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[–]Indysheep 8ポイント9ポイント  (41子コメント)

Having said that, I want to argue that if we shift our determinism from the psychological to the biological for a sec...

I can't stand thesaurus-in-a-blender gobbledigook. I don't know if you're a troll or for real but one thing you need to start doing if you want to improve your chances with women is speak plain English.

[–]Dgrayed 1ポイント2ポイント  (15子コメント)

Yeah this is the first time I've seen someone use the word 'glut' in a non-ironic way.

[–]Indysheep 2ポイント3ポイント  (7子コメント)

I'm amazed you managed to go further than me to the meat of his, well, "argument". Props!

[–]Oriffel 0ポイント1ポイント  (8子コメント)

I can't stand thesaurus-in-a-blender gobbledigook

agreed! and may have just found a new favorite phrase.

he speaks like a philosophy-major drop out. and they're all pretty much the same: by inflating his vocabulary he's attempting to hide his lack of a reasonable argument. and since what he says is very unclear, he can call out anyone who is confused as too dumb to understand his genius.

clarity is an essential part of good communication. You have failed to do that, OP.

I'm glad the people on this sub are clever enough to notice this, and aren't having any of his bullshit.

[–]edwinthomasr[S] -4ポイント-3ポイント  (7子コメント)

ok....cliff notes version: Betas bad! say why you no like me I nice. Hilarity ensues. MAYBE MAYBE betas just in bad situation. Too many males. Women choose other males besides betas. Betas figure out way to argue for their rights to access to between women's thighs too. Arguments hilarious, but also empathy inducing if think about lack of sexual opportunity for betas. There, is that better for you?

[–]Oriffel 2ポイント3ポイント  (6子コメント)

i never said i didn't understand you, you're just demonstrated very poor communication skills.

outside of "nice guys" people don't really use the beta/alpha terms, they're outdated from a physiological standpoint, and don't serve much use, aside from people admitting defeat and screaming the victim.

think your problem stems from the "alpha" who is more attractive and outgoing and therefor gets more girls? try getting in shape and cleaning up your appearance.

being outgoing makes people generally more memorable and often more likeable. if this is your aim, then adjust your behavior accordingly. the world owes you no physical intimacy for simply existing, or showing other people basic courtesy, regardless of your motivation.

rather than continuously blaming the world around you for your inability to get laid, look at what women want, what you are, and connect the dots.

then again, a lack of self evaluation and inability to take criticism are pretty definitive elements of the "nice guy", as well as the constant smugness you seem to be oozing here, so it may just be too late for you.

[–]Indysheep 2ポイント3ポイント  (1子コメント)

then again, a lack of self evaluation and inability to take criticism are pretty definitive elements of the "nice guy", as well as the constant smugness you seem to be oozing here, so it may just be too late for you.

Dude, he's in his 40s. We are dealing with someone here who has never, ever grown up.

[–]Oriffel 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

holy shit! that makes me a little sad :( but also angry. how do you make it that far in life, and yet have no concept of being an adult or the opposite gender? unless hes spent most of his adulthood locked up in some kinda POW camp removed from society, there's literally no excuses.

i totally thought he was just average horny 15-25 year old who cant get laid. im also currently under the assumption that that's the average for people at theredpill subreddit. if not, that place just managed to do the impossible and become even more toxic.

[–]edwinthomasr[S] -4ポイント-3ポイント  (3子コメント)

did....did you even read what I wrote.....this wasn't me whining about being a nice guy....this was a call to empathy for nice guys....you people on here are wearing blinders I swear....you're so ready to argue your stock argument that you don't even recognize a new idea....omg I am so sorry for all of you....you don't even realize it....

[–]Oriffel 1ポイント2ポイント  (2子コメント)

an increasing number of comments here have pointed out you're poor wording and bad communication skills, yet you continuously blame others for "missing the point". you're idea isn't new, or good. if people are just using the "stock argument" it's because you haven't disproved any of them, therefor its all that's needed.

you want pity and some sex because you can't compete with other people yet refuse to enhance yourself mentally, or (im gonna assume here) physically. there's an entire field of people devoted to this cause, and they're called prostitutes. maybe you'll have better luck there.

being a "nice guy" is motivated by misogyny, its pathetic, unattractive and women are smart enough to avoid you for it. you want to be desired? be desirable. you want respect? stop treating everyone else like they're beneath you because you cant string a coherent paragraph together.

it doesn't even matter what you look like at this point, you have a repulsive personality based just on what ive seen you say here. you need to improve yourself. you need to grow up.

[–]edwinthomasr[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

where where where have I asked for pity or sex???? you're just typing out your pathetic stock arguments you poor pathetic soul....I really love this though....omg r/circlejerk is right....people on reddit don't want to discuss things, they just want to confirm their biases....this is quite hilarious

[–]Oriffel 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

you want special treatment and pity. your entire post was asking for pity for the "beta males". that was literally your post.

as far as the predictable nice guy mid set goes, pity is a tool, used to create opportunities to "make your crush love you"/show her how much more genuine you are than anyone else, ever. pity, like offering a shoulder to cry on and all the while claiming to be a victim, never once considering your own behavior of A) blaming women for being too stupid to not throw down their panties at the mere sight of you, and B) blaming others that it prompts a change in your behavior (ie "im an asshole now because its what those dumb bitches really want! they did this to me!"), is pretty much the nice guy angle. and it always has the same inevitable outcome.

people just aren't as dumb as you seem to think they are. they know the your end game. they know the motivations. and they all know its simply a terrible way to behave. its unacceptable AND unattractive behavior.

if these stock arguments are pathetic, wouldn't you have refuted at least one? or at least tried to? to anyone here?