I think a lot of it comes from the "common household" setup that develops - the man works and the wife stays home. Now this isn't always true, but in the average variation the man becomes the main earner. Thus when assets get divided, say, 50/50, the person paying for most of it is going to feel fucked in the ass. Additionally, I see a lot of situations where the woman receives a good deal of the property because "he can just buy a new one" or whatnot. In the end I suppose they probably come out equal, though in some relationships, with a stay at home spouse, they may get fucked over due to lacking a career. Now, I don't have articles to cite, but this is my best understanding of why the man will feel screwed over. I can agree that if I had possessions I had become attached to taken in a divorce I would likely feel cheated. The problem is when divorce comes up chances are at least one side is unprepared for it.

I did a quick couple searches into this issue and it seems basically all major/credible sources choose to avoid the issue all they can, thus you're going to see mainly blogs and stuff. Plus, like any similar issues, the only ones who care enough to push the issue are the ones who have a bias, so it's a tough topic. I did see mention that divorce leads to more male suicides and women ask for divorce more than men, so I think that can be telling of the emotions therein.

Edit: your article also may have bias as its written by a divorced woman and cites at least one survey known to deal with nonresponse and sampling bias.