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[–]ramjeet2 3ポイント4ポイント  (19子コメント)

it's rarely due to his race

Outside of Asian women looking for a status boost, latinas looking for a 1st world citizenship, and in some rare cases a white woman looking to see about the BBC myth, women hardly chase a guy due to his race alone. Even white girls chasing black guys for the myth chase after the jacked athletic ones, not the Urkel type of guys.

Even then I have had some (as in 2) milfs that do yoga show all kinds of interest in me and offer up some good nights in bed, they were older but not ugly at all. Most women do not do this at all, they want high value guys. Low SMV guys of any race will struggle unless there are some exceptions.

In Texas, I would say that my race usually worked in my favor, I was that happy medium. Girls who were not into black guys or did not want to get with one due to the taboo associated with it often got with me and were okay with their friends seeing.

All I was trying to get at it is that Indian men are NOT at the bottom of this so called SMV chart and I wish people would accept that.

[–]TRP VanguardCyralea 8ポイント9ポイント  (15子コメント)

Outside of Asian women looking for a status boost

I've seen this with more than a few ethnicities, but it's most commonly attributed to Asian women. I think it's partly because Asian women are perceived to be high SMV, so their actions are more visible to the average male.

In Texas, I would say that my race usually worked in my favor, I was that happy medium.

You sure about that? You sure it wasn't some combination of charm, dominance, or status that did it? I'm not white myself, but I've heard women I've been with say they're attracted to members of my race, but it's mostly just them hamstering. They were attracted to me for unrelated reasons, but they rationalized my race as being a factor.

All I was trying to get at it is that Indian men are NOT at the bottom of this so called SMV chart and I wish people would accept that.

My experience is the opposite. Going to repeat myself here, it's far, far from insurmountable. If we were using numbers on a 1-10 SMV scale, race accounts for maybe a 0.5 slide in either direction. It's not helpful to ignore that little reality. Better to acknowledge it and work around it.