Now we know.
In 2005 Bill Cosby
admitted, under oath, to drugging several women with the intention of having sex with them. (To be clear, sex without one party's consent, is called rape.) But in the intervening hours since the report first emerged, the realities of rape culture -- its insidiousness and pervasiveness -- have become all the more clear.
Rape culture is dozens of Bill Cosby headlines today that don't use the word "rape."
The fact Cosby's leaked confession holds more weight than the voices of over 40 women who have come out with accusations against him over the years, is horrifying. We needed "proof" before we could believe the victims. Jill Scott came out last night
to condemn Cosby
after vigorously defending him last year, but added that all she needed was "proof" that he did it -- as if the stories of 40 women from all different walks of life were not enough to suggest that he is rapist.
About Bill Cosby. Sadly his own testimony offers PROOF of terrible deeds, which is ALL I have ever required to believe the accusations.
But the big problem with that:
Rape culture = NEEDING Cosby to admit he's guilty before we believe it. If that's the standard, almost no one would be guilty of rape.
Proof beyond a reasonable doubt is needed in a court of law, but the court of public opinion does not require the same standards. We should be able to decide for ourselves and listen to the stories of Cosby's accusers who have gained nothing by speaking out.
There have been suggestions that Cosby's wealth, his standing in the black community, his celebrity, all allowed him to get away with this for so long. And still, even now, some people suggest that this is some kind of wild conspiracy to bring down a prominent black man. But this isn't strictly about celebrity, or money, or access, or respectability politics -- we should stop looking for one thing to blame. This is about the intersection of all those things, and how, with the addition of sexism and misogyny, they make stories like this a reality.
She wrote: "I struggled with how to reveal my big secret, and more importantly, what would people think when and if I did? Would they dismiss me as an angry black woman intent on ruining the image of one of the most revered men in the African American community over the last 40 years? Or would they see my open and honest account of being betrayed by one of the country’s most powerful, influential, and beloved entertainers?"
I'll say it over & over again
Sex crimes should not have a statute of limitations. It takes time to come forward.
Cosby should be in jail.
As this story continues to unfold, we must use it as a learning experience. How do we talk about rape? How do we engage with rape victims? How does the law feed into rape culture and the systematic erasure of rape victims' voices? Cosby's legacy and influence is rapidly deteriorating, but what about justice for the victims?
According to RAINN,
only 32 percent of rapes are ever reported, and a majority of rape victims wait months or years before feeling safe enough to come forward. The statute of limitations on Cosby's crimes means that the 77-year-old will likely never spend a day in jail for what he's done.
That
is rape culture.
Below is a list of women who have come forward with allegations about Cosby, dated to the time that the allegations were made public.
A Timeline Of Accusations Against Bill Cosby
It's been 14 years since the first woman publicly accused Bill Cosby of assaulting her.
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Comedian Bill Cosby performs at the Maxwell C. King Center for the Performing Arts, in Melbourne, Fla., Friday, Nov. 21, 2014.
March 2, 2000
Lachele Covington
Then a 20-year-old actress who had appeared on Cosby’s TV show,
Covington filed a police report accusing the comedian
of being inappropriate with her during a dinner at his New York home. According
to the New York Post, she says he "put her hand under his T-shirt and guided it south toward his sweatpants." The Post also cites an earlier National Enquirer story in which Covington's relatives said "Cosby went further -- grabbing her breasts, trying to put his hand down her pants and exposing himself."
Read more here.
January 13, 2005
Andrea Constand
Constand alleged that she visited the comedian at his Cheltenham home in January 2004. NBC News reported that she
claimed Cosby had given her pills
that he said were "herbal medication."
According to The Smoking Gun, she claimed that after she took the pills, Cosby "laid her down on a sofa and proceeded to sexually assault her. She awoke hours later to discover her clothes and undergarments in disarray," when she said "she was greeted by a bathrobe-clad Cosby."
Constand filed a lawsuit against Cosby
in Nov. 2006. Thirteen other women, 12 of whom asked to remain anonymous, are mentioned in court papers as Jane Doe witnesses. The case was settled out of court that November.
Read more here.
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Andrea Constand as a young woman.
February 5, 2005
Shawn Upshaw
In a
2005 interview with the National Enquirer, Upshaw claimed to have had a consensual affair with Cosby, and that the actor is the father of her daughter. She also
claimed that Cosby had had drugged her
at some point in the '70s. "He fixed me a drink that looked strange to me -- there were several layers of color to it," she told the Enquirer. "I didn't want to drink it, but he kept telling me to finish it, and I did. I immediately felt very out of sorts. I knew definitely that I had been heavily drugged. Finally he took me to the bedroom and put me to bed. That's the last I remember of the night. I woke up in the morning knowing I'd had sex during my sleep."
Read more here.
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Autumn Jackson and Shawn Thompson Upshaw at Federal court in NY on July 11, 1997. Autumn was on trial for trying to extort money from Bill Cosby.
March 2, 2000
Lachele Covington
A Timeline Of Accusations Against Bill Cosby
Jennifer K. "Kaya" Thompson
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