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Dread Game: working? kinda. Not sure. (self.marriedredpill)

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TL;DR After going to a party and having my friends wives pay ALOT of attention to me, my wife reacts in unusual ways. Not sure if a sudden illness is a comfort test or not.

Been on the pill for about a month now. Working out, Diet, Taking charge, Reading NMMNG, etc..

I've seen some subtle changes, mostly in her general attitude. She was of course a bit pouty the first few times I didn't cave in and do whatever she wanted, but it seems like she's easing into the idea that I'm the leader now.

ANWAY: We went to a 4th of July party saturday. I decided to practice my "flirting skills" on my friends wives. I had no intention of doing anything but having fun and it worked REALLY well. Both of the gals were laughing and talking to me all night. Both of them touched my arm more than once. Now as I said, I had zero intention of letting things go any farther, but I'm fairly certain gina tingles were in the air.

My wife didn't really seem to react. At least not in a way I could detect. She went home before I did, and left without really saying goodbye. The next morning she acted pouty that I "didn't say goodbye" before she left. I just replied "well you kinda disappeared on me" and that was the end of it. no further pouting.

Last night I decided to sleep in my man cave, I like to sleep in there sometimes just randomly. When I got up this morning it turns out she had been up all night throwing up. Probably from something she ate. I think she's actually sick, but It seems like she is laying it on pretty thick about how bad she's feeling, which makes me think it's a comfort test.

I cancelled my plans for the night so I could go home and take care of her. I'm actually OK with doing this, because I want her to know that she CAN count on me when she needs it. I think it's important that she knows that she's a priority. I'm just curious at what point I'll need to cut the sympathy off.

I'll be very interested to see what happens.

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[–]watch_ping 2ポイント3ポイント  (1子コメント)

Flirting with a married (see taken) person might not register as anything in her mind. Focus on flirting with known single or just random people i.e. your waitress.

[–]theultmatecadMarried- HARD CORE RED 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Dead wrong. Women dont trust other women.

[–]stonepimpletilistsUnplugging 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

2 things. 1. Set internal goals, judging her reaction means validation... You probably did what you were trying to do, but you should be flirty with them because it's fun, not to instill dread...

It will, but it can't be the incentive.

2, what do you do when she's sick, do that. Not everything is strategy,

[–]IWontpayyourprice666[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I had no intention of doing anything but having fun and it worked REALLY well.

Again, perhaps a poor choice of words. I've started flirting with every woman I'm even remotely attracted to. I have ZERO expectation OR desire to hook up with anyone besides my wife. It's fun and it builds my confidence. Before TRP I Would have been too nervous to do this, and it's kind of thrilling to get pretty girls to laugh and smile. That's it.

I wasn't expecting a response from my wife, but I couldn't help looking for one.

[–]eREKTi0n 1ポイント2ポイント  (2子コメント)

Flirting is cool, but for dread to actually work, you want to build a kind of natural charisma over time. What I mean is that as you do it more, you don't really have to try as it kind of happens naturally. Ideally, you want to kind of skirt the line between friendliness and flirting around the wife so you can kind of play it off.

This kind of threw me off though:

I cancelled my plans for the night so I could go home and take care of her. I'm actually OK with doing this, because I want her to know that she CAN count on me when she needs it.

WTF, man, you married her. That's kind of to be expected, not something to be OK with. Not everything is a shit test. If you were in her shoes, would you not expect the same? If my woman left me to go to a bar while I was puking my guts out, I'd strongly reconsider the state of our relationship. Are you like, autistic or something?

[–]IWontpayyourprice666[S] -1ポイント0ポイント  (1子コメント)

WTF, man, you married her. That's kind of to be expected, not something to be OK with. Not everything is a shit test. If you were in her shoes, would you not expect the same? If my woman left me to go to a bar while I was puking my guts out, I'd strongly reconsider the state of our relationship. Are you like, autistic or something?

A poor choice of words perhaps. Let me clarify. What I meant was, she can count on me when she needs me. Not that I'll pretend that I care so I can later get more pussy. She didn't ask me to cancel my plans, in fact she didn't even know about them. I just told her I would come home an take care of her. She's my wife and taking care of her isn't a sexual strategy. Period. She's not even CURRENTLY sick, she threw up last night and worked all day today. She just feels bad.

Her behavior is out of character. She hardly EVER complains about feeling bad. She works in the medical field and she can usually maintain an emotional detachment from her illness. This is a woman that had cancer and didn't tell her family about it. So it's very out of character for her to be this put out by something like throwing up over 12 hours ago. I'm home now and the ONLY thing she wants me to do is give her a foot rub. I'm no doctor, but I don't know that a foot rub has anything to do with a pukey stomach. And YES I'm going to give her the foot rub.

My motivation for this post was to see if any of you thought that her inflated reaction to being sick might be inspired by the events of Saturday night.

A word of advice, it's probably a good idea if you know a little more about someone before you question their compassion for the most important person in their life.

[–]eREKTi0n 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

A poor choice of words perhaps

Fair enough, I'll retract what I said about your potential autism. You can have your brain back, lol.

What I meant was, she can count on me when she needs me.

That's the bare minimum. You are the captain of the ship. The rock she grabs on to when she feels the tides of life pulling her into a sea of despair. This doesn't mean being Captain Save-a-Hoe in shining white armor. This means having the strength to be that guy and being the best man that you can. However, you must be the best for your sake, not hers because a bitch can cheat at the drop of the hat, but if you've swallowed the pill and made the changes, then you will come out a lot better than some BP guy who will resign himself to his shit life. MRP is different from TRP in that as you are attaching yourself to her for life, there is an aspect of tenderness that doesn't exist in TRP. MRP is a bit more complicated in that respect.

I give my woman massages and whatnot when she needs it. I highly doubt her asking for a footrub is related to your attempts at dread game. Dread game in your instance is to trigger her mate-guarding hamster so she values you more. If she wanted to fight this, she would've done so in front of the woman you were using for manufacturing dread.

My Advice: Relax. Look more into the Amused Mastery aspect of RP, and you will see that as you digest the pill, you won't have to try nearly as hard. Most importantly, keep reading! There's good stuff on the sidebar. Good luck!

[–]VarsitySlutTeamCpt 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Why would you dread your wife?

[–]BluepillProfessorMarried-MRP MODERATOR [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

I decided to practice my "flirting skills" on my friends wives. I had no intention of doing anything but having fun and it worked REALLY well.

Yes it does. Married women are so bored from their defeated Beta bitches they eat up a fun guy like catnip. They really are like a wind up toy- and it really is not that hard to learn how to wind them up. 2 or 3 books and a couple hours practice with a guy in reasonably good shape puts you in the coveted top 20% easily.

As for puking all night, yeah, I would take off some time as well. This has nothing to do with Dread game or Red Pill tactics. Nurse your wife back to health and know that sometimes a cigar is just a cigar....