admission? That's Rape Culture.

The Huffington Post  |  By Zeba Blay
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Now we know.
In 2005 Bill Cosby admitted, under oath, to drugging several women with the intention of having sex with them. (To be clear, sex without one party's consent, is called rape.) But in the intervening hours since the report first emerged, the realities of rape culture -- its insidiousness and pervasiveness -- have become all the more clear.
Even now, in the wake of the Cosby news, people and media outlets are still using language that simultaneously downplays and sensationalizes what he did. Headlines like, Cosby's "Sex Bombshell" that don't use the word "rape" perpetuate this idea that what this man did was creepy, yet somehow benign. Furthermore, this news is not a bombshell. We've known about Cosby's history of assault since last year. Really, it's been out there -- but ignored -- for at least 10 years.

Rape culture is dozens of Bill Cosby headlines today that don't use the word "rape."

The fact Cosby's leaked confession holds more weight than the voices of over 40 women who have come out with accusations against him over the years, is horrifying. We needed "proof" before we could believe the victims. Jill Scott came out last night to condemn Cosby after vigorously defending him last year, but added that all she needed was "proof" that he did it -- as if the stories of 40 women from all different walks of life were not enough to suggest that he is rapist.

About Bill Cosby. Sadly his own testimony offers PROOF of terrible deeds, which is ALL I have ever required to believe the accusations.

But the big problem with that:

Rape culture = NEEDING Cosby to admit he's guilty before we believe it. If that's the standard, almost no one would be guilty of rape.

Proof beyond a reasonable doubt is needed in a court of law, but the court of public opinion does not require the same standards. We should be able to decide for ourselves and listen to the stories of Cosby's accusers who have gained nothing by speaking out.
There have been suggestions that Cosby's wealth, his standing in the black community, his celebrity, all allowed him to get away with this for so long. And still, even now, some people suggest that this is some kind of wild conspiracy to bring down a prominent black man. But this isn't strictly about celebrity, or money, or access, or respectability politics -- we should stop looking for one thing to blame. This is about the intersection of all those things, and how, with the addition of sexism and misogyny, they make stories like this a reality.
When Beverly Johnson, a successful, respected entrepreneur and one of the first black supermodels wrote about her own experience of being assaulted by Cosby, her credibility was questioned. Even Johnson, despite her success and social standing, was afraid that her story wouldn't matter.
She wrote: "I struggled with how to reveal my big secret, and more importantly, what would people think when and if I did? Would they dismiss me as an angry black woman intent on ruining the image of one of the most revered men in the African American community over the last 40 years? Or would they see my open and honest account of being betrayed by one of the country’s most powerful, influential, and beloved entertainers?"

I'll say it over & over again Sex crimes should not have a statute of limitations. It takes time to come forward. Cosby should be in jail.

As this story continues to unfold, we must use it as a learning experience. How do we talk about rape? How do we engage with rape victims? How does the law feed into rape culture and the systematic erasure of rape victims' voices? Cosby's legacy and influence is rapidly deteriorating, but what about justice for the victims?
According to RAINN, only 32 percent of rapes are ever reported, and a majority of rape victims wait months or years before feeling safe enough to come forward. The statute of limitations on Cosby's crimes means that the 77-year-old will likely never spend a day in jail for what he's done.
That is rape culture.
Below is a list of women who have come forward with allegations about Cosby, dated to the time that the allegations were made public.

A Timeline Of Accusations Against Bill Cosby

It's been 14 years since the first woman publicly accused Bill Cosby of assaulting her.
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Comedian Bill Cosby performs at the Maxwell C. King Center for the Performing Arts, in Melbourne, Fla., Friday, Nov. 21, 2014.

March 2, 2000

Lachele Covington

Then a 20-year-old actress who had appeared on Cosby’s TV show, Covington filed a police report accusing the comedian of being inappropriate with her during a dinner at his New York home. According to the New York Post, she says he "put her hand under his T-shirt and guided it south toward his sweatpants." The Post also cites an earlier National Enquirer story in which Covington's relatives said "Cosby went further -- grabbing her breasts, trying to put his hand down her pants and exposing himself." Read more here.

