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[–]8008master 297ポイント298ポイント  (31子コメント)

Straight dudes who like gay porn are gay dudes who are gay.

[–]howisaraven 20ポイント21ポイント  (24子コメント)

I can't tell if you're serious and that sub is, like, satirical or if the "we're not gay/bisexual" comment in the sub's sidebar is truthful.

This is all very confusing!

[–]familyknewmyusername 28ポイント29ポイント  (22子コメント)

It's truthful, there's a lot of straight guys who like gay porn. There's plenty of people who have fantasies about being eaten (okay, not LOADS), but the vast majority of those don't actually want to be eaten.

What about lesbian porn? I can tell you now that if you're a man, sex with a lesbian is going to be pretty underwhelming. But it's fine in porn, because real life and fantasy don't have to be linked.

That subreddit is just a bit sarcastic, but there's definitely straight guys looking at gay porn there.

[–]iGotDatDainbramage 39ポイント40ポイント  (21子コメント)

There are plenty of straight dudes who like gay porn

Pretty sure that's called being gay.

[–]SMORKIN_LABBIT 10ポイント11ポイント  (0子コメント)

Checking out Porn doesn't make someone gay...However: "There are plenty of straight dudes who like fucking gay men" - Would most certainly make you gay...or at least bi.

[–]Imthebigd 3ポイント4ポイント  (12子コメント)

Pretty sure that's called enjoying whatever you enjoy.

[–]VandalMySandal 8ポイント9ポイント  (5子コメント)

Why are you so defensive immediately? it's not like there's anything wrong with being gay. (or at least..having SOME gay feelings)

That said though, if someone enjoys watching gay porn I'd say he is atleast somewhat gay. I honestly can't fathom how people can even deny this. What,, you like watching guys get pounded or sucking cock because it's such an artful display of romance..? I'm just cracking up here, this reminds me of the BROJOB story so much.

[–]Imthebigd 9ポイント10ポイント  (0子コメント)

Honestly I'm bi, I don't fit in with these people but if they want to call themselves straight and enjoy seeing guys get it on... Why are they wrong? Why do people give a shit?

[–]BadRabiesJudger 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

I look at all the porn's. Fat chicks skinny chicks women from 18-60's. Even tranny porn is cool sometimes. But ill tell you if i go out into the real world i have zero interest in guys. If i ever had the chance to do an extremely hot tranny. Sure maybe once just to test the waters. But my standards for that would force me to be the .01% of the hottest men out there to even get the chance. Not to mention it would just be the same as having butt sex with my SO at that point. Because i have no interest in the dick half the only reason i get off to it in the first place is its fucking exotic. Like the first time i banged anyone with a different skin tone other then my white pale self. Just that darker flesh with a nice wet pink contrast waving in my face. I dont think you can get more sexually charged. It's as euphoric as christmas morning.

[–]Tiak 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's easily possible to enjoy watching something without being sexually attracted to the participants.

I mean, my instincts would say that they like it for a similar reason to why many straight women almost exclusively watch lesbian porn. ( And you can see that phenominon documented and discussed various places, 1 2 3 4 ). While straight porn locks the view on woman as much as possible, frequently has a rather male participants, and then zeroes in on a dick going in and out of various holes with a laser-focus, gay porn (from the sample I see there) seems to focus more on whole bodies, on the male participants, on their experience, and on their arousal. If you want to envision yourself as being sexy, as being strong, as being desired as a whole person, then that seems like a decent route to go, gay or straight. It seems to be more about actual passion, and about men getting to feel sexy, as opposed to the man being a mechanical device used to pump something in and out of his fakely-moaning partner.

There is no reason you could not be drawn to that without having any desire for or attraction to men in any other context.

[–]ANGLVD3TH 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

I have a close friend that watches tons of BDSM but the few times they've tried it hated it. Just because you get off on it doesn't mean you are into it. Interestingly, many straight women watch lesbian porn, and women in general focus more on the woman in the porno than the man. They vicariously attach to them. Why not guys too?

[–]PencilOfWishes 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Look up the definition of gay. Being gay is seeking a sexual AND emotional relationship with someone. Its not all about attraction. You can fantasise about having sex with guys but not actually want to be in a relationship.

[–]DroIvarg -2ポイント-1ポイント  (3子コメント)

Pedophiles enjoy whatever they enjoy. So lets not call them pedophiles but only people who enjoy stuff. Lets not label anyone?

[–]TheProfessionalRed 3ポイント4ポイント  (1子コメント)

That was a bit if a stretch. And by a bit I mean that was a huge stretch

[–]SurpriseAnalProlapse 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

But he has a point, why do you want to put a false label on you? That's lying to yourself

[–]ANGLVD3TH 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Except most pedophiles never touch a child in their lives, being attracted to them doesn't make them a criminal.

Actually, many child molesters don't identify as being pedophiles. It's all about the power, they get off on dominating someone not on the target's attractiveness.

[–]baraxador -1ポイント0ポイント  (1子コメント)

Isn't that being bisexual? Why is everyone saying different things?

[–]Tiak 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Not necessarily. It's can easily be possible for straight men to enjoy watching gay porn without being gay themselves, just as it's possible for straight women to enjoy lesbian porn (which is actually a rather common phenomenon)

https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/n8oda/straight_female_here_why_does_lesbian_porn_turn/

https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/1g73aj/18f_i_know_im_100_straight_but_when_i_masterbate/

The equivalent for men is probably for the straight guy to see a man enjoying himself, or being regarded as sexy and to put himself in that man's shoes, getting off on feeling attractive and masculine and muscular, or on imagining the pleasure that that other man is feeling.

[–]InTheEnt -4ポイント-3ポイント  (4子コメント)

Yeah, I'm kinda dumbstruck as to how anyone would even try and debate that.

[–]KING-PONGofPING-KONG 5ポイント6ポイント  (2子コメント)

You don't have to be gay to like gay porn.

Source: Bisexual

[–]InTheEnt 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

Semantics. My apologies for wording it weird. I meant the "straight guys sometimes watch gay porn" not being a debatable argument because it so clearly isn't the case.

[–]PencilOfWishes 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

You have to seek an emotional and sexual relationship to really be game. If dont see yourself ever loving a guy in that way, then your not gay/bi.

[–]burnSMACKER -5ポイント-4ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yeah, or those guys aren't sure what they are but they are watching that stuff AND liking it but denying the fact that they are gay.

I'm a straight guy and I certainly don't hope to see any guy on guy action ever.

[–]-Hegemon- -2ポイント-1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Not if you wank to it like once every week or so, more, yes, totally homo

[–]Bunchasomething 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

The first post I saw looks like the plot of Brojob

[–]asdfjlk55 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

No, sexuality is fluid. A lot of people can fantasize about one thing and not actually enjoy it in real life.

[–]Jerbils 9ポイント10ポイント  (0子コメント)

No. That's not how this works.

[–]Nutritarian 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

That doesn't make any sense!

[–]Imthebigd -4ポイント-3ポイント  (1子コメント)

Because sexuality is explicitly binary.

[–]baraxador 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

When it's not it's called being bisexual.