Summary.
People who shame male sexual mechanics are only invested in furthering their own. Ignore them.
Body:
There was a submission that got linked through to on another part of reddit about the steering away (and rightfully so) of a 14 year old girl getting groomed by a 26 year old man.
As is fairly typical the conversation went along the path of what is an appropriate age for someone to sleep with someone else (Read, how young the girl vs how old the guy – since we don’t mind or care about cougars, that’s empowering).
One use raised their head and told an anecdote where a family friend in his early thirties has sex with 18-21 year old girls semi regularly and how disgusting that is. Usually I’d not bite but curiosity got the better of me and I had a delve into the mind of someone who can come out and say that as a shaming tactic.
I present a small selection of the personal world this person lives in: Do not try to find this person or speak to them harassment is not cool no matter where it comes from or for what reason; you'll end up with a ban if you do.
I have presented this information for your benefit on how to internally handle "shaming" tactics, not for you to go all "anger mode" like a small minded animal...
On shaming underage sex (the girl wanted it).
“How about not slut shaming?”
On sexual history.
“Honest number is 29 (6 months ago)
Number I tell people? I don't all the time. I hate being slut shamed so I smile, wink, and say ladies never tell. Although I have been getting bolder and telling people 29 when they ask. Fuck inequality.
On sexual history, revised.
“My current man can't deal with the fact I have slept with twice the amount of people as him; although every time we run into one of my ex hookups he is always surprised at the variety. Race, ethnicity, religion, gender- if you aren't attached and I have some sort of interest in you I'm dtf.”
On sexual behaviour.
“I did four in two days. I am only slightly proud...”
But that doesn't mean anything since she's safe
“I always make them wear a condom; even if we have been dating for months, I ain't cleanin' up that mess.”
Or not.
“I hate the smell of my lady bits after that. I can have a bath and the smell still lingers. Yuk. I got so concerned I went to the doctors about it, apparently that is normal”
On dating behaviour (dualistic mating strategy).
“My roommates make me put all my dates on a calender in the kitchen; with corresponding names and locations. If I double book, or tripple book, myself I have to put a sticky note on top of the day.
They worry; I love them for it.
Note: when triple booking do brunch, early dinner, and then midnight bootycall. Never do lunch, coffee and then dinner- you can get caught”
I am empowered through my sexuality, until I meet a man I want to keep.
“I once told my boyfriend the true number... never again will I tell anyone.”
On penis size - what she says.
“Oh indeed I have. My trampaging was long and extensive with a variation between large and small. I just like smaller than average dicks..”
On penis size Pt II.
“4.5 is perfect, not lying. My lady bits are too small so smaller than average guys are fucking fantastic. Damn.”
On Penis size, what she does.
My current SO is massive and my lady parts are so small it takes a lot of foreplay before I can take him but damn can that man fuck.
Red pill submission in light of her Alpha man.
When I'm unsatisfied I point at my ladies bits and say "Fix it" (Historically)
Naw, my SO is spectacular in the bedroom. I actually excited when he comes too early cause a.) It means more sexy times later; b.) I did something REALLY right; c.) I know he will reciprocate when he can function.
I always get woken up to snuggles and morning sex; hated it before, now I can't get enough.
Sometimes a girl has gotta put her man and his pleasure above her own needs. Tbf even when he cums as quick as lightening I have already gotten off at least three times.
On intelligence...
“Intelligence makes my panties drop...”
“We usually go for the players who are good looking and known to be good in bed; no feelings, no attachments.”
Confirmed Alpha Widow.
“Backstory: This boy and I started dating when I was in grade 10 he was my neighbour and was enlisting. Since I was 15 it was technically illegal for him to see me (Age of consent was 16) so his CO convinced him to drop me. Whatever, I could get over it. I may have except for he is always back and forth in my life and it is driving me up the wall.”
“I feel you... I deleted my ex this morning when he posted pictures of the engagement ring... I have been drunk since he told me about the engagement. Fuck this sideways.”
“I'm trying! I swear! I think I'm good and over him and bam! I see him at a neighborhood function, or weeding his parents garden and it is like I'm 15 again leaning over the fence and hitting on him as we make plans to see a movie. It makes me exceedingly angry knowing that I feel anything for him at all.”
Happy to use sex as a weapon to mistreat other men.
“I told an ex once that I was on my over when he drunk called me at 330am. I was already at someone's house snuggling and turned off my phone so he couldn't call. Apparently he sat waiting naked in the livingroom until he passed out and his roommates found him. It was magical.”
But says...
“I really, really, dislike double standards.”
What do her friends think - they must know her pretty well right?
“My friends call my life "Confessions of a Train Wreck"
Lessons learned
People who attempt to shame your sexual imperative are not worth your consideration. They are aware of sexual mechanics themselves, use the game for their own ends, from triple booking dates to get shit bought for them, to swapping men out at the last minute and standing people up, dropping condom use for the right man and justifying lying directly and/or by omission about material facts about themselves to further their own interest.
Don't pause for thought, don't wonder if they're right - be steadfast on your course and do not allow yourself to be rocked by would be shamers. They are often almost a cliche of RP fundamentals.
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