January 13, 2005

Andrea Constand

Constand alleged that she visited the comedian at his Cheltenham home in January 2004. NBC News reported that she claimed Cosby had given her pills that he said were "herbal medication." According to The Smoking Gun, she claimed that after she took the pills, Cosby "laid her down on a sofa and proceeded to sexually assault her. She awoke hours later to discover her clothes and undergarments in disarray," when she said "she was greeted by a bathrobe-clad Cosby." Constand filed a lawsuit against Cosby in Nov. 2006. Thirteen other women, 12 of whom asked to remain anonymous, are mentioned in court papers as Jane Doe witnesses. The case was settled out of court that November. Read more here.
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Andrea Constand as a young woman.

February 5, 2005

Shawn Upshaw

In a 2005 interview with the National Enquirer, Upshaw claimed to have had a consensual affair with Cosby, and that the actor is the father of her daughter. She also claimed that Cosby had had drugged her at some point in the '70s. "He fixed me a drink that looked strange to me -- there were several layers of color to it," she told the Enquirer. "I didn't want to drink it, but he kept telling me to finish it, and I did. I immediately felt very out of sorts. I knew definitely that I had been heavily drugged. Finally he took me to the bedroom and put me to bed. That's the last I remember of the night. I woke up in the morning knowing I'd had sex during my sleep." Read more here.
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Autumn Jackson and Shawn Thompson Upshaw at Federal court in NY on July 11, 1997. Autumn was on trial for trying to extort money from Bill Cosby.
 
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Lachele Covington
 

A Timeline Of Accusations Against Bill Cosby

Lachele Covington

Andrea Constand

Shawn Upshaw

Tamara Green

Beth Ferrier

Barbara Bowman

Joan Tarshis

Linda Joy Traitz

Janice Dickinson

Therese Serignese

Carla Ferrigno

Louisa Moritz

Renita Chaney Hill

Angela Leslie

Kristina Ruehli

Michelle Hurd

Victoria Valentino

Jewel Allison

Donna Motsinger

Judy Huth

Helen Hayes

Chelan

P.J. Masten

Beverly Johnson

Choe Goins

Lisa

Katherine McKee

Linda Kirkpatrick

Lynn Neal

Kacey

Cindra Ladd

Linda Brown

Lise-Lotte Lublin

Heidi Thomas

Patricia

Jennifer K. "Kaya" Thompson

Janice Baker Kinney

Marcella Tate

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  • Jenn Mac
    If 40 women accuse him of rape, and even just 1 of them is telling the truth... even if 39 of them are lying... he is still a rapist
    • Olivia Gunderson
      The number of accusers does not inherently determine guilt though. As the number of accusers rises, so does the "likelihood" of guilt. But the number itself is not evidence.
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    • Jenn Mac
      Olivia Gunderson ......We're saying the same thing.... it doesn't matter how many women accuse him.....He's still a rapist...
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    • Kristina Carlsson
      I think you two agree...
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  • Molly Brown · Top Commenter · Marquette University
    "In 2005 Bill Cosby admitted, under oath, to drugging several women with the intention of having sex with them. (To be clear, sex without one party's consent, is called rape.)"

    This is all you need to know.
     
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  • John Shepard · Top Commenter
    It's not "rape culture" to demand evidence of someone's guilt before punishing them. You're psychotic if you think we should just believe someone just because they said so.

    No one is saying we don't have a lot of strides to make in our justice system, but you CANNOT expect to be taken seriously when you demand "justice" before evidence. It doesn't matter if it's one person or 10 thousand people. No evidence REQUIRES no conviction.

    He had the pills. It doesn't prove he did anything to anyone. It proves he bought the pills with intent, and nothing more. If you want to go after him for that, be my guest, there's actual evidence there to follow instead of just 'he said-she said'. But to claim this one act proves everything else is insanity.

    Oh, and it's real cute to use RAINN in the article to give yourself some credence. However, RAINN doesn't believe in "rape culture", and denounces it entirely.

    "Rape is caused not by cultural factors but by the conscious decisions, of a small percentage of the community, to commit a violent crime"

    https://rainn.org/news-room/rainn-urges-white-house-task-force-to-overhaul-colleges-treatment-of-rape
    • Molly Brown · Top Commenter · Marquette University
      The women offered plenty of evidence but you prefer to ignore it and instead continue to defend a rapist. Shame on you.
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    • Molly Brown · Top Commenter · Marquette University
      In 2005 Bill Cosby admitted, under oath, to drugging several women with the intention of having sex with them. (To be clear, sex without one party's consent, is called rape.)

      That is all you need to know.
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    • John Shepard · Top Commenter
      Molly Brown Where is it then? Demonstrate it.
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  • Glenda Branson · Top Commenter
    It makes me think he has other issues. Who wants to have sex with a comatose individual. That is concerning in itself. EWWWW
     
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  • Molly Brown · Top Commenter · Marquette University
    Cosby's career is finally over and he did it to himself.

    It is also disgusting that people refused to believe the testimoney of over 30 women because one man denied it.

    Meanwhile there are about 500,000 rape kits sitting untested on police dept shelves throughout the country. What are the police waiting for? More women to be raped by these rapists?
    • John Shepard · Top Commenter
      "It is also disgusting that people refused to believe the testimony of over 30 women because none of them offered any evidence of crimes, and only said so"

      Fixed that for you.
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      John Shepard

      You "fixed" nothing. People are believed when reporting other crimes but not for rape or sexual assault. And what about all of those rape kits just sitting there untested? Shows that men do not take sexual assault crimes seriously.
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    • Robert Jackson · Top Commenter
      John Shepard Now now you are actually quoting the legal system we use and one that presumes innocence until proven guilty..
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  • Stephanie Cunningham
    Okay first of all I need to say this to those who think it is easy to just speak up about being raped. It isn't something you really want to relive and there are many negative feelings that come with being raped one being SHAME. so to those who make comments like why didn't u tell then and blah blah quit making the women feel bad all that does is make them want to be silent . As for bill Cosby well I have said it once I have said it twice he is a devil in disguise and now the devil has been exposed.
     
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  • Carolyn Mabry · Top Commenter · Hoopdance Teacher, Circus and Fire performer at Caroleeena's Circles of Joy · 229 followers
    Rape Culture: When it's easier to disbelieve dozens of women than doubt one man.
       
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    • Ooops, I Said Vagina again.
      Bill Cosby - "I did it!" Whoopi Golberg - "No you didn't! You are innocent until proven guilty...so you didn't do it!" Bill Cosby - "But I totally did it! I really did!"... Whoopi Goldberg - "No man... you didn't do it!! You didn't!! I don't believe it!! I will never believe it so stop saying that Bill!!!"
      • Iona Gray · London, United Kingdom
        Right!? Hordes of women have said he did it, AND he has admitted to it... I'm starting to think that even if she saw it happening, she still wouldn't believe it...
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      • Bettie Gordon Adams · Top Commenter
        She went on her rant today about being criticized on The View. Wake up, Whoopi! Believe in those women.
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    • Carlo St Jules Jr. · Top Commenter
      I don't see the issue. I'm not the type of person to believe anything unless there's actual proof, whether it be a confession of guilt, or undeniable evidence which proves guilt. Some of those women who accused him were proven to be liars, so clearly you can't just take somebody's word for it.
      • Tally Calvert · Top Commenter
        his word you mean? He said he drugged women to have sex with them, no matter what state of denial you live in he confessed.
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      • Molly Christine Swipas · Top Commenter
        How exactly were they ''proven to be liars''? The only liar I see here is Bill Cosby.
        And no, you don't take somebody's word for it, but when there are twenty, thirty, and forty ''somebody's'', you need to realize that THERE is your proof.
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      • Ted Booze · Top Commenter
        Proof like the fact that he said under oath that he did it?
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      The worst headline was "more bad news for Cosby"..like the hell with the victims!!
         
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