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[–]jimjackjoe 18ポイント19ポイント  (1子コメント)

At my age, a lot of hoes I knew back in the day are getting married. I see the pics all over facebook: some soft-featured dope with kind eyes posing proudly with his "catch." She's maybe a bit prettier than average, so the guy thinks he's hit the lottery.

If only he knew her 8 years ago, when she slept with 2/3 of my fraternity...

I don't mock these guys or laugh at them. I feel bad for them. They took the route they had to take. Yet they have no idea they were forced down the path. In his mind, he's the winner because he got the girl in the end.

The thing is, I could have been one of these guys. I was primed for it all my life. For some reason, though, I have been spared and made aware. This is partly luck (I was lucky enough to get burned hard at a young age), but I've also paid my dues through intense introspection. I'd rather confront painful reality than develop a cuckolding fetish any day of the week.

Introspection is like lifting for the brain. These are smart guys, but they were so busy becoming "the cream of the crop" that they never took the time to think or look around.

[–]BallisticTherapy 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

I would have never figured this shit out if it wasn't for Heartiste, RoK, Tom Leykis, & this sub. I'm pretty intelligent & much more of a thinker than a feeler. Now that it has been explained to me in a rational context, I am now grasping why females act the way they do and demystifying their behavior and thought processes.

I just wish I would have found this info back in the early 2000s when I was still in my early 20s instead of now in my early 30s. Then I could have started working on cultivating the understanding that I need much sooner and been much further along in my journey.

[–]Tarnsman4Life 8ポイント9ポイント  (1子コメント)

In a generation? Maybe. Currently? No. Too many betas will snap while they still have the happy memories of generations past where a man could be a beta and have a somewhat loyal life. They will snap and off the whole family and it will increase in frequency. The next generation that has known nothing but divorce rates above 50%, unfair parenting plans, divorce rape and cuckoldry , perhaps.

[–]MyRedAccount 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

All we can do is spread a little truth and some happy lies.

[–]operationzeem 8ポイント9ポイント  (1子コメント)

I didn't think this shit could be true until about two weeks back when homeboy was trying to convince me to fuck his girlfriend. Either she somehow convinced him this was a good idea for them or he has a fetish for it. Either way, the shit blows my mind.

The mainstreaming of public cuckholdry will be the most entertaining thing to witness. Lord knows I'm ready, hope you gents are as well.

[–]AureliusThunderkok 3ポイント4ポイント  (3子コメント)

I am not buying into the idea of an increased popularity in literal cuckoldry. I see no reliable source for that observation. I understand the theoretical notion but again see little support for that being a conscious choice made by men or a feminist.

What I see is an idea that considers the extremes of male roles in sexual relationships. The key is not to settle for either end of the spectrum. A well-rounded man can fulfill both of these roles. Don't allow yourself to be boxed in.

[–]Endorsed ContributorCopperFox3c 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

The feminist embrace of no-fault divorce and single motherhood is creating an acceptance of long-range cuckoldry, expecting beta bucks men to line up as stepfathers for children they didn't father.

I think Rollo makes this point quite well.

[–]truthiesttruth 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

Well why dont you look into it yourself and do some research, ya know, actually contribute to the sub? Instead of being the typical intellectual naysayer who just asks for sources and then follows it up with their feefees. The internet is right there for you...

Here some info I pulled up, took me 5 minutes:

FOR THE best available evidence about the extent of misattributed paternity we need to turn to medical research. This research is motivated by a medical condition or treatment, such as cystic fibrosis or bone marrow transplantation; the discovery of misattributed paternity is an unintended consequence.

The best British study, published in 1991, suggests a non-paternity rate of about 1 per cent. A 1992 French study indicates a rate of 2.8 per cent. A 1994 Swiss study has a maximum rate of 0.78 per cent. A 1999 Mexican study comes in at 11.8 per cent. And the best North American study, published in 2009, proposes a rate between 1 and 3 per cent. There are no published Australian studies.

Latin hos cuck at a ~10% rate, LOL. So much for their 'conservative catholic' culture...

These figures could all be distorted by the problem of who is willing to participate, which I mentioned earlier. Even so, there are some striking differences between countries. The rate of non-paternity in Mexico is especially high and the rate in Switzerland is especially low. Almost certainly there are underlying cultural differences in how marriage, sexuality and parenting are organised in these countries, which shape these different rates.

Maybe it has something to do with the difference in average incomes??? Beta Francs > Beta Pesos.

Now onto more relevant info:

I have done my own calculations based on British surveys in 1990 and 2000, for which raw data is available. They indicate an underlying non-paternity rate for children born in 1990 of somewhere between 0.7 per cent and 2 per cent. The estimated rate differs widely according to the marital status of the mother. For the offspring of married women, the rate is between 0.3 per cent and 0.6 per cent. For cohabiting women, it is between 1.1 per cent and 2.7 per cent. For other women – single, divorced, separated or widowed – it is between 2.3 per cent and 8.1 per cent. My calculations for the survey in 2000 indicate an underlying non-paternity rate for children born in that year of somewhere between 1.3 per cent and 3.4 per cent. The non-paternity rate rose between 1990 and 2000 for two main reasons: first, a higher proportion of women (married, cohabiting or other) with two or more sexual partners, and second, a higher proportion of births outside of marriage.

Get it? More sexual partners and more bastards => more cucks.

Whether girls today are having more sexual partners than before is irrelevant imo ( think yesteryears women were just big sluts). What is entirely relevant is the fact that marriage is on the decline.

So yes it is entirely possible that in the future we will see far more cuckolding, albeit in unmarried couples.

Bonus protip aka reason number 8789789787 not to marry:

These figures translate into more than five times as many tests per 1000 births in the United States than in Australia. One of the main reasons for the difference is that in Australian law the “marital presumption” that a husband is the father of his wife’s children also applies to de facto couples. (This was introduced without fanfare back in 1975.) In the United States the marital presumption doesn’t apply to de facto couples, which means that the paternity of children born outside marriage must be established legally. This routinely leads to paternity testing.

Source: http://insidestory.org.au/the-fatherhood-myth/

[–]AureliusThunderkok 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

The conclusion that your source reached was that: "SINCE I did that research on the true extent of misattributed paternity, I’ve had several articles on the topic published in top-ranking international journals. But the finding that the extent of misattributed paternity is tiny is neither shocking nor, it seems, newsworthy."

You should have read it a bit more carefully. It actually supports my position that the idea that cuckoldry is on the rise or is desired by any particular group has no foundation.

[–]4benny2lava0 -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

So betas want us to fuck their women? I see no problem with this.

[–]chuckthundercock -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

So, while all this is fascinating, how do you all feel about the opposite situation. I've had 8-10 threesomes with my wife, with 4-5 different girls.

She clearly likes other women. Sometimes is picky with who she lets me actually penetrate ( I let her have veto power here ).

Definitely not cuckoldry as she's allowing me and I'm allowing her to be with other women. Any other 40+ married guys in here with similar situations / arrangements